Tuesday, April 17, 2012

On cheating

A sociopathic reader wrote on various topics that I may feature from time to time.  This one was regarding cheating:


Love can be a profoundly intellectual marvel. It is not possible to be barren here, unless you have no values whatsoever. Anyone can recognize that a human is copacetic, pleasant, and that he or she contributes to your pleasure. Anyone can love. My real dilemma is settling down and staying hooked.


I've tried to propose open relationships, and, for a time, did everything I could to avoid the “girlfriend” label, but people are fairly predictable, and, since I do aspire to have a few of them like me, they tend to choke on that toxin.    


I don't get why I have to stay with one man or woman. Even if I love him or her to death, I hunger for more, if only to make them interesting again in terms of how I feel.


It's easier now then it used to be. Before I came to concede that I was never going to connect with another emotionally, I'd get irate when I could not, and would leave for another in the pursuit of fresh passion. Presently, sex is casual, and I don't expect to be wrapped up in the ones I am with. When I decide to cheat, as they put it, it's because I am searching for an absorbing way to pass the hours, and exploring is an effective method of occupying my attention. It's never an insult against the others, and I wish I could kill their jealousy.


In the meantime, I hold that I am entitled to my privacy, and it's nobody's business who else shares a bed with me – not even the business of those already in it. 

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  1. I agree with how hard it is for people like us not to cheat. We're as diverse as a group as any other, so we all might have different reasons for doing it. However, I do think there's more going on than just feeling the urge for entertainment - and that it's one of several reasons.

    For instance, for myself I think it's to do with:
    1) Boredom
    2) No sense of my true self when I'm around other people - the absorption of others personalities makes me become attracted to them.
    3) Impulsivity - "Is this a good idea? I'm pretty sure it's a good idea."
    4) Lack of guilt to stop me.

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  2. Spot on.

    I've found this so difficult to explain to my partner, and this article and the comment above really nail it.

    I don't feel it's none of my partner's business though, particularly. More like - it's likely to happen, although I don't go out of my way to look for it, but why on earth would you want details?

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  3. This is so very funny to me. The only time I proposed an open relationship to a partner was when I was with a sociopath. He pretty much begged for it. He wasn't happy. Pretty sure that was us mirroring each other ad backfiring. Drama. Lies from my lips.

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  4. Well, he was more mal narc than socio, according to my observations of the terminology floating around.

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  5. Question for any normal men. Any of you guys ever have a woman you were in an exclusive relationship tell you to please use a condom if you decide to stray? If so what were you thinking?

    Did any of you think she was giving you permission? Did any think she was a cheater? Did any think she was being considerate? Or did any simply think she was just making sure she didn't contract any std from you?

    Same question for the socios here.

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    1. Permission, no. Was she a Nt or a socio? She's probably been cheated on in the past and was expecting you to treat her the same. It may have been a last ditch effort to save her body from an std.

      As and Sp, I've done it to my male partners. Just to mess with them. So I can gauge how loyal they are to me.

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    2. What pd do you consider yourself?

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  6. Forget it I realy don't care. Gn.

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  7. There is no guy who is great enough that I will let him cheat on me. I don't have the emotional make-up to take cheating if I love someone.

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    1. (I'm the guy who made the first comment)

      For me, and I guess for most people like me, being cheated on comes down to a cost-benefit thing. If the person is good enough in every other way I can ignore indiscretions.

      I have cheated very few times in my life, but when I do it is because of what I listed above. More often I end things because the relationship has out-lived it's shelf for me if it has come to the point where the benefits of cheating have come to outweigh the costs (loss of a positive opinion of me, maintaining control of my environment - too many people makes things messy).

      People often ask me when they see an ex of mine with someone else "Doesn't that bother you?" My response is "Why would it? I am not with them, we no longer belong to each other." They havn't really come to grips with who I am and I doubt they even have an inkling even when I say such things. Jealousy does not exist for me.

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    2. When I see someone with an ex I immediately feel what is going on with them. I look at them and can pretty much predict the outcome. I don't feel jealousy as much as a melancholy and a secret notion I'm glad that scenario is not mine.

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  8. Julian
    I don't understand that. I really don't.

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    1. I can understand that. That's one of the frustrations of being this way. Ultimate pragmatism and complete compartmentalisation. It makes it difficult to get people to understand (especially when you're also trying to cover just how bad you really are), but also it makes it hard to really understand more normal people's actions.

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    2. Maybe I am trying to cover how bad I really am. That is why I am addicted to SW. This is the only place you don't have to.

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    3. wtf Monica? R you a sociopath now?

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    4. No way am I a sociopath but I do admire many qualities in HIGH FUNCTIONING sociopaths he he

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    5. I don't tell but I had a long term marriage. You can guess to yourself, not that I am gonna answer.

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    6. I am generally curious of age v.s maturity on here... close enough. haha

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  9. "In the meantime, I hold that I am entitled to my privacy, and it's nobody's business who else shares a bed with me – not even the business of those already in it."

    Until you get the phone call about the HPV you have been spreading...

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    1. if it's not anyone's business, would you tell one of them about another? Admit to it?

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  10. I love this article. For me its about getting my needs met. When I choose a relationship, its because of a certain set of needs it accommodates. Then, it graduates into, what else do I need? I never feel guilt. Everyone uses everyone. The people I'm with are with me because I'm providing something for them. Even with love, its just a barter system. As soon as I no longer feed them what they want, my reason for being in their life has dwindled. My needs are blameless. My partners are blameless. Because no one can ever meet all of your needs, empathic or not. I fail to see the "sanctity" in relationships that are based in self-benefit. Show me someone loyal to my needs, aside their own, and I will become the most devoted, attentive lover. I do a lot of mirroring like that. I'm only as good as the people I'm around. Somedays I'm like a little walking Justice System.

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    1. That is very honest, Grey.

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    2. I'm exactly like you about this. I thought all people were like that. That is the way love works, I thought. That isn't it? I mean 'normal?' I'm being very serious.

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    3. I think a person has to accept himself which I don't but I think that after that, you are supposed to have sacrificial love with a person.

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    4. That is the way it is Anon 747.. most delude themselves and think there is more to it. Just look at divorce rates.

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    5. What is sacrificial love?

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    6. Sacrificial love is when you treat someone with love even though you don't FEEL it. Marriage Encounter(which is a program put on by the Catholic Church even though I don't believe in their teachings but that is another story :P) says that love is a decision, not a feeling. This would be along the lines of agape love.

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    7. I do that. It feels like a lie. And when I see a man do it to me, I feel they are giving me lip service (don't joke, sexaholics).

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    8. Yes, sacrificial love is strange lol

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    9. I had to go to one of those meetings, Monica, a very long time ago. There was a question: "what do you expect from this relationship" I put down "nothing". My partner wrote a long flowery speech.

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    10. Also wrote something s about leave me alone and I'll leave you alone -independence stuff. It was not marriagy.

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    11. Anon 9:24

      How do you come to find yourself on SW?

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    12. A Buddhist nun once spoke to me about this notion of treating those we do not like with love. She spoke of it in terms of growth towards transcending our limitations and enlightenment, not some kind of sacrifice. Sacrifice, to me, implies some kind of loss.

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    13. I feel this. It is melancholy.

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    14. Why Anon? I am just trying to put your question into some larger context about who you are and why you would be asking?

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    15. I have many questions about existentialism and pragmatism and all things which contradict my core needs. I am caught in between things. I want to rid myself of needs and I want them met. I am bored. I hate myself, I love myself, I hate the world I love the world, I am gravitate to whatever is making me feel good at the moment in time. People have lives and I have only myself. I do not do drugs and I try not to mooch off others. I try to do the right things, though I know how easy it is for a person like me to get whatever it is she wants from anyone. I don't want that. I have always thought how easy it is for me to be evil and parasitic. I don't like the idea though. I just want to be rid of my head. It does not stop circling. I like to talk to people who have no circling. Maybe this is the wrong place??

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    16. I do not know who I am.

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    17. Also I want to love myself and I do not do it.

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    18. It is the right place, Anon or as right a place as one can find. One can talk from the heart here. Some people do. Others are just jerks but you will see the difference if you stick around. I hope you do!

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    19. I have to go now though. Thank you.

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    20. @ Anon
      Meditation, yoga, and similar pursuits work well to combat that mental circling

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    21. @Elicious
      I think the Buddhist teaching is that our enemies
      have more to teach us than those we love and this is
      why we are to bless them for coming into our lives.
      Hard to do.

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    22. @Elicious
      And I agree with you on the sacrifice issue.

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    23. Yes, very hard to do. I imagine it is difficult even for those with temperaments more suited to that outlook.

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    24. I think the only way to heal is through crying.

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    25. ^Even, Mother Theresa stated that the hardest part of
      her sacrifice was attending to the poorest of poor that cursed her when she was helping them.

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    26. Perhaps there are many roads that lead to similar (or the same) places. Some need a specific path, for others any road will do as long as they keep moving forward

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    27. You have to study the different forms of love using the Greek Words--philio, eros, agape and one I forgot, I think.

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    28. @Elicious
      The hardest part for me is the Buddhist teaching on
      non attachment. It's a struggle but rewarding, also.

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    29. UH! So much profound dialogue I missed out on. Damn work!
      Anyways- Monica, thank you for explaining sacrificial love. I had an entirely different concept of it.
      There are so many different levels to this conversation, I can't address them all. I can relate to much of it though. After reading all of this, my idea of "love" has expanded, significantly. There seems to be multiple types? Which was a foreign concept until recently. I think I'm still assembling experiences with it, honestly. I know that I set my standards high, but my expectations low in my contact with all people. (and I, don't always meet my own standards) But I've tried to stop punishing people for being people, by actively avoiding them. I understand enough about human nature to expect certain things. At this rate, I'm indifferent because I have nothing to lose. Which is nice. Should I allow myself to be put in a disadvantage ever, I could expect some ugly outcomes. I would hope, "normal" people, when they love, could walk away, when they get disappointed. Isn't that the healthy thing? My flaw, is that when one of my lines get crossed, I insidiously destroy, and I can't leave until the other person is devastated. I would think a smarter person would leave? Cut their losses and call it a day? I don't know if that is how neurotypicals act.. I would hope that's not normal. My love is very conditional. I laughed when I read "sacrificial love" because it practically takes a human sacrifice for me to love! lol Sure, you could say that I'm operating defensively. I am. "Safety" needs must be met, or there is no point in going forward with anything. I make people earn me. Its what keeps me from annihilating them.

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    30. @ Elicious- Can you tell me more about how Zen/meditation with this? I'm intrigued.

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    31. it practically takes a human sacrifice for me to love! lol Sure, you could say that I'm operating defensively. I am. "Safety" needs must be met, or there is no point in going forward with anything. I make people earn me. Its what keeps me from annihilating them.

      Trust issues? I do that. I test and test and teat till they're : "you're a tester is what you are!" Then I may or may not let them earn me. I will leave one foot out the door till they sacrifice a child - the first born baby from their loins, i make them give to me. With an apple in her little baby mouth and umbilical chord still there. Then we cut it, while she lay on her dinner platter. Only if she starts to breathe, I will ignite my love. Temporarily. She will be semi retarded from the lack of oxygen, and then begins another round of testing.

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    32. I hear you, Anon.

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    33. Haha. You dont know nuthin bout birthin no babies. They ken breath with the cord, dummy. haha.

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    34. I don't think I could trust any one who didn't hand over their first born, I mean, really.. Prove it!

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    35. But here's my question, Anon 7:38. If the baby is semi retarded from lack of oxygen, how do you know you can trust the baby?! The retardation, may, be premeditated. Just a cheap ploy to get you to fall in love..

      lol lol lol!

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    36. Neigh, we remove her apple and the baby is strapped to the dinner platter until she utters her first words (whatever age it is that kids start to talk) My partner is starved and strapped naked onto dining room chair whilst our pet snakes charm up the sides of the legs of the table hissing at the baby. He has to teach her things and ward off said snakes till I get home with my shot gun. At this point the man has to make a choice. It's flee with the retard whilst I'm out galavanting, or teach her to be normal or she gets cooked in her siphoned umbilical juices. In this drama he has been given temporary power to make his daughter well and stick it out with a crazy baby mama who wears the pants, or flee with the retard to raise her solo. His choice.

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    37. My spell check made metta Meta above.

      Metta only wishes for the well-being of all living beings, metta has no expectations and desires nothing.

      Great principle, extremely difficult to apply. I succeed on occasion.

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    38. Great point and thanks for the info!

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  11. Having that attitude of "Ask me if I care" is best for you
    because when you do become vulnerable and want just one man
    or woman - life is going to show up (it always does) and
    perhaps teach you a lesson on real love.

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  12. What happens when a sociopath gets cheated on?

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    1. Think of a child that is forced to share their toys. It must be difficult not to go around hitting the other with the toy, breaking the toys and smashing the user's face to a pulp with said toy.

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    2. OR.. they knew it was going to happen and that is an entirely different scenario. They have already felt it and they have desensitized. I do this all the time when I feel things are in motion. THen it's very easy to leave.

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    3. You are a normal person, not a sociopath, lol.

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    4. No, I really want to know. What happens?

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    5. ^They will do their best to destroy you and will not
      let go until THEY are finished with their destruction.

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    6. ...It completely depends if they still even WANT YOU.
      Did they get what they craved in the first place yet?
      If not - yes they will try to destroy you for various reasons...
      If they already got what they wanted from you and are in the "abandonment phase" they will not care and will let you go without a thought. ...But! just to make a point that THEY are leaving YOU and THEY are in control ... they will degrade you with every insecurity you shared with them.

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    7. Very true. I went through this.

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    8. @Blindfold Aside

      I made a blanket statement but your post said it all!

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    9. Almost three years later and I am still going through this...

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    10. I did it. In a sentence I did it.

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    11. One should never assume what "it" is unless you wish to live your life as a fool.

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    15. Holy shit.
      http://www.sociopathworld.com/2012/01/dichotomy.html
      Um..... I thought... Is it inappropriate to laugh uncontrollably about this? Um, .... I can't say I ... predicted that ..... It's logical though. WOW.

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    16. Does a sociopath attempt to destroy anyone close that betrays them when they didn't see it coming, or does it tend to be worse with lovers?

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  13. Go find one, date them, cheat, and see what happens.

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    1. Do I have to go all the way to coachella and find one with a tattoo?

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  14. yes, next weekend, let me know how that goes.

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  15. this is a topic i've been thinking about a lot recently. i've cheated in the past and feel about it much like the guy in the first comment. plus, i figure that if the cheatee can never find out about it then where is the harm at all - i get to cheat and she gets a perfect bf that looks and acts like he'd never cheat.
    the problem is that it is rare there is zero chance of her finding out. the chance has to be weighed against the consequences and i think i might want kids in the next few years (i think they could give some emotional... focus to me). i therefore want to have a stable relationship and therefore am wondering if the risk is justified from now.

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    1. Why do you want kids, in more detail?

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    2. That reminds me of a song... not necessarily related to Res:

      Beginning Of A Great Adventure Lyrics - Lou Reed

      It might be fun to have a kid that I could kick around
      create in my own image like a god
      I'd raise my own pallbearers to carry me to my grave
      and keep me company when I'm a wizened toothless clod

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  16. I've always been a cheater. The only monogamous relationship I have ever had is the one with my current husband. Before, I had no problems juggling two or three boyfriends at once. In fact, I went looking for it. I never felt any guilt and would look them in the eye and swear that I loved them and would always be faithful, just to dump them unceremoniously as soon as I got bored. Those men meant nothing to me, just playthings to be used. I never really minded if they cheated on me, since I was very strict about using protection, and I never felt jealous. Just annoyed if the other woman was interfering with what I wanted from him. It really got on my nerves if the men were very jealous and possessive towards me, so I always had to play on their insecurities and torture them a little before disposing of them.

    Then I met my husband. He was the first man I ever loved. And I do love him, in that all consuming sociopathic way that M.E. described so perfectly. My husband is an empath, but he knows what I am and is doing everything to understand me. He states that he has never felt any desire to cheat, but understands just what a feat it is for me to be faithful. He reminds me (when he feels jealous) that if I ever lay a hand on another man (or woman), he's gone. This has kept me in line for a long time now. I've tried just being friends with some tempting men, but unfortunately, I just can't seem to help myself and end up crawling right under their skin and making them want much more. So they get dumped.
    No matter how tempted I get, I can't really risk my husband finding out. Even incredible sex and a really fun game with another man is not worth losing my family over.

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    1. It sounds like you have cheated on your husband, right? Sorry, if you play - you pay!

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    2. I've tried just being friends with some tempting men, but unfortunately, I just can't seem to help myself and end up crawling right under their skin and making them want much more. So they get dumped.


      I am friends with men. I only stay with a man if I am getting enough sex and enough respect. I have been with enough possessive men who look for infidelity, and because I am a flirt and have non-typical feminine needs, they suspect I will cheat. They all think I will cheat. I can see them looking for it. I used to hide my male friends from my partners. I still do sometimes. I don't have a desire to cheat until they annoy me. But even then I don't. They will find out. But men throw their dicks at me constantly. I could have a field day with married men, I could seduce and seduce many people. They like to talk to me. (I sometimes talk dirty. Men prick up their ears. It's a way for them to focus on you. This is so controllable, but it isn't the only thing I do. ) They want to spend time with me. I make people feel good. I enjoy to talk to people, especially ones I get info from.

      I once got a cute married man to agree to set me up with his brother but never heard from him. I found out he wanted me for himself. By the end of the party he was bad mouthing his wife and I was annoyed but I didn't say anything. I just figured I'd put that piggy quality in one compartment and meet the brother. I have flirted with men(denied it to myself ) and then sliced their balls off in my head for wanting me sexually. I have to admit, I have flexed my muscles just to see I still "have it". When my partner is a douche I'll call an ex and flirt and use an excuse for attention but I won't have an affair. But I like to know I can. It gives me temporary power. It is flexing muscles, it is instant and empty gratification, and useless. HOWEVER I will cash in on the coup once in a while. Because why not? ? ? I never said I was interested. I wasn't really aware I do this till recently. It isn't that I'm especially beautiful. I am attractive. It's that I can't help connecting with people and people like me. I am a social magnet. My social self-selling ability is insane. irl I am talking to many and thinking what am I getting from this conversation and what is it that they really want, and can I give it to them... what is their MO. I assess, I get in, I get out, I smile big and I walk away. I do not like small talk. I want their info. But that's what normal people do. Isn't it? I am just a bit preoccupied with the economics and can see intentions of others. I don't want to really really be open. It isn't transparent irl. I am genuinely give time when I see someone wanting extra emotional attention because I don't want to seem like I don't care about them . But lots of times I do not care about them.

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    3. No, I have NEVER cheated on my husband. Mostly because of the whole play/pay thing.
      I have male friends. That's never been a problem. In fact, I greatly prefer male company. I can be a great friend to them, I'm a natural flirt and a good listener, so they tell me everything, including extremely personal and gory sexual experiences (good for a laugh later on). I've been told I can see straight through people and their problems and give great advice when needed. Truth be told, these men could live or die for all I care, but they really do think I care about them.

      My problem has been in trying to be friends with men I find tempting. Men I respect (very rare) and am attracted to. I'm just my usual lovely, understanding, playful self, then before I know it, they want much more (sex, relationship.. etc) than I am able to give. They just can't seem to take no for an answer, so I dump them. Only ever regretted one, but he was something special.
      I've been told that I am beautiful and charming when I want to be, but that's not the point. I don't want to get under these particular men's skin, I just can't seem to help it. Funnily enough, I don't get any joy out of hurting them, unlike with all the others. Not much guilt either, though, just no pleasure.

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  17. How long have you been married, green eyes?

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    1. I'm 30, been married for 7 of those, so sometimes it feels like forever.

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  18. I have fantastic advice for you! I know because it worked for years. Convince her to have a secret relationship for her benefit. BE SURE to have a good reason for it! Focus on her biggest insecurity and string true statements with b.s as to really why it is for her benefit! I should emphasis that you need to use true statements so if you forget what you said exactly you at least remember partial stuff because it was real. (Over time she will become frustrated with the secrecy - assuming she is an empath and has strong morals) Anyways, if you forget stuff say she misunderstood and calmly act like she is dense and you empathize with her - "feel love" for her) then if you cheat -or have other secret relationships they/she will unlikely find out...
    Oh and cloth yourself in glory over your honesty and guilt her when she doubts you and push her/condition her to trust you over the most ridiculous lies. (i.e ... Telling her over the phone you broke your wrist and the skin tore very deeply and blood was gushing everywhere - people even demanded that they take you to the hospital(!), but then within a week she sees you and the skin is completely healed.... but she still convinces herself to believe you even though there is very clear reasonable evidence not to. Remember the guilt trips/belittlement if she doubts you. I disgust myself. Mhmm… and when you break it off with her …… for her benefit make sure she doesn’t record stuff. Recordings don’t lie.
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    1. Response to: ResCogitansApr 17, 2012 12:17 PM

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    2. ...Damn it I forgot about the kids. That's more difficult...... business trips, camping... Mhm, sorry

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    3. You are joking I am sure. Right? The best way to get them ok with cheating is to casually ONCE mention friends you admire with open relationships and never make a commitment to the partner. Just never have the conversation about exclusivity. Ever. Keep up the beautiful Valentines Day cards, weekend getaways, all the actions that say you're mine. -I don't have any experience. I don't cheat. If I did, that's the way I'd go about it, Res.

      When you're ready for settling you can say with conviction I AM READY. She will respect your honesty, and agree that you indeed did not have the exclusivity convo.

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    4. I was being facetious.
      I didn't focus on how to get them okay with cheating... I read and focused on this: "Figure that if the cheatee can never find out about it then where is the harm at all - i get to cheat and she gets a perfect bf that looks and acts like he'd never cheat."
      I spoke from my own experience and did so because there was that partial overlap with what you said. I got cheated on more than once (aka I WAS an empath chump... for one person) and I found out through various sources (mostly from other’s stupidity and gossip etc. which led to investigation). Redundant to you personally, I now know, but that’s why I posted initially. It is laughable at this point, but it worked.

      -Blindfold Aside.

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    5. Ha- I only know this method through a person who has read extensively on the power of suggestion. He taught me well. I used this method on a dickwad who WAS cheating just to see him squirm when he thought he was gaslighting me. I was playing with him like a cat does with a sneaky lying mouse. It was delicious.

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    6. You are showing off.

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    7. What did that get you? What did you win?

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    8. Nothing. Just the moment with a player who came my way I thought had some fucking nerve.

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    9. "WAS cheating just to see him squirm when he thought he was gaslighting me. I was playing with him like a cat does with a sneaky lying mouse. It was delicious."

      How long ago was that?

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    10. What is the difference? I am expressing old, old rage here.

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    11. This was the person who got me reading here.

      I did a role for him. I tricked myself into thinking I loved him. It was pragmatism. I was not aware.

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    12. ...Me too. I discovered (which wasn't exactly difficult) that he was doing it again years later which is how I found this site. The pieces fit now and I don't plan on spending time on the whole revenge thing anymore being having the little empathy that remains in me.... He shall squirm as the little mouse he essentially is no matter how much he lies to others and himself. Funny - a borderling socio. deludes himself. It makes me more so think he's mere narcissistic ass like his daddy.

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    13. The best way to get them to "allow" cheating is actually to drive them away from you. Then you can claim that you've got an unlimited number of "hall passes" because they're the one who broke the rules of the relationship. NB: this'll only work if their spirit has already been broken prior to their cheating.

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    1. Themes for SW RegularsApril 18, 2012 at 5:36 AM

      Thanks Julian. I am glad you liked it.

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  20. Click on the Name-Themes for SW Regulars Anon

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  21. expressing my rage and frustration feels good

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  22. if i can do small talk it means i want somthing from that person

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  23. SW is magical because it is real. It is an oasis in all that is not. It is an oasis in all that is layered with bullshit until you could choke. Love you, ME.

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  24. empathy is just hard work for a sociopath

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  25. I avoid relationships now, I just don't understand what it is they want from me, and I refuse to spare my time for them. I can't handle it when they move in to my house. they start quick, and are over quick, they are fiery and wear me down physically. in all they are a chore.

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  26. @ASP
    The feeling of infatuation is a high (for the lack of a better word) emotion.
    People with shallow/less emotions want the adrenaline like feeling and power that comes from their significant other loving/wanting them for what they present themselves to be. Hence the reason they cheat too - They want power which leads to them getting other things from that power. It's all a game. - That's my latest discovery.

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  27. I don't get why I have to "connect" to a single human being, either. I'm not even sure that I'm capable of it. With that being said, I've proven over the last few years that I can force myself to commit to a relationship, in much the same way that my father did - by accepting that it's a game that has particular sets of rules to which one must adhere. I had a boyfriend cheat on me once, and I kicked the shit out of him. I wasn't hurt in the way that other people often whine about - I was pissed that he showed disrespect to the paradigms of the monogamous relationship and that he believed he was intelligent enough to conceal that shit from me. It was just plain disrespectful. I dragged his limp body outside and left him out there for the night. When he cried and begged to stay with me, I let him because it kinda got me off to hear him begging for forgiveness. Until I got bored and left. I don't get why people would want relationships at all - I mainly involve myself in them to convince other people that I'm "normal." Whatever THAT means.

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  28. Have you all ever considered that there is a world for people like you, though there isn't negative labels like 'sociopath' The BDSM lifestyle caters to all sorts of unique relationships and consensual 'non-consent' circumstances that allow a 'sociopath' to experience the world as it truly is, infinite.

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  29. The Last of the BraveDecember 12, 2012 at 1:16 AM

    It's always been about variability, who would ever want to sleep with the same woman 7/7 times a week (even if she was a babe) our issue here isn't one for ourselves, it is publicly, and I acknowledge that and couldn't care less.

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  30. Hello every one, i just want to share a few testimony about how my marriage got saved by drsambolspelltemple01@gmail.com . I had a fight with my husband and he got mad at me and decided to bring in another woman, i know i did wrong and was scared of loosing him, when he brought in another woman to the house, i thought i have lost him already and that was when i had to use drsambolspelltemple01@gmail.com spell and i was amazed the way the spell turned the table around and made my husband start chasing me and want to be with me again. am so happy now that my husband is back to me and me alone

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  31. I found a great spell caster online who helped me to get back my husband who has left me for pass 3 years. we where married for 8years without a child and my friend introduce me to a real spell caster named Dr.Akwuke which i never believe it exist but after the meeting of this spell caster my problem where solved and now i am with my husband who left me for pass three years my life and my entire family are now happy now i have two kids with the help of this great spell caster. thanks to true gift spell temple and i will advice anyone in need of help to contact him with this email: Akwukespiritualtemple@gmail.com

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  32. Dear Master obosianzen

    I just want to take a few moments to personally thank you for helping me bring back my

    husband to me and his family. About eight months ago, I discovered that my husband of 11

    years was having an affair with my next door neighbor and so called friend of five years.
    When I found out about this affair, I approached him and he did confessed that he and

    She was having an affair and that he loved her and wanted to end our marriage and be with

    her.I was so devastated that I had to be hospitalized for a nervous breakdown. When I

    got better, I decided to go online and look for someone very good to help me. for a

    surprised! I was ripped off by many so called Psychics and Voodoo workers who all they

    did was to take my money with no results.Then one day, I saw dr samba coment and was

    impressed by what plople said about him ,but I was more impressed with the news reporter

    who was impressed by you and the fact he pointed out how many of your rivals were so

    jealous of you and spreading lies about you.
    You just responded by simply saying, proof is in the tasting. That was when I made up my

    mind to contact you and I am so glad I did. After 21 days my husband had a big nasty

    fight with that woman and he called me from jail to get him out.
    He told me that he was sorry and to please take him back. After having a few days of

    seriously talking we are now a happy family. I thank God for you each day for you and my

    family.
    I want you to put this letter on your mind and contact him, because I am shocked at the

    lies these other so called Psychics are doing to other people.
    I want who ever reads this letter on your website to know that I do not work for you, you

    have not paid me and I am a very real person.iam swearing to God that all I have written

    to you is the honest truth!
    That news man was right, you are very good and I can see why so many conning people hate

    you and hid behind phony names and websites.
    Just like you said on your coment, the proof is in the tasting! And I have tasted your

    work and you are the best! so please contact him via obosianzenspelltemple@hotmail.com
    Your client for life

    BENNEDICTA MOYES,from Washington D

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  33. My name is Mrs Khatooum sheik from Saudi Arabia.

    Am the lady you helped two months ago 14th of June -2013 who was crying for poverty and

    divorced from my husband, Doctor SAMBA i have forwarded this testimony from the bottom

    of my heart , since you helped me i have never turn back in poverty again , i contacted

    you after being divorced from my husband who left me when i was 6 months pregnant and

    i had to borrow $750 the price you asked me to send for the items that was require by

    the spirit . When it took long time to finish the process i thought you have scammed

    me as the previous spell caster the one i contacted before , i prayed to allah to give me

    a strong heart of believing in you and i patiently waited until i saw unbelievable

    miracle from you with amount of money from your spiritual ancestors, may your ancestors

    be praise believe me whose so ever that is reading my testimony , since then i have

    never suffered again, and my husband come back to me i can now feed 2 full masjid is

    in my area food; a day which i never believe that i can do it before .DR SAMBA for

    that. may allah bless you again and again Insha’Allah . Me and my husband are planning to

    come and visit you next year,insh a-allah . oh i forgot to mention that i invested mostly

    in properties and din. Insah allah As you told me to do, you also can contact him on his

    email address VIA, templeofpeaceandsurcess@gmail.com


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  34. I heard so many things from anita kelvin, about DR obosianzen from

    obosianzenspelltemple@hotmail.com and every story about him has been so great. so here is

    my story me and the father of my son has been off and on for 3 years its been a very

    stressful relationship. he cheated on me and I was very hurt, it was miserable for me so

    in returned I cheated because I wanted him to feel the pain but he never cares so we went

    apart, so he went back to his ex.i wanted him to leave her and let us come back together,

    I love him so much and I just want him to feel the same way i feel for him, luckly for me

    DR obosianzen was the one who brought my lover back to me, he is a good spell caster. his

    contact address is obosianzenspelltemple@hotmail.com .you can still save your marriage if

    u really love your husband or your wife

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  35. this is Margo ,I want to thank you & the Spirits for all that you've done for me all

    these years. I'm thankful for all the time, money & effort you & the Spirits have put

    into my case. i have managed to win all court cases against me in short time through

    your powers, I will always be grateful, you saved me from life imprisonment.

    Sincerely,if you need his help contact email adress templeofpeaceandsurcess@gmail.com



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  36. Hello my name is Cecilia from USA, My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. I contacted you and after I explained you my problem. In just 3 days, my husband came back to us and show me and my kids much love and apologize for all the pain he have bring to the family. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before you are the best spell caster Dr ZAZA i really appreciate the love spell you castes for me to get the man i ever loved back to my life i will keep sharing more testimonies to people about your good work Thank you once again at (zazalovespell@gmail.com). in case you are in any problem you can contact this man for help he is always there in his temple to help you solve your problem Contact Email is zazalovespell@gmail.com

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  37. I want to say thanks to agumagu spell temple for everything so far. To everyone who doesn’t believe in spell, I was one of those ones at first. I wasn’t quite sure if I wanted to do this since I’ve tried others so-called spells casters and they did not work and was a waste of my time and money. However, when I read through the testimonials of other people at this website and after I talked to Dr Agumagu who answered all my questions and was very nice about everything, I decided to give it a try. I figured it would be my last try to get my guy back. So my story is that I was at my office when the guy I am in love with told me that he wasn’t in love with me and never will be and that he didn’t want to speak or see me again, especially since he was talking to this other girl. When I talked to Dr Agumagu, he let me know which spells would be most appropriate for me and I chose the ones that was to get him back to me and stay with me and want to marry me. As soon as he started on the spells, my guy came back into my life! It was a miracle to me and I’m so thankful for that. Things have been going well, and pretty much according to what Dr Agumagu the spell is done. I’m still waiting for the spells to completely manifest, but with all that has happened so far I’m very happy because given only four months ago in March, if you asked me or my friends if I would have anticipated how things were right now…no one would believe it! Lara. To contact him agumaguspelltemple@gmail.com

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  38. my name is Clara
    i just want to share my experience and testimony here.. i was married for 6 years to my husband and all of a sudden, another woman came into the picture.. he started hating me and he was abusive. but i still loved him with all my heart and wanted him at all cost…then he filed for divorce. my whole life was turning apart and i didn’t know what to do .he moved out of the house and abandoned the kids.. so someone told me about trying spiritual means to get my husband back and introduced me to a spell caster…so i decided to try it reluctantly. although i didn’t believe in all those things… then when he consulted his gods and cast a return and love spell, after 3days, my husband came back and was pleading. he had realized his mistakes. I just couldn’t believe it. .anyways we are back together now and we are happy. in case anyone needs this man, his email address kulataspelltemple@gmail.com his spells is for a better life. again his email is kulataspelltemple@gmail.com or call Dr kulata @ +2348165028579

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  39. Dr. Dele is truly gifted and special. I consider him a friend because he looks out for my best interest and tells truth even though it may hurt. He gives the most amazing advice and told me things in a reading that somehow he just knew that only I and the person I love would only know. He is honest, direct and kind. He is accurate with his readings. I have had a passion spell performed for me and because of him the man that I love continually wants to see me and spend time with me. Thank you Dr. Dele and the Spirits, because of you I have a clearer understanding of my situation and how to move forward with my best interest in mind.

    Contact Dr. Dele if you really want get the best of love on dr.delespiritualtemple@gmail.com


    Skylar Torres, USA

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  40. My name is Mr Cardenas,my wife was having affair with a senior secretary in her office. I love this woman so much that i would not want to share her with any body. i told her to retire from the job and i would take care of all her needs but she would take it because she is been embraced by everybody in her office, this normally leads to quarrel every-time. i tried all i can to please her and she will promise to be good , some days later she will turn back to her normal way.
    i was nearly loosing out, i could not focus in my job, my whole life was full of sorrow and i was thinking i should kill the other man my self and put an end to all this until i saw a testimony from a blog on how DR EDIONWE could cast a love spell to bring lovers back no matter what is behind the disappointment. so i decided to write him via email. edionwesolutiontemple@yahoo.com and now all my wishes are exactly as i wanted. She told me everything that has happened secretly in the past and i forgave her as DR EDIONWE instructed me to and she loves me and care for me as i ever wanted. i know there are many spells that do not work but i want to assure all you out there no matter what you have been trough to have faith and believe that this is the final solution to your problem.
    Even if my job is taking most of my time, the little free time i have , i will share the good news to everyone in the world because i know that with love brings happiness and hope for a long life.

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  41. Good Day everybody, my names is Anabella Jude, am from the United State of America, i want to give thanks and honor to Dr. Oduduwa for the great work he did for me, he brought my lover within 24 hours which i never taught it will ever come through in my life, but this great man Dr. Oduduwa proved to me that powers can do wonders, i got his contact from a friend in the USA who he helped, this friend of mine told me that this man is great but i felt as hmm are you sure? cause i hardly believe those kind of things,so she told me not to worry that when i contact him, that she is guaranteeing me 100% that my lover will come back that if it does not work that she will be the one to give me back my money, to show her sincerity to me, she gave me her car that if it does not work that and she did not pay me the money that i spent that she i should collect her car and she gave me all the documents, i was so so surprised she was very serious about it so that was how i contacted him and i told him what i want he just told me that everything will be done within 24 hours so with the assurance my friend gave me i was having confident, so in the next 24 hours that he told me i just heard a knock on my door i never knew it was mark, so that was how i opened the door the first thing he did was to go on his knees, he started begging me to forgive him that he is very sorry for everything, i was really surprised and was also happy, so that was how i forgived him and now we are living together happily than ever before, and am using the media to invite my friends on my wedding which will coming up on 24/12/2013, am very happy thanks be to Lucy who gave me his contact and honor be onto Great DR.Oduduwa who helped a lot, if you need his help or you want to thank him for me you can contact him through kpotikispelltemple@gmail.com or cell number +23406985072

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  42. Hello I am Samantha Justin from USA; I am here to fulfill my promise to Dr. Dele that if he helps me get back my boyfriend and job that I will tell the whole world about him and it’s done. ;)

    I almost went crazy when my boyfriend left me for another girl last month because she is more romantic than I am until I met my childhood friend whom introduces me to Dr.Dele because he help her Mom to get back her Dad. I narrated my problem to him about how my boyfriend left me and also how I needed to get a job. He only said to me that I have come to the right place where I will be getting my heart desire without any negative effect. He told me what i need to do and after it was been done, In the next 2 days, My boyfriend called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before and I was called for interview in my desired company were I have been dreaming to work.

    I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact Dr. Dele for any relationship problem, though you might find it hard to believe, but I must tell you that this man is genuine, I tested him and confirmed at last. This is his email: dr.delespiritualtemple@gmail.com

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  43. My Name is Susan williams , From United States . I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called Dr Dahiru has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost Ex husband to me with his great spell, I was married to this man called williams we were together for a long time and we loved our self's but when I was unable to give him a child for 2 years he left me and told me he can't continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email, then you won't believe this when I contacted this man on my problems he prepared this spell cast and bring my lost husband back, and after a month I miss my month and go for a test and the result stated am pregnant am happy today am a mother of a baby girl, thank you once again the great Dr Dahiru for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through any of this problems listed below: (1) If you want your ex back. (2) if you always have bad dreams. (3) You want to be promoted in your office. (4) You want women/men to run after you. (5) If you want a child. (6) You want to be rich. (7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever. (8) If you need financial assistance. (9) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money (10) Cure for HIV - you can contact hem via: email arewaspecialisttemple@yahoo.com OR YOU CAN AS WELL EMAIL ME TO CONFIRM IT TRUE MY EMAIL susanwilliams3456@gmail.com

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  44. An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my wife back to me..
    My name is Andy Sowers,i live in Australia,and I'm happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids.A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife.so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce.she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she didn't love me anymore.So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again.
    So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife.So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.{osobaspelltemple@gmail.com }.
    So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who didn't call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster.
    So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website {osobaspelltemple@gmail.com },if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to "bringing your ex back.
    So thanks to the osobaspelltemple@gmail.com for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again.
    osobaspelltemple@gmail.com

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  45. My Name is Erick Wilson..I never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster when i went to Africa to Execute some business..He is really powerful..My wife divorce me with no reason for almost 4 years and i tried all i could to have her back cos i really love her so much but all my effort did not work out.. we met at our early age at the college and we both have feelings for each other and we got married happily for 5 years with no kid and she woke up one morning and she told me she’s going on a divorce..i thought it was a joke and when she came back from work she tender to me a divorce letter and she packed all her loads from my house..i ran mad and i tried all i could to have her back but all did not work out..i was lonely for almost 4 years…So when i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for her full name and her picture..i gave him that..At first i was skeptical but i gave it a try cos h ave tried so many spell casters and there is no solution…so when he finished with the readings,he got back to me that she’s with a man and that man is the reason why she left me…The spell caster said he will help me with a spell that will surely bring her back.but i never believe all this…he told me i will see a positive result within 3 days..3 days later,she called me herself and came to me apologizing and she told me she will come back to me..I cant believe this,it was like a dream cos i never believe this will work out after trying many spell casters and there is no solution..The spell caster is so powerful and after that he helped me with a pregnancy spell and my wife got pregnant a month later..we are now happy been together again and with lovely kid..This spell caster has really changed my life and i will forever thankful to him..he has helped many friends too with similar problem too and they are happy and thankful to him..This man is indeed the most powerful spell caster have ever experienced in life..Am Posting this to the Forum in case there is anyone who has similar problem and still looking for a way out..you can reach him here: osobaspelltemple@gmail.com ..... CONTACT THIS POWERFUL SPELL CASTER TODAY VIA EMAIL:osobaspelltemple@gmail.com

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  46. my ex-boyfriend dumped me 8 months ago after I caught him of having an affair with someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don’t know what to do, so I visited the INTERNET for help and I saw a testimony on how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problems to him….. he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3 days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my peter came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you Dr obo spell, you are truly talented and gifted contact his email: obolovespell@GMAIL.COm

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  47. I am Sharon. I want to and appreciate ancient ijebude spell temple for bringing back my husband who left me and the kids for about four months within three days Dr Ijebu was able to bring him back to me.. i am very much grateful for restoring peace in my marital home i pray God give you the strength to help more people having similar problem like mine. for help or spells you can reach him on his email address: ancientijebudespelltemple@gmail.com

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  48. ogbefispell@gmail.com has done what its is in impossible, my husband has just been healed off his cancer of the lungs by the spell caster on ogbefispell@gmail.com,i don't just know how to thank him enough for saving my husband life and also for rescuing my family from starving to death. please you all in one way or the other should help to thank him for me. He is just too real to be true. Email: ogbefispell@gmail.com

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  49. Be careful here nobody can help you here or even suggest how you can get your ex or love back,any testimonies of most spell caster here must be ignore.because most of them are scam i mean real scam which i was a victim and i got ripped of thousands of dollars because i was so anxious to get my wife back after she left me for over 2 years with my 7 years old son jerry,i have applied to 7 different spell caster here and all to no avail they all ask for same thing send your name your ex name address and picture phone number etc which i did over and over again and most of them were from west Africa until i saw a post about mama Anita spell and i decided to gave her my last trail.she ask me four things my real name,my ex and my ex mother name and $180 and said my ex will come back in 24hours, i have paid over $3000 on spell casting and courier and nothing have work for me after 3 days i was thinking about how much i have lost so far so i said let me give her a try so i called her again and send my real name,my ex and my ex mother name and the $180 because i swear it was my last try so i was waiting as she told me to wait till next day and i could not sleep that night because i really love my wife and want her back at 9pm that day i saw my wife on line on face book and she said hi at first i was shock because she never talk with me for the past a year and 9 month now i did not reply again she said are you there? i quickly reply yes and she said can we see tomorrow i said yes and she went off-line i was confused i try to chat her again but she was no more on line i could not sleep that night as i was wondering what she is going to say, by 7.am the next morning she gave me a miss call i decided not to call back as i was still on shock again she call and i pick she said can we see after work today i said yes so she end the call immediately i got off work she call me and we meet and now we are back again i call mama anita the next day thanking her for what she has done in fact i still call her and thank her as my life was not complete without my wife please be careful here i have been scam thousands of dollars if you want a true love spell then contact mama Anita (mama.anitatruelovespell@gmail.com)

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  50. My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. I contacted Dr. OKORO LOVE SPELL and after I explained my problem, In just 3 days my husband came back to us and show me and my kids much love and apologize for all the pain he have bring to the family. We solved our issues, and we are even happier more than ever before Dr. OKORO you are the best spell caster. I really appreciate the love spell you cast for me to get the man back to my life i will keep sharing more testimonies to people about your good work. Thank you once again Dr. OKORO. You can also contact Dr. OKORO via email address: dr.okorospelltemple01@gmail.com in case you are in any problem you can contact this man for help he is always there in his temple to help you solve your problem Contact Email is: dr.okorospelltemple01@gmail.com CONTACT HIM TODAY VIA THIS EMAIL ADDRESS: dr.okorospelltemple01@gmail.com AS HIS POWERS ARE SO STRONG AND VERY EFFECTIVE AND HAS NO BAD EFFECT INSTEAD IT HAVE A VERY GOOD RESULT AFTER CASTING THE SPELL.

    Dr. OKORO NUMBER: +2348053209149
    Contact Dr. OKORO Via email: dr.okorospelltemple01@gmail.com

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  51. I just wanted to say thank indianspell@hotmail.com for all. He is back now. That very powerful spell to STOP THE DIVORCE - and get my ex boyfriend back - as you claimed indianspell@hotmail.com.
    Thank you for all your help.

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  52. I never really believed in "love spells" however one day I was so desperate when I came across this site. I wrote an e-mail to getyourexbacksolutionspell@gmail.com and told her what I was going through. I gave her an opportunity even if I was being skeptical. Well she sure fooled me. Her spells are incredibly strong… Mike and I are back living together and I am so happy! I would recommend getyourexbacksolutionspell@gmail.com Love Spells to anyone! Marsheila, Canada.

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  53. I was with my ex for 3 years he cheated on me and our relationship became miserable so we split, before he left me, we were planing to get married in the future, I loved him so much but I became tired of him lying to me every time he opens his mouth, I tried many different spells from almost every place locally as well as online and none of them worked, one day i saw some testimony about this powerful spell caster Mr Robinson, i had to make a trial for the last time, i emailed robinsonbuckler@yahoo. com and i asked him to help me bring back my lover and make him a Good guy and Mr Robinson did A Lover Spell for me And after some days, i got a positive result, my lover reconnected back with me, ever since i used the love spell of Mr Robinson, my boyfriend have stop lying to me and he appreciate me more and more day by day, and he doesn't take me for granted

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  54. I saw a testimony of Nadezhda Vyacheslav on how she got that guy to love her as she did him.Though i don't know her, i believed her cos she said Mutton Osun a spell caster help her seen it happen. I didn't believe her cos she used a spell i believed her cos she made mention of a mutual spell caster i know of that is mutton Osun. I have also see a lot of testimony about his work on the the internet on blog pages and so on. I literally took a lip of faith to contact him and it turn out that it paid off. In my own case i didn't ask that him to make anyone fall in love with me or ask that my cheating wife comes back. This time i was at fault i messed up.Will really like to say it was an honest mistake or a few hours or days of weakness but then i will be insulting my wife and the love i feel for her. I was in full control of what i was doing i had the choice not to cheat but i still did. She didn't find out by herself i told hoping if i told her how sorry i am and how much i still love and want to be with her despite my betray she will forgive completely. It was the biggest mistake of my life maybe i should not have told her, i guess she would have still found out if she didn't catch me then i bet the other lady would have told her what was going on to destroy what me and my wife had. It was obvious my betray really hurt her i could she it in her eye and i was really sorry. That is why i wasn't so surprise when she asked that we go our separate ways. There and then i realized that i was following the part that ruined my life and my family. I literally lead four month of my life in misery. I have never felt like i needed her like i had felt begging was not an option nothing was an option cos she was gone. It was right about that time Mutton Osun came into the picture or when i asked that he help me get my wife to love as she did before. I was able to provide the items he asked that i get for the spell and send then down to him. Like Nadezhda Vyacheslav said "the spell does become effective at once that " she was right also cos just after i did what Mutton Osun asked me to do with what he sent me, it took 7 days before anything happened i even thought for a minute that i had met a fake spell caster but in the end i am happy with my wife again. We going to be renewing our vows on the 20th of September. I was on the edge of become a walking dead a woman with nothing to live for thank my star Mutton Osun helped. I will also leave his contact for those who thing he can help them { godsofosunx@rocketmail.com }

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  55. Well I really do not know where to start from,but I will be as brief
    as I can in my testifying about what God did for me through dr
    Aigbehi. I had a little misunderstand with my husband and he moved out
    for over 7 month now,leaving the kids and I behind,and move in with
    another woman. I was disturb and confuse cause I did not know what to
    do. Until I came across this testimony of this dr Aigbehi online about
    her he brought back some one ex's back,and I decided to give it a try
    and I contact this spell caster on draigbehi1@gmail.com and I told him
    my problem. He say to me that I should not be worried and that I have
    to be calm that my husband will return to me and I thought it was a
    joke. U won't believe what happen to me,my husband came back to me and
    was begging me to take him back and that his his sorry and promise
    never to leave again. Now am happy and you cam be happy too. Contact
    dr Aigbehi through his e-mail on draigbehi1@gmail.com on any problem
    you have and see the power of God at work. Once again thank you dr
    Aigbehi and God bless you richly.

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  56. My name is Floa Dee, and I base in UK...My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids . I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr Ekuma, which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across a lot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called Elizabeth,she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr Ekuma's e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before Dr Ekuma, is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man... If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Try ekumasolutiontemple@gmail.com anytime, he might be the answer to your problems. Here's his contact: ekumasolutiontemple@gmail.com

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  57. I was IN A relationship with an arrogant self centered man for 4 year and had no idea of the kind of man i was living with. What am about to write now, is not a mistake its something am proud of cos i will never stand to see some irresponsible man rise my child. Until now i use to say i am the strongest woman on earth i mean no matter what a man throws at my face in a relationship i will always not let it affect me. Well i was wrong when you have a child with that man every thing he does that is not in your interest hurt you so bad that it feels like your heart is bleeding not cos of you something but mostly because of your child. The name i'm using here is a fictional name cos i don't want anybody talking about me. Mike and i,were together for four years and we had a child a son together but we weren't married. Our relationship was just as fun as it usually is in the dating stage i mean we went dates we text all night he call me on the phone just to tell me i love you. It was the best moment of my life aside from the birth of my son and he was right there with me in the labor room when i put to birth he never left my side i mean my life was a fairy tale with the happily ever after theme. When i look back now i ask myself why?Why did he go through all that trouble when really he didn't love me as he use to say. It was hard for me cos he went from being perfect to being ruthless he made sure i knew he was cheating on me with another b**ch and went i was tried to go away with my son, he threatening to take him away for me that i came with nothing and and also leaving with nothing . I wish i can put this in film to make it more clear for you guy i mean he made me pass through hell. And he was really going to take my son from me cos he was wealthy and the law was on his side cos i had nothing to offer my son i mean i work three job and hardly had time for myself he used that against and i was losing cos i could not even afford a lawyer. Everything was spinning out of hand. All i had with me was the hate and pain in my heart i would stay up all night crying my eyes out cos i had nothing to do. But like they say a desperate woman is a dangerous one. In my quest for help on how to make the scum bag stay away form me and my son i contacted a spell casted i found online i have seen a couple of good remark about him and some most highly recommended him as the best in spell casting. Like i say am proud of what i did if wanting to be with your son by all mean necessary is crazy then i am crazy to have contacted Mutton Osun the spell caster. It made me calm when mutton osun told me he can help me and that he was not going to charge me but how ever he asked me to get the materials we use for the spell and i also paid for the delivery of the parcel he sent me with instruction of how to make the spell effective. Just weeks after i did what he asked me Mike dropped all the case and left the country with his new b**ch i didn't really care cos i had my baby that is alright for me though i love him i don't want a monster as a husband or a father of my child so i let him go. I highly recommend you contact Mutton Osun for help if you need any on his email godsofosunx @ rocketmail. com

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  58. This is a very joyful day of my life because of the help Dr.Shiva has rendered to me by helping me get my ex husband back with his magic and love spell. i was married for 6 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Shiva email on the internet on how he help so many people to get thier ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good. He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really enjoying my marriage, what a great celebration. i will keep on testifying on the internet because Dr.Shiva is truly a real spell caster. DO YOU NEED HELP THEN CONTACT DOCTOR SHIVA NOW VIA EMAIL: reunitingexspell@yahoo.com or call +2347051705853 or reunitingexspell2@gmail.com . He is the only answer to your problem and make you feel happy in your relationship.

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  59. My dear reader, you have to read this.
    Dr Goodluck doesn’t ask for testimonies and he doesn’t charge. He is genuine and people get to meet him by luck. But right now am your luck if you could meet him. Every other testimonies you read here are scams...... Dr goodluck lives in Nigeria and I happened to meet him by chance after a friend told me about him. I followed these internet testimonies and was hugely scammed to the extent that I wanted to kill myself. Dr Goodluck turned my situation around by bringing back my ex and made me regain double of what I lost over to these scams. He made my ex come crawling to have him back. All I spent was $250 and at last gained back all my lost money and even double of it. His email address is : drextrapowerghost@gmail.com but please don’t make him know that I published him on net. He is just wonderful and I wish whoever that finds him good luck. Don’t forget his email address is drextrapowerghost@gmail.com
    Yours truly
    Patrica edward

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  60. Good evening every one!!!

    My Name is Penny Perez, I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called Dr.Ojuku has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost Ex husband to me with his great spell, i was married to this man called Steven we were together for a long time and we loved our self’s but when i was unable to give he a child for 2 years he left me and told me he can’t continue anymore then i was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email [drojukuspellhome@gmail.com ] then you won't believe this when i contacted this man on my problems he prepared this spell cast and bring my lost husband back, and after a month i miss my month and go for a test and the result stated am pregnant am happy today am a mother of a baby girl, thank you once again the great Ojuku for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through this same kind of problems you can contact he today on his email: [drojukuspellhome@gmail.com ] and he will also help you as well."
    Good Luck...

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  61. My name is SANDEY WILSON and I base in LONDON. UNITED KINGDOM ..“My life is back!!! After 14 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me and our two twins . I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr OKAYA who i meet online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across alot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called sarah,she testified about how Dr OKAYA brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days and reverse the effect of their little boys cancer, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr OKAYA e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give Dr OKAYA
    a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 2 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. Dr OKAYA is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man... If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Try Dr OKAYA anytime, he is the answer to your problems. Here's his contact OKAYASPELLHELP@GMAIL.COM Thank you Dr OKAYA

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  62. Probably all this testimony you read about spell casting online are spam right?And yeah some are spam some think all of them are spam which is totally not bad and i also know some believe spell casting really works but have not been able to find the right one. Well i think i found the right spell caster Metodo. I know he is real not cos he helped me but because i was there in his temple i Have seen him and his temple and i tell you it can't get more really that what am writing now. I know you may want to know why and what lead me to contact a spell caster i am a south African woman here in south African as a matter of fact in Africa having a male child is like the most important thing in a marriage and it turned out that i am married to a very traditional man as in a he believes the male child carry the family name on and on but the females get married and change there name which is true. I were married for six years and i had no male child for him .Maybe friends and family filled his head with a lot of things like i don't have a male child for him and as a result he need to get a divorce and get another wife that can bear him a male child. I always thought the people that filled his head with this ideas where is family and friends the people that i smile and dine with. The very people who ought to have advice him rightly. I never found out if they where involved in wanting to ruin life and my marriage. Not because i could not find out but cost i didn't want to develop hatred for them cos i will always get to see them and it is not really healthy seeing the faces of people you hate. At that time, i mean before i knew my husband got himself a lover i was paranoid about him having a lover cos our lives changed a lot he starting coming home late he wouldn't touch me any more and even he started avoiding me in our home making up excuses to stay all day in his study room doing nothing and telling me his need something off to clear his head. We had fights all the time i brought up the matter if he was see someone else. Maybe he got tired of lying i don't know he finally asked for a divorce. A divorce my family saw him through his university and got him a got job i told myself and now he's asking me for a divorce cos i don't a male child yet for him. He was ready to let go of his three beautiful daughters he asked that i take them along. Maybe he was a real f**l and didn't know what he had and maybe he didn't deserve someone like me but one thing was crystal clear to me i was still in love with him and i wanted a complete family for my kid that and the fact that i raised him from the gutter i didn't care about any of his problem when i married him and i forgot to say my father never approved our marriage but still i jumped into it thinking we are going to have each other forever. Though we are still together now but its cos of the spell i had metodo cast on him to make him see how much he needs me in this life. When i contacted metodo he asked that i get the materials for the spell which i did and delivered the materials to him in person that is to say i came in contact with him. I was to return in to his temple in 7 seven day and within those seven day he gave me a blessed a red candle asking that i command and say whatever i wanted every night within those seven days which i did on the seventh day when i returned to metodo temple he gave a harmless powerful substance with instruction on how to use it. This might seem like fiction or lie or what ever you lucky reads may think but deep down you know it true you just looking for a way not to get involved. I ve got my husband back and my family life couldn't be better thanks to the spell though i don't have a male child for him at least his them lover bore him one. contact him with his email if you want his help metodoacamufortress @ yahoo. com

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  63. my ex-boyfriend dumped me 8 months ago after I caught him of having an affair with someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don’t know what to do, so I visited the INTERNET for help and I saw a testimony on how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problems to him….. he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3 days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my peter came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you Dr obo spell, you are truly talented and gifted contact his email: obolovespell@GMAIL.COM

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  64. i want to thank this great man who help me to get back my husband who let me with my 2kid,my husband left me just because he want to go and marry another woman who he said that he love but i did not no that the woman caster a spell no him just because he want my husband to marry her,for more than four years now my husband was with her so will did not know what to do for more than four year now, my friend advice me to contact a spell caster who name is dr james she told me that this man help her to get her lover,she now told me that i should call him,i now call him so he told me to call him in 30mins time that he should do some prayer,after 3omins time i now call him he told me that my husband is under a spell so he told me that i should give him 24hours that my lover is going to come back to me,to my great surprise my lover who never call me tell me that i should forgive him that he is come back home to be with me,so now we are happy again with my husband thank to him dr james this great man i want to tell people about him so if you need is help contact him on is email drjamesspiritualhome@gmail.com

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  65. I want to use this medium to tell the world about Doctor Jatto who helped me in getting my lover back with his powerful spell, my ex and i where having misunderstanding which led to our breakup though i went to beg her several times to please forgive and accept me back because i know i offended her but each time i went i always feel more deeply in pain and agony because she always walk out on me and would not want to listen to what i have to tell but on i faithful day as i was browsing i came arose a testimony of a woman whose problem was more than mine and yet Doctor Jatto helped her with his spell so i was happy and also contacted Doctor Jatto for help via email and then told him my story but the only thing he said was that i will wipe you tear with my spell so lucky for me everything want well just as he promised and right now i have got my fiance back and we are both living happily. there is nothing Doctor Jatto can not do with is spell and just as promise my self i will keep testifying on the internet of how Doctor Jatto helped me.Are your problem greater that mine or less i give you 100% guarantee that Doctor Jatto will put an end to it with his powerful spell, contact Doctor Jatto for help Via email drjattosplltemple@gmail.com

    1. GETTING YOUR EX LOVER BACK.
    2. WINNING LOTTERIES.
    3. CHILD BEARING.
    4. BREAKING OF GENERATION COURSE.
    5. GETTING OF JOB.
    6. JOB PROMOTION.
    7. MONEY SPELL.
    8. SPIRITUAL PROTECTION.
    9. HERBAL CARE.
    10. BEAUTY SPELL.

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  66. i will love to share my testimony to you all the people in world i got married to my husband about 2 year ago we start having problems at home like we stop sleeping on the same bed,fighting about little things he always comes home late at night,drinking too much and sleeping with other women out side i have never love any man in my life except him. he is the father of my child and i don't want to loose him because we have worked so hard together to become what we are and have today .few month ago he now decided to live me and the kid,being a single mother can be hard sometimes and so i have nobody to turn to and i was heart broken.i called my mom and explain every thing to her,my mother told me about DR.okoro how he helped her solve the problem between her and my dad i was surprise about it because they have been without each other for three and a half years and it was like a miracle how they came back to each other. i was directed to DR. okoro on his email:okorospell@gmail.com and explain everything to him,so he promise me not to worry that he will cast a spell and make things come back to how we where so much in love again and that it was another female spirit that was controlling my husband he told me that my problem will be solved within two days if i believe i said OK So he cast a spell for me and after two days my love came back asking me to forgive him i Am so happy now. so that why i decided to share my experience with every body that have such problem contact Dr okoro the great spell caster on his email addresses okorospell@gmail.com or call him on +2348110651073

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  67. Dear getyourexbacksolutionspell@gmail.com, after going through 3 failed IVF cycles and several IUI's without any results, I had started my journey at the age of 37 as I couldn't accept the fact that I wouldn't have any children of my own. By sheer accident I found your website in May of 2012, I implemented most of your guidelines exactly as instructed in the book and found myself holding a positive home pregnancy test in less than 5 weeks! After over seven years of trying to conceive and thousands of dollars spent on infertility treatments, I had actually succeeded to get pregnant the natural way without any drugs or medical intervention all because of a book that costs less than $600! I'm going to have my first baby in 1 month! I still cannot believe it i am greatful getyourexbacksolutionspell@gmail.com contact her today or visit her website on http://weeblyalishaluraspell.weebly.com/available-spells.html

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  68. my husband left me with our son, i almost committed suicide because he left us with nothing, i was emotionally down. Thanks to Dr.Muna whom i met on a site called marriagemissions.com as I was browsing through the internet, I came across many testimonies about this particular spell caster, i dont know what attract me to the comment. Some testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and also spell to get a good paid job. He is amazing, i also came across one particular testimony, it was about a woman, she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 24hours, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr Muna contact. After reading all these, I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We resolved our issues, and we are even happier than ever.Dr.Muna you are a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man. If you have a problem with your marriage or relationship and you are looking for a very fast and easy way, he is the answer to your problems. you can contact him on marvelspelltemple@outlook.com and his website is http://marvelspelltemple.webs.com/ he's the best spell caster that can help you with your problems.

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  69. My name is Linda Wilson from Canada My boyfriend and I were happy as far as I could tell and I never thought that we would break up. When his cousin died in a tragic car accident he went back to London for a week to be with his family. I could not go because I was in the middle of entertaining out of town clients for work. He did not seem to be upset that I could not go so I let him be. The next thing that I know, he reconnected with an old friend from high school that he had a crush on years ago and they started to have an affair! I had no clue what was going on until a month after he came back from London.He proceeded to see both her and I until I caught him testing her one night. I confronted him and he told me the truth about what happened. We broke up and went our separate ways. Neither of us fought for our relationship. I was angry and decided not to be upset about it and just keep it moving. Then after about a month of not speaking to him I became sad. I wanted him to tell me that he wanted to be with me and not her. I contacted {Prophet AMEDE} for a love spell prayers and he totally helped me! he was able to get him to miss me to where he wanted to get back together again. He had a lot of regrets and felt bad for not fighting to keep me and for cheating in general. He values our relationship so much more now and we are together now! You can also get your lover back with the help of {Prophet AMEDE} contact him through his phone number +234-813-264-2680 or email: amedehealingtemple@yahoo.com

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  70. Hello to every one out here, am here to share the unexpected miracle that happened to me three days ago, My name is Edwin Wallace i live in United State,and I`m happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she did not love me anymore So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.(kemespelltemple@gmail.com }, So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day what an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who did not call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster . So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website {kemespelltemple@gmail.com },i f you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to "bringing your ex back. So thanks to Dr KUME for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again.(kemespelltemple@gmail.com }, Thanks..

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