Resources

For dealing with sociopaths/personality disorders:

Controlling People: How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal with People Who Try to Control You

Verbal Abuse



Children with personality disorders:

Accountable Kids reward system









36 comments:

  1. hi, ı am a psychopath. ı dunno what is the difference betaween psychopath and sociopath though. every test told me ı was a psychopath. ı dont feel emotions including love, emphaty, sadness(ı feel regeret and pity but not direct sadness) shame lonlyness anger or envy. ı am capable pf fear. ı liked to srangle kittens as a chield. and ı still like to hurt animals and play with peoples emotions. (this makes me look like satan!) whatever what am ı? is there anyne like me? and how can ı lve with this?

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    1. Well I'm the same way. I lie alot almost all the time. I've tortured animals I don't like and I've done alot of drugs. I've stolen many things in my life, from my friends and family. I can be very violent if the situation is ''right''. Like I can't just punch or start hitting somebody on the street for no reason, people won't tolerate that but if for some reason I was protecting someone or if nobody was looking and there wouldnt be no consequences I take those opprotunities.

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    2. See the thing is when you write about ''feeling'' the thing is that you don't even feel the things you feel. You think you feel them but you actually don't, and that's what confuses you. You think you have emotions but its just an illusion to your own mind. You do things because you know you won't get in trouble. You act how you have to act to not ''be noticed''. All I can tell you is to be aware and to be careful and lookout for yourself.


      Sincerely,
      Your friend, your unknown helper and someone like you
      Sincerely,

      A Sociopath

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    3. *I don't know what the difference is between a psychopath and a sociopath though. every test told me I was a psychopath. I don't feel emotions including love, empathy, sadness (I feel regret and pity but not direct sadness) shame, loneliness anger and envy. I am capable of fear. I liked to strangle kittens as a child. and I still like to hurt animals and play with people's emotions (this makes me look like Satan!) what am I, Is there anyone like me, and how can I live with this?*

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    4. Every test has also told me that I am also a psychopath as well. Though I've never had the urge to harm animals. I find that to be very distasteful. However I do enjoy grooming animals and people into loving me. I am somewhat sadistic toward other people. Though it's usually something that I keep hidden.

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    5. @ASociopath - We can feel emotions. But we also have control over our emotions, unlike empaths.

      To answer your question about psychopath vs sociopath... Sociopaths do not feel empathy, psychopaths do not feel remorse.

      Your description of yourself suggests you are not a psychopath after all...but a sociopath. Since we can choose who to be at any time...it is difficult for a test or psychologist to properly diagnose our personalities.

      Sincerely,
      Anonymous

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  2. There are lots of us and as long as you always calculate and plan sadistic acts you will be fine. Make a mistake and you might go to prison. PETA and such are powerful groups. Also living like that is no big deal, its just the way you are. Embrace it and don't try and become something you're not. That can end up in serious mental disorders and anguish. Think of it as a mental handicap that you cannot be as emotional as some other more emotional people out there.

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    1. A handicap? You can bet top dollar many, if not most, Fortune 500 CEOs are sociopaths.

      But on the other hand, it is difficult to maintain long term relationships with empaths.

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    2. definitely difficult to maintain LTR's. I find watching "chick flicks" and mimicking what they do emotionally (yuck!) works, for a while when with someone. It does get boring. Then I lose interest, and move on.

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  3. A lot of the early posts in the archives at The Darkworker Experiment [darkworkers dot com] could possibly be of great help.

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  4. I don't really know what I am. I feel emotions, clearly not to the same extent as other people and I don't think I've ever felt empathy for someone. I don't like hurting people or animals, don't really see the point in it. But I do love toying with people and manipulating them. Had a friend in school who I made incredibly jumpy and paranoid without once hurting him or him even realising I had caused it. Most people bore me and I find them to be too predictable and... well normal. I've felt sadness, anger, happiness (I think) and I am typically a very anxious person although I had it very well most of the time, which has put me off diagnosing myself as a psychopath. I've never felt bad about my lack of emotions although I have felt empty, just didn't particularly mind it as other people seem to. I currently have a girlfriend who i care for very much, more than anyone else I know (family included) however she bores me and I wouldn't trade my life for her, I am considering ending our relationship and finding a new one but I understand this is not how people who care a lot for someone should think. Feel free to comment on what you think about this.

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    1. Dumbass. Why would you get rid of a perfectly good girlfriend you can fuck whenever? You'll just get bored of the next one. Dating sucks and is too much work. Fuck, really you just sound like some whiny fuck. I'd be glad to push you off a building if it would make your suffering over boredom end but I don't feel like going to jail. I have to look out for #1.

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    2. is that the best you've got faggot

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    3. Hmm.. sounds interesting. You should keep the girlfriend to maintain your appearances, you don't need to care about her though. Try to put a smile on your face more to fool those around you so you don't get patronized for always looking bored. I think it'd be great if you did some test runs on your family. If you have a mother you should mask your appearance and don't talk and then kidnap her at a time that you know is best. Do some torturing to make sure you don't like hurting people, but if you enjoy it you should just cut her throat (she was probably a nagging whore anyways). Find a stray dog and kick it around and if you don't feel powerful then you're just a whiny bitch like the guy above said.

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    4. Lol@ the reactionary garbage trying to lionize their being indoctrinated in society's toxic misogyny, and childish inability to maintain a functional relationship as sociopathy because it's hip.

      You people are a perfect example of the type that belong on the garbage heap of history. Or just an actual garbage heap.

      I suspect your problem is you're too cowardly to date an equal.

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  5. Watching You Watching MeJuly 24, 2015 at 3:52 PM

    What's depressing about all of this is that you have a blessing that a lot of us that are bound by emotions wish we could have. I don't understand why you want to fuck with the people that are already being fucked with on a daily basis by this shit hole of a world. Why don't you use your ability to make this world better...if nothing else balanced. OR you could have fun exposing all the lies in the world. Then you could make all new ones. Personally, I think the sociopaths are probably the most unintelligent creature on the Earth. The easiest thing to do is lie to someone or weave a web around someone who actually has thoughts that are guided and misguided by intuition, instincts, emotions, beliefs...see some of us here can feel the wonderful waves of happiness and love, honor and trust, loyalty and friendship. it would be nice if we didn't have to weed through the idiots that are wasting our lives with their lies and performances. But on the upside, nothing compares to the FEELING of kicking the shit out of a sociopath.

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    1. shut the fuck up bitch, nobody gives a shit.

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    2. It isn't a choice how we act or the harm we cause. It is as natural as breathing. I promise you that you've never kicked the shit out of a true sociopath because we would kill you and not care about it. We would kill you emotionally though, first we would find out everything about you, then we hurt and toy with the ones you love to hurt you, cause you to lose your career, lose everything you love and hold dear piece by piece over a period of time. Then when you have nothing left to live for we are done with you because you have become boring boring to us... So watch your fucking mouth when you threaten us as a whole because there are different types of sociopaths, some of us truly have nothing but time to plot how to Fuck up your world and it isn't hard finding out names or address if someone over the internet even if you are anonymous... Because one thing about sociopaths we are highly intelligent... Do not ever threaten me or anyone like me again because the outcome may not be what you thought...

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    3. who probably suffered trauma or abuse, looking for ways to vent it out because deep down you give a shit. You give a shit so much that it may have consumed everything else about you.
      If your feeling foggy leap

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  6. Hi! guys! I need your wit!!
    In this case, what method I can do??
    I know an abomination who I have to call aunt.
    after my grandfather died, that abomination live in my grandfa's home but I wanna that home!
    so I wanna kick abomination out from my home with big unfortune.
    this friday, I will go there with my friends and that abomination said I will take one room and you can play in living room with my freidns.
    If you are me, what presents we shall present to abomination?

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  8. There are different types of sociopaths, some have feelings for those closest to them, some truly don't. I toy with people and make a game out of it. I do not hurt animals but it's nothing to hurt a human, I took the Dexter approach in I hurt those that have hurt others. I wear a mask to appear "normal" but I am dark and empty of most feeling. I feel anger, pain, and lust very deeply.

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  10. Some of this is quite entertaining.
    Alot of you talk the talk. I would enjoy taking you with me to see if you can walk the walk.
    I don't usually post online but I'll now grace you with some of my keyboard diarrhea.
    "If you are going to do something go all the way with it."

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  11. @Womenofmany...
    Give up your show. Here, we can taste your synthetic bullshit. Truthfully, you couldnt manipulate a child with a campaign like that, and you know this. Just stop making a fool of yourself

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  12. Everywhere I look online I find nothing but how to spot and dispose of sociopaths. And here I find the reason why. We will be the last "born that way" "devients" to be accepted as humans with a slightly different genetic code. As long as they continue to hunt us you all would do well to not brag about raping cats and making your girlfriend crazy. Let's all try to focus on how normal we can seem much of the time. Tyvm :P

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  14. So it occured to me by accident (someone said it as a joke while I was trying to explain why I feel different) that I'm probably a sociopath. The thing is, going off of some of these "medical" articles, I can't be. But reading what other people say about themselves, It seems pretty accurate. I DO THINK I feel some emotions, but I know for a fact I fake MOST. What's concerning me (the reason I started the conversation that led to that "joke") is that I'm not actually sure if my emotions that I THOUGHT were genuine are also bullshit. I know I've felt genuine remorse, I can remember 2 instances that I KNOW were real (because I didn't tell anyone about it, nobody was around to see my theatrics and I cried because I know I caused someone pain.) Both of these instances involve the same person. I think I feel some empathy, but I don't know if i actually do. Like I get it on an intellectual level, but I don't know that I actually FEEL IT. I know there have been some instances where I FORCE MYSELF to try to put myself in someone's shoes but it doesn't move me that. I have done a lot of grimy things "for fun" I spent a lot of time just playing games with people (basically every relationship). Occasionally I would make people stay away from me. I'd tell myself I was doing this out of some type of kindness but if I think back honestly, it's more likely that they were too easy to control or too predictable. I created chaos nd manipulated situations to make them interesting "lets see what will happen if...." I don't like people who are cruel "for no reason" I do feel rage at things that I perceive as wrong or unjust, I do try to do "nice things" for strangers. But I'm not sure what my motivation is for it. I've always been a liar, but I hate liars. I've never been faithful in a relationship but I would get I THINK genuinely angry if someone Acted as though they suspected me of anything. I have "morals" but it's not based on emotion and they get real fuzzy when it suits me. I found someone who was just like me. From the moment we met we knew it. I was in "a relationship" with him for 4 years and I was fascinated by him. by trying to destroy him. He's everything I hate and it made me NEED to be around him. I didn't love him. He didn't love me. He also hated me. But we got to be ourselves, we got to try to outwit each other. It was fun until it got boring. It's so fucking weird. idk you guys don't care lol. The thing is, I feel like I want to FIX this disconnect. I'm not okay with this. I made myself believe I had changed, because I changed my behavior, but my thought process is the same. Idk what I'm hoping to get out of this. I actually DO want to be a good person. I WANT to feel bad about doing wrong, but I don't. "Shame" is an act, unless I'm embarrassed. I do think I love, but I think it's a very selfish variation because I do turn on people I "love" very viciously if they make me angry. But I also am vicious to those who hurt the ones I "love" so there's SOMETHING there. I have a baby now. I don't want to mess her up. Idk what to do

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  15. I what i consider to be a high Machiavellian - glad to be here.

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  16. I have read her book and am also one of her students,I admire and adore her ...her predator stare,personality,style,accent,sadistic thoughts.she describes her hot for teacher situation in her book and i love when she flirts with me in class,I would be her little secret ,a real life fantasy...

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  17. Are there any resources for sociopaths to find each other?

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  18. I devoured "Confessions of a sociopath" and would like to thank you for writing this excellent book. It truly opened my eyes. I'm an empath and I have got a 25-year-old sociopath only daughter (her sociopathy has been verified by doctors and knowledgeable people and so I am not using the term lightly for any dramatic purpose). I do not judge her. I love her and always will. I just would like counsel on how to transmit this love to her, how to help her, to to be there for her without being merely exploited, squeezed like a lemon and then thrown away like a used kleenex tissue. When that happens I can take it but the problem is that she is not happy with her life. Although "Confessions" painted a very close picture of her, she lacks the structure and vision to behave gracefully in this difficult world and the result is often self-destruction. This, naturally, makes her very unhappy and frustrated. I just don't know what to do. Perhaps there is nothing to do. I shall continue to love her no matter what. A love which is not to control her or to changer her. Just love, that's all. Perhaps this message is nonsensical in which case please help me understand more. Ignorance is NOT bliss for me! THANK YOU!

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  19. I'm currently fighting a legal battle against my childhood best friend who is in prison for what he's done to me. I'm 26 and I've known him since I was 4. We saw each other on and off after my family moved away when I was 8. When I was 24 I was at work on Christmas Eve and turned around to him standing right there. I hadn't seen him since 2009. I thought maybe he'd changed from the person I knew in 2009 and allowed him back into my life. Something in my gut told me to run but this is the person who held my hand at my father's funeral when I was eight years old and my emotions overrode my logic. Things did not end well, as he is in prison and I'm seeking my restraining order since the guilty verdict was handed down. Many things have come out of the woodwork since his arrest. Like his many, many previous arrests for drugs and the fact that he's a registered sex offender. It's confusing to be standing where I am looking at the man who once was the child I played with on my family farm and I'm always looking for answers. He would admit to me that he didn't used to feel remorse, that he could turn it on and off like a light switch. That there was only a select circle of people he cared for - that I was one of them. He would always insist that he'd cared for me since we were children even though I said I didn't believe him. He never really showed emotions besides anger, but I keep replaying the time he held me close and his voice cracked as he said he loved me. I don't think I'll ever understand what I've been through with him. I know that his brain doesn't operate like mine does. That's all I know. I believe he falls under the category of sociopath/psychopath/narcissist and people like my lawyer have echoed these sentiments. This site offers some insight. Thank you. I'll never have answers to questions like, "did he ever actually love me or was it all a facade to manipulate me?" It's hard.

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