Sunday, September 30, 2012

Boredom: the three year itch

Someone sent me a link to a blog that is apparently written by a sociopath. I haven't read anything else but this post about sociopath's boredom, but I thought it addressed some interesting issues:

I’m suffering from a very specific sociopathic malady just at the moment: boredom. You may think that doesn’t sound so bad, but to a sociopath it’s a huge problem, something we can’t shake off or ignore or alleviate except by extreme measures.
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So divorce or a breakup followed by serial dating and a new seduction; being promoted or headhunted OR fired – all these provide excitement, chaos to be skillfully negotiated, new people to be charmed and controlled and moulded. You’ll notice that the negative experiences carry the same value as the positive. It shouldn’t make sense, but to us it does. Change is good, and because of our tendency to grandiosity we think we’re equal to anything. We can do anything, deal with anything, overcome anything. We’re not afraid. Sadly when we charge off for our shiny new adventure we can forget that not everybody finds it quite so wonderful, and that it impacts on others in ways we hadn’t considered or felt responsible for.
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The interesting thing I’ve found, in discussing with other people like me, is that for all of us it happens on a regular cycle. The length of the cycle varies from one to another, but for me it appears roughly every three years. It hasn’t been obvious up until now because with that timescale, naturally-occurring events in my life have often provided change at just the right time. Job changes, pregnancy, college etc all synchronised with my cycle and I haven’t often found myself feeling this way. I’ve also been lucky that the changes I’ve made have fit with the needs of my partner and family, and we’ve never found ourselves materially or emotionally worse off.
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The interesting thing I’ve found, in discussing with other people like me, is that for all of us it happens on a regular cycle. The length of the cycle varies from one to another, but for me it appears roughly every three years. It hasn’t been obvious up until now because with that timescale, naturally-occurring events in my life have often provided change at just the right time. Job changes, pregnancy, college etc all synchronised with my cycle and I haven’t often found myself feeling this way. I’ve also been lucky that the changes I’ve made have fit with the needs of my partner and family, and we’ve never found ourselves materially or emotionally worse off.

105 comments:

  1. "Was I bored? No, I wasn’t fookin’ bored. I’m never bored. That’s the trouble with everybody, you’re all so bored. You’ve had nature explained to you and you’re bored with it. You’ve had the living body explained to you and you’re bored with it. You’ve had the universe explained to you and you’re bored with it. So now you just want cheap thrills and like plenty of them. And it doesn’t matter how tawdry or vacuous they are. As long as it’s new…as long as it’s new. As long as flashes and fookin’ bleeps in forty fookin’ different colours. Or whatever else you can say about me – I’m not fookin’ bored."

    Naked [1993. Director - Mike Leigh]

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    1. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dkNIlf9-8OI

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  2. I can sort of relate to the cycle period. For as long as I've lived, three years is pretty much the longest I'll stay in one place. Being a nomad is in my blood.

    It's sort of an interesting, very pertinent issue for me right now. I'm contemplating going off the grid soon, which isn't something I've tried since the nineties. I'm not sure if I'm going to keep my current name, or get a new one, but I want to keep my current paper trail where it is.

    It used to be so easy to disappear. I'm not sure how I'm going to approach it this time.

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    1. what's your life expectancy, TNP?

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    2. I'm very much like that too. I've recently discovered six years is the maximum time I can spend in one place before I become a raging bitch to all the inhabitants and just start playing them off each other out of spite instead of amusement.

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    3. I've recently discovered six years is the maximum time I can spend in one place

      Whaa? You're a teenager, you can't possibly know your long-term patterns yet.

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    4. We can only speak to the present

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  3. TNP

    RE: Nomad

    Have you heard about/been to a festival in Black Rock Desert, Nevada called 'Burning Man'?

    My older bro attended for the first time this year and is determined to go next year along with a whole lot more of us such was the experience of meeting some of the regular festival-goers that live out on the fringes of society.

    I was just asking in case you're contemplating going under the radar. 'Burning Man' is quite the community of like-minded individuals.

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    1. If I wanted to run around the desert naked on peyote while creating art out of feces and sticks, I'd join a tribe.

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    2. That's the sort of individualistic thinking I was referring to.

      But I'll take that as a 'no' then ; )

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    3. Off the grid doesn't necessitate living in the wild, man :p And burning man is very temporary, even if I was into that kind of thing.

      I just... I guess I just need to get away from it all. It's been so weird, people being able to keep in touch with me after moving - tracking me down even after cutting off ties. I think I'm just going to sell all my shit, find a place I want to live, and empty my bank account - maybe find some work under the table.

      I just need to get away from it all until I've got my shit worked out.

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    4. Whether you choose to believe this is not is entirely up to you – but I swear without word of a lie this is all true – but several years ago I went on a bit of a ‘voyage of discovery’ and ended up on one of the most remote islands on planet Earth somewhere in the South Pacific and hitched up with the daughter of the chief of the island. We had a house built on property that belonged to her (gifted by her ‘royal’ family) in the most beautiful area overlooking remote and secluded golden sand beaches.

      Unfortunately, she turned out to be a bit of psycho bitch and I went slightly troppo after living on the island for a year or so.

      Nevertheless. You live you learn. However, I highly recommend living a remote sub-tropical island with a Polynesian princess at least once in your life ; )

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    5. I've already had a run in with a Polynesian princess. No thanks.

      I've lived off the land before. It's not that difficult, and it's a lot more enjoyable than some people would think. That's not what I'm looking for right now, though. I just need to disconnect.

      No expectations. No ties. Just... being.

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    6. As long as you stick around on Sociopath World TNP. It’d be a bummer to see you go just as I’ve started following the threads ; )

      If you're not a writer already, I'd highly recommend to get into that line of work - comedy, gallows humour type psychodramas etc.

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    7. I've been thinking about writing a piece of fiction that is only partially fiction, if you catch my drift.

      I've got a lot of stories to tell.

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    8. Roman à clef my learn-ed friend. Only the names are changed to protect the innocent, or guilty, as the case may be.

      I’d be more than willing to read any draft MS you have if you’d be willing to have a completely unbiased, anonymous critical appraisal.

      My line of work is writer. But of course, when you say you’re writing but you are unpublished and unheard of – you’re admitting you’re worse than a bum – you’re a bum with pretensions.

      That said, just reading your posts I think you have an acid wit and an appreciation of the absurd reminiscent of the wickedly scathing Ambrose Bierce and the best of Jonathan Swift.

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    9. There was a post recently [Human Garbage – Friday, September 21, 2012] and you raised the topic of paraphilias. You were then reminded of the film “Crash” by David Cronenberg [not to be confused with the dreary, God-awful Hollywood schlock film of the same name]

      Anyway – “Crash” is based on the book by English ‘sci-fi’ author J.G. Ballard. The reason I used inverted commas around sci-fi is because the type of sci-fi Ballard wrote about is what he described as set ‘5 minutes into the future’.

      And certainly Ballard is a big influence in the fiction I am interested in writing. Though, I have written several treatment’s for films and documentaries that have, as they say, ‘died on the vine’ when it comes to actual production.

      Nonetheless – hope springs eternal. And I have a couple of promising projects I am working on currently. Including one with a well-respected English film producer operating from Hollywood. [Again, it’s entirely up to you whether you want to believe me or not – but seriously, I have no reason to lie. I’m as fucked up and as functional as the next guy]

      But the offer will always be there for you TNP. Seriously.

      However, it’s Sunday morning here in London and I’m about to head off to catch a train with mates to Brighton for the day. Perhaps we can continue this conversation another time.

      It’s been lovely talking with you ladies and jellybeans. As always.

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    10. Shoot me an email with what you've worked on, and more about your tastes as a writer.

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  4. Thats funny Burning Man started about 15 years ago, you are a little late on the wagon and punk rock started 30 years ago, thats when people were really interesting!!

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    1. Anonymous - you've evidently mistaken me for someone who gives a fuck what you think.

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    2. Interesting... I see that MP is getting muscled up and changing his voice. Not that this anon was really out of line and incomprehensive with his remark. Sounds like Tom Hill, or whatever his name is.

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    3. I didn't think it would take long. Maintaining that Hollywood version of the perfect modern English gent is clearly hard work.

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    4. lol how funny. I was thinking that the remark MP made was kind of off, myself. I didn't get why he was being so snippety either, but don't pay enough attention to him to know how he usually sounds.

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  5. Good Morning Sociopathworld and Monica!!!!!!!


    How are you all doing today?

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    1. M.E. hit the nail on teh head I am feeling bored..I have to do open houses...basically make small talk with strangers whom I could give a f*** about when I went to law school I was so ambitious but with kids comes responsibilities and working 24/7 with a commute into the city to a corporate law firm is not at all realistic...although if I were honest I would admit it was mind numbing work as well but at least it was intense at least I felt something after doing 48 hours of work no sleep...

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    2. It soounds like yu need a good dicking..... Im sorry your so bored ;( Its a really inspiring story....... I wish i could be that bored LOL

      Thanks, Rich the uber empath

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  6. Hmmm. I relate to this as well, but my cycle is a little shorter. It's about two years for me. I just moved to a new place, just a bit after my last two year mark, but something still feels off. That wasn't a big enough change. I've been with my job for almost 2 years, I feel like I've settled in there but no real challenge. I'm in routines, and I'm bored I need something big to shake it up, b/c I feel like there's stagnation right now though technically I guess I'm making forward progress? I don't even know. I just feel like I need something new, something big, and something now.

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    1. DUI? A little jail time?

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    2. Maaaaaaaybe not that big haha.

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  7. I realized I screwed up with Extremity. He was trying to make a fool out of me with Rich. No one can make a fool out of me if I don't take the other side of the rope. I wanted to prove I was a badass because I am a wimp in my real life. I am afraid to stand up, so I avoid. I am afraid of being counted and standing alone, so I take on an internet person, as if I am a strong person with a lot of personal integrity, when I, rarely, can take a stand in my real life.

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    1. Can you ever come on and stick to the day's topic that ME has posted? Some of us are getting tired of you talking about yourself all the time, or starting all kind of drama.

      What is your opinion on today's blog.

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    2. My opinion is I never get bored. I have been bored fewer than ten times, in my whole life. I don't know why. It may be because I am very anxious, so anything is a challenge.

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    3. Thank you. Now, can we please have a day without you stirring up a bunch of drama? It's Sunday, and I like my Sundays to be mellow, with good vibes.

      BTW is that a picture of your son?

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    4. Its okay sweet Monica, I still love ya!!!!!!

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    5. What is your opinion on today's blog, Rich?

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    6. Anon- Has this or something VERY SIMILAR to this been posted on herre before?

      I have read abut the 3 year thing somewhere else too and since this artice is new today Iam thinking it isit from here...... Or maybe it is a spinoff of an old article from here? Iam not sure.......

      Being as Iam an empath, when Iam with somebody for 3 years relationshipwise Iam generally thankful that Iam still in love with my partener and (hopefully) my partener is in love with me.....

      BUT, I can relate to the boredom part, not just in relationships but in LIFE ITSELF....... I get bored VERY EASILY. I have been like that since I was a child.......

      Honestly, I think as a child I was "Manic (Not Manic depressive (bipolar) I was up and ready to go ALL OF THE TIME...... I couldnt even take a nap even if I wanted to, even if I tried my hardest.......

      Than one day when I was 13 years old, I discovered marijuana, and that ended my "Manic" phase, I no longer had to be doing something 24/7 not to be bored, I could take naps whenever I wanted and enjoy them (I loved that part the post) and I felt like a normal human being....... My family always would tell me to relax but I never could, iot was like I had ADD or ADHD but I cured my ADD/ADHD myself with smoking marijuana........ And it dose a damn good job......

      Would you like to ask me any other questions? I will kindly answer :)

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    7. You still come off as pretty hyper when you post. How much weed do you have to spoke to help you? I notice you talk about drinking a lot too. Do you think you have acquired a drinking problem? Then you use methadone on top of that, right? Why do you think it takes so many different kinds of chemicals to level you out?

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    8. Because it is a "fake" Rich and fake story.

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    9. Oh. Thank you anon 1:18. I don't pay close enough attention to "Rich". I can't tell the difference.

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    10. Well, I will answer you honestly........ I buy my alcohol once a week to last me the entire week and I buy 2 Gallons of Gin and an 8 pack of Steel Reserve Malt Liquor (8.1% alc) and that lasts me 6 days because on the 7th day I go and buy again.......

      With the weed it all depends, sometimes I run out and can smoke for a few days, but when I have weed I smoke everyday and every few hours with my stepdad (He is a pothead and an alcoholic too but he only drinks beer, not hard liquor).


      I think it is safe to say iam an Alcoholic and a pothead, and without a doubt iam definatly addicted to Methadone.........

      I think I use so many substances in my life because I dont work...... I go to the methadone clinic, than sit at home all day........ The only time I leave the house is to go get methadone.......... So I guess boredom is a significant factor in it because I feel like "If Iam sitting home and doing nothing why not drink or smoke a bowl or pop a xanax?" You know?

      Iam trying to find another way but it isint woring out for me........

      Iam thinking about moving to New your city (Manhattan) and being homeless for awile....... Because in NYC the Methadone is FREE compared to the $14 a day I pay here and they have a bunch for food places and soup kitchens, iam real friendly so I can find friends fast........ Do you think i should stay in FL and live as iam living now or go to NYC and try tht life out.....

      PS- There are shelters for when it snows in NYC and ill be carrying a weapon at all times..........

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    11. No0 Anon at 1:18 Iam not the fake Rich and this isint a fake story..... IAM LOGGED IN so how could I be the fake Rich the uber empath"?


      Why would I lie either way, it has no benefit to me to lie...........

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    12. You lead me to so many more questions; it's, where to begin?

      You said you don't leave your house except to get your alcohol and methadone. In what way are you trying to do things different?

      I remember you saying you have finished a degree in collage. When and how did you do that if you never leave your house?

      You also said you come from money. So why do I hear you expressing concerns about paying for your prescriptions?

      You want to move to New York, and become homeless. Again, why not use your family wealth to support your need?

      Why were you prescribed methadone in the first place? Were you a heroin addict?

      I think you do have a homeless person's mentality already. My advise is that you go for it. People who choose homelessness, do so because they don't want the pressures of society, and responsibilities. They also do it because they have chosen their addictions over themselves. You are giving up is what you're doing. It takes work to better yourself, but no commitment or effort at all to just collapse and waste away.

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    13. I will answer in order of the questions posed to me......

      I put in applications online for jobs but I never get called back, that is the inkly different thing iam doing.

      I finished my College degree about 3 years ago when I was a junkie on Oxycodone, Xanax, and Klonopin and I had aan SUV at the time so I had a car to get me where I needed to be, I crashed the car one day while I was high and now I have to take the bus everywhere (as I should)... I fucked up and I gotta deal with it.....

      I come from money from my grandfather (who is dead, and my grandma is still alive, she dosent give any money to my mother, my mother and my stepdad work for their money so $14 a day is a decent amount of money at the enof of every money (Alomst $400, and ive been on for 3 years now)

      I wanna move to NYC but I dont have the family wealth, my grandmother does and she dosent give it to my mother or my mothers brother or sister.......... She spends it herself and when she dies (god forbid) than they will get the money.....

      I was prescribed methadone because I live in South Florida and we had a MAJOR problem with pain clinics prescribing Oxycodone..... By the time I was 18 years old I was prescribed 340mgs of Oxycodone a day (YES 340), 6mg's of xanax a day, and 4mg's of klonopin a day and I stayed oon that amount for about 3 years and I took so much oxy I would usually run out 10-14 days early........ I was a nasty fuckin junkie on that Roxicodone 30's......



      I agree with you about how iamgiving up on live, but I dont see any other way, besides living with my parents forever,......... Every job app I put out never calls me back, I have quit selling drugs to make money, so now iam living in my mothershouse and Iam broke.....


      Honestly I wouldnt mind being homeless in NYC, I dont have any goal or dreams at this point in my life........

      Can u suggest anything to me? Please?

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    14. I don't have any suggestion for you Rich, because I don't know any junkie that are rehabilitated, and taught coping skills, if they don't want to quit and have no life goals. For you to be able to better yourself, you would need to be retrained. You would nee to be taught coping skills, and you would have to start caring about other people. From what I see, you don't even feel bad that you are sucking off your mother, and stepfather, and contribute nothing.

      No one is going to call you based on an online application from a kid with no work history. They will only consider hiring you with no work history, if you get off your lazy ass and show up in person to apply. Show them some ingenuity.

      I feel very sad for you Rich. You live a hopeless life right now. I really don't see you turning this around for yourself seeing as you've already given up.

      What brought you to this blog? Has it become another addiction for you? Do you feel high when you comment here, and get all kinds of attention?

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    15. Be back soon or tommorow ladies and gents, Ive gotta cook dinner for the family........ Thankm you for any serious and helpful responses :)



      See you all tommorow morning!

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    16. Anon @:31 - I worked for 3 years straight when I was younger and have proofof that...... Iam sorry I cant continue the conversation, I have to cook dinner for my mom n stepdad....... But can we talk about this tommorow? Id really appreciate that.........



      Thanks, Rich the uber empath

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    17. Oh, you know what? I do have one suggestion for you. Maybe Monica can take you in. She is wealthy, and has plenty of room where she lives. She cares about helping you better yourself, and you both get along well. I think you have personalities that compliment one another. She's be able to pay for all your needs, and wouldn't care about if you get a job or what, as long as you make her feel useful, and well thought of. It's perfect. I don't know where she lives, but I'm sure you wouldn't be bored at all. She's the one true friend you have right now, and I know she wouldn't want you to be homeless. Think about it.

      Monica, you should help Rich out. Don't let him run off to NYC and become homeless.

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    18. Ill move in with you Monica! :) Just dont expect sexual favors or anything LOL..... I dont have sex with grandmas.....

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    19. See? Now you have a goal in mind. Move in with Monica. In fact, maybe this was fate. You were both meant to come to SW to find one another. You are at a place in your life where you have nothing left, and Monica is in a position where she has everything she ever wanted. She loves you, and wants to help you. I feel like a match maker! This is just so perfect. I should charge a finders fee if this all works out for the two of you. :p jk

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    20. I'm having a hard time believing this Rich guy isn't just some over the top character invented by one of the regulars. Do people actually think and act like this? He consumes drugs and booze all day ever day and his goal is to go to NY and be a street person? I'm fucking gobsmacked. This kid has a death wish, but just lacks the balls to top himself, if this is all true.

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    21. No one believed Monica was real when she showed up, either. But guess what?

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    22. I donr like you elicit..... are you a sociopath? Ur just jealous that i can feel tings and hacve sex with cute gurls.

      Monica is ten times the person you are and she loves me..... does anyone love you.... LOL dodnt think so

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    23. Don't you have to get your fat ass off your mum's coach, and leave the house to find girls to fuck, Rich? When was the last time your wasted ass got laid? You just told us that you only leave your house for your prescription, and for booze.

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    24. @4:00

      Your little impostering game is childishly transparent. You don't have the intelligence or creativity to even make a decent insult. You're almost as laughable as Rich, but at least he has his addictions he can blame for making him so fucking pathetic. What's your excuse?

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    25. I doubt you're capable of stirring up something as passionate as hate in anyone. Play your silly, amatuerish games with identities and people all you like, but poke at me and you'll get slapped. Are you at least smart enough to understand that?

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    26. Sorry that you are so bitter than nobody cares enough about you to want you to have a better future........

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    27. Elicit is one of the most intelligent, honest, and most unbiased persons on this blog. You would be lucky and privileged to have her as a friend. She is also one of the most popular, and well liked people here. More respected than the woman you keep clinging to here. So you'd do well to give due respect until you can learn to stop using your ass hole for a mouth.

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    28. Lol @ 6:39 and 6:46

      From lame amateur imposter insults to a fan. You're a real comedy duo, the two of you. Though giving up your day jobs, if you have them, wouldn't be a smart move. Then again from what I've seen the last few days you're not really capable of smart moves, are you, extremity.

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    29. Im so sorry Elicit I was drunk and mean!!!!! I want to be your friend!!!!!

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  8. Thanks for shutting Monica up. Such nerve to constantly talk about herself in a fashion that has nothing to do with the day's topic or what others are talking about. She sure has complete ownership of the place, and that is because she really feels welcome and accepted here. And, once in a while she gets a reality check that it's not all about her.

    When I first heard someone say 'it is not all about you' to me I had no idea what she was talking about. When one is focused on the self 24x7, it's hard to realize that one keeps on doing so even when others are trying to warn that they had enough. In a way one needs to appreciate these types of warnings and regroup.

    On that note, Monica, can you stick to not diverting attention from the topic of the day to your personal issues for just one week and see how that goes?

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    1. Welcome to socio-world, anon. It's a narcissism purgatory, because they don't want 'em in heaven, but they also don't want 'em in hell. :)

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    2. This blog would stop being Monica World, if everyone would stop feeding her self obsession by trying to "fix" her, or giving her negative attention.

      I will take responsibility for calling attention to her once again, just to make this point even. She is the black hole of SW, and everyone has gotten sucked in one way or other. You don't keep a junkie away by becoming the drug dealer. Her supply is endless here because she is an eyesore.

      If everyone would just stop making it ok for her to be so self obsessed, by leaving her be for a while, she may just be able to wean herself off this addiction.

      At least here, anyway.
      There. Now I'm done talking about her. I'm going to re-read today's blog, and try to place the rest of my commenting focus, there.

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    3. Shit Flingging MonkeySeptember 30, 2012 at 12:15 PM

      Sounds like someone is jealous and trying to step into her shoes by the damatic display of attention and time they (Extremity) spent.

      Feel like a bigger person now? Feel like a Queen or ME? Maybe ME will take issue with someone posting other people's imformation on this blog since it could be a legal matter.

      And we all know the anonymous was Extremity some who else would like to put thier imformation up for them to paste all over the blog.

      Not a matter of being the badest or most dominant on here, But you can see who you can't trust.

      You can be Extremit's first sub on here Anonymous, like she was Eden's. She's still just a bitch that has no power in real life and lives it on the internet.

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    4. Is English not your first language SFM, or have you just been smoking the pipe too long?

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    5. Shit Flingging MonkeySeptember 30, 2012 at 12:37 PM

      I don't have a cock in it like some.

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    6. Sounds like someone is jealous

      As spoken by another narcissist. They always believe jealousy is the only possible reason for the negative reactions they get from the rest of the world.

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    7. Maybe ME will take issue with someone posting other people's imformation on this blog since it could be a legal matter.

      LOL why start now? ME has a disclaimer that covers all that.

      ME's Disclaimer: Comments are unmoderated. Blog owner is not responsible for third party content.

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    8. Shit Flingging MonkeySeptember 30, 2012 at 12:56 PM

      Your so smart, how did I ever exist without your insight~

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    9. Why is everyone so sore about the info put up if it wasn't even the correct info? Give it a rest ya cunted lot. Eat some ice cream, and get fucked.

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    10. Maybe it was the right info and they were playing it off like it wasn't.

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    11. Maybe nobody gives a fuck except you?

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    12. ^classic sw front.

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    13. Leave Monica alone!!!!!! Love you Monica!!!!! :)

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    14. On that note, Monica, can you stick to not diverting attention from the topic of the day to your personal issues for just one week and see how that goes?

      does that even work? I was thinking one would have to go and do charity work to stop that kind of cycle for a minute. Doesn't Monica already do that here?

      And if she does it as a private strategy just so she can refocus away from herself, is she still charitable?

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  9. Three years is proven to be a good length of time to stick to a certain strategy. I'm talking about companies but that could be applied to individuals as well, after all some CEO sets the strategic clock, and as we suspect majority of the CEOs are sociopathic, or at least run companies in a sociopathic fashion.

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  10. This comment makes Me wonder, what is symbiogenesis and what exactly does it have to do with Sociopath Society? What does symbiogenesis have to do with Sociopath tendencies toward boredom? Thank you for your valuable time and energy, and thanks again for your blog :)

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  11. No0 Anon at 1:18 Iam not the fake Rich and this isint a fake story..... IAM LOGGED IN so how could I be the fake Rich the uber empath"?


    Why would I lie either way, it has no benefit to me to lie...........

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    1. We got it already.

      Your mania is amazing when there is a potential woman on the other side.

      When was the last time you actually had a gf for 3 years, which is not virtual or a hallucination. Get real here.

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    2. That guy above is not me..... why are you trying to be me?

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    3. Elicit is one of the most intelligent, honest, and most unbiased persons on this blog. You would be lucky and privileged to have her as a friend. She is also one of the most popular, and well liked people here. More respected than the woman you keep clinging to here. So you'd do well to give due respect until you can learn to stop using your ass hole for a mouth.

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  12. Hey Rich, welcome to the Zoo, it's all fun and games with the mental, not alot for someone of actual reality minded on this site for the empathy endowed.

    Don't take them to heart. Women who have destroyed all thier real relationships and men that want to rule the world.

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    1. Tik, is English your second language or are you just drunk all the time?

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    2. And you are who? Oh thats right, you're Anonymous, such a badass.

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    3. I'm not trying to be a badass. You really do sound drunk when you post. I know I sounded mean, but I really did have to read what you said to him more than a few times, and it sounded weird. Are you foreign, or is that topic off limits?

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    4. And, are you shit flinging monkey, Tik? Because that guy sounded weird to me in the same way. What he wrote sounded like something a drunk person wrote, or someone trying really hard to disguise who they were by trying to sound retarded.

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    5. I'm sure you understand what I said. You're insult has no weight, you want to be part of the herd? On this sight everyone wants to be everyone elses worst nightmare and it's only on line.

      Go out and make the difference in the world you want to see.

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    6. I didn't say that I didn't understand what you said. I said you sound drunk, or really weird. Do you take a lot of pills? It reminds me of listening to Paula Abdul talk. You may take that as an insult, or try to deflect what I've said by making this all about me, and what I'm really trying to pull, but that doesn't change that you sound really drunk when you post.

      Go out and make a difference in the world? You and I are both here. At the same time. On the same blog. Live by your own words why don't you.

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  13. Oh I forgot the women that want to be men.

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  14. Dear Rich,
    When you come on this site, people will eat your lunch and pop the bag. It is real life, in stark black and white. I needed it. Your real life friends won't tell you what they think of you. People suck up to people, or more likely, people are afraid to tell people the truth.

    People called me horrible names. Some were true, not all. However, some were. I protested, a great deal. I thought the people were jerks. Some were, but there was some truth that I got here, and no place else.

    I am still getting truth, here. I am, still, seeing myself, as I am.

    Part of the learning is to cast off( in your mind) the people whose opinions are dross. Some people have opinions of gold. I have made dear friends. I have people who hate me. It is a weird place, but wonderful, too, if you stay and walk it out.

    Most people can't.

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    1. You have also been a jerk here, Monica. You aren't always the victim. I've seen you do despicable things here unprovoked. This place has helped you in some ways. In others you have gotten worse. SW is not some holy land that heals the sick. Jesus doesn't live here. Rich needs real help from the real world. This place will not help him get well. He doesn't even care if he gets well.

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    2. Jesus doesn't live here

      Yes, he does. Even here.

      There is no dark place, no deep shadow, where evildoers can hide. (Job 34:22)

      My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart, and my portion forever. (Psalm 73:26)

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    3. Alterego,

      You may not have noticed this, but Sociopath World is Monica's true religion, and M.E. is who she worships as her god. That is what I meant in the passage above. If you could get your fat head out of your ass for 2 seconds, you might have realized the message I was sending. This place is not a place of miracles where the lost should come to get healed, as Monica advertises. And anyone who says otherwise is not only unchristian, but also very psychologically disturbed.

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  15. I love this site. Very entertaining - actually it has become my favorite sport to watch, egos ping-ponging back and forth, trying to show who is smartest or this-est or that-est. TNP, nice move in going off the grid. Enjoy. I'll miss your responses to the narcies.
    Re: the post, I cycle tremendously, and I'm glad. Woke up Monday and HEY! My drive had returned, and with a vengeance. Full moon to highlight. This keeps me from boredom, the fact that my self has a built-in boredom-blocker....my deep self will shift to push it out and make me interested again in...something. I may return to old marks, those I've cast off, and they are surprisingly willing - that keeps me going for a while - I'm sure I'll have another dip sometime (reminds me of an incredible documentary about surfing in the deep ocean where the waves are tsunamis - yeah! and the sharks, oh, baby), but for now I'm up and ready.
    I've noticed that when the shift is coming, I change my dress, my stance, my all. I'm looking to attract something else, I think. My shifts may be three years, may be less.
    By the way, my father is a malignantly narcissistic psychiatrist with 5 children (oops, no, FOUR, one of us, the most brilliant I think, offed herself, no wonder)of whom he cares nothing about, around whom he designs madness. I have visions of him in agony.
    So anyway, nice to meet you, SW.

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  16. nice to meet you, ssssnake. I will envision your father in agony with you.

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  17. Thanks, sweetheart. And make no mistake, I'm not one of them. Neither are you.

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  18. Dear Sociopath;
    I have a strong feeling that everything you write could possibly be a load of bullshit? You wrote about being in love, but then again contradict yourself by saying sociopaths don't get actual feelings/emotions etc.. :s i voiced this opinion to a very smart friend of mine, and he said that you're a head fuck, and simply enjoy the rowing and variation of opinions on the comment box.. i reckon I have you sussed :)

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