Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Almost sociopath (part 1)

From a female reader wondering where she falls on the sociopath spectrum:

I've been reading your blog from your first post on since I found it at the beginning of this week (still reading, expecting your book by end of week).  It's...fascinating.  But, more than that, it often times rings shockingly true.  I've spent years studying sociopaths, but given much out there was negative I'd frequently told myself "well I don't kill/rape/assault" and thus couldn't possibly be one.

This being said it seems highly possible I am.  I have done "bad" things - taken what wasn't mine, gone places I shouldn't have, destroyed psyches and lives - with nary a care in the world.  ...In fact even the "I don't assault" statement isn't entirely true given I'd been in a few fights; but they were non-chargeable incidents, disbelieved by others (no one believes the adorably pint-sized blue-eyed, blond, girl is capable of violence, especially when she targets bigger kids and boys), when I was young and they were often provoked or a playfulness that went awry...I thought I was playing, the other person found me to be physically bullying.  What I've always found most troubling - still do find most troubling - was how not troubled I was/am.  When my friends wept at movies I laughed, when they seemed horrified by the latest terrorist threat I shrugged, and when they grew cross at something in the news I simply did not see why they were making the fuss (after all, it did not personally affect them, did it?).  ...I used to torment my best friend thinking it was playful/it didn't bother her and hadn't a clue what I'd done was considered wrong/cruel until junior high when she wrote an explicit poem on how it made her feel...and then directly told me that the poem was about our interactions.

I slip in and out of interests and infatuations with both things and people without a second look back.  When asked what I love I simply gauge the people I'm with and go with the most satisfactory-to-them answer - with nerdy friends I like Lord of the Rings, with jock friends I like weight-lifting and kick-boxing, and on and on it goes.  This holds true for people as well...while I've had a small handful (3-5) of friends for years, since childhood, it seems due to not being able to keep any others.  I make friends fast, easily, but rarely keep them - they all just seem to slip away on me.  Of course I confess others have run off do to some game I played with/on them that they were not overly fond of.  Whatever the reason though I find I don't mind too much provided I didn't lose them to someone else - this holds overly true in the romance department; people don't leave me, I leave them, and I'll reconnect with exes just to ensure, in the end, I left them.

I cannot, for the life of me, say with any certainty what/who I, myself, love.  I have interests, yes, and can hold them for years upon years, at times almost obsessively I've been told, but loves?  ...I don't know...

After knowing me for a while some people have mentioned my...personality.  High school friends called me the Devil's puppy and said I was like the manipulative Katherine from Cruel Intentions (the modernized Dangerous Liaisons with Sarah Michelle Gellar).  Another friend noted that I was "the one that gets people to do things and then hides in the bushes, laughing, while the cops arrest them" (she was unaware at the time that I'd, in fact, done something just like that in my earlier youth...my then friend got kicked out of that store as a result, it was hilarious to me).  Even my grandmother declared "that's you!" as I read off some sociopathic traits I'd learned of.  My eyes have been mentioned once or twice, but only in positives (in that they were attractive) except from enemies who've noted I "stare right through" people...of course I don't know if they mean through like into the "soul" of or through like the other person wasn't there.

In argument for not having sociopathy: I am female (thus making it statistically less likely, so the research says).  I do understand sarcasm - which you mentioned would be hard for sociopaths - but there's a caveat on this one: I understand it in my family and close relations who use it with great frequency, I understand the kind I grew up on.  If I'm with someone new - a new friend, a new mate - I'm slower to pick it up...especially if written out without a winky/smiley emoticon or some other signifier that states the person is joking.  I also can at least speculate why another might cry should there be a stimulus for it around - she's crying because someone in the movie is dying - and have cried once or twice at movies myself (the greatest emotion attached to my crying though is frustration, even in a movie situation where I'm often finding something keenly unfair in the narrative towards a character I identify with in some way, but still I cry at a situation I know, logically, to be completely falsified...something I hate, the sense I'm being manipulated into a feeling, which is probably why I'll never watch a movie that's made me cry again).  ...Of course these might be due to years of experience and/or my exceptions, not my rules, in personality.  Not sure.


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  1. Don't take your definations of yourself from others.
    That imposes limitations on your possible growth,
    freedom and is self-harming. Nobody "knowingly"
    harms themselves.
    Just allow yourself to live at your full potiental
    unafraid without self justification. You don't have
    to "label" yourself, (The haters will do that for
    you.) You only have to live out yourself.
    If you're good at something express it. Don't change
    it to please society. Society is comprised mostly of
    followers(lemmings.) All innovation and advancement
    comes from people who refuse to compromise their
    vision, even in the face of crictism.
    I knew a Christian artist who told me that people
    who paint overtly religious pictures are the
    biggest hyporictes and probably NOT Christian.
    The defination of sin is missing the mark of
    perfection in your life. So if your "perfection"
    lies in doing something "unpopular" you are living
    apporiately.
    Take a musician like Jim Morrison. He was anti-
    authoritarian. His great pean to lust "Hellow I Love
    You" was not "Christian" in a Biblical sense, but it
    was well crafted and performed with relish. As were
    most of his songs. True, he died at 27 from an over-
    dose but, not withstanding that, he expressed himself at his optimum level. In a strict sense he
    was less of a "sinner" than an empath coward that
    works a 9 to 5 job and lives into his 80's.
    It's not the quanity of your life that matters, but
    the personal and courageous honesty that you efface,
    making the most of your God given potiential.

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    1. Holy mother of hell!
      That is the biggest load of empty "motivational" bullshit I have read in a while.

      And plenty of people knowingly harm themselves, for a multitude of reasons.

      To the female reader: you sound fun. Come chat to us.

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  2. Sounds like a delusional wannabe twat to me.

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  3. You are young. It will take losing people/opportunities that matter to you more than you realize before changing your M.O. will seem appealing. Your own suffering from consequences of your actions will be a far more effective teacher than any moralizing.
    That being said, your unsentimental approach to life will likely serve you well in many ways if you are able to direct your energies towards things that matter to you. At least on paper, you may have a more successful life than the stereotypical empathic female because you are not a sitting duck for men who want to control you.
    Just figure out what matters to you, study human behavior, and try to get a grip on your impulsiveness.

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  4. everyone i meet is a study of the human condition

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  5. Simply from reading the (part 1) letter, I would suspect her of being more of an emotional retard than a sociopath.

    "I used to torment my best friend thinking it was playful/it didn't bother her and hadn't a clue what I'd done was considered wrong/cruel until junior high when she wrote an explicit poem on how it made her feel...and then directly told me that the poem was about our interactions."

    Either the girl just hasn't been exposed to enough social situations to learn how to react to people in a beneficial way (assuming she is on the spectrum and has manipulative impulses) or most of the scenarios she outlined are the workings of an emotionally retarded (superficial) bully.

    I digress, obviously there are socio/psycho-paths that have a lower overall intelligence. And her tendency to get easily bored; her inability to respond with "appropriate" emotions in response to situations; and act impulsively might be suggestive.

    The Exes game sounds more like an immature vanity scheme - "people don't leave me, I leave them, and I'll reconnect with exes just to ensure, in the end, I left them."
    Generally, sociopaths end relationships and people out of sincere boredom. Should it matter who leaves who? Not once you've lost "interest".

    Just a side note: sociopaths can love. Claiming that you don't "love" is not some magical sociopathy indicator. There is no golden rule for love; it can be the most selfless act or the most selfish act. It can last for a glimpse of time or endure decades.

    So, before going completely off track, either:
    - highly unintelligent psychopath
    OR
    - immature, vain pretty girl + emotional retard + suffering from ADHD (some people are simply born with more issues:))

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    2. I used to torment my best friend thinking it was playful/it didn't bother her ...

      One would need to know much more then to jump to conclusions based on this tiny paragraph. From the top of my head.

      One of my best girl friends had an arachnophobia. One day on my way to her house I found a spider. I thought it might help if she realized they are really mostly harmless, tiny, and helpless. So I decided to pick it up and when arriving put it simply into her hand. ...

      Later she stood with me for a short time when I studied in Berlin. She worked to earn some money to travel. She worked late and had to get from a bus station to where I lived. She kept imagining graves in the gardens of the houses she had to pass. I leave out the origin of that curious mental state, although it is interesting on it's own. My advise after I got tired to pick her up there some nights was, she only needed to tell herself this were gardens, graves in gardens were not allowed in Germany. Thus, there couldn't be any. To simply stay where it happened, look, and repeat this mantra. The result was that one night she came back white as a wall, shaking. My advise did not work it actually made things worse.

      Did I torture her in both these cases. Yes, probably. Did I intend to. Definitively not.

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    3. Sure. One excerpt from a letter is not confirmation. I just did not feel like quoting most of the letter, and chose the most relevant piece.

      A difference though, between your unintentionally induced harm - first case, you actually reasoned that you were trying to help her to overcome the phobia.

      Skye is almost boasting about her bullying habits.

      This is all elaborate speculation. No one can truly "diagnose" someone as a sociopath/otherwise from a letter solely written by the person in question. The most basic reason being that the person is not being objective about their behavior. If you write a letter to a sociopath asking if you are a sociopath, then chances are that subconsciously, at least, you are looking for confirmation that you are one, for whatever motivation - being able to excuse one's bad habits/ justify them to yourself knowing that then at least you won't have to work on improving them.

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    4. VEGITOPATH MADLY IN LOVE WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE. TEEHEE.September 6, 2013 at 12:16 AM

      SkyeSeptember 4, 2013 at 4:47 PM

      You don't have high reading comprehension do you, Misanthrope?

      As I've mentioned - by now repeatedly - I'm not interested in any label.

      The fact you so desperately want me to want the label of sociopath is sad. Did you feel special having it all to yourself for so long you're scared others will want it too? Don't flatter or work yourself into a tizzy on account of lil' ol' me. I'm not interested. (Amused, but not interested.)

      I aim to improve social skills because I acknowledge their importance in everyday life, that's all. Nothing to panic about as I'm sure everyone has that goal no matter their personality.

      TEEHEE. MEE IN LOVE WITH SKYE WHOOO EES A SOCIOPATH POSER TOO. TEEHEEE MEE LUF HER BECOOZ SHEE EEZ NOT A SOCIOPATH. SHEE EEZ AKSHOEALLY A VEGITOPATH LIEK ME. MEE WANT BABEES WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE TOO. TEEHEE.









































































































































































































      SkyeSeptember 4, 2013 at 4:47 PM

      You don't have high reading comprehension do you, Misanthrope?

      As I've mentioned - by now repeatedly - I'm not interested in any label.

      The fact you so desperately want me to want the label of sociopath is sad. Did you feel special having it all to yourself for so long you're scared others will want it too? Don't flatter or work yourself into a tizzy on account of lil' ol' me. I'm not interested. (Amused, but not interested.)

      I aim to improve social skills because I acknowledge their importance in everyday life, that's all. Nothing to panic about as I'm sure everyone has that goal no matter their personality.

      TEEHEE. MEE IN LOVE WITH SKYE WHOOO EES A SOCIOPATH POSER TOO. TEEHEEE MEE LUF HER BECOOZ SHEE EEZ NOT A SOCIOPATH. SHEE EEZ AKSHOEALLY A VEGITOPATH LIEK ME. MEE WANT BABEES WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE TOO. TEEHEE.

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    1. VEGITOPATH MADLY IN LOVE WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE. TEEHEE.September 6, 2013 at 12:15 AM

      SkyeSeptember 4, 2013 at 4:47 PM

      You don't have high reading comprehension do you, Misanthrope?

      As I've mentioned - by now repeatedly - I'm not interested in any label.

      The fact you so desperately want me to want the label of sociopath is sad. Did you feel special having it all to yourself for so long you're scared others will want it too? Don't flatter or work yourself into a tizzy on account of lil' ol' me. I'm not interested. (Amused, but not interested.)

      I aim to improve social skills because I acknowledge their importance in everyday life, that's all. Nothing to panic about as I'm sure everyone has that goal no matter their personality.

      TEEHEE. MEE IN LOVE WITH SKYE WHOOO EES A SOCIOPATH POSER TOO. TEEHEEE MEE LUF HER BECOOZ SHEE EEZ NOT A SOCIOPATH. SHEE EEZ AKSHOEALLY A VEGITOPATH LIEK ME. MEE WANT BABEES WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE TOO. TEEHEE.











































































































































      SkyeSeptember 4, 2013 at 4:47 PM

      You don't have high reading comprehension do you, Misanthrope?

      As I've mentioned - by now repeatedly - I'm not interested in any label.

      The fact you so desperately want me to want the label of sociopath is sad. Did you feel special having it all to yourself for so long you're scared others will want it too? Don't flatter or work yourself into a tizzy on account of lil' ol' me. I'm not interested. (Amused, but not interested.)

      I aim to improve social skills because I acknowledge their importance in everyday life, that's all. Nothing to panic about as I'm sure everyone has that goal no matter their personality.

      TEEHEE. MEE IN LOVE WITH SKYE WHOOO EES A SOCIOPATH POSER TOO. TEEHEEE MEE LUF HER BECOOZ SHEE EEZ NOT A SOCIOPATH. SHEE EEZ AKSHOEALLY A VEGITOPATH LIEK ME. MEE WANT BABEES WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE TOO. TEEHEE.

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  8. I don't know what she is.

    The callous and purposeful manipulation of the people close to her (to get them in trouble just for entertainment), who almost certainly have the genuine desire to bring her happiness, is enough to make most people aversive. She is the sort who'll hurt you.

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    1. Is manipulation manipulation if one is really bad at it; if it comes across as bullying rather than manipulation?

      Perhaps part 2 will be more more indicative.

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    2. Generally, sociopaths end relationships and people out of sincere boredom.

      Generally, sociopaths end relationships and people out of sincere boredom.

      Hi. I have a question on this thing here. No dont think im a sociopath, but still this rings true.

      May I ask what any people here, sociopath or not, say to a person when they are in a relationship and the relationship is making them feel bored? There is a point in a relationship that i am feeling ....mmm somewhat secure they are securely attached to me, and then boom i am sad because idk... I am bored or idk..i really don't know. I swear I don't know. But Im thinking boredom sounds about right. But it would be shame to end it bec i dont want to move on. I liked/like them, i made them feel i loved them, i do love them, i just dont feel like showing up all the time and i am angry i have to do it.

      I know about the honeymoon period and how that ends, and i know how relationships are "work" and i can do that ok, In fact I am very, very good at it. I just find i want space. I want to "miss" them. I have to miss them in order to want to see them. If I dont miss them then i feel like i am doing a relationship obligation and i am fretting. It is not that i am immature, but yeah that is what it feels like -immaturity.

      Has anyone here ever told the person they were with the truth about this? I mean the fucking truth. Not YOU BORE ME, no not that. Just: "i feel like i don't want to get bored with US and i need to miss you more before i see you again." < Is that an insult? Because I'm finding that people don't really like to hear that.

      Anyone?

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    3. Just tell them the truth, but sugarcoat it a little. Say that you love them and value your relationship as ever, but crave solitude every now and then to retain your sanity, etc.

      If they let you have some peace with no problems, they're worth all the extra effort to keep the relationship. Take a few days off, then do something nice for them to show your appreciation.
      Who knows, they might have been wanting a break from your confused ass too, but didn't want to hurt your feelings.

      If they get passive aggressive, start crying, or any of that bullshit- run. They are fucking needy and are not worth the trouble.

      If you don't, then you are a giant pussy, who's only going to get bitter and resentful and probably fuck it all up because you were too scared to tell them the truth.

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    4. And one more thing:

      Jon, oh Jooooonnnn,
      Come play with me?
      I'd love your take on these people.

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    5. you are taunting the celebrated author of "the psychopath test" ,no? ;)

      does he really respond to that?

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    6. Ha! No, Mach.
      Jon is one of the posters that I was chatting to a while ago. We agreed to resume our conversation on the newer posts.
      As for the taunting... maybe a little, Jon seems to like it ;)

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    7. Thank you 7:09 !

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    8. VEGITOPATH MADLY IN LOVE WITH MONICA AND UKAN AND SKYE. TEEHEE.September 6, 2013 at 12:15 AM

      SkyeSeptember 4, 2013 at 4:47 PM

      You don't have high reading comprehension do you, Misanthrope?

      As I've mentioned - by now repeatedly - I'm not interested in any label.

      The fact you so desperately want me to want the label of sociopath is sad. Did you feel special having it all to yourself for so long you're scared others will want it too? Don't flatter or work yourself into a tizzy on account of lil' ol' me. I'm not interested. (Amused, but not interested.)

      I aim to improve social skills because I acknowledge their importance in everyday life, that's all. Nothing to panic about as I'm sure everyone has that goal no matter their personality.

      TEEHEE. MEE IN LOVE WITH SKYE WHOOO EES A SOCIOPATH POSER TOO. TEEHEEE MEE LUF HER BECOOZ SHEE EEZ NOT A SOCIOPATH. SHEE EEZ AKSHOEALLY A VEGITOPATH LIEK ME. MEE WANT BABEES WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE TOO. TEEHEE.













































































































      SkyeSeptember 4, 2013 at 4:47 PM

      You don't have high reading comprehension do you, Misanthrope?

      As I've mentioned - by now repeatedly - I'm not interested in any label.

      The fact you so desperately want me to want the label of sociopath is sad. Did you feel special having it all to yourself for so long you're scared others will want it too? Don't flatter or work yourself into a tizzy on account of lil' ol' me. I'm not interested. (Amused, but not interested.)

      I aim to improve social skills because I acknowledge their importance in everyday life, that's all. Nothing to panic about as I'm sure everyone has that goal no matter their personality.

      TEEHEE. MEE IN LOVE WITH SKYE WHOOO EES A SOCIOPATH POSER TOO. TEEHEEE MEE LUF HER BECOOZ SHEE EEZ NOT A SOCIOPATH. SHEE EEZ AKSHOEALLY A VEGITOPATH LIEK ME. MEE WANT BABEES WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE TOO. TEEHEE.

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  9. I also can at least speculate why another might cry should there be a stimulus for it around - she's crying because someone in the movie is dying - and have cried once or twice at movies myself (the greatest emotion attached to my crying though is frustration, even in a movie situation where I'm often finding something keenly unfair in the narrative towards a character I identify with in some way, but still I cry at a situation I know, logically, to be completely falsified...

    I somehow doubt your above "she" simply cries because someone dies. That's not how the movie industry works, or storytelling for that matter. The "keen unfairness" is slightly closer to the usual ordeals on the hero/heroes'. Could it be you in fact cry when all is achieved and s/he is successful after all the initial hardships and obstacles?

    Hollywood is a master in playing our emotions and it does not happen by chance. Movies are very, very expensive. The investors surely want to see one thing, a huge box office success or returns on their investments.

    That said, yes films can, are and were used for manipulation but it usually does not work that well. That is my impression, at least if you aren't among the true believers already. Ideology seems to disturb the basic pattern of the of the hero's journey.

    But yes, maybe you are just as unique as "potential" female sociopath as ME is?

    But yes, I hate it too, when a movie gets me to the brim of crying, never further though. On the other hand, I like good stories.

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    1. Now I surrender and don't use the delete button anymore to fix this:

      "ordeals on the hero/heroes'"

      what I meant to write was closer to. But maybe I shifted things around

      "of" the heroine, if you like. ;)

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    2. VEGITOPATH MADLY IN LOVE WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE. TEEHEE.September 6, 2013 at 12:14 AM

      SkyeSeptember 4, 2013 at 4:47 PM

      You don't have high reading comprehension do you, Misanthrope?

      As I've mentioned - by now repeatedly - I'm not interested in any label.

      The fact you so desperately want me to want the label of sociopath is sad. Did you feel special having it all to yourself for so long you're scared others will want it too? Don't flatter or work yourself into a tizzy on account of lil' ol' me. I'm not interested. (Amused, but not interested.)

      I aim to improve social skills because I acknowledge their importance in everyday life, that's all. Nothing to panic about as I'm sure everyone has that goal no matter their personality.

      TEEHEE. MEE IN LOVE WITH SKYE WHOOO EES A SOCIOPATH POSER TOO. TEEHEEE MEE LUF HER BECOOZ SHEE EEZ NOT A SOCIOPATH. SHEE EEZ AKSHOEALLY A VEGITOPATH LIEK ME. MEE WANT BABEES WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE TOO. TEEHEE.

















































































































































      SkyeSeptember 4, 2013 at 4:47 PM

      You don't have high reading comprehension do you, Misanthrope?

      As I've mentioned - by now repeatedly - I'm not interested in any label.

      The fact you so desperately want me to want the label of sociopath is sad. Did you feel special having it all to yourself for so long you're scared others will want it too? Don't flatter or work yourself into a tizzy on account of lil' ol' me. I'm not interested. (Amused, but not interested.)

      I aim to improve social skills because I acknowledge their importance in everyday life, that's all. Nothing to panic about as I'm sure everyone has that goal no matter their personality.

      TEEHEE. MEE IN LOVE WITH SKYE WHOOO EES A SOCIOPATH POSER TOO. TEEHEEE MEE LUF HER BECOOZ SHEE EEZ NOT A SOCIOPATH. SHEE EEZ AKSHOEALLY A VEGITOPATH LIEK ME. MEE WANT BABEES WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE TOO. TEEHEE.

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  10. I lie. I give and take within relationships. I consume everyone I love. I am egocentric. I am risky. I fake emotions. I am wearing a mask. I am easily bored. I hurt other people. I feel like an alien. I blend in perfectly. Do these traits really make me a sociopath? Or am I just human?

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    1. You are a drama queen and an idiot, but admittedly a funny one :)

      I got a good laugh out of "consume everyone I love".
      With fava beans and a nice chianti?

      You give and take in relationships?
      You soulless monster, you!

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    2. Here's a translation of what anonymous 210 said:

      I present myself in the light that I think will make you like me. I engage in unspoken quid pro quo exchanges in my interpersonal connections because I'm too chicken to admit i care more than the other person does. I exhaust everyone I attach myself to. I am impulsive in ways that are often destructive. I pretend not to suck when I actually do. I am phony. My emotional yearnings take precedence over the normal quid pro quo rules I mercilessly punish others for not following. I feel estranged from people. I am good at speaking "pop culture drivel and that fools me into thinking that I am good at this whole "getting along with people" thing. People aren't catching on that I'm a user, are they? Everyone uses- and that's the self justification I will use to sleep at night.

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    3. it sounds like the salesman date, who touches your hand and says your name at the end of every sentence. exhausting

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    4. a weary sense of recognition overtakes me when I realize that I man I thought was the love of my life demonstrated a pattern of action that fits this description perfectly.

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    5. VEGITOPATH MADLY IN LOVE WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYESeptember 6, 2013 at 12:11 AM

      SkyeSeptember 4, 2013 at 4:47 PM

      You don't have high reading comprehension do you, Misanthrope?

      As I've mentioned - by now repeatedly - I'm not interested in any label.

      The fact you so desperately want me to want the label of sociopath is sad. Did you feel special having it all to yourself for so long you're scared others will want it too? Don't flatter or work yourself into a tizzy on account of lil' ol' me. I'm not interested. (Amused, but not interested.)

      I aim to improve social skills because I acknowledge their importance in everyday life, that's all. Nothing to panic about as I'm sure everyone has that goal no matter their personality.

      TEEHEE. MEE IN LOVE WITH SKYE WHOOO EES A SOCIOPATH POSER TOO. TEEHEEE MEE LUF HER BECOOZ SHEE EEZ NOT A SOCIOPATH. SHEE EEZ AKSHOEALLY A VEGITOPATH LIEK ME. MEE WANT BABEES WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE TOO. TEEHEE.


























































































































































      SkyeSeptember 4, 2013 at 4:47 PM

      You don't have high reading comprehension do you, Misanthrope?

      As I've mentioned - by now repeatedly - I'm not interested in any label.

      The fact you so desperately want me to want the label of sociopath is sad. Did you feel special having it all to yourself for so long you're scared others will want it too? Don't flatter or work yourself into a tizzy on account of lil' ol' me. I'm not interested. (Amused, but not interested.)

      I aim to improve social skills because I acknowledge their importance in everyday life, that's all. Nothing to panic about as I'm sure everyone has that goal no matter their personality.

      TEEHEE. MEE IN LOVE WITH SKYE WHOOO EES A SOCIOPATH POSER TOO. TEEHEEE MEE LUF HER BECOOZ SHEE EEZ NOT A SOCIOPATH. SHEE EEZ AKSHOEALLY A VEGITOPATH LIEK ME. MEE WANT BABEES WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE TOO. TEEHEE.

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    6. Apparently, the one calling me a drama queen, did not grasp my intention. Everybody lies. Everybody is wearing a mask. Most people are selfish. I have read M.E.'s "Confessions of a sociopath" and in my opinion, there are far more people like her who would never confess, who would never even be true to their selves and deny their behavior. But can you truely be called a sociopath if you fullfill these traits? Why is it so important to label everything? It is amazing how offended or caught up people can get by a simple comment. Mh. Maybe I did not point out my opinion explicitly enough.

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    7. Hi there.

      I'm the one who called you a hilarious drama queen.
      The reason I called you that is partly because you used such wonderfully colorful cliches that it made me laugh.
      I got that you were trying to be deep and profound. Swing and miss, sorry.

      "I consume everyone I love" too good.

      "Do these traits really make me a sociopath? Or am I just human?" Lol! I can almost see the "philosopher" expression on your face. You know the one.

      It really sounds like you were wanting that label. So if you were trying to make the point that labels are meaningless, you might wish to word your comments better in the future.

      The other thing is, and this tends to happen a lot with text only communication, especially where sarcasm or mockery is used: nobody is offended by your post. Mach sounds a bit annoyed at you because of some issues with the ex, but still, we were mostly making fun of you :)

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  11. There are thousands of kids who run around with masks during Halloween. They must all be Sociopaths. Maybe they should all send M.E. and e-mail and join the internet loser squad.

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    1. For someone who's bored all the time and enjoys new experiences, you sure sound fucking repetitive.

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    2. Ha! Touchy!!
      Let me guess, you at one stage came here and tried to paint yourself as the uberest of sociopaths. One who can seduce and manipulate anybody you fucking please. Smarter, better than the rest.

      And Misanthrope here, or someone who reminds you of him, tore into you like a monkey on a cupcake for being a delusional ass.

      Am I getting warm?

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    3. a monkey on a cupcake?

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    4. VEGITOPATH MADLY IN LOVE WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE. TEEHEE.September 6, 2013 at 12:12 AM

      SkyeSeptember 4, 2013 at 4:47 PM

      You don't have high reading comprehension do you, Misanthrope?

      As I've mentioned - by now repeatedly - I'm not interested in any label.

      The fact you so desperately want me to want the label of sociopath is sad. Did you feel special having it all to yourself for so long you're scared others will want it too? Don't flatter or work yourself into a tizzy on account of lil' ol' me. I'm not interested. (Amused, but not interested.)

      I aim to improve social skills because I acknowledge their importance in everyday life, that's all. Nothing to panic about as I'm sure everyone has that goal no matter their personality.

      TEEHEE. MEE IN LOVE WITH SKYE WHOOO EES A SOCIOPATH POSER TOO. TEEHEEE MEE LUF HER BECOOZ SHEE EEZ NOT A SOCIOPATH. SHEE EEZ AKSHOEALLY A VEGITOPATH LIEK ME. MEE WANT BABEES WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE TOO. TEEHEE.


      SkyeSeptember 4, 2013 at 4:47 PM

      You don't have high reading comprehension do you, Misanthrope?

      As I've mentioned - by now repeatedly - I'm not interested in any label.

      The fact you so desperately want me to want the label of sociopath is sad. Did you feel special having it all to yourself for so long you're scared others will want it too? Don't flatter or work yourself into a tizzy on account of lil' ol' me. I'm not interested. (Amused, but not interested.)

      I aim to improve social skills because I acknowledge their importance in everyday life, that's all. Nothing to panic about as I'm sure everyone has that goal no matter their personality.

      TEEHEE. MEE IN LOVE WITH SKYE WHOOO EES A SOCIOPATH POSER TOO. TEEHEEE MEE LUF HER BECOOZ SHEE EEZ NOT A SOCIOPATH. SHEE EEZ AKSHOEALLY A VEGITOPATH LIEK ME. MEE WANT BABEES WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE TOO. TEEHEE.

      SkyeSeptember 4, 2013 at 4:47 PM

      You don't have high reading comprehension do you, Misanthrope?

      As I've mentioned - by now repeatedly - I'm not interested in any label.

      The fact you so desperately want me to want the label of sociopath is sad. Did you feel special having it all to yourself for so long you're scared others will want it too? Don't flatter or work yourself into a tizzy on account of lil' ol' me. I'm not interested. (Amused, but not interested.)

      I aim to improve social skills because I acknowledge their importance in everyday life, that's all. Nothing to panic about as I'm sure everyone has that goal no matter their personality.

      TEEHEE. MEE IN LOVE WITH SKYE WHOOO EES A SOCIOPATH POSER TOO. TEEHEEE MEE LUF HER BECOOZ SHEE EEZ NOT A SOCIOPATH. SHEE EEZ AKSHOEALLY A VEGITOPATH LIEK ME. MEE WANT BABEES WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE TOO. TEEHEE.

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    5. VEGITOPATH MADLY IN LOVE WITH MONICA, UKAN, AND SKYE. TEEHEE.September 6, 2013 at 12:13 AM

      SkyeSeptember 4, 2013 at 4:47 PM

      You don't have high reading comprehension do you, Misanthrope?

      As I've mentioned - by now repeatedly - I'm not interested in any label.

      The fact you so desperately want me to want the label of sociopath is sad. Did you feel special having it all to yourself for so long you're scared others will want it too? Don't flatter or work yourself into a tizzy on account of lil' ol' me. I'm not interested. (Amused, but not interested.)

      I aim to improve social skills because I acknowledge their importance in everyday life, that's all. Nothing to panic about as I'm sure everyone has that goal no matter their personality.

      TEEHEE. MEE IN LOVE WITH SKYE WHOOO EES A SOCIOPATH POSER TOO. TEEHEEE MEE LUF HER BECOOZ SHEE EEZ NOT A SOCIOPATH. SHEE EEZ AKSHOEALLY A VEGITOPATH LIEK ME. MEE WANT BABEES WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE TOO. TEEHEE.










































































































































































































      SkyeSeptember 4, 2013 at 4:47 PM

      You don't have high reading comprehension do you, Misanthrope?

      As I've mentioned - by now repeatedly - I'm not interested in any label.

      The fact you so desperately want me to want the label of sociopath is sad. Did you feel special having it all to yourself for so long you're scared others will want it too? Don't flatter or work yourself into a tizzy on account of lil' ol' me. I'm not interested. (Amused, but not interested.)

      I aim to improve social skills because I acknowledge their importance in everyday life, that's all. Nothing to panic about as I'm sure everyone has that goal no matter their personality.

      TEEHEE. MEE IN LOVE WITH SKYE WHOOO EES A SOCIOPATH POSER TOO. TEEHEEE MEE LUF HER BECOOZ SHEE EEZ NOT A SOCIOPATH. SHEE EEZ AKSHOEALLY A VEGITOPATH LIEK ME. MEE WANT BABEES WITH MONICA, UKAN AND SKYE TOO. TEEHEE.

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  12. Omg, I just watched you on Dr. Phil and I facepalmed myself so many times I lost count. You're not a sociopath AT ALL, and it provokes me so much that you think you are. Trust me, I've unfortunately grown up with non-violent sociopaths and I've been in relationships with sociopaths, and you don't come near. Have you known more about them, maybe had one in your family growing up, your acting skills would've been better. This was embarassing to watch. You should really find yourself another trait that you can base your personality on, if you're so desperate to fit in somewhere. You do have somewhat of a concience, maybe less than others, but don't fucking embarass yourself! Reading psychology online and going to a random psychologist - I could do that too and get the exact same diagnose, 'cause I know exactly what to feed them. Thank God I'm not, because they are truly pathetic and I have no respect for them. It's good news that you're not one! Dr. Phil saw right through you, I'm so pissed off that he didn't even care to own you. Cheers from Scandinavia

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