Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Sara smile

From a reader:
My name is Sara. I have been weird and not so normal all my life. When I was little my dad was physically abusive if we did the wrong things but I quickly adapted to this so while my siblings got beaten I was spared because I always knew what to say or do. I learned at a young age that no one else but me could give me the answers that I needed or help me if I needed something. Me and only me was my way of life.

I used to manipulate my siblings into being my slaves and do chores for me. I'd lie a lot but as soon as I discovered that you lose credibility and future opportunities to manipulate I stopped.

I tortured cats, chicks, and dogs. I once left a cat insides box for a week feeding it only sporadically because the stupid cat wouldn't stay put and I hate when small little things don't do as I say.

I am now 24 yrs old and very manipulative. Ex. I use sex or sexual attraction to play with men.. They don't have feelings anyway. I once cheated on my fiancé by sleeping with a stranger at 8pm, then sleeping with a state trooper at 10pm then going home and kissing my fiancé good night as if nothing ever happened.

I'm doing the same thing again.. I tell my husband "I will never hurt you" and in my mind I'm making plans to meet with this other man.

I've thought about doing bad things and the only thing that stops me is jail. Honestly who wants to be trapped? Just do what you can get away with...after all being an innocent cute girl works better on people.

I have a BA in psychology and I fucking love my Job at a psychiatric hospital. I can finally feel at home.

Thoughts?? Would you post this? Oh and I somehow enjoy it when people talk about me.

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  2. Sounds like another one of Zwhawq's many aliases.

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  3. Interesting! Are you a diagnosed Antisocial? I dated a girl who was but she was pretty cruel, had pretty much the same habits as you (no offense). But what I dont understand is if you want to sleep around with men than why be in a "relationship" at all? As the Great Hervey Cleckley would say " He is your boyfriend/husband in name only"

    Do you ever feel bad for cheating or manipulating him?

    Honestly, how would you feel if you figured out he slept with 2 women and than came home and kissed you?

    PS- Iam an Empath. But iam NOT against sociopaths, iam only against people who purposely hurt others and get some twisted satisfaction from it. I treat people with the respect that I would like to be treated with.

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  4. CuriousEmpath = Zawq

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  5. You sociopaths are sick. Do you even know what it is to be happy? Can you even BE happy?

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  6. F.Ex. or Ex. instead of e.g. + random capital letters = Zawq

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  7. Recommended reading for aspiring fakers:

    http://www.myenglishteacher.net/forexample.html

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  8. Zwiq has like 30 alias's.

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  9. Poorly executed. To say the very least. It sounds made up. I don't have time for the rest of my opinion.

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  10. "Having a sense of self was so 1995.




    Think of the irony and the sadness of a BPD saying this.

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  11. I crashed my dirtbike in a icey pond that was in the middle of the trail and gashed my shin pretty good. The dirtbike is rendered inoperable, but my brother in law is taking it in to fix it. I had a lot of fun though.

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  12. If you can bring yourself to orgasm just by thinking about another man whilst in the bed with your snoring, broke husband, is that cheating?

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  13. why yes. Yes it is, Bambi. I 'd consider getting a full psychiatric eval, too.

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  14. Bambi You must be Franks wife

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  15. Shhhhhhut yer face I don't want people to KNOW!

    *dashes off in hysterics*

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  16. I resent people laughing at Frank.
    Hi Harv
    Hi Hank
    Hi Gary
    Gary, spill the beans about your new cases. Frank likes the gore and blood part.



    wv:harv

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  17. Confession: I married Frank and viewed him like a trophy and a possession. I lied to myself. Sorry, Frank. I love you, though.

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  18. That's ok Bambi. I just like fucking you in between ur tits and cuming on your face . You don't mind, do you?

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  19. Once when I was hospitalized I wanted to exercise and one of the psych nurses saw me doing it. She made arrangements to have me conduct a group class. I sort of said yes, but then felt pressured. I told her superior that she should realize I aM a PaTIENT goddammit !!!! I felt she was using me to get her job done. But I had sort of agreed .

    I had her transferred to another floor, I think. I didn't know that would happen. I didn't like her. I Was indeed carazay. But she overstepped a line with me.

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  20. @Eden I made twitter FUCK YES in your face

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  21. I would never do that. I would have realized you were crazy and left you alone to heal..

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  22. Thank you Caroline. I told you I thought you were wonderful and I meant it.

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  23. Flirting with the help again, Bella?

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  24. Yes talking is flirting.

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  25. @Eden how does it feel to know M.E. prefers my mental brain farts to your words FUCK YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

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  26. Sometimes I think this place should be called "schizoworld" or "D.I.D.land". Pretty sure most of you are somebody's voices in their head or alternate personalities.

    Real socios are too busy manipulating others to waste their time like this.

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  27. Fuck YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

    Or Bored socio psychs

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  28. Today's post fake or not just sounds like someone looking for an excuse to be a dick.

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  29. LOL i have a funnie story when i pissed off the nurses at a hospital they transferred me to a mental hospital in the middle of the night by ambulence from shouting profanities at them all night after barricadng myself in the room

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  30. (I have bad grammar I get it. I didn't study in the U.S.A.)I'm the process of learning English and grammar is one of my weak points.

    Anyway..

    I wish my story was made up but it's not. I ended up getting divorced a divorce, and to be honest i only cried for 5 minutes the morning after he left. Why did i cry? i don't know. I started dating a 37 year old man, and i really tried me best to accommodate to him, only to find out that he had been cheating on me the entire time! I guess karma is a bitch. What surprised me the most was that i didn't feel anything, no tears, no anger, no broken heart.. NOTHING.

    I'm still seeing him but i know our clock is ticking..
    I already know i will never be faithful to him,
    I already know that i will break his heart,
    I already know that i could never love somebody and that is the only thing in my life that actually disturbs me.

    You know what surprises me the most? is that people think i am this nice, beautiful, charming, and loving woman even when i confess everything to them.

    -SARA

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  31. What are you thinking about doing that could put you in jail?

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  32. @Sara How can you break his heart when he is cheating on you

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  33. I thought about horrible things. But it was mostly fantasies to release my anger? I'd play them over and over in my head. Is it safe to say it here ...?

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  34. He had been dating this other girl for 2 months, and he basically didn't know how to end the relationship. I found out about everything, and now he is like my slave. He does everything i ask him to do (he's trying to win my heart). He actually likes me + it was not an exclusive thing because i was still married when i dated him.

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  35. Way to put the cape on.

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  36. My ex-husband is still begging me to be with him. He is the only one that knows EVERYTHING about me and he still wants me!? That is something that i cannot understand.

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  37. @Sara STFU and enjoy being with him sounds like a great thing to have even special

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  38. It honestly creeps me out that someone could care so much about me. It makes me feel more evil. He sees something that i am not. He sees the person that i pretended to be for so many years... i'm at the point where i just can't hide it anymore.

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  39. @Sara what if he likes the secret you hide and you like him cuz he knows and still accepts you

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  40. I saw this placard at my friends home the other day. It said that people will not remember what you did or what you said. They will remember how you made them feel.

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  41. Sara you sound like a narcissist more than a socio.

    Or just a storyteller.

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  42. I thought I told you it wasn't safe, Sarah. Why are you still talking?

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  43. sara = zwag

    she's appears on zwags blog

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  44. Here's an example: A friend showed me the video of a girl throwing puppies in a river. I'm sure most of you saw the video, it caused outrage. My friend was very disturbed by it.. I had to pretentend to be shocked. I was actually empathetic with the girl. I could actually imagine the rage she had to do something like that.

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  45. Here's an example: I saw this crippled autistic women getting raped and I laughed at her.


    wv rucken

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  46. He makes me smile and I love the odd way we found each other we can see each other anywhere its not perfect but we have come along way and been through alot we were always side by side entertaining each other and didn't know it fully that says something

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  47. Yup Sarah is not a socio. Her puppy story confirmed it. Not just "empathaizing" but the mention of rage. Dont need rage to kill puppies unless ur not a socio.

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  48. question my friend used to use her animals like toys and choke them by collars hangin over the stairs and I watched her throw her cat over a overpass to see if it would live. i never was bothered by it her laugh cracked me up while she did it. one of her cats twithed from the torture constantly. i have no urges to do these things but people doing it doesn't bother me. i have beaten dogs but i don't really enjoy it.

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  49. I see what "Sara" is doing. "She" is trying to build rapport so she can get others to self incriminate. I dont normally offer help to socios but in this case use ur noodle peeps and check your egos. It is probably a cyber cop. That would explain the terrible grammar lol.

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  50. I am trying to figure out the trait in sociopaths that they do not learn from their mistakes. I have not learned from my mistakes, either. What prevents it? The person must be lost in his own distorted world, to the degree where he cannot actually see what is really happening. In his head, the same script must play over and over. Reality must not touch it. I know that I, as a co-dep, have lived like this for a long time, myself.

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  51. Can't cosign the animal abuse shit. Its not the watermark for being a sociopath.

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  52. My friend's dog had 4 puppies.. My friend would dip them in water and put them in the freezer for a few seconds just because. He'd also cover their nostrils and mouth to see them fight for their lives. He'd also submerge them in water just to see how long they lasted. This was a while back and in South America where they don't care about people much less about animals).

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  53. I caught my little nephew in a temper tantrum screaming his guts out. He was red in the face screaming and screaming in the family teacup min pin's face. The dog just sat there and shook and whimpered. It peed on itself. There was a little bit of a disbelief pass over the boys face. He was surprised he could have an effect on a living thing that way. Then he stopped.

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  54. The Caroline in the first part of the comment section is not I. If any Caroline is funky, it is not I lol

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  55. Not Able you are retarded. I had to laugh when I read you in Zwaq's comment section saying that she just lost you as a reader a few days ago. I can't believe you were reading that rubbish to begin with let alone that you were still reading it after she got exposed.

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  56. "Anonymous Anonymous said...

    @Eden I made twitter FUCK YES in your face"

    Hey fucktard; I made twitter too... yesterday: "Just as a severe head injury can impair your brain permanently, so too, can a young brain exposed to nothing but a life of violence."
    6 Dec

    My words don't end up there because I'm trying to feed ME a bunch of lines, though. Eat it...

    @Sara

    You sound like you're trying to be evil. You also sound like a stupid bratty little girl. Spare yourself some coming embarrassment, and go find your true self.

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  57. @Eden awwwww you keep track so sad its cute

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  58. I like to self examinate what i'd do in my mind if i was evil.

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  59. @Eden M.E. sees you as the dirty pig you are oink oink

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  60. @Eden M.E. sees you as the dirty pig you are oink oink



    LOL

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  61. I've been keeping track, ever since ME said she uses the twitter account to manipulate us. What do you think about that?

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  62. I guess this is the kind of comments you'd expect from sociopaths? I just wanted to let it all out. I'm not making up any of this! Do I sound too enthusiastic to be real? That alone tells you how much I enjoy telling the things that I do.

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  63. Horseshit DetectorDecember 7, 2011 at 9:59 AM

    I am the official Horseshit detector. I offer my services to you, SW.
    Neigh


    First Horseshit Detection---Eden. You are so full of shit, you pig he he

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  64. @Eden you are always crying bout the twitter you sloth you go for pussy because no man would touch you and your pig shit excuse of a vagina

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  65. I mentioned the twitter account all of one time, and I get more cock than pussy. Men are easy. Keep trying.

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  66. Wow, Eden. Inspiring hatered. I'm impressed.

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  67. Eden is jealous that Monica gets on the Twitter and Eden doesn't. Monica is cool and you are not, Eden. Eat your envious heart out Eden he he

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  68. @Eden your full o shit no man wants daddy rape leftovers i wouldnt touch you your nasty

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  69. What your friend did to the animals is a socio thing to do. Empathaizing with the perpetrater in a video and believing the source to be rage is not. It would appear that you are your basic garden variety piece of damaged goods. Probably a beeper.

    Not a socio.

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  70. @Ukan

    I do what I can.

    @Anon

    Actually, it's embarrassing how often Monica makes twitter, and worth mentioning. She's still the biggest retard to ever set foot in this place. If someone comes who beats her, this blog just might spontaneously combust.

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  71. Sara... what does all this cheating do for you? What do you gain by it?

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  72. I got this PD think on my mind. I think PD's can't learn because they are too black and white in their thinking, too concrete. Emotionally, people with PD's are simple, like a black and white photo, not complex like an Impressionistic painting. What do you, all, think?

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  73. Monica rocks, Eden. You can't compete. Just kiss her feet and be done with it ha ha

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  74. @Anon... "Probably a beeper."

    Definitely not. No abandonment issues unless she's overcompensating for an expected outcome. Unless she's in a deep empathic dissociation because she's so afraid to commit for fear letting someone close would expose her inner self to being vulnerable, and therefore open to being abandoned/humiliated/taken advantage of/etc... probably not BPD.

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  75. never empathized with her i screwed her over BAD

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  76. Theme Songs for SW RegularsDecember 7, 2011 at 10:22 AM

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_vuV_vKshcM&feature=related

    Eden theme song

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  77. Tentatively I'd say Sara is simply a victim of abuse. And like many victims of abuse, as they grow, they eventually self-identify with the abuser that traumatized them in youth. It's rather common for someone to become ensared in the cycle of violence that comes with living with abuse.

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  78. @ Haven Stockholm Syndrome? like Eden?

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  79. anon hello obvious eden is overcoming her childhood trauma by playing big bad wolf

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  80. The twitter has 173 followers. Its not like he/she is Kim Kardasian. Your posts prolly get more views in the comments section.

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  81. Hello scary sociopaths I'm an idiot that takes trolls seriously ::laughs::

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  82. @Anon 10:06 AM

    It's "you are or You're" not your.

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  83. Do not make fun of fair lady Haven for she blessed, my kingdom with thine titties. We, the Kingdom of Anonymi, adore Haven.

    Fake Haven, ye shall visit the tower for such treason.

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  84. Eden, Monica may, just, have something worthwhile to say. Ever think of that?

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  85. No Stolkholm Syndrome is when you sympathize with your abuser and mistake a lack of a abuse as an act of kindness. Victims of abuse may always hate the person that abused them in youth/childhood but because the ‘lessons’ and treatment were so ingrained in their upbringing they may have internalized the behavior. So with, or without, realizing it they often begin to display the attitudes of the abuser that had such an influence on their formative years. It could also be as a reaction to being a victim. By becoming the abuser it’s a way to regain power and control in adulthood where they did not have it in childhood.

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  87. to be diagnosed a sociopath, the traits must be extreme. david, it's obvious that you have empathy, because you are outraged at people taking advantage of the vulnerable.

    for callous lack of empathy, you'd get scored as a zero.

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  88. @ David there has to be a reason that PD's don't learn and "normal" people do.
    It is emotional, not intellectual. It is not a factor based on IQ. It must be some kind of emotional denseness due to being blocked. What else could it be?

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  89. Caroline, there are plenty of non-PD, "normal", people that don't learn from their mistakes. It's not just a PD thing, or even a PD thing at all.

    I learn from my mistakes quite well. It all depends on the severity and situation. I guarantee you there are plenty of mistakes I will never make again. Others kind of creep up on you and you can't necessarily spot them right away. Though frankly, depending on my emotional state I do have an uncanny ability to ignore the glaring warnings that I pick up. It's not that I haven't learned from my mistakes, I have, there just happens to be something else that appeals to me enough to risk it. Maybe it's impulse.

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  90. 'By becoming the abuser it’s a way to regain power and control in adulthood where they did not have it in childhood'

    Well that is how you learn to manipulate, from watching others.

    You can't just be born a skilled manipulator. The majority of people who are raised in abusive homes, will grow up to despise abusers, or will have codependency issues, a very small amount lose their empathy and become abusers themselves.

    Narcissists usually have a narcissist as a parent, that they have emulated.

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  91. You can't take the impulsiveness out of a sociopath. The whole essence of impulsiveness, is to not be able to quell the impulse.

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  94. I'm pretty sure the whole outting Erin/Ami was a fair example on this site of not caring about the welfare of the vulnerable.

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  95. Let me give you some insight, this, is Sara.

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  96. I am thinking about what you have said, Haven. I am not getting my pint across, I don't think.

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  97. 'I'm pretty sure the whole outting Erin/Ami was a fair example on this site of not caring about the welfare of the vulnerable.'

    how many times did he apologize after it? a few.

    callous lack of empathy must touch every aspect of your life. i'm not talking about douche baggy lack of empathy. i mean baby in a blender lack of empathy. that's what psychopaths have.

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  98. he also remarked that he wouldn't be able to cut someones head off. a psychopath could perform that with ease.

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  99. Who the fuck is Monica? Should I know her?

    The twitter is seen as some kind of reward 'round these parts, vm. "oh wow! M.E chose my comment to represent the entire blog! He/she/it totally likes all my opinions and since M.E is the authority on sociopathy, my comments are much more credible now! Woooo!" Like that. I stopped caring when i stopped appearing on there for several months, hence the bitterness. :D

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  100. @Wheatley FUCK YOU You're a fucking idiot

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  101. @Wheatley I can't look at Sarahs BF link if it is bad. What is on it? I can't have anymore nightmares. ;)

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  103. Well, it's bad alright, but I don't think it'll give you any nightmares.

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  104. Davey, what is on the link? I am scared I am on enough medication.

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  106. All sociopaths are not psychopaths. Psychopaths are more rare

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  108. Are psychopaths and sociopaths the same?

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  109. David I don't believe you.

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  110. What is the difference of socio and psycho ?

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  111. Are you guys serious? There's nothing special about this girl. She fucks around a lot, so what? A lot of girls cheat on their boyfriends/husbands and don't care about it. She's just this pathetic whore in need for affection.

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  113. Anon everyone likes whores

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  114. @ anonymous anonymous

    True!

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  115. @David I cannot understand that story, emotionally, because I am a nervous wreck about everything lol

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  116. Psychopaths are worse than sociopaths. Psychopaths are more evil.

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  118. Psychopath = Jason or Freddie Kruger

    Sociopath = Dr. House

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  119. That actually makes a ton of sense to me. I get the two confused all the time.

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  121. @David This is my working theory.
    When you have a PD, you are not in proper touch with your own emotions. As such, you are not in touch with actual reality i.e. what is happening inside you and around you. One cannot learn how to function in life well, when one does not know what is happening with oneself and others, emotionally, due to ones own deficits.

    This would apply to all the PDs--- Co-dep, BPD, ASPD etc

    The degree with which one is out of touch with one's emotions will vary in the various PDs .

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  123. I am delusional. I get upset when people don't see me for the nice and caring person I am.

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  124. David, I was talking about the link. I don't believe that it is about the X factor.

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  125. FUCK YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  126. fyi this is how i show my happiness w/u

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  128. anonymous said...

    I am delusional. I get upset when people don't see me for the nice and caring person I am.

    SO TRUE LOL

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  129. No way this lying cunt has a psych bachelor's. Current psych programs require students to undergo therapy. If she had, she would know that she is no socio (aside from basic abnormal psych would tell her hpw to better mimic a socio).

    I think the first comment is right. Except HE is a 16 y/o boy.

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  130. I thought is was Sceli

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  131. Where has Scelli been? Where has Medusa been?

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  132. Tis the season for lovin'

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  133. Psychopath = Jason or Freddie Kruger

    Sociopath = Dr. House

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  135. Famous Psychopaths:

    Michael Meyers

    Patrick Bateman

    Sideshow Bob

    Janeane Garofalo

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  136. "I once left a cat insides box for a week."

    Sara is a pretty cool guy. Eh kills cats and doesnt afraid of anything.

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  137. Blogger davidsocio01 said...

    Medusa is spinning her dreidel.


    Is she Jewish, David?

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  139. What do you want for Christmas?

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  142. Hank is hoping to find love.


    Hi Frank
    Hi Gary
    Hi Harv

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  143. half is Jewish on this blog.

    Whaaa?? lol

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  144. Hi Hank
    Did you realize that Hank and Frank rhyme? That means we have kismet.


    Did you see when Harv got really angry, Hank? He said "That Frank person took my name"

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  145. Frank, why would Hank, do that to Frank? I thought we loved each other no homo.

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  146. Frank to Hank about HarvDecember 7, 2011 at 2:11 PM

    Hold on, Buddy. Kismet just means fate. It is not like urination on a person.

    Harv was ornery. He will come around. Did you hear our theme song Hank?

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  147. Frank to The PosseeDecember 7, 2011 at 2:14 PM

    Theme song for Frank, Hank, Harv and Gary


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dVib2ie9-68

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  148. Frank, you are more educated, than Hank. Hank enjoys learning. Please remind Hank of our song.

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  149. Not all clinicians differentiate between psychopaths and socios. There is no benchmark that is accepted universally. Sociopath is often preferable simply because the "psycho" part confuses the lay folk into associating with psychosis and "insanity". It is mainly helpful for jurors so they arent tempted to excuse behaviors due to incorrect concepts of psychopaths being psychotic.

    For those who do distinguish between the two:

    Sociopath accidentally hits someone with their car and coldly keeps on driving.

    Psychopath accidentally hits someone with their car. They coldly stop and throw it into reverse and maybe let out a little giggle as they feel the bump as they run him over again.

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  150. What you just did was empathize, David.


    David:
    "But the butchery beheadings always upset me as I wouldn't wanne die that way because it' so humiliating."

    Empathy:
    the intellectual identification with or vicarious experiencing of the feelings, thoughts, or attitudes of another.

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  151. Is being grossed out like empathy?

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  152. Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Is being grossed out like empathy?

    YES

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  154. Or the psychopath may get out and feign concern for the victim so they can see the look of hope and fear in their eyes right before he bashes their skull in.

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  155. That's not being grossed out that's identifying with the victims feelings.

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  156. What if you are grossed out by humans in general like germy bags of flesh?

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  157. What if your father never fucked your mother?

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  158. LOL What if you are scared of breastfeeding women?

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  160. David why are you scared of Mariah Carey's breasts?

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  161. David, that is empathy that you displayed.

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  162. I am happy I am not a sociopath.

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  163. I was walking through Barnes and Noble the other day. I, of course, had to see if there was any new literature on psychopathy, my most favourite mental condition. While there, I saw rows and rows of over-priced books teaching the poor potential victims how to evade, escape, and expose their friendly, neighbourhood psychopath. And Sam Vaknin. It saddened me somewhat. So... Psychopaths, sociopaths, and normies... How would you feel if I or some other well-meaning individual wrote a book about psychopathy from the perspective of a psychopath?

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  165. Not necessarily empathy.

    He might just have some old-school notion of being virtuous and being seen as such. Decorum! Civilized! European! Class!

    It might be more of a narc thing than an empathy thing.

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  166. Sara, the girl who threw the puppies into the river didn't seem full of rage to me. It's been a while since I saw that one though. She seemed fine from what I recall.

    Videos of beheadings make me itch. Not literally, but that was the best way to describe my reaction. I remember having a sudden urge to scratch my neck. Empathy? Sympathy? Who knows. Who cares.

    And apropos of nothing, I'm a fan of Mariah Carey's breasts.

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  167. it was like having a sudden urge...

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  168. If you feel outraged by a cat being tortured, you are feeling empathy.

    If your child cries and you genuinely comfort it, then you are feeling empathy.

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  170. Then why did you get angry when they guy told you he was abusing his staff?

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  171. "If you feel outraged by a cat being tortured, you are feeling empathy."

    *buzzer*

    Wrong. If you feel outraged, you feel outraged. Duh.

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  172. I respectfully disagree, Anonymous. I could feel outraged simply because it was my cat. I don't like my possessions getting broken by some malicious person any more than Johnny Normal. But I would never feel that for a cat, because I don't like cats, nor do I have any. Unless it's a kitten. Kittens, maybe.

    To comfort is an action. Genuine comfort implies that it is an action which does not seek to manipulate for nefarious purposes. I can give my children genuine comfort without sharing their emotions.

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  175. @micheal

    and what makes this statement different than the statement of any other empath?

    one cannot compare a pet to an ipod, or a car. an ipod and a car are actually useful. what the hell can you do with a pet?

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  176. Wait so sociopaths have emotions they are just shallow and not every sociopath is the same exactly just like serial killers differ?

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  177. what the hell can you do with a pet?

    Eat it.

    Wait so sociopaths have emotions they are just shallow and not every sociopath is the same exactly just like serial killers differ?

    Not all sociopaths are created equal.

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  178. It's egocentric.

    Cat's, nothing, which is why I don't like them. Dogs, on the other hand, can be quite useful, and they are good company. So are wives and children, occasionally.

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  180. @Michael Cats are good at bug eating and scaring rodents

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  181. Anonymous,

    Yes, psychopaths can and do have emotions. A psychopath's true emotions are simply short-lived and egocentric.

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  182. @Michael

    let's imagine you had a chance at becoming filthy rich, providing you opened up a store in china were they sell kittens to be consumed.

    On a trip to your slaughter factory, you examine one of the many machines, were the kittens simultaneously have their throat sliced while still conscious.

    Are you telling me that you would actually feel disgust, and not have anything to do with this food product? That's the vibe I'm getting. Personally, I'd only see the money. I wouldn't care about the animals.

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