Wednesday, September 11, 2013

Power corrupts

Organisms can be very adaptable to fit the needs of a particular situation. For instance, certain animals like clownfish will even change gender depending on the exigencies of procreation. Humans change too. Even neurotypicals can become monsters in the right circumstances. Interestingly, it's not just childhood abuse and abandonment that sets neurotypicals off but (wait for it) -- power and the sense of moral superiority, inter alia, to which it leads. From the Wall Street Journal:
Psychologists refer to this as the paradox of power. The very traits that helped leaders accumulate control in the first place all but disappear once they rise to power. Instead of being polite, honest and outgoing, they become impulsive, reckless and rude. In some cases, these new habits can help a leader be more decisive and single-minded, or more likely to make choices that will be profitable regardless of their popularity. One recent study found that overconfident CEOs were more likely to pursue innovation and take their companies in new technological directions. Unchecked, however, these instincts can lead to a big fall.

But first, the good news.

A few years ago, Dacher Keltner, a psychologist at the University of California, Berkeley, began interviewing freshmen at a large dorm on the Berkeley campus. He gave them free pizza and a survey, which asked them to provide their first impressions of every other student in the dorm. Mr. Keltner returned at the end of the school year with the same survey and more free pizza. According to the survey, the students at the top of the social hierarchy—they were the most "powerful" and respected—were also the most considerate and outgoing, and scored highest on measures of agreeableness and extroversion. In other words, the nice guys finished first.

This result isn't unique to Berkeley undergrads. Other studies have found similar results in the military, corporations and politics. "People give authority to people that they genuinely like," says Mr. Keltner.

Of course, these scientific findings contradict the cliché of power, which is that the only way to rise to the top is to engage in self-serving and morally dubious behavior. In "The Prince," a treatise on the art of politics, the 16th century Italian philosopher Niccolo Machiavelli insisted that compassion got in the way of eminence. If a leader has to choose between being feared or being loved, Machiavelli insisted that the leader should always go with fear. Love is overrated.

That may not be the best advice. Another study conducted by Mr. Keltner and Cameron Anderson, a professor at the Haas School of Business, measured "Machiavellian" tendencies, such as the willingness to spread malicious gossip, in a group of sorority sisters. It turned out that the Machiavellian sorority members were quickly identified by the group and isolated. Nobody liked them, and so they never became powerful.
I feel like every high-functioning sociopath realizes this and either acts genuinely friendly, or is very stealthy about hiding any malicious intentions. It continues:
Now for the bad news, which concerns what happens when all those nice guys actually get in power. While a little compassion might help us climb the social ladder, once we're at the top we end up morphing into a very different kind of beast.

"It's an incredibly consistent effect," Mr. Keltner says. "When you give people power, they basically start acting like fools. They flirt inappropriately, tease in a hostile fashion, and become totally impulsive." Mr. Keltner compares the feeling of power to brain damage, noting that people with lots of authority tend to behave like neurological patients with a damaged orbito-frontal lobe, a brain area that's crucial for empathy and decision-making. Even the most virtuous people can be undone by the corner office.

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Although people almost always know the right thing to do—cheating is wrong—their sense of power makes it easier to rationalize away the ethical lapse. For instance, when the psychologists asked the subjects (in both low- and high-power conditions) how they would judge an individual who drove too fast when late for an appointment, people in the high-power group consistently said it was worse when others committed those crimes than when they did themselves. In other words, the feeling of eminence led people to conclude that they had a good reason for speeding—they're important people, with important things to do—but that everyone else should follow the posted signs.

[E]ven fleeting feelings of power can dramatically change the way people respond to information. Instead of analyzing the strength of the argument, those with authority focus on whether or not the argument confirms what they already believe. If it doesn't, then the facts are conveniently ignored.
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[P]eople in power tend to reliably overestimate their moral virtue, which leads them to stifle oversight.
Hypothesis: neurotypicals are currently in power as a mob/group. They are easily corrupted by that power in ways that make them behave more like sociopaths, but unlike sociopaths they unquestioningly assume that they are always acting for the good of humanity because they are "good people," whereas sociopaths can never do "good" because they are "bad people".

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  1. Wow. This is a loaded blog/article, and it touches on subject matter I've been trying to figure out for two years. But at the end of the day, for the people involved with these men, what made them that way is irrelevant.

    It's time for me to go back to humanity.

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  2. Niccolo Machiavelli insisted that compassion got in the way of eminence. If a leader has to choose between being feared or being loved, Machiavelli insisted that the leader should always go with fear. Love is overrated.

    If I remember my Prince correctly, Machiavelli was referring to leaders who have already gained power, not those who are on their way up. Of course it makes sense to appear friendly, kind and even compassionate on occasion in the pursuit of power. It greases the wheels, so to speak. I think of it as politeness, which I generally try to be IRL. I take pride in my politeness. You are a fool if rudeness is your habitual behavioral pattern. I have seen what happens to people who repeatedly rub others the wrong way. It’s unintelligent. What has worked for me is to treat people well in general while lashing out at those who disrespect me, but only doing so rarely. I discovered that this instills fear without pushing people over into hate. I have only had to lash out verbally a handful of times, spread out over the last 6 years and it has worked like a charm in my work environment. The path of politeness is practical. It works.

    Having said that, I do think there is a place for subterfuge, manipulation and even ruthlessness in one’s quest for greater power, depending on the particulars of the game you are playing. To my way of thinking, one’s strategy has as much to do with one’s abilities and natural temperament as it does anything else. As M.E. implied in another post, playing nice ALL THE TIME is not sustainable, especially for people like myself. It would be like a homosexual trying to convince himself that he’s straight. It just doesn’t work long term. But being an asshole ALL THE TIME is not sustainable either. Better to mix and match your strategy to fit the occasion, being careful to mask the less than savory tactics you employ while subtly airing your socially approved (acts of kindness, decency, and so on) actions. Making a show of moral outrage can also be helpful too.

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    2. VEGITOPATH MADLY IN LOVE WITH MONICA AND UKANSeptember 11, 2013 at 6:34 PM

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  3. One more thing. Going back to the part of the post I quoted, the only time compassion gets in the way is if you really believe in it, for its own sake. Strategic acts of compassion are fine, advisable even. Compassion as a value however, can distort one’s vision. This distortion in turn can lead to maladaptive and ultimately unprofitable actions.

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    1. unless "the meaning of life" is ultimately about more than self interest. The choice to engage in well thought out self sacrifice that ultimately benefits a cause greater than yourself is never undermined by the value of compassion.

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  4. It's long been said, "You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar".

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  5. Daniel, I like your insights and cunning ways. Any chance you would be up to "mentoring" me in my first attempt at ruin and destruction?

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  6. Daniel, I think we were just in a relationship. Did you leave anyone high and dry lately?

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  7. Power doesn't corrupt, power makes you free.

    Weakness is what corrupts. The more weaknesses you have the easier it is to corrupt you. And if you have no power you'll ultimately serve whoever does.

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  8. As far as being nice or mean, there are people who deserve to be treated bad at certain times. It's a matter of who it is, the timing of it, the methods. It is a recognized fact that you cannot be nice to everybody all the time and be respected.

    As for power, most people give power to the people who can handle responsibility. To have power is to have responsibility for and over other peoples lives. It means that if something goes wrong you are to blame because you are the general and they were just following your orders. You have to accept all responsibility for their actions and to have power is to be more of a mentor, parent, or a director, a sort of team leader, but it's not to be a person who has power only to abuse it.

    The way to determine if power will drive a person insane is to give them a drop of power and see how and in which way they smear that drop. If they properly apply this drop then give them another more substantial drop.

    I think empath and sociopath have different capabilities so you cannot put them in charge of the same sort of things. In some situations you'd be better off with the empath in charge as a sociopath just wouldn't be fit for the responsibility in any situation. In other cases the nature of the job makes it difficult for an empath and you might want a sociopath for that.

    It's never one sized fits all as different empaths and different sociopaths have different capabilities.

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  9. As for power, most people give power to the people who can handle responsibility... You have to accept all responsibility for their actions and to have power is to be more of a mentor, parent, or a director, a sort of team leader, but it's not to be a person who has power only to abuse it.

    Really? That’s a moralistic way of stating it. You could say that sometimes power is given to those who appear to be able to handle responsibility. It’s just as often the case that power is given to those who can give a minority but influential constituency what it wants, regardless of how it impacts a majority. Also, you don’t have to accept anything, responsibility (accountability) included. You don’t have to do anything but die. Finally, sometimes and for some people, power isn’t about playing the role of mentor as much as it is about playing tin pot dictator and there are many examples of people “abusing” power.

    The rest of your comments are equally idealistic (read implausible) sounding. The world doesn’t give a damn about our shoulds. It is what it is. The fact is, sometimes people aren’t given power, they take it. They take it because most humans are internally weak, blinded by a combination of emotion and unexamined beliefs and tradition, and just want to live their lives in relative peace, regardless of who is running the show.

    I’m not “correcting” you SL or attempting to start an argument. I was in the mood so I decided to balance your comments out with my own, that’s all.

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    1. It’s just as often the case that power is given to those who can give a minority but influential constituency what it wants, regardless of how it impacts a majority.

      That's why I call them servants. ...

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  10. openminded said, "Daniel, I think we were just in a relationship. Did you leave anyone high and dry lately?"

    Lately, no. ;-)

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  11. People give up their control easily. Their guided by insecurities and dependencies. You use their insecurities to build a emotional dependency upon you, so that their emotionally dependent. Not to mention people with vices as dependencies: Gambling, prostitution, drugs, etc.
    As soon as you start talking to them their telling you just how to exploit them. Death in the family, just got out of a abusive relationship, ran into a inheritance, got cheated on, lost my job, love las vegas, used to be a heroine addict, born again christian, going to meetings, etc......
    Power is easy because you can count on the majority of people to talk aimlessly away about their lives. For those who listen and aim their conversations towards their own goals its easy to figure someone out and get what you want.

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  13. Ukan,
    What's to gain from having someone who lost their job; or someone who is an addict or alcoholic; or someone has a gambling addiction, dependent on you?

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  14. For you obviously nothing

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  15. Can'T believe I haven't said anything stupid here

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  16. Daniel Birdick that is sometimes the case but I think in todays environment with the constant surveillance and the fact that everything someone does is ultimately going to be attributed back to them at some point in time, the way Hilter took power probably wouldn't work in this environment because he wouldn't be able to hide the fact that he is Hitler.

    Morals and ideals have nothing to do with who takes power. It's more that you must appear to have morals and ideals to be "given" power. If you can figure out how to take it or if the people really are that weak then the power was already yours to begin with.

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