Sunday, May 27, 2012

Song: I get a kick out of you

I was absentmindedly singing this song to myself the other day and thought, this is actually pretty accurately a sociopathic perspective.  I get obsessed with people sometimes just because I get a kick out of them, and there aren't a lot of things that do that thing for me.  Of course I will not let that person go (at least not easily) as long as I continue to get that kick from them.  It should be flattering to the other person, but I can also see how it could be creepy and threatening.



My story is much too sad to be told,
But practically ev'rything leaves me totally cold.
The only exception I know is the case
Where I'm out on a quiet spree
Fighting vainly the old ennui
And I suddenly turn and see
Your fabulous face.

I get no kick from champagne.
Mere alcohol doesn't thrill me at all,
So tell me why should it be true
That I get a kick out of you?

Some get a kick from cocaine.
I'm sure that if I took even one sniff
That would bore me terrific'ly too,
Yet I get a kick out of you.

I get a kick ev'rytime I see
You're standing there before me.
I get a kick though it's clear to me
You obviously don't adore me.

I get no kick in a plane.
Flying too high with some guy in the sky
Is my idea of nothing to do,
Yet I get a kick out of you.

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  1. Havent listened to the song, but lyrics fit sociopaths.

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    1. Frank Sinatra sang it. You never heard that one? ...It's one of his most well known. =/

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  2. Mini mee,you might be experiencing some type of 'dissociative'.You sound bored but you may not have been born a S.Maybe due to your circumstances and upbringing you identify with S's more than empaths.If that is the case don't succumb to "the shadow" because you will never be at peace with yourself.

    You sound young.Explore the numbness,it could be coming more from a need to connect,and a fear of connecting at the same time.

    If you are young,seek help.You will know when you find the one that is meant to help you.(a lot of psych pros are very fucked up.Learn to be very discerning).

    It's sad that you can't have that guidance from your family.(they are probably the ones that fucked you up in the first place.Unless you were born S.

    Fucken hell Mini Mee, just go see someone and see where it leads you.

    These fuckers are going to do your head in.Most of them are Multiple Personality Disordered.Good for a laugh,but not to be taken seriously.Sometimes insightful,but mostly fucked up.(entertaining on some levels,but boring on others).

    Choose...because I'm thinking all this from you is just for attention.

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    1. no I think once someone thinks like a socio, feels numb, cold inside, dislikes most people, perceives what other people are really like..they cannot go back to la la land closing their eyes to what's real. Sociopaths are just realists not blinded by social norms of perception, behavior, consequences. who says that being a realist is a disease? maybe it's the other way around maybe everyoone else is flawed in believing the world and people in it are wholesome, good and one big fairytale?

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    2. i got guidance for my father i was born an s so was he an his fater

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    3. Anon 204.
      Well I don't know if I was born a socio or developed it through years, but I don't see what this would change. I am at peace with myself. I tolerate boredom and I am not bored ALL the time.
      I don't feel the need to connect, I avoid unusable people, keep in touch with the ones that enterntain me.
      Well my parents definitely fucked me up a bit, but I don't have any emotions about it. I won't try to judge them or say that they made me stronger, why should I? I can't have guidance in my family, because I can't connect with people...
      Since I don't want to change anything, going to a shrink just for a diagnosis seems pointless... and I think that shrink can only make an opinion about me based on my act there, so I can make shrink believe anything.
      I might look like an attention seeker because I use people here to help me find answers to my questions, but I don't see what could I gain from attention, so this your idea amused me a little bit :)
      And I'm pretty sure, that I haven't asked anything about me today or yesterday :)

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    4. @Meeting and the concerned Anon ...

      I took that step recently and went to a therapist, on the advice of a family member. At the end of an hour I was cordially invited to come back if - and ONLY if - I thought there was something about me that I'd want to change. As I'm happy with myself as I am, there's really no value in therapy for me. Any problems I encounter come from other people's reactions and feelings, and those I can learn to deal with.

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    5. P.s. a few things happened to me in a past two days while socialising with people and now I am sure that I am a sociopath (or psychopath). So, you can be free from this quest, my minions ;) , but be aware, because I might want to ask you something else later :)

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    6. Mee- what was it that made you come to the realization?

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    7. Yes, Mee. I wrote something to you, yesterday and it disappeared. I do NOT think you are trying to seek attention. You are one of the most authentic people I have seen on here.
      I think you are gathering information, here, and that is a very good thing. I do not believe in traditional psychology or psychiatry but that is me. If I have a problem, I find solutions in non traditional ways.

      However, we are talking about you. My sense( and this is only my sense) is that your being numb is imitating the traits of a sociopath. When I came to SW, I was afraid I was a sociopath. I was numb and have been since my teens. I shut down as a protective mechanism.

      I think it is very good you are exploring options. You can always talk to me about it. I welcome it, Mee.

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    8. I'm tring to decide if I´m numb or sociopathic, and I love to gather info from people like you as well as the socios around here. So, as usual, thanks in general. And by the way medication (antidepressant) bring back feelings, either related to others or just me. I still don´t have the USUAL feelings in hte USUAL situations, never have and I guess never will. That´s not a problem, it just freaks me out a little, since I don´t understand it and it makes me different (I´m not scared of social dissaproval, dont give a damn actually, what scares me is not being able to put a finger on my "difference" - not being able to keeping control).

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    9. I hear you, miss sharp.

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    10. Yes, Mee. I wrote something to you, yesterday and it disappeared.

      tip: scroll to the bottom of the page and press "Load more...".

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    11. Thanks anon. I am a cold person, I look adorable. I get everything I want from life, because I have all the society valued features, plus "a charm" (that's been mentioned or remarked by people since a child). I scare myself, feel able of anything, can´t find "authenticity" nowhere. Don´t cry at funerals, at my most intimate's misfortunes, I cry quite a lot but only for myself. Enjoy art and beauty to an unreasonable extent. I change speech to delight everyone I talk to, unconsciously. This person "posesses" me while I'm with her/him, whoever this is. Also unintentional. Result: everyone thinks I'm their soulmate. Since childhood, again. I'm a great impersonator (seriously). I can fit anywhere, I reached social success within one year in a different country whose tongue I didn´t speak when I arrived. Ended up in chateaux and country houses being adored and introduced to everyone. Came back and burned all bridges. Didn´t shed one tear to give away my friends.
      I can find myself crying when somebody superficially known is telling me a sad story about himself. One minute after the feeling is not there and can´t regognize why the hell it appeared.
      I don´t mind at all what happens to my "beloved" ones: find entertainment when they tell me, give good advice, bye bye.
      I can remember only one time, ages ago, feeling sad because some else was feeling sad. Instantly, the real thing I guess. Former boyfriend had cheated on me, I wasn´t talking to him. Since he loved me, he had a sorrowful look in his eyes; I just couldn´t take it and went to hold him in my arms.
      One moment in life, this is old school empathy I guess, still, could I be a socio?
      I have felt deeply deppressed and panicked for two long periods of time. Got suicidal. Nothing from the outside was wrong, I just felt dis-structured, torn inside, painful and full of fear. My feelings for the other absolutely dissapeared: I couldn´t care less.
      Now I'm on medication and, you know, I care that one person feels uncomfortable because I'm with my boyfriend and he/she feels ignored during a dinner. Then if he got run over by a bus at leaving the dinner I probably wouldn't care.
      Don´t know myself at all. Don´t feel there's a "me" anyway. And that is scary somehow.
      The people who come here to tell confused, curious SW's characters make me laugh. Nobody Want to or wishes to be a socio, at least that's not my case. I just want to understand better how it works. Actually I would choose to be an empath if I were to be born again, for this reason: take a look around. The happiest people seem to be those surrounded by a family or friends or lover they love deeply. Corny but true. Of couse you could be satysfied somehow differently, that's why I read this blog: ME inspires me because he seems to lead a fulfilling life. I suspect I don´t know how to do that without feelings, but still (Been born?) without them. Hard work.

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    12. Thank you for sharing so deeply. I appreciate that that. Keep coming back and sharing yourself with us. You are not alone anymore.

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    13. guidance for my fathe was more observing he never talked about it
      my brother and i used to catch him triggering emotions with other ppl and laughing if it worked
      now it's realy eazy for me to spot a manipulator or somone wearing a mask

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    14. Anon, you seem kind and tender even from here. I do like that, even if this is socioland. Take care and thank you.

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  3. sounds like the "kick" is a high you get out of being near that one person. I have experienced this and he's said the same of me but it wasn't healthy at all..it was all about mind games and physical...it was worse than a drug. He was very jealous someone I should not have crossed..I paid the price for that

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  4. 2.12 and 2.06, it sounds like you want to reform all those who feel confused.I am saying that Mini Mee should explore all avenues before committing to becoming a S.if he was not born one.You are right 'there is no turning back',but if he is young,he deserves to be well informed before he makes that choice and alters his own being forever,if he is dancing on the borderline inthe grey matter that engulfs the young,irrespective of their emotional IQ,irrespective of their mental capability.
    It's all a process.One should be allowed to see where one fits in.

    2.12 I am a realist,although the word 'realist'may be percieved differently by everyone.My reality is one where people are informed and one chooses what is best for oneself.If it happens to be S.(that even sounds lame) then so be it.I have no critism about that.There are pros and cons to everything.

    Consider that Mini Mee.

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  5. Beautiful song, ME. I just love her voice, it's so very soothing.
    I was obsessed like that with a man. Felt like I would give up the world just to see him smile. Everything just seemed fun with him around, even things that would generally bore the hell out of me, like shopping. He was very toxic, but the way he took my breath away with excitement whenever I was around him made it almost worth it to stick around. Almost.

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    1. Green Eyes
      I got to know you a little bit from your post yesterday. I am glad you shared that.

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    2. Don't be so cynical

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    3. The yawn wasn't meant for you Monica.

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    4. Anon 4:30, oh bastion of wit, charm and courage. Such a deeply enlightening post as yours surely deserves to have your name credited to it. Won't you share it with me? Along with more of your inspirational musings of course.

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    5. I was the one who said I appreciated it, green eyes.

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    6. I know that Monica, and thank you.

      As for above, I was talking to Anonymous 4:30. He's the brave soul...

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  6. Quotes for SW RegularsMay 27, 2012 at 7:17 AM

    Quote for Green Eyes

    Well, I didn't get dressed to go unnoticed.


    Liberace

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  7. Quotes for SW RegularsMay 27, 2012 at 7:18 AM

    Quote for Alterego


    Marriage has been a humbling experience. I don't get to be the boss in the marriage.

    Bonnie Rait

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    1. That's a really good one!

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    2. That *is* a good one- rendered even more so because my husband inexplicably finds Bonnie Rait incredibly sexy. :)

      I just returned from a fishing weekend. We caught and BBQ'ed only two rainbow trout, but they were the most delicious fish I have ever eaten! I love the mountains.

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  8. now that goes back a few years. ironic that the music is kind of "upbeat" but it is meant to be a sad? song...

    also, while I am around, I just viewed "1 lunatic 1 ice pick...." anyone else? real "snuff" film or not? I would like to know...

    doesn't appear faked to me, but who knows...so much fake shit around. if real, then a good find. well accept for the necro gay sex...but the dismemberment and cannibalism was interesting...well "supposed" cannibalism, you don't see him take a bite..that was disappointing.

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  9. How funny. I've heard this song many times before, but never really listened to the words. I love when much older song mention drugs!

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    1. I never understand that with people. How do you listen to a song and not acknowledge/tune out the words?

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    2. Easy. I've never really liked this song.

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  10. Here is one of my favorite artists from way back...
    Anything from the 1920's through the 1040's, sounds haunted to me. :)

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    1. that'd be 1940's... of course.

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  11. Either socios/psychos are more pathetic than I thought (and I do see the as quite pathetic) or most of you are not an "S" as you so proudly try to identify as. Its funny, in some ways I have sooo much in common with some of the socio-quirks posted about here (generally the non-malicious ones) but I'm also A LOT different in many other ways. The thing is, I'm simply not a neuro-typical. I think if you take any non-neuro-typical and put them in a group or get them to list things about themselves then there will be an interesting amount of similarities. Lets call them "psychological outliers." Many of you seem to be psychological outliers and therefore have commonalities with pretty much any other outlier, commonalities that you DON'T have with neuro-typicals. It seems a lot of you have gone shopping for the best psychological outlier label and decided sociopath fits the bill for you. The truth is that psychology is a lot more complicated than these little labels. I'm sure you can take 2 people who would be diagnosed as the same label yet be remarkably different in many fundamental ways. I think all you wannabe-sociopaths should be cautious with your attempt to create a self-fulfilling prophecy ("I have things in common with a sociopath! Maybe I should start acting more like one?") its almost as if SW is part of a conspiracy to pathologize vulnerable individuals, a way to make the world more fit for sociopaths by convincing people that they should behave like them, starting with those lost souls who have some socio-quirks but may not actually be sociopaths. The problem with sociopathy is it's dysfunctional. Sociopaths are pathological liars who believe their own lies and tell others what they want to hear, they are impulsive and mastermind their own downfalls, they also have other interesting defective behaviors such as malapropism. In what seems like more honest moments, sociopathic people tend to not find happiness or live quality lives, or at least appreciate the quality of their life. Two examples that come to mind are Ice Man and one of the rockefellers, both expressed dissatisfaction with their lives. Socios are very vulnerable and impressionable, they often chase shiny gimmicks thinking they will get pleasure once they apprehend the prize only to find themselves disappointed and bored once they do, and often in uncomfortable circumstances when the gimmick chase is an offense against another person and results in punishment of some sort. Moral of the story: if you wanna live a disappointing life, act like a sociopath and chase gimmicks. If you want to raise your quality of life, be mature and responsible and make decisions that may be difficult but result a more sustained improvement in the quality of life. Delay gratification for a long term prize that won't leave you strung out like an addict chasing that high you never really got. If you are a socio, you will be more functional for this, if you are not a socio then you will be far more satisfied with life. One last thing: reconnect with nature, humans are not adapted to artificial things, there is no real pleasure from virtual reality, it is simulacra stimulation, it is unfulfilling.

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    1. That was a very enjoyable read, Anonymous. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
      Especially this: "reconnect with nature, humans are not adapted to artificial things, there is no real pleasure from virtual reality, it is simulacra stimulation, it is unfulfilling."

      I agree.

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    2. Also, in regards to todays topic, I get a kick out of YOU, sociopaths. Your dysfunctional little quirks thats you ignore or don't notice, your malapropism and other language defects, the messy seams in your daily acting performances, the holes in your masks, the problems you cause for yourselves and blame on others even though YOU did it. Funny little creatures you are. I often picture you as big headed retard children running around in adult suits, desperate to convince everyone you are a mature adult and not an undeveloped brat, so much so you begin to invert values and paint your weaknesses as strengths, and other peoples strengths as weaknesses, even though the values you promote are blatantly defective and problematic, but of course you decide thats not true! It must be the OTHER values! Its like doctors who tell their obese patients that its not the hamburgers that caused the problems, is the sugar from that fruit! But doc, I only eat a couple pieces a day, not that much! Ohh, thats too much for you sir! And the doctor actually believes this! Hah, as concerning as it is, I still can't help but get a kick out of it.

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    3. I'm curious, what are you expecting to gain by writing this text? What results are you planning to get? (To anon 8:32)

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    4. Okay... now you just sound angry, and bitter. That's too bad. You should have stopped while you still sounded intelligent, and useful.

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    5. anon 8:46 sounds like you've been burned by a socio..or you just feel superior...believe me if I met you in person I would tear your apart.....and enjoy every minute of it;) I'm not sure if you're a man or a woman..but if you were a woman I would start off with flattery and ask you about your fabulous outfit and where did you get it?:) if you were a man I wouldn't do much talking just sit and look pretty and you would think I was into you. Either way I would come across "nice";) "sweet"...I would take it from there..learn your likes/dislikes become friends...lol or at least you would think we were. don't be so moralistic or someone you don't know is a socio might take you up on your challenge...

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    6. Interesting and some very good points.

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    7. I'm dying to meet a sociopath wanabe after reading this, lol

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    8. is that my knif in your chest or are you just dieing to meet me?

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    9. I'm more angry and bitter with neurotypicals than with sociopaths, for the record. 9:13, if you live in society, regardless of your psychological disposition, you've been burned by a socio, yes even if you yourself are one. Also, yes, I do feel superior, I've been given too much unearned praise throughout my life for not being as dull and dimwitted as the average person, its really gone to my head, but I truly understand I am an insignificant iota in the greater scheme of things. You would definitely not tear me apart in real life as I don't have the insecurities the average person has and would be highly unpredictable to you, you would shine the wrong gimmick in front of my face and by the time you mined enough data it would be far too late. You would have to come onto the scene with a few authentic behaviors about yourself that you wouldn't be able to fake and the average person does not possess. (good luck faking a lifestyle you haven't been following)

      My REAL beef with socios is that they appear to me to be the pinnacle of a neurological retardation that appears to pervade across our species, they represent the ultimate failure of the species I belong to. Read "Left in the Dark" by Tony Wright if you want an interesting perspective on the world today. I too, suffer from this retardation as I am a part of the species, but I'm aware of it and taking steps to rectify it, and it hasn't taken shape in the form of sociopathy.

      Mee, I'm not a socio so I don't aim to get the same things out of my actions as some others on this blog might. Honestly I'm just talking to myself, using other peoples online posts as an excuse for a starting point to form a sort of heuristic diatribe as if such a thing could be considered an activity or hobby of some sort. I put it out there for others to read incase anyone finds any useful insight in it. Why? Because I believe in sharing ideas and concepts so that they may be developed upon further.

      Last thing... I'm not sure how you all interpreted my second post, but, I couldn't help it. I truly see sociopathic people as these hilarious little retards running amok. Because of the social position I tend to choose (observer instead of participant) I am not often caught in the cross-fire, so i just sit on the sidelines and watch condescendingly while I chuckle. I see things play out predictably and find it funny that others don't seem to know what's going to happen next, its like a movie that you know everyone has seen before, yet they all act surprised at what happens next, and all I can do is watch them and laugh. I'm sure plenty of you know what I am talking about as it is the topic, but for me it applies to sociopaths! In addition to NTs as well... It wasn't meant to sound angry and bitter, because I wasn't angry or bitter while writing it, I was smiling and teetering on the threshold of laughter, I did not make any effort to hide the condescending attitude behind it though. Interesting that it was interpreted as a comment from a butt-hurt individual, though. It seems any form of attack or belittling of a sociopath causes the "s" to think the individual is merely an angry victim and the results demonstrate the sociopaths lack of insight into the minds of others, perhaps the lack of respect causes a rage that short-circuits their brains, or maybe they just don't care and feel free to attribute any emotional status to anyone as long as they find it convenient and felicitous to their purpose. Again, I'm talking to myself, trying to textually manifest psychological wisdom, but feel free to read and glean anything interesting or useful.

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  12. block of text usually means angry empath rant or too much coffee.

    i liked the last sentence too, but it's more proselytizing than logic... anyway off to do a little gardening now. :)

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  13. comment for Raven - I haven't been here long but i feel like you are different, sound different, less aggressive, calm..what's changed? btw - I like you both ways i find you very interesting and I find very few people are..

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    1. SUCH a fuckin' kiss ass!

      Anyone else want to jump on the "Get her to like me so I won't be ripped apart verbally" bus? The next destination is: Youarefuckedeitherwayandflatterydoesn'tworktown :D

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    2. Raven writes her own kiss ass comments lmao

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    3. This might help you with your question, anonymous. :)

      OH Yeah!

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    4. Anon 10:26
      You just can't handle people complimenting me.
      Serve your hatred at someone else's party. You weren't invited to mine.

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    5. Keep they muthafuckig heads ringin'!

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    6. You compliment yourself, unless Snake or Ze-ze chime in.

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    7. Does that matter? Nothing is wrong with complimenting yourself. I do so everyday when I stare in the mirror to clean my epic face. I go, "Damn, you have such good skin!"

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    8. You rule, Piles. And you really do have such good skin! :*

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    9. Peebee - how does Raven rip people apart ? I find her to be quite introspective and composed.

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    10. Raven is one of the most composed people on SW. She is introspective, too. I know many people agree.

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    11. Raven welcomed me on SW and she is tops in my book. Anyone who doesn't like her doesn't know anything. She is very introspective, especially on the Forum. I learn a lot from her.

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    12. Raven, we root for you. Keep up the good things you bring to SW.

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    13. You guys are such lovely instigators. :p

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    14. Raven, you know when to fuck with people and when to let them go. That takes a superior mind. I want to learn from you. Should I go to the Forum?

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    15. She does have an epic face... ;p

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    16. You don't get to see it. You have to show yours if she's going to show hers.

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    17. Medusa, she's right, you can't see shit until I see yours, but I'm figuring your curiosity about my face is as intense as my curiosity about yours....which has actually passed.

      I have to ask though, why wouldn't you want to see it :(

      You don't like gingers?

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  14. I am anon 9:54 i don't get why you guys are so upset that I like Raven..and I like very few people. wow! I can't state my opinion here? I treat most people I meet with so much disdain that when I see someone different it is very unusual and maybe i want to say it out loud..just goes to prove that I don't hate EVERYONE just most people;)just the naive dumb ones lol

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    1. Don't worry about what they think. Why do you find me interesting?

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    2. You are very unique, unlike anyone I ever met.

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    3. Yeah... that is a little hard to believe, anon. How about you tell me how you see me, without using words that seem like you're idealizing me?

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    4. Raven i find you interesting because of your insight in how you view people, the world, etc. I can see you may have a sadistic side but at the same time it doesn't define you. You control your anger a great deal of the time and that is not easy to do.

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    5. Raven - btw my post is 11:20 NOT 11:17..that is someone who wants to make it appear as if I am some obsessed minion with no will....please ignore this idiot thx

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    6. I turn most of my aggression into some form of humor. It's better to laugh at the world, than to beat your head against a rock.

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    7. Raven I meant the anon at 11:14 is not me..

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    8. Very well. I am satisfied.

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    9. Raven - I feel like sometimes I do beat my head against a rock..I find most people are such hypocrites they are the ones with a disorder at least I am honest with myself. I know that I don't like most people, or care for their opinions, actions, don't expect good things from them, don't care either way...the sad things is other people will attempt to close their eyes to their true nature..they think they are really good, kind, etc. meanwhile they are vicious, sneaky and smug.

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    10. Those anons are not me. I think you have a combination of street smarts and superior intelligence. That is what I admire most.

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    11. SW would not be the same without your sense of humor, Raven.

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    12. I see those things too. I think I used to try to give sight to the blind, when I was young. Until I realized that i hadn't even been paying attention to myself.
      I was misanthropic. But you can't hate the human race, without hating yourself, now can you?
      I looked at all the things about me that i saw myself hating in other people... and decided which ones to get rid of, and which ones I could find a different way of looking at them.

      I still look down on people.... I don't think I could change that if I wanted to. I hate people who remind me of the women I grew up with. But I laugh at them now, instead of screaming... and I fuck with them so that what they are (in my eyes) gives them some kind of purpose (amusement)... then to give in to an old desire to go postal, and wipe them off the face of the earth.

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    13. Your sadistic side is not you, Raven. That is one small side of you. Everyone can see that except a few who are too stupid.

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    14. Yes, Raven. You are superior to them, so why act otherwise. Just fuck with them and win.

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    15. Raven - these other anon did not post the original post - just want to say I am holding back lol..I hold back and don't do physical violence but i find ways to hurt people, to jab at them to find their insecurities and to bluntly express them in a way that humiliates them...I find it very enjoyable. It's almost too simple.

      Whenever i wear my "nice" mask people think I am sweet, weak, easy to take advantage of and they come after me and that's when i show them the real me;-) and they run...they are taken off guard, they didn't realize what they were dealing with and it feels good.

      Every time this happens it reconfirms my view of the world, humanity, etc. and when they fear me, they have a respect for me they don't f*** with me twice that is if they don't run when they see me lol;) but they certainly don't mess with me EVER again.

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    16. You are right. My sadistic side is a very small part of me.

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    17. Yes, Raven. You have many sides. That is a small one. Don't let stupid people bother you. You rule.

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    18. Don't concern yourself with the other anons. I can tell the difference.

      Sounds like we have a few things in common. I once showed up to work late one day, and the nurses, and hospice people are very used to me being a real peppy, happy-go-lucky persona. They took a patient I work on first thing in the morning, and instead of calling me to find out what to do with her, or ask the front desk if I had called about my lateness; and just did what they wanted with her... which complicated the rest of my day.

      I pulled the hospice person responsible for this failure aside, and the person she was training... and had some words with them. Later that day, the nurses told me: "I don;t think they'll ever do that again. You put fear of god in them!"

      The thing is... I thought I was just being blunt with them, but keeping my professional persona front and center. I was surprised by what the nurses said to me latter... but it was also very satisfying.

      It's reminds me of when little old ladies, with really sweet old lady voices... suddenly tell someone to fuck off! It's more effective because it was so unexpected, and seems so out of place.

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    19. Raven, you know when to be sweet and when to fuck with them. You have a good sense of it.

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    20. True Medusa. Why do you censor the word 'fuck'?

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    21. Still can't get your info straight, eh, 12:09?

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    22. I have been lurking but want to come down and tell Raven how much I admire her. She is right about her sense of humor. She makes me laugh.

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    23. Man. You are really are no good at faking things.

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    24. why censor fuck? you're right no need I guess that's my mask again attempting to be civil not putting forth my full, nasty persona..I am so used to having to censor myself on a daily basis it comes automatic.

      to be honest here's who I was/am...the tall, blonde cheerleader who liked to tease, the straight A student who flirted with all my professors for better grades, the passive aggressive lawyer who backstabbed not everyone..just the ones who deserved it lol;) In romantic relationships I was/am a nightmare. I don't know why I'm like this I just know that i don't trust easily and think the worst... but unfortunately I am always right....

      anyone have any helpful suggestions for me?;)

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    25. I am not most of those anons.

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    26. Raven - love your post I can just imagine how these dumb people realized that they can't get away with that type of bullshit with you - it's the best. I think that an ability to tell it how it is, be blunt, even if it's hurtful and hard for people to hear. In fact it's so satisfying ;) to see that shocked look in their eyes realizing that you see them and all their bullshit and are calling them out on it. It's like a dear in a headlight..lol

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    27. I can take my aggression and make people pay or make them eat out of my hands.

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    28. Okay. I better get to the store. I'm late at getting a start on my day, as per usual. I can't be fixing my veins with SW shit once the party arrives...

      Best get to it.

      Medusa... I'm so going to try and put my party in a trance with shaman shit. Who knows what kind of influence I can have over them.

      Must transcend... must transcend...

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    29. Raven could so control the world if only people knew.

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  15. flattery never works on a socio..of course not it's about actions not words. I know personally I am highly suspicious of compliments and someone who is too nice I tend to wonder what they are really after. That being said there is nothing wrong with stating your honest opinion in this type of environment because there are no consequences. So why lie?

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    1. Flattery works on me if it's something I don't already know. Or if it's something he shouldn't. Oh, you think I'm smart/attractive/talented? I know this. Tell me something I don't know.

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    2. I almost don't believe people if they compliment me. I think they think i need to hear it because I look fragile. I'm anything but fragile.

      I think i'd rather have a bag of money than a cheap compliment.

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  16. Quotes for SW RegularsMay 27, 2012 at 12:22 PM

    Quote for Dr Fomentile


    People have tried and they have tried, but sex is not better than sweet corn.



    Garrison Keillor

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  17. Quotes for SW RegularsMay 27, 2012 at 12:24 PM

    Quote for Medusa Number 2


    I can always be distracted by love but, eventually, I get horny for my creativity.


    Gilda Rader

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    1. :D

      Yep.

      The greatest love, of all.

      Is happening to me.

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  18. Quotes for SW RegularsMay 27, 2012 at 1:27 PM

    Quote for Misanthrope

    Tragedy is when I cut my finer. Comedy is when you fall in an open sewer and die.

    Mel Brooks

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  19. Quotes for SW RegularsMay 27, 2012 at 1:31 PM

    Quote for Missus Kanney

    Each of us wages a private battle each day between the grand fantasies we have for ourselves and what actually happens.


    Cartoonist Cathy Guisewite

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    1. Say what?
      Oh... I'm totally feelin' ya, dog.

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  21. Quotes for SW RegularsMay 27, 2012 at 2:58 PM

    Quote for Raven

    There's something about my shaggy-dog eyes that makes people think I'm good.

    Steve McQueen

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  22. Quotes for SW RegularsMay 27, 2012 at 3:00 PM

    Quote for Jose

    I have an appetite for love and romance and sex and lust. It's a part of life.

    Jeff Goldblum

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  23. Quotes for SW RegularsMay 27, 2012 at 3:02 PM

    Quote for Mee


    Sex without love is an empty experience, but as empty experiences go. it's one of the best.


    Woody Allen

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  24. woody allen now he's fucked up didn't he mery his (adopted) daughter?
    kinda sociopathic right?

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    1. now i want kids 2
      perferable 2 twins girles with long blond hair...

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