Friday, June 29, 2012

Sociopaths in literature: Our lady of pain

This is quoted in Hervey Cleckley's "Mask of Sanity" (available in full here), in reference to a woman who manages to cause pain and destruction wherever she goes without ever seeming touched by it herself:


She hath wasted with fire thine high places,
She hath hidden and marred and made sad
The fair limbs of the Loves, the fair faces
Of gods that were goodly and glad.
She slays, and her hands are not bloody;
She moves as a moon in the wane,
White-robed, and thy raiment is ruddy,
Our Lady of Pain.

A. C. Swinburne
"Dolores"

315 comments:

  1. I see in the "recent comments" updates that someone made a comment to Medusa under my name, but I can't read what the imposter said, because the post doesn't show up under the blog post. Also, my posts got deleted repeatedly yesterday, as did a few others. Something is up. I wonder whether this will get through.

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    1. I told M.E. to delete your comments if they were too long.

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  2. Where are the interesting people?

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    1. Who're the interesting people?

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    2. The most controversial.

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  3. I don't know. Why don't you make yourself interesting, anon?

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  4. Seriously, the load comments button should figure it out.

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  5. Has anyone here read "The Lucifer Effect: How Good People Turn Evil" by Phillip Zimbardo?

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  6. Are sociopaths and narcissists diametrically opposed or do they blend?

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    1. There are some "experts" whom claim that sociopaths represent an extreme on the narcissistic spectrum. A pathological narcissist is deeply concerned with his reputation and the false persona he has come to associate with himself, whereas the sociopath will not care.

      According to popular wisdom purveyed by others on this site, a sociopath is hell-bent upon destruction, manipulation and sadism, whereas a narcissist is anyone who talks about himself at length. :)

      According to the scientific literature, a sociopath or psychopath is a person with shallow affect and low empathy, who is superficially charming and glib, irresponsible and prone to boredom. He is a risk-taker who has a history of conduct disorder and juvenile delinquency. He may be impulsive, manipulative, parasitic, narcissistic, grandiose and arrogant, or any combination thereof, according to a scale designed to measure these traits: the PCL-R being the most widely accepted in the field of psychology.

      A narcissist is someone who will do anything to uphold a grandiose persona that is based upon lies.
      He has an excessive need for admiration and may react with anger and hostility when criticized. People who are narcissistic are frequently described as arrogant, cocky, self-centered, manipulative, demanding and vain.

      According to Wikipedia, symptoms of NPD include, but are not limited to: reacts to criticism with anger, shame, or humiliation; may take advantage of others to reach their own goals; will tend to exaggerate their own importance, achievements, and talents; may imagine unrealistic fantasies of success, beauty, power, intelligence, or romance; Requires constant attention and positive reinforcement from others; easily becomes jealous; lacks empathy and disregards the feelings of others; obsessed with oneself; mainly pursues selfish goals; trouble keeping healthy relationships; is easily hurt and rejected; sets unrealistic goals; wants "the best" of everything; appears as tough-minded or unemotional.

      Because narcissists and sociopaths share many overlapping traits, I think it would be foolish to conclude that they are "diametrically opposed". However, it would be equally fallacious to say that they automatically "blend", because the characteristics they share tend to be ones which aspire antipathy as opposed to mutual co-operation and social integration.

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    2. Ego's going to talk about narcissism. That's amusing.

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    3. They say 1 in 25 people are sociopathic and yet I don't feel like I ever run into them. Why would that be?

      I do spot narcissists though frequently. They can be very annoying but fun to mess with if their grandiose behavior is based on nothing more than their own imagination.

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    4. Same here, maybe because they look like normal people, while narcissists are easy to see.

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    5. I haven't found a narcissist yet I can stand. They are too melodramatic. The worse part is they actually take themselves serious. I like to take life as a big joke.

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    6. What type of people do sociopaths target for their happy fun time in day to day life?

      Can sociopaths recognize someone else like them in day to day life? If so, do they tend to engage them or do they avoid them?

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    7. Depends on a particular sociopaths taste. And any person willing to be controled is a common choice.

      Some can, some can't, everyone is different...

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    8. Kany, it is so nasty, out the whazoo, when you call Alterego, Ego. It makes you look small minded and low class.

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    9. I see psychopathy as a deficiency, I think if a narcissist lost their shame and took themselves less seriously, not caring what others thought of them, became less self-deceived, they would start drifting into psychopathy.

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    10. Narcissists are like psychopaths who still have some of the insecurities and hang-ups of a normal person.

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    11. How does one lose the insecurites and hangups of a normal person so they can be able to freely descend into sociopathy?

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    12. Like you can talk about low class monica. Everyone including yourself thinks your worthless. Your parents were onto something when they devalued you.

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    13. Monica,you are the only person here who doesn't think ego is a complete and total fool because she is blinded by her ego. Her ego is all she is. Its all she has to mark her and it's all she has to identify her.

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    14. She's middle spin now anyways. Don't say her name or she'll come back with another paper on things she doesn't understand.

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    15. Ho Hum. Is that the best you can do?

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    16. Ciara
      You are not fit to kiss Alters feet. One day, you will look in the mirror and see the ugly bitch who looks back for what she is--a loser, ugly bitch married to a low functioning drug addict who most woman would snub their noses at.
      But for now, I am giving you a preview. Live it, learn it, know it and LOVE it.

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    17. We are both attractive and young monica. I saw your picture you looked like life hit you with a wrecking ball. You can wish bad on us all you want but in reality everything in life has gone our way. I don't do drugs. I get people like you with low self esteem and a terrible life to get hooked on them and I spend all their money on frivolous luxuries.

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    18. I enjoy myself, my time, and most of all my family, Monica. They love and respect me. And I don't collect social influences like you say you do. I know I'm wonderful, and I'm fearless to express any of my opinions. I am not polite, I am honest totally to everyone in my life. I wear no masks, and I have no shame, and everyone still loves me. Youre the one who gets to look in the mirror dripping with shame and hiding your face. Your mother doesn't love you, your father doesn't, and no one in your life can know you while you hide everything about yourself deep down in your well of self loathing. And you wallow in it! And you come here to get more of it poured all over you, every day. And then you tell me how unhappy I am with myself. That vengeance only works in movie plots. The real world is much more colorful.

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    19. Kany, all you ever do is come here to crow about how "wonderful" you are. You are the vainest, most narcissistic little tart I have ever met. You know who comes to mind when I think of you? Mimi from that old show, Drew Carrey: a mean, petty, vindictive, conceited pig of a woman.

      True beauty is not skin deep, and you are *ugly* on the inside: all artificial and filled with unwholesome crap. Monica puts you to shame, poptart.

      You drop my name here more often than anyone else. Call me whatever you like. I'll write whatever treatises suit me, when and if I feel like it. Nobody is forcing you to read them.

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    20. Mimi had the best lines on that show. She was one of the funniest characters on there... had the best put downs of anyone. If you didn't find her hilarious, it's because your humor radar is faulty due to your own narcissism.

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    21. Oh, she was humorous alright... And revolting. The crap kanny spouts makes me giggle all the time. One thing I will admit: Mimi had more wit in one pinky than poptart has strewn all across her wasted grey matter. But then again, mimi had the benefit of a talented writer. Kany only has ukan and you to defend her.

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    22. I wasn't defending Mk... I was defending Mimi.

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    23. Perhaps we should start a narcissist bullshit bingo thread. First item on the list: anyone who is not amused by the same things as birdbrain has a "faulty humor radar" because they are a narcissist"~

      You and your little clique of ukanopaths see pathological narcissists everywhere, except when you look in the mirror.

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    24. It's not about my what I find humorous, Alter. Anyone can see that you don't get most types of humor. And you're not funny yourself. You have to attempt some lame mock-up you've tried to steal from someone else's humor.

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    25. I see a pathological narcissist everytime some chump like you walks in here telling everyone that they have all the answers to curing psychopathy if they just made all the choices you made. The right choices. Kabalist magic, non profits, and Jesus. Give me a break. Everything about your life is safe and boring. I've seen a dozen of your kind walk in it's not difficult to figure it out after years of reading and having dialog with people on this blog.

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    26. Now *that* is the funniest thing I've read all day, vulture. Especially considering the fact that you once praised my sense of humor. Now, why don't you do what comes naturally and laugh at someone else's misfortune, you catty little witch? I'll bet even your girliest giggle sounds like a wicked cackle: "skraaw skraaw skraaaaaw!"

      Ravens are nasty, parasite addled creatures that like to feed on roadkill. What an apt description for the persona you have chosen for yourself here.

      Have you started eating the cat rotting away in your closet, vulture?

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    27. Bird brain? Vulture? You sound like my old corny mum.

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    28. You stupid bitch. I was flattering you so you would warm back up to me. And what do ya know? It worked too. I also recall subtly pointing that out not long after. That all you have to do to gain back a narcs favor, is appeal to their ego. I can't believe you fell it. Wait... yes I can. You know who else fell for it? Luke.

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    29. I also turned you against Monica by flattering you, Alter. I made sure I said to Monica, that I knew you would be able to figure out what she really was, seeing as you're really smart. :D Right after that you started changing up your game, and playing detective about who this Monica character really was.

      You brainy bitches are all the same to me. You don't see how much you're being manipulated by me, because you think you're just too smart.

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    30. You didn't turn me against anyone, although you did inform me that Monica represented a whole host of characters, which put me off. I cannot respect cowardice.

      Furthermore, you said that to me in an unsolicited manner, in response to a genuine question, while you were still using Haven to carve out a niche for yourself. You haven't manipulated anyone, birdbrain.

      "You sound like my corny old mom", says the one who narcissistically applies the UK moniker to everything he writes when he is trying to sound clever. Ha!

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    31. "You sound like my corny old mom", says the one who narcissistically applies the UK moniker to everything he writes when he is trying to sound clever. Ha!

      Um, that's my name idiot.

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    32. Seriously, ego, your punchy humor is tiring. Only you think you're clever. Pop tart? Please. We turned that into a pet name. And f I could talk about myself half as much as you, id call my self a narcissist, but the vanity award goes to you, no contest.

      I can kinda see the Mimi analogy... maybe... depending on who I'm talking to I suppose. That can be our next task for themes. TV show characters .

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    33. Ukan kall yourself whatever u want, ukunt. I dont give a krap.

      But I love that you turned Poptart into a pet name! You gotta admit it's better than fishy squish. :P

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  7. What load comments button? I have a "recent comments" section in a right menu bar, which comprises a list of comments that I can theoretically click on. However, doing so does not bring me to the comment itself, but to the blog post it is situated under. So I have to manually peruse the comments and find it. I did, but I can't see the post: it is not showing up, from my perspective.

    So whatever. Go fake Alterego vs. Medusa, lol! :P

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    1. The code could use work.
      Its a load more button when there are over 200 comments.
      I agree though. Hunting for new comments sucks.

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    2. It wasn't too memorable, just a poke at Medusa for fun )

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  8. Pain.

    How romantic ~

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  9. My understanding of 2 sociopaths I know quite well, is that it is not a walk in the park, for them. They hurt, tremendously. Their lives seem to take on a shape which is not their own and they are the servant rather than the master.

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    1. You couldn't tell a psychopath from a paper plate you ditz.

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    2. Ah, young man, you underestimate me.

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    3. No. He really doesn't. Your so-called sociopath friend(s), is probably just another narcissist, like all the others you glue yourself to who show up here.

      You always think you know how wonderful these new characters who show up here are, Monica. Until they are stripped to the bone, and show how gutless, fake, and lost they are.

      Which I find funny. Cuz you always go on about how you hate fake people. I'm starting to think since you always have it ass backwards when it comes to your character judgement of people on here; all those fakers out there, are probably the genuine article. How have you made it to almost 50, being this blind? It's a good thing you got a trust fund to suck on. One where the bank watches your ass for you... or you'd probably be robbed into homelessness based on your wisdom of how people operate.

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    4. In your comment that they "hurt," what do you mean by "hurt?"

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    5. Hi Johnny
      What I mean is that, inside the person is not a sense of peace, but of being very driven and harried.

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    6. Older doesn't mean wiser in your case monica. If you met me in real life I would fuck you over so badly. By the time I was done with you, you would be a broke homeless drug addict. That's the truth.

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    7. UKan
      You are a fucking low functioning sociopath. Someone like M.E. may be able to do it as he is refined and educated. You are a rube and a loser, UKan. Fucking get a reality check.

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    8. Monica, they're right. You're delusional. I'm kinda getting over you for your fear and delusions. You don't have any interest in learning what you have to, you just want to learn what you want to to perpetuate things in your life the same way. I don't like you enough to have patience for you. I tried, really. Now you can go fuck yourself and not say a damn thing to anyone about your idiotic opinions of anything. Congregate with the entering narcissists and be the only fool among them that doesn't run in shame when they're brought to light.

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    9. I'm a winner, monica, and its because I don't believe I can lose. You are the loser here. Playing wet nurse to lunatics. Wow. You really made it far in life. Everything about you scream failure. Everything about you proves that you aren't good enough.

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    10. Ho Hum Ukan
      I have to go out for dinner, now. See you when I get back. Toodles.

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    11. Monica, you have no sense of genuineness. Anything genuine slips by you and everything fake gets soaked up. And you call them beliefs, but their just truths you won't see, and lies you bury yourself in.

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    12. Ha... Monica, you're starting to sound like David. :D

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    13. Monica we can have a foursome. Me and kanney with you and your mum. What do you think? I am curious because I want to build a mental image here for everyone. Did she call you worthless while she was making you go down on her, or was it after everything was over?

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    14. Why does Monica use this site as her daily therapy?

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    15. I am a high functioning sociopath. Drug dealing does not make me a low functioning sociopath. Putting heroin and a knife up my ass does not make me a low functioning sociopath. What the fuck is wrong with you? Wake up and see what is real in life. I am a fucking winner, you asshole.

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    16. I'm starting to think since you always have it ass backwards when it comes to your character judgement of people

      Monica, this is fact. Recently it occurred to me that you could actually turn it to advantage if you can come to accept it. If you immediately think someone is wise, has really special qualities etc, just tell yourself this is your internal people compass pointing to south, not north. It's like you have no natural survival instincts when it comes to people.

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    17. I'm also starting to wonder how much of the account she makes of her mother, is reality based. When I listen to her compare herself to her mother, this is what I read:

      "My mother abused me because she was jealous of how special I am. I was always popular, smart, strong, gracious... basically an angel trapped on earth. And my mother was the total opposite of all of those qualities." She fails though when she slips up, and tells us that if she is not the leader in every group, she walks away from it. Sound like something a spoiled brat might say? If she is not the one in control... she's just going to take her fucking ball and go HOME!

      Does that not sound narcissistic as hell? She can't bear to attribute one good quality to her mother, but she paints herself as someone who's only flaw, is that she fell for her mother's lies, and became frozen.

      Sounds like a load of crap to me. And the more I see how off she is on her character assessment of the people here... the more I have to think that she is not really qualified to give an account about her mother at all.

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    18. She fails though when she slips up, and tells us that if she is not the leader in every group, she walks away from it.

      Funny you should say that. She has called herself CEO of SW a few times recently. And this place really has mostly become MonicaWorld.

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    19. You must not have been here when she first came here, then. Just the other day she was bragging about how she took this blog to over 300 comments. The thing about that is, 65% of the comments were hers.

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    20. This is the thing about me, Ell. I am not going to follow a low functioning sociopath and his idiot wife. There is no way that I am going to be part of a pack with those two idiots, whom I can't respect, as leaders. If Eden is a follower, so be it. I don't care, but I am not a follower of anyone.

      I am trying to out who I am. I want my own voice, my own sense of humor, my own values and my own sense of self.

      God did not make me to be in a pack with idiots like UKan and Kany as leaders.

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    21. This isn't about SW, Monica. You said if you are not the leader of "every" group. We are talking about your need to be in the one who's controlling every group you've been in, in real life. Stop making it about SW, or UKan... or even me. This is about who you claim to be when you're not on the computer... and your claim is: You MUST be the leader of every group you're in... or you walk away.

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    22. You are a follower of any idiot that gives you sympathy. Your mum probably didn't molest you at all monica or you wouldn't come here begging for me to abuse you with it everyday and turn around licking my hand after if I say anything that has to do with your mum being a cunt.

      "Thank you UKan for your kind words!" You said that after over a year of me making fun of you for your mum devaluing you and sexually abusing you, just because I said if it was my mum she wouldn't be breathing. ha ha ha. You rodent. You just want sympathy here and you will do anything to get it. Including dishonoring your father and your mother who worked hard to raise you.

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    23. I also love how you keep trying to paint me as some kind of follower, just because I get along with UKan, and his wife. Why is that Monica? Why this desperate need to see me as someone who has no mind of her own?
      Why are you always trying to make me out to be the opposite of what I am?

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    24. I am trying to out who I am. I want my own voice, my own sense of humor, my own values and my own sense of self.

      Well, yeah. You certainly do seem to be developing a bit more backbone of late, Monica. The people radar shows a little sign of improvement too. Towards the end there you actually contradicted jose a couple of times.

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    25. Why are you always trying to make me out to be the opposite of what I am?

      I think envy or jealousy is a big part of it. She recently sniped about you being 'favored' here. You are strong and resilient where she is weak and confused. She can't stand it that your abuse didn't crush you. So she has to look for constant reasons to devalue you.

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    26. Eden
      Kany treats you like a dog and you suck her toes. It is pathetic. No self respecting person would follow someone who is nasty to everyone and turns on her own followers, as well. It is sick, Eden.

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    27. "She recently sniped about you being 'favored' here."

      She did? When did she do that?

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    28. The follower thing is getting old. Everyone who has a large group of people telling them the same thing just jumps on that instead of believing that they just might...just maybe...just could be wrong. I find it funny coming from her when she claims we all turn on each other the minute we don't have someone to pick on. Doesn't sound like followers to me. My followers in real life are very loyal.

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    29. Treats her like a dog? Ha ha ha. Kany is timid around her.

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    30. Honestly, I don't hold bad feelings to Eden but I have no desire to emulate her, at all. I want to have my own voice. It is no more complicated than that.
      I don't want to put down anyone, not Ukan or Kany or anyone else. They attack me and I fight back and let them know they will pay, if they attack me, but my goal is purely a personal one for my own individuality.

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    31. Describe to me in full how she treats me like a dog. And then when you're done with that... describe to me in full how I suck her toes.

      I'd love to hear more of your realistic view about what goes on around here.

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    32. Did you snipe at me for being "favored" around here, Monica? I don't know... I think there's some truth to what Ell is saying. Especially considering that you started calling her "Ell", after I did.

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    33. "She recently sniped about you being 'favored' here."
      She did? When did she do that?


      One of her more recent anon rants about you. I can't recall closely enough to pinpoint a date, but it stood out as an 'aha' statement to me.

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    34. LOL ELL
      Ok, Eden, Kany treats you like shit. She analyzed you and then made cracks like you were a pervert or something and you ate it up. You suck up to her like a servile dog, on the Forum. WHY? She is a nasty, low quality person. WHY? Why would you align yourself with that? Are people afraid UKan will attack them? UKan is outed, now. We know his name and where he lives. He is impotent, on here. He can't hurt anyone. Why do people suck up to him? I may have low self esteem, but it is not that fucking low to suck up to those two.

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    35. Ukan is a fuckin putz.

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    36. Totally, Finger

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    37. This is just weird. I don't see Raven grovel to Missus K at all. I see her subtly toying with her.

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    38. Nope
      You have not been here that long. Kany came in and tried to force people to submit. Medusa wouldn't. I wouldn't, but Eden did, and still does.

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    39. And, Monica, you are the only person who believes UKan and the Mrs are James and Ciara. That's because your perceptions are so profoundly clouded.

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    40. For me, I don't want to follow anyone and don't care to be in any group. I just want to find my individual voice.

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    41. I would say the Ukan is a socio for sure, check out the fucked up logic, here is what he wrote:

      You said that after over a year of me making fun of you for your mum devaluing you and sexually abusing you, just because I said if it was my mum she wouldn't be breathing. ha ha ha. You rodent. You just want sympathy here and you will do anything to get it. Including dishonoring your father and your mother who worked hard to raise you.

      The last sentence here doesn't logically "jive" with what he says before it. What a fucking loser. An idiot. A fucking freak. I would waste you, just for the world have one less socio worthless birth defected fuckup.

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    42. I've been following the blog since last August, Monica. I just didn't start posting until the last few months.

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    43. They ARE but I don't care, either, unless UKan messes with me, or other people for whom I care such as Alterego, for one. Then, I can't stand by and let him bully people.

      They are James and Ciara. That will stop them from going too far which was a divine gift found again, by UKan being an asshole to one too many people.

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    44. I don't want to follow anyone and don't care to be in any group. I just want to find my individual voice.
      No. By your own words you've told us that you want to lead any group and for them all to speak with one voice: Yours.

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    45. You wouldn't do anything if you saw me. You would cross the street and walk fast hoping I would leave you alone.

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    46. Ell
      You can use your own sense. You are smart.

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    47. That is not what happened Monica. You fucking lie to yourself over and over again, when it comes to me.

      Yes Mk called me a pervert. Is she wrong? No. She called me a sexual predator, and that's when I drew a line. I suppose you've missed all the times she said she was wrong to have called me a sexual predator, right? That's because you only see what supports your self deception.

      I have never submitted to anyone on this blog. That is the lie you tell yourself every day because you need to see me that way. You need me to be beneath you to make it all better. You want me to be weak because you can't stand the thought of some poor, white trash girl, with no education, coming from the shit life I've had... showing you up in both mind, and in strength.

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    48. I have been messing with you and Falter you little twat. Why don't you retaliate. Send James and Ciara a message by emailing all their relatives and tell them that James is a drug dealer. You are just a victim. You wouldn't dare lift a finger to me because you know your place don't you? You little whore. Coming on here pretending your mum molested you to get sympathy from people is just pathetic monica.

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    49. No Ell


      SW has mainly people who share and that is a group of equals with no leader. We are all equals and we all have a voice. Then, there is Ukan amd Kany trying to get people to submit to them. I won't submit to that.

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    50. LOL UKan
      I could retaliate if I am pushed too far. I hope I don't have to, as I don't like to, but if I am pushed too far, I will.

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    51. Do it Monica. Since you're so convinced those two people are UKan and Mk. I dare you to. You only show more and more how fucking delusional you are, even though every person here has told you what a fool you are, to still believe it.

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    52. UKan said...
      You wouldn't do anything if you saw me. You would cross the street and walk fast hoping I would leave you alone.


      mullet?

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    53. I fucking love mullets! I used to take pictures of people with mullets, saying I was going to make up a whole calender with mullets as the theme.

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    54. SW has mainly people who share and that is a group of equals with no leader

      What I constantly see is you deciding whose voice has value and whose doesn't. You pleaded with Medusa not to tear Jose down after some had started going after him. You want to control what is said here. You also change your mind regularly as to who you value and who you don't.

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    55. Really? You stood by and watched all your little friends here get crushed. You've let me humiliate you over and over and over again. You've let me blackmail people that you were cheering on. The truth is you are scared of me. That's why you won't do anything.

      What is too far monica? How many fingers did your mum shove up you before you gave a little squeak? Is that what you do when it's too far? You squeak? Or did you moan? Let me ask you a question, Monica. Did you ever reach an orgasm with your mother? Is that what made you feel shameful? That you loved every minute of it? Did she ever taste you? What did it feel like when she grabbed you by the hair and shoved you between your legs?

      Or is it all in your imagination. This obsession you have with sociopaths is interesting. You come here to bare it all to me it's just bollocks. No sex abuse victim would take this much shite and stay here. You made this story up. Maybe you even have a fantasy of licking your mothers cunt and getting her off. You do don't you? You fantasize about your mother sticking her finger in ya and wiggling them around.

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    56. mullet?

      I forgot about mullets. Brilliant. Nothing says bad ass like a fucking mullet.

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    57. I do not want to go through that shit we went through before with James and Ciara, Eden. I don't think you are white trash unless you act like it. White trash is not where you came from. It is how you act. I don't see how anyone cam follow UKan or Kany when they are the lowest ones on here.

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    58. I fucking love mullets! I used to take pictures of people with mullets, saying I was going to make up a whole calender with mullets as the theme.

      lol.

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    59. Anyhoo
      Forget all this shit. Lets party.

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    60. Want to go down memory lane on old posters? Remember Frank?

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    61. You are the lowest one on here monica. A worthless piece of rubbish just like your mum thought you were. Worthless. Scared. Pathetic. I bet you walk the streets trying to get raped, but nobody will touch that dirty cunt of yours.

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    62. yah they work if you're under 50 and want to sell drugs to kiddies. but nothing says ass like a middle aged mullet.

      okay comb over is worse. or maybe comb over with a mullet? hmm have to google that. be back later with a pic maybe...

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    63. No one is following them. Why can't you get that through your fat fucking head?? Seriously. Why can't you learn, bitch? You make me want to knock you in the head with a hurry-up-and-learn-something stick!

      I've never met someone so delusional in quite the way you are. I have to say, I'm kind of insulting my sister when I compare you to her.

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    64. LOL UKan

      Frank was real. Zoe. He was very angry at life, you could say.

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    65. ooh it even has it's own name... mullet over

      still looking for a pic...

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    66. I want to have fun. Anyone want to play a game?

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    67. eeeeek skullet!!!!

      Eden you simply must do a skullet calendar

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    68. Ukan is the lowest grime of the earth, meant for nothing more than to be stomped on and crushed into a slimy, filthy pungent liquid, exactly the same as the garbage juice that drips from garbage trucks making rounds clearing up the shit. Such garbage is not really alive at all. Ukan, when is the last time you were every HAPPY? Probably never, because you can't feel happiness, sucker.

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    69. i'll play in an hour.


      life calls

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    70. The real story of monica and her mum.

      Monica was a little trollip brat who despised her mother for trying to push her to be successful instead of the failure she is today.

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    71. I feel happy right now. Pissing you off.

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    72. when was the last time you were happy finger?

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    73. I don't think you are white trash unless you act like it.

      In other words: I will decide if you are or are not white trash based upon how I judge your actions

      Again your need to control and define everyone.

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    74. How is UKan like a mullet?

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    75. Frank was real. Zoe. He was very angry at life, you could say.

      You are such a sucker.

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    76. Da mullet connection:

      UKan said he was so scary you'd want to cross the street if you saw him coming. I find mullets scary so...

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    77. Frank had a terrible hatred of woman. He called woman cunts and whores.

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    78. But who else was there in SW history you liked?

      The sexiest---Lycan
      The most stupid---Frank

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    79. "I feel happy right now. Pissing you off."

      Wrong. You don't. Feel irritated, and angry at getting kicked the fuck due to your fucked up self, and al the people who hate you for good reason.


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    80. I haven't read all of this, but what I got to I totally agree with. I was starting to try to ask Monica questions and lead her a bit. I get the impression she was never molested, and that her mom is just very feminine, and kind of cheer leaderish, and always wanted Monica to follow in that natural direction. Which Monica took spitefully and now blames all of her problems on her mother so she doesn't have to take responsibility for herself and who she is. She tries to be perfect so she's flat and dull. Then she comes on here saying how great she is, and taking a moral high ground so she doesn't have to have any opinions or believe in anything, and she won't change because all she really is is a big baby. And then she calls us all mean and vicious. I wonder if she hangs around narcissists just so she can feel even more special and superior by her humility. How contradictory, to feel superior by your level of humility.

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    81. Lets take the word MULLET and make adjectives for UKan

      M---Moron
      U---urine smelling
      L--loser
      L--liar
      E--enuresis
      T---transgender

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    82. How contradictory, to feel superior by your level of humility.

      Ah, yes. And I do believe there is a name for that.

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    83. Ukan is a flying putz. Never HAPPY, always jealous of people that are COOL, while he is a pug-faced pile of shit who wants attention, because everyone in his real life ignores him because they hate the ass-ugly geek fuck that he is.

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    84. Lol. I got a little further.
      I made people submit to me?? Lol. I came in, did what I could to establish myself, and shook things up. Nothing more. My theme song as themes loves to reiterate is "you ain't done nothing" or something. Lol! I pproached raven on what I thought was a weakness, and she deflected... because it wasn't. And we've come to get along. And she does bat me around. I just told her not two days ago she makes me timid and I find her hazardous. Is that all part of my game? Lol.
      And if that was me you were talking about in regards to sniping at ravens popularity, I don't recall the moment. I may have mused as to the flack she gets, of late, but I wasn't underhanded. And I have a no anonymous policy... period. So I think I may have confused the subject, or you guys did.

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    85. Dr Franklin Fomentile PhDJune 29, 2012 at 5:52 PM

      UKan---get a grip
      All of youse. Be nice, now.

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    86. That's it isn't it monica? You never were molested. You blamed your mother for your failures in life. You pathetic little whore. She raised you. She cared for you and all she wanted from you was for you to be a winner. What did you give in return? You came on some blog and smeared her name. Smeared your fathers name. You are the low life here. Not me.

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    87. Eric F Fomentile PhdJune 29, 2012 at 5:53 PM

      Franklin
      Mom's calling. Come home for dinner. Damn you

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    88. What the fuck you bringing me up for, UKan? Fuck you, you sniveling little pussy. Don't say I am not smart. I ought to come and beat your ass, you punk.

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    89. Lol. This is a priceless thread. Its like trying to explain politics to a toddler, who already says they get it. I don't know how anyone can be so off the mark at everything. Monica, when you realise that your mother was doing the best she could, and that she really is a decent person, you might, just may be able to move on with your life and grow up. I tried to help, but like I said, you're too delusional for my patience level.

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    90. Inverted Narcissist

      "Also called "covert narcissist", this is a co-dependent who depends exclusively on narcissists (narcissist-co-dependent)

      To "qualify" as an inverted narcissist, you must CRAVE to be in a relationship with a narcissist, regardless of any abuse inflicted on you by him/her. You must ACTIVELY seek relationships with narcissists and ONLY with narcissists, no matter what your (bitter and traumatic) past experience has been. You must feel EMPTY and UNHAPPY in relationships with ANY OTHER kind of person."


      Every narcissist who comes in here, you idolize, Monica. You're not just co-dependent/ptsd. You're an inverted narcissist. You are a perversion of your mother's mirror image. Your only hope is to start facing the truth about yourself. I say this out of regard for your well being, Monica.

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    91. Ukan
      I will come to your house, fuck your woman( holding my nose) and eat your food.

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    92. No, Ell was saying that Monica was sniping under anonymous, about how I'm "favored" at SW. Not you Mk. Have you been smoking crack lately? You keep reading shit wrong lately. Like the dead car thing. :D

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    93. Lol. I know, right?! I've got to start meditating or giving myself something to focus on to get this add in check!

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    94. I am going to fuck Ukan in the ass with a strap on.

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    95. Which is why she assumes I'm always sniping at her as anonymous. She does it herself. She splits herself up into many, so that she can bear to attack as a whole.

      It actually irritates me now, when anonymous people cheer me on just to keep the pot stirred. All that's ever done is help her to continue to believe her own lies about me, because she thinks I'm the one behind them.

      Ell, you are genius. I'm glad you found that inverted narcissist definition. It cements everything being said here.

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    96. She splits herself up into many, so that she can bear to attack as a whole.

      Exactly. If she can't lead the group and make it speak with her one true voice, she will create the group herself.

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    97. The anons are always more hindrance than help. That's why I have a no anon policy.

      I like when she fucks up, like when she responds to a comment you make to an anon as Monica, and such. Or vice versa. You tell the Monica she's bollocks and an anon responds in the first person.

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    98. Dr Franklin F FomentileJune 29, 2012 at 6:22 PM

      Everyone stop this. Ukan, Frank, Eden and the rest of you. Lets remember we are in the family of man. OK? Does anyone have any last words before we end this for the night? Does anyone want to throw a last "Fuck you" ? Ukan? Frank? Anyone?

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    99. Monica is ungrateful to her mother who raised her. All she cares about is sympathy. That's her one and only goal. She wants everyone to give her an excuse for failing in life and demonizes her mother for trying to push her forward. I can only imagine her as the worse failure of a daughter you could ever have.

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    100. Dr Franklin F Fomentile PhdJune 29, 2012 at 6:26 PM

      Ok UKan
      You had your say. Anyone else? Frank, do you care to say anything here?

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    101. "Eden you simply must do a skullet calendar"

      That is a very clever idea.

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    102. No Doc
      I said it all.

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    103. Accusing your mother of molesting you is a pretty serious charge Monica. Is this really true that you faked it all this time?

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    104. Dr Franklin F Fomentile PhdJune 29, 2012 at 6:29 PM

      Eden, Missus K? Any other comments?

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    105. Shutup monica all of your fake characters won't bury the truth. You are trying to distract the conversation because you know that we hit it right on the nail.

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    106. No kidding. Imagine the misery her mother must feel from the blame she gets for "humiliating" her daughter when in reality its her own daughters inability to take responsibility for any of her decisions and her actions.
      In this world you must choose what you value... ambition, or kindness, strength or humility, grace or passion, faithful, or rational. Monica chose docility, grace, and appeasement, and it hasn't worked how she wanted it to, so now she blames her mother for making other choices. You have no responsibility for your life so instead your a control freak.
      You are worthless Monica. You chose wrong. You're too black and white, childlike, blind and foolish.

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    107. "If she can't lead the group and make it speak with her one true voice, she will create the group herself."

      Ohhhhh yeah baby. Have I told you yet how awesome you are? ;)

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    108. Dr Franklin F Fomentile PhdJune 29, 2012 at 6:32 PM

      I will be back, tomorrow, to see how you all are doing. Good Evening.

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    109. No kidding. Imagine the misery her mother must feel from the blame she gets for "humiliating" her daughter when in reality its her own daughters inability to take responsibility for any of her decisions and her actions.


      She talks about people in here being awful. Well how awful of a person do you have to be to hate your own mother and spew vile accusations about her. She's called her mother a sexual predator and a sadist bent on destroying her own daughter. The reality is that Monica is the one out for destruction of her own mother, and for what? So people here feel sorry for her instead of calling her out on her poor choices in life and total failure in personal growth. To think she was trying to tell us about self actualization. What a joke.

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    110. Accusing your mother of molesting you is a pretty serious charge Monica. Is this really true that you faked it all this time

      I'm wondering now too. Narcissists do create a fiction out of their reality and believe it. I'd guess an inverted narc would create a grandiose tale of victimhood for the same ends.

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    111. Dr Franklin F Fomentile PhdJune 29, 2012 6:32 PM
      "I will be back, tomorrow, to see how you all are doing. Good Evening."


      Okay Monica. Toodles. We will still be here tomorrow, and every day after that, ready to put the real truth in your face.

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    112. Ohhhhh yeah baby. Have I told you yet how awesome you are? ;)

      kiss kiss ;)

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    113. This is like her fake dead son thing. After making fun of her supposed dead son she turned around and started saying she liked me. Who does that with a REAL dead son? Nobody. Nobody would stand by and let someone talk about their dead son like that and like the person.

      Nobody would be back and forth about whether they liked someone when they consistently torment them about sexual abuse they suffered unless it was a fake story. She wants me to make fun of her so that others around her like Falter Ego (Who supposedly has little empathy) will feel sorry for her and try to defend her.

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    1. Themes, we have a freelance request from you. Sociopath world TV characters. :-)

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    2. Themes for SW RegularsJune 29, 2012 at 6:38 PM

      Kany
      Themes does not watch TV.

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  11. Obviously, this is supposed to be your idea of a reflection of yourself. Sure, you might ME a fine bitch, and have the world at your feet fighting over you, but so what? It seems you ain't a hollywood celebrity, or a super model, so you are dreaming mostly. Fuck You And Your Momma Too!

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  12. Yay! Fingerfuck found the spell checker!

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  13. I like to fingerfuck myself ;)

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    1. Sound like you could use a hand.

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  14. UKan Be PerspicacousJune 29, 2012 at 11:01 AM

    I can tell a psychopath or a sociopath from two feet away. They have an air about them of confidence and as if they own the place.

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    1. Believe it or not people have said that here more than once.

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  15. Whatever happened to that insufferable, melodramatic cunt Plumbo from the forums?

    Her posts were amusing and pathetic.

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    1. Where did you leave off?

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    2. when she told Raven "I'll be your bestest friend ever. I hate you and yet I like you"

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    3. Go to the forums and look up plumbo in the search bar.

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  16. SOCIOPATH THEME SONG

    Voltaire - When You're Evil

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  17. Since atheists have come out of the closet and have turned america upside down (in a good way) is it now time for sociopaths to follow suit? Maybe obama will support sociopath rights since he has pandered to every other minority.

    Discuss

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  18. Blast from the Past
    Happy Friday Everyone!
    Theme Song for the Anons

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  19. Blast from the Past
    Theme Song for Daniel Birdick

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  20. So after barely dipping my toe into this fascinating subculture you all have thriving here. I must ask. What possibly possessed you, Monica, to expose yourself and your traumatic childhood (if we assume it's true) to quite literally a room chock full of sociopaths chomping at the bit to rip you to pieces? Seriously. How did that possibly seem like a good idea?

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    1. Because I could not run anymore. I had to come to the source.

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    2. That sounds like a very cryptic, very useless statement that you are fully aware will not make sense to me.

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    3. Because she wants us to abuse her with it so the audience will feel sympathy for her.

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    4. Seems like such a depressing waste of time. To each his own I suppose.

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    5. Some people thrive off sympathy. It's fine with me because I love to abuse people.

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    6. I wonder if Monica is as at peace with this seemingly symbiotic relationship. Do tell...

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    7. Because from the ashes of destruction comes rebirth. :-)
      And don't discourage her too much. She still has to give us more if she wants any of her torture to actually be helpful to her.

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