Conversation with a friend:
Friend: Is he trying to manipulate me? In some sociopathic way?
M.E.: I don't think he's socio, if it's true what he said about feeling jealous during group sex with his ex-girlfriend.
Friend: Really? Are all socios not jealous? That can't be true, can it? Because jealousy can be about ego, largely, no?
M.E.: Ego, maybe, if a favorite of the sociopath seemed to prefer someone else, a sociopath might see that as a personal affront, but there's no real jealousy sexually -- no hang ups about seeing someone you like having sex with someone else if you know they like you better. It's just sex.
Friend: Well, he was specifically upset that she seemed to like giving oral sex to his friend. I can see how it's very different than just sex because she's actively doing something.
M.E.: Eh, I still don't think he's socio, and a lot because of the sex thing.
Friend: Do all socios hate sex?
M.E.: No, they don't hate sex, they just don't love the things about it that most people love. It's like golf.
M.E.: A lot of waiting for other people to finish . . .