Tuesday, September 2, 2014

A comprehensive beginner's guide to becoming a sociopath

Because I can no longer find this available online, and because so many people ask for it:

Sociopathy. The word makes "good" people cringe. It is a very real syndrome that affects young and old. In general there are ten real symptoms:
  1. Not learning from experience.
  2. No sense of responsibility.
  3. Inability to form meaningful relationships.
  4. Inability to control impulses.
  5. Lack of moral sense.
  6. Chronically antisocial behavior.
  7. No change in behavior after punishment.
  8. Emotional immaturity.
  9. Lack of guilt.
  10. Self-centeredness.
   If you are a sociopath you probably don't know it, but if you want to be a sociopath and have fun unlike all the other blockheads in the world, then this is the recipe for you. 

   There is a general trend in the symptoms listed above, carelessness. There is a surefire way to disassociate yourself from feelings, which includes guilt. Can you think of what emotion and feeling has done for you? Nothing is what I am thinking. So here it is, without further ado, you own personal guide to becoming God. This means being totally free of emotion and feeling, unless you desire them. You will no longer associate certain actions with certain feelings so you will be able to do anything you want and not feel a damn thing, if you elect to. You can steal, lie, cheat, fight, hurt, and you won't think twice. There is a great balance that must be emphasized before we can start the program. Although the whole point of being a sociopath is to not feel guilt, sadness, or hurt, you will also be stripped of 'positive' feelings and often times actions that usually resulted in happiness will be replaced with anger and then normal bad emotion actions will become happiness producing instead. So if you are squeamish or don't desire a sadomasochist view on life, don't read on. 

   Here's the ten day beginners guide; start on a Monday for the best and fastest results. 

Day 1:

WAKE UP EXTREMELY EARLY, this will allow you to be groggy enough not to care on your own.

Good act 1: Go and buy 40 dollars in groceries for your local homeless man. It will fuck with his head so bad. This action is called 'Rampant Altruism".

Bad Act 1: Find the nicest luxury car at your work and vandalize it.

You are set for the day. Make sure not to think twice about anything you've done today.

Day 2:

Wake up earlier than the day before and play VERY loud music. This works on many levels, but you can't count it as a bad action.

Good Act 1: While on the hustle to work drive very slowly and let everyone in, don't get mad or stressed.

Bad Act 1: Go to a coffee shop and sit down, order the most difficult drink to make and keep changing your mind about it, then don't pay for anything and when she looks at you just say, 'ah never mind', then start muttering and swearing to yourself barely audible, but definitely call her a 'slut' or 'bitch'. Leave and slam things on your way out.

Good Act 2: Go to the Library. Find the most frumpish looking mid 20's girl and start flirting with her heavily. Leave and come back and bring her flowers, real nice ones, then give her someone else number when she asks for it. This will destroy her.

Bad Act 2: Hopefully it will be garbage day, but if it isn't find one of those huge dumpsters and spread trash all over the street. Break as much glass as you can.

Ok, you are getting into the swing of things. It is important not to dwell or celebrate about anything you did today, this is very important.

Day 3:

You can wake up normally, but don't eat breakfast, don't drink coffee.

Bad Act 1: Drive fast, mean, and flip off as many people as you can on your way to work. Make as many people start off with bad days, especially to women. If people follow you just keep driving till they can't anymore, but always flipping them off.

Good act 1: Bring Coffee and Donuts for everyone but just set them down and don't allow people the time to thank you or offer to pay you back or whatever, say as little as possible.

Bad Act 2: Find that dog that is always barking in your neighborhood while the owner is away, and terrorize the shit out of the dog, hit it with a stick if you want to, just make it pissed off. Make it meaner than shit and just leave.

Good act 2: Give 20 dollars to the cash register person and ask them for change in quarters, then right in front of them put each coin individually into the collection jars, it's especially good if there are people waiting.

Bad Act 3: This one is a wild card, but here is something you can do that will help you later. Get dressed up as White trash as you can, get yourself real dirty and roll in stuff if possible, then go to the Big 5 or other sporting good store. While you are there, just look at the guns with a sort of 'far away look', shaking and twitching. Deny help as many times as you can, but stay in one spot the whole time. Then after nearly half an hour, go up to the asst supervisor and plead for help, use 'fuck' and 'Jesus Christ' as many times as you can while you purchase an air rifle and huge amounts of pellets and BB's. Speed in the parking lot, flip off someone if possible. When you get home, get acquainted with your "lil' boom stick", make sure you aim is good, this will be important later.

Good act 3: Buy a pizza and bring it to the bookstore and say 'you know, this pizza guy just gave this to me and I already ate, would you take it?" if they accept it great, but if they don't just go and give it to another establishment, don't accept money and stay as little time as possible.

Don't sleep this night, read as much philosophy or propoganda'ish material as possible, the internet is great for that shit. Drink a lot of tea.

Day 4:

Hopefully you didn't sleep, but if you did make sure you got up early and promptly. Go and take a run, a long one, so that you are exhausted when you get back. Don't shower and don't shave.

Bad Act 1: Go to the store, but before hand fill your pockets with random trinkets, the weirder the better. Buy something like 4 grapes or one Tab soda, or something else really random. Then when it's time to pay, look at her for a second and then start rummaging through your pockets, act really worried. Then pull out one of the trinkets and offer her a trade for whatever it is you are purchasing. Keep going and ask her to call her manager, say 'man, I really need this but all I have are these guitar picks', he will not give in and you shouldn't either, get frustrated and finally pull out your check book, when she asks for your drivers license be reluctant and say that you don't have one, she will be damn angry and they will have probably asked you to leave several times, do it but call them a bunch of racist Nazi's. Everyone will wonder what is happening and you have to keep up the yelling all the way to the car.

Good act 1: Go to the coffee shop you visited on Day 2 and order a medium latte with heavy cream if possible. Pay for it with a 20 and just walk away when she tries to give you back the money. She will try in vain to get your attention, don't give in to her, and just walk out ignoring everyone.

Bad Act 2: Show up extremely late to work and walk in scowling at everyone, don't answer any questions, just mutter and look only at your feet. Everyone will be worried but you won't answer any questions. If your manager starts talking to you change the mood totally, be happy, but after he leaves continue snapping at everyone. Leave early from work if possible. Just shrug your shoulders if asked why you are late, but don't answer the 'are you ok?' type questions, people will be very concerned. Go home and shower.

Good act 2: Buy a bunch of flowers and hand them to the most beautiful woman you see. Don't say anything more than 'will you accept these?" Make sure you are very abrupt when you walk away and don't turn around for ANY reason. Don't do it if her boyfriend or husband is right there.

Bad Act 3: Buy a can of red Krylon Spray paint. When it is Dark go and Spray paint something awful on a wall that you pass everyday, make sure it is just fucking rude and mean, something that people will gawk at and be pissed off, something that would even piss off you.

Good act 3: Go to a bar, sit next to a semi-attractive girl. Do not make any come ons, pretend for a second that sex would actually make you ill and pretend you hate it, this will help you out. Talk about everything besides sex. Buy her many drinks, don't ask for her number and don't give you hers even if she asks. If she comes on to you, just look really surprised and even be offended, this will be a good time to leave.

Bad Act 4: Use your handy dandy pellet rifle and roam the streets of your neighborhood shooting out streetlights, car windows, or another building windows. DO NOT shoot at houses or anywhere where you could draw attention to yourself, be careful but make sure you have made visible damage.

   Ok, this is the right amount of good/bad actions you should be doing on a daily basis. Hopefully with the oscillation of emotions from the different actions you should start to feel numb about them. You are on the right start. 

   This weekend will be an important step: Your focus will be on reversing emotions. 

   You must take any action that would normally cause you pain or sadness and tell yourself how good it feels. You need to do your good actions as if they are actually doing harm to those you do them for. You will also start to associate the different actions. 

Over the next 3 days you should accomplish:
  • Shoot one bird and be happy about it, go to the Dog Pound, find the cutest puppy and regard it as evil.
  • Steal something and justify it.
  • Cook a large meal for someone less fortunate, then later drink a bottle of castor oil and force vomit over a large plate of food at a restaurant.
  • If you see someone at a bus stop, offer him or her a ride, they usually won't accept but ask until it happens. Pretend you hate the person in the car internally, but be SUPER polite to them, even go outside and open their door. Then when they get out and you drive away, tell them to fuck themselves.
  • Drink heavily, very heavily. Then go to a park and talk to children, the parents will freak.
  • Just start picking up trash in a public park, don't answer any questions. Donate blood as well.
  • Slap yourself, cut yourself, hurt yourself, but regard it as 'masturbation', trick yourself into enjoying it.
  • Watch your favorite movie four times in one day.
   Hopefully you should now realize that feelings or emotions are not directly associated to actions. With this knowledge you now have the ability to do things without feeling anything. You know you are detached from feelings if you do the same action twice with feeling both good and bad feelings about it. Then when you do it the third time, you feel nothing. You will no longer have a value of "good/bad". Everything will just be things, you will have an open mind. The important thing is to still continue to do both good and evil actions. 

Day 8:

This is Monday; you will notice that even though you have had the weirdest week of your entire life, you feel recharged but nothing more. You don't feel bad or good or even in between, you just don't feel. Live your day normally, but you notice that you don't care as you once did. Everything seems easier to deal with and is no longer stressful. Go out to eat tonight and don't tip your waiter. Give a homeless man the tip that you were going to give to the waiter.

Day 9:

Go to a bookstore and pick a fairly well known classic and sit there and read it for as long as the store is open. It will be you and the closing clerk there alone. Hopefully it is a women, tell her that you can't pay for the book but you love it so much. Give her your watch as collateral. Order a huge amount of flowers for her but when you come in to pay for the book and collect your watch be surprised about the flowers. Persists that you did not buy them but you really appreciate her kindness about the book. If she asks for your information or suggests that you should go out sometime, just look disgusted and walk away. On the way home that night pull up next to someone walking, start pretending to get directions but when they start insult them repeatedly and threaten their life. Drive away fast.

Day 10:

Don't go to work, call in sick if you have to. Drink tea ALL DAY. Find a pad of paper and start writing or drawing. Draw/Write the weirdest most convoluted stuff you can come up with, paste it all over your room. If you aren't thinking to yourself in some way 'man, I'm fucking crazy' than you aren't doing it right. Just repeat the week over until you can be in denial and know it. Yes your crazy, yes you know it, but it is sooo fun.

   Now that you are totally detached from the externalities of a social culture and you are totally void of feelings or guilt, you are on your way. Upkeep can be less frequent. Be unpredictable in your actions or moods. Don't keep the same face on twice with the same person. Love someone passionately that you don't know, hate someone passionately that you do know. Fight all the time; argue with everyone. Do charity and public service out of the blue without any reason. Don't have a favorite anything, try everything and be open minded about everything. Give someone your favorite book as a gift. 

   This plan has worked on about 7 or the 11 people that have tried it. Although there is great degrees on how they responded there was great general trends. The most important thing is that everyone is happy and their lives; which are greatly improved.

228 comments:

  1. This pretty blatant.

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    1. Or you can just shortcut this method and smoke crack every day for a month or two. You will behave like this anyway and short circuit the parts of your brain that put the brakes on illogical and antisocial behavior anyway. Quite a time saver.

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    2. Do you like hurting other people?

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    3. I dont think that even saves time. His takes 10 days, yours takes 2 months, plus you get addicted to crack

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    4. Anyone who's able to follow the instructions must ALREADY be a sociopath! So I'm astounded at the claimed success rate of only 7 out of 11 . . . Seems more likely that the author has unwittingly stumbled upon a cure for sociopathy!!

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    5. I like hurting outer people. I wish it could be my job.

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    6. join the army...

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    7. Your pretty fucked in the head get urself checked but wait ur a sociopath so obviously ur fucked up man I feel bad for ur mother.

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    8. This is the most fucked up guide I've ever read in my whole life. I thought we as a society were trying to get rid of sociopaths, this not helping anyone. All I can say is........ Ted Bundy when did you come back from your non-existent tombstone?

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  2. :D Sociopaths have really time to waste...or rather an empty life they do not know how to fill...

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  3. I am too lazy for this plan to work. Cant I just watch tv all day?

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    1. that's called "being antisocial"

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    2. That's called being avoidant you autistic piece of shit. Jesus Christ, I see this shit all over the fucking internet, do you even read you retard. Antisocial is when you participate in behavior that isn't socially accepted. Fucking retarded piece of shit.

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    3. Hmmm...sociopathic much?^

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    4. March Anonymous,

      Look at the defination of antisocial, posted here
      an·ti·so·cial
      ˌan(t)ēˈsōSHəl,ˌan(t)īˈsōSHəl/
      adjective
      1.
      contrary to the laws and customs of society; devoid of or antagonistic to sociable instincts or practices.
      "a dangerous, unprincipled, antisocial type of man"
      synonyms: sociopathic, distasteful, disruptive, rebellious, misanthropic, asocial
      "worrisome antisocial behavior"
      2.
      not sociable; not wanting the company of others.
      synonyms: unsociable, unfriendly, uncommunicative, reclusive, withdrawn, avoidant
      "I'm feeling a bit antisocial"

      The second definition validates February's response
      If you are going to troll people, do it better.

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    5. Hahaha: just eating my apple and reading these fight. Hahahaha classic

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  4. The first copy on The Internet Archive is from 2003.

    https://web.archive.org/web/20100830033846/http://www.fakepope.com/writings/sociopath.php

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  5. For someone to try this they already are kind of sociopathic which eliminates the need for a program to become sociopathic.

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    1. No, actually i have the total opposite problem.
      I have borderline personality disorder, i breath empathy.
      I am pure kindness.
      But this only hurts me and i am tired.
      I WOULD LIKE TO SWITCH OFF THE EMOTIONS BUTTON PLEASE
      But i know that i can't do this, just like sociopaths can't have empathy for anyone. (I'm not sure if this sociopath or psycopath idc)
      (i am not american as well that's why my english is so fucked up)

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    2. I have borderline personality disorder too, would love to have someone to talk to about it.... Where are you from?? I'm not from America either

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  6. Is sociopathy something you can "catch" at any stage of your life
    like a cold or Cancer? Or is it something you're born with?
    Can you have a "sociopathic" period of life and revert back to normal?
    Another words is Sociopathy EVIL ACTIONS THAT THE PERSON CHOOSES?
    Are is sociopathy something that the person can control? Is there such a
    thing as an "irrestiable urge?"

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    1. I think you develop sociopathy when you reach a certain type of logic/ way of thinking. As you can see from M.E's 10 day program, sociopaths are very carefree and morally grey. If you're able to logically convince yourself, and others, why a bad thing you did isn't bad (and your logic makes sense), I would think you have what it takes to be a sociopath. The only thing left is, do you believe your argument? If you're able to eat the meat, and where the fur of tortured animals, why is it that you find it so wrong to put a puppy in a garbage bag and throw it into a river?

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    2. why do animal rights activists fight so hard to protect wild animals that are sociopaths, but they hate human sociopaths? a lion will kill it's own babies, and skin alive and torture other animals.

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    3. Please, proof you use your brain...

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    4. Just so you know Anon @11:20. Male lions will now kill their OWN cubs. If they take over a pride they will kill the existing cubs so that only their own DNA will be passed on. Some male animals will kill their own children just not lions.

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    5. Anonymous @ 10:15 PM, September 2, 2014

      It is not that a sociopath in morally grey. They are black and white with their point of view. The thing is that their moral compass does not match up with social norms.

      Anonymous @ 3:35 AM, September 2, 2014

      Being a sociopath is not something that can be caught like cancer. However, an individual can develop this mental disorder just like any other disorder. For example, I learned how to eliminate my emotions completely when I was a teenager, and I showed no remorse when inflicting pain on someone. When I met the man I was going to marry, I decided that I wanted to know what love was. It has been six years, and I am relatively "normal." I hope this helps.

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  7. ...and I add, are sociopaths less sociopaths when they become old?
    I guess that if most of the people around you are sociopaths (a family for example) you'll have to adapt, at least in certain ways.

    I agree totally with Machiavellianempath!

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  8. That reads like an episode of The Twilight Zone.

    Aside from that, it's my general understanding that a number of people who aren't sociopaths but want to be are either in it for the sex appeal or to escape a painful life. If they're from the first category, I can't imagine a guy who wants to be James Bond or a woman who wants to be a femme fatale going around making embarrassing public displays like vomiting in a restaurant on purpose. If they're in it to be desensitized and to escape, wouldn't their desired affliction be Dissociative Disorder?

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  9. I'm not getting the point of this. Maybe it has no point. After all, these actions involve perfect strangers (except for calling in sick at work and that is something everyone does), so the actions themselves have no personal consequence or aftershocks. Who cares what a stranger thinks.

    When one's actions involve family or friends -- that's different. I mean detaching yourself from outbursts from a child who is oppositional is helpful to you and to your child eventually...

    Most empaths who come here don't do so because a stranger played some mind game with them, or cut them off in traffic, but because they had a close, prolonged encounter (where the game is played not just once but games are repeated), for instance they were betrayed in an intimate relationship.

    I don't see what any of this has to do with sociopathy. It looks like pulling pranks.

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  10. It looks like a comprehensive beginners guide to becoming an asshole.

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    1. Every body has an asshole. Every living being accumulates waste and must get rid of it. Without elimination, we die. Getting very metaphorical, societies have to eliminate waste, either by putting them into jail or by executing them. Ted Bundy was a piece of toxic waste (extreme sociopath who tortured and murdered) so society eliminated him by electrocuting him. Eventually, whether we are a sociopath or not, we have to die because the earth would be overcrowded with human beings if we lived forever.

      Our evolution made us creatures that want to survive and want to pass on our genes. So we "fight or flight" when we perceive danger and we fuck frequently when we are young and capable of it. Unlike any other animal on earth, we developed complex communication and an awareness of our mortality. We overcame the consciousness barrier because we can lie.

      We lie to others and we lie to ourselves. Everyone reading this has told lies for personal benefit. Religious belief is a lie humans as societies tell each other and themselves to temporarily assuage the terror and pain of knowing we will die. When humans were young as a species, it was easy to deceive ourselves. Once we discovered systematic empiricism (science) as a species, the religion lie no longer made much sense. Once 99% plus of human beings believed the religion lie. We are now down to 80% and falling. M.E. pretends to believe the Mormon lies, but she knows it is a lie.

      What happens to a species when it grows up and discovers, "We have been lying to ourselves for hundreds of thousands of years?" Do we evolve into something more grown up? Or do we commit suicide as a species? The "we will grow up" theory is called "The Singularity." (Look it up.) We now have nuclear weapons and designer plagues, so we technically have the means to "off ourselves" as a species. At the moment, we are more or less like an eight year old autistic child who has gotten into her grandparents' attic and found a loaded gun.

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  11. This sounds like a lot of violating social norms, mischievousness stuff....stuff I love to do :P

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  12. People aren't taking that article seriously, are they?

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    1. Damaged, do you see a reason for taking this article seriously?

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    2. When I read some of the comments I got the impression that people were. It was written over 10 years ago and I think it's obvious that it's a joke. Maybe I wasn't fully caffinated yet.

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  13. The funny thing is that be conscientious enough around people and you can let them know you're a sociopath and they don't care. if you do enough really insightful good deeds you generate so much goodwill that when you tell them you thought about things in a totally psychopathic way, they'll just imagine that you're exagerrating, that you didn't really mean it, etc. and then they'll let you housesit and you'll drink their booze and puke on their rug - and you won't be surprised - but they will. and you'll think, I told you this is how I roll.

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    1. Why is that funny?

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    2. Frog says to scorpion, are you dangerous?
      Scorpion says, I try to be nice to my friends, but you know, sometimes I screw up despite my best efforts.
      Frog says, scorpion is just a super guy. he's perfect.
      works well for a while until the scorpion stings his frog buddy while distracted, says, "i told you I was dangerous"

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    3. yeah, so, what is it that makes that funny?

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    4. When the sociopath is honest and helpful about his faults, people don't believe him, to their own demise. That's black humor.

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    5. " if you do enough really insightful good deeds you generate so much goodwill that when you tell them you thought about things in a totally psychopathic way..."

      It's a con game. There is no good will if the intent is to betray trust in the end. No one would talk with you if you didn't find a way to earn trust. That's the con. I wonder why that is so appealing. It's an honest question.

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    6. Riding The Turtle
      "It's a story about a turtle and a scorpion. The scorpion needs to cross the river and so he asks the turtle for a ride. The turtle says, "Do you think I am crazy? If I let you get on my back, you'll sting me."

      "Don't worry," said the scorpion. "If I do that, we would both drown in the river."

      So the turtle gives him a ride. Halfway across the river, the scorpion stings the turtle. And as the poison starts to work and the turtle and scorpion start to sink into the river together, the turtle says, "Why did you do it? Now we're both going to die."

      The scorpion, in his last few breaths, says, "I couldn't help it. It's my nature." "

      Is it really a con game if that wasn't the initial intention? It just happened that way as time went back... Doesn't mean the scorpion planned it.

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    7. "and then they'll let you housesit and you'll drink their booze and puke on their rug -"

      note the use of the future tense. This indicates planning and intent after earning good will. Anon here has got more neurons than a scorpion and people are not turtles.

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  14. Are you playing a game to see how many people you can make do stupid things because you told them to?

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    1. This is just a reprint of a tongue in cheek article from earlier that is now hard to find. I think some people requested a reprint. I don't think M.E. expects people to take action on it. The point of the exercise is to disconnect emotions and judgement from actions for non-socio thinkers. To show it is possible to rewire your brain.

      Like Dots mentioned though it is useless since the experiment is applied to strangers. As an aside though Dots, I think normatives DO care what strangers think and feel bad when they offend them. Weird, I know, but that is what my norm friends tell me.

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    2. Hi Puppy Basket, about caring what strangers think, the way I see it is that that depends on context (what was done and who it was done to) and the person themselves. A neurotypical may or may not feel bad about it even if they 'care'. A socio might care, but not feel bad about it. I mean caring in terms of what the consequences could be from interacting with that stranger.

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    3. I had to tell my paranoid delusional neighbor that I am sociopath, which I am not, but very well could be if he kept pissing me off.

      I am new, he has been here for thirty years, and would violate my outdoor space often as if, he had the right to do so, in that, he was claiming some kind of rank due to tenure.

      I had been pleasant and friendly to him, keeping up this demeanor, I told him as though I were letting him in on a big secret that I am a sociopath.

      It has been alot of fun messing with his paranoid tendencies.

      That article is a joke.

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    4. teehee omg I hope no one's mad at me for laughing at this :):)

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    5. lol, I'll have to remember that maneuver:):) Anon, why did you pick sociopath?

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    6. @Puppy Basket

      Yes, us "norms" generally do care what strangers think. Less than we care what our friends and families think, but well above zero. For instance, if I do something embarrassing (maybe you don't know what that even really means?) in front of people I don't know, I feel physically ill. It is a sensation like my stomach is twisting up and it makes me want to shrink away to nothing or run and hide to stop feeling it. Feeling that I am being judged, or that someone thinks I am stupid is a viscerally, physically negative experience. It can be much more unpleasant than physical pain.

      I am probably more sensitive in this regard than many people, but I'm not that atypical. "Shy" people tend to be more this way, which is why we're shy--more sensitive to perceived judgments by strangers, and more conscious generally of our perception of others' perception of us. On the other end of the spectrum are those like you who seem to be unfamiliar with these feelings.

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    7. It's typically the kind of behavior you'd expect from a black person.

      No one thinks it strange when a black person acts up.
      Most people realize that they don't actually know any better.

      It's only labeled a disorder when white people (who supposedly know better) act up.

      Is it wrong to say that the DSM is racis'?

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    8. Anon Sept 4 1006am, I understand the physical pain you are describing. The embarrassment can linger with you for quite some time. I am not sure what you are doing on this site. I would love for you to say, but be careful, you need to have a bit if a thick skin before you can participate without being affected too much in your "real" life.

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    9. OldAndWise that was me above you are replying to. Forgot to put my
      'nym on that one.

      As for what I am doing here, socios fascinate me, and I'm trying to learn more about them (about you?). I'm not as sensitive in an online context as I am IRL, since the emotional cues that cause one to feel shame, embarrassment, etc. are damped or absent.

      I'm also trying to learn more about myself, which is helped by learning about others, I think. Plus there's a part of my personality that seems to "lean socio"--but it only comes out some of the time. I call it my "shark mode" and it usually makes an appearance when a) there is some kind of perceived emergency going on and I have to react fast or b) I am so overwhelmed by social stimuli that I sort of shut off my empathy to avoid feeling too much (often happens in crowds, but also at times like dinner parties or other situations where I'm expected to act like an extrovert, which I am decidedly not). Sometimes it's conscious, sometimes not, but if I don't do it I can fall prey to a sort of overwhelming paralyzing social anxiety fueled by the kinds of feelings I described above. Definitely a coping technique, and one that fascinates me.

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  15. So, no real psychopaths exist then in high positions in society, since to get there they have to be disciplined, be able to rule impulses with iron fist & adapt to changing conditions? Shouldn´t the symptom list be said to describe "low end", daft, psychos? And shouldn´t one mention to beginners that there exist a "half-breed" of "non-mentally cracked" psychos labeled Scorpio (the zodiac)?. Some find them even more "hairy" due to their awareness of their mental condition, in ways most "cracked" psychopaths are not. An obvious "nutcase" can be scary, but to find stable, balanced & sane folks relishing their "evil" is somehow worse..

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    1. Anon, this article is about sociopaths, not psychopaths. If the person were a true psychopath, not sociopath, they would be very capable of obtaining high positions in society. The difference, as far as I know, between psychopaths and sociopaths is that one plans out their actions beforehand, and you cannot "become" a psychopath, while the other acts on impulse and is a result of conditions while growing up, not a predetermined disposition.

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  16. How pathetic to live a life void of empathy & feelings towards mankind. Even more pathetic to exert that much energy to try and be a socio. Live life.. be happy. Enjoy others without evil intent. That's a recipe for success.

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    1. Hey Moron, we are UNABLE to feel anything, UNABLE to experience emotions. What an energy-saver though.

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    2. You are only able to "save energy " living without caring about other people because the empaths around you spend enormous amounts of their own time and energy building and maintaining mutually supportive social networks. You are parasitizing their efforts by exploiting their social instincts. I realize this doesn't bother you, but can you see why a rational empath would resent this robbery of his or her social investments? We do these things expecting a mutual give and take, and what sociopaths do is just... take. It's why we get so angry when we "discover" you, and why we are hurt when we realize we were trusting an unfeeling liar.

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    3. http://autism-help.org/comorbid-mental-retardation.htm

      how's it feel being the brunt of social decline OP

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    4. As far as I've observed, emotional manipulation takes a huge amount of energy and effort. Maybe some people are natural at it, but it seems to me like it would take a lot of effort to fake a pleasant disposition and then turn it on its head and harm the person. One emotional manipulator I knew seemed to be expelling energy at an extremely high rate. She was either grinning and playing around with people or sobbing non-stop in a corner, while tearing them to shreds verbally while they weren't around. Please explain how this /wouldn't/ take a great deal of effort on anyone's part.

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  17. LMFAO

    Well it does look kinda fun.....I've done some of this list that's for sure. Haha.
    If we were honest with ourselves. I think we have these types of passing thoughts regularly in our head, but just don't act on them, maybe some. We have filters on ..and when to put breaks on. Play games if that's what floats your boat, but just play by a moral code. Toying with emotions does help me see how pathetic I can be in staying in some of my own emotions. I needed a good laugh. Thanks ME
    I remember I called my high school and threatened them with a bomb for one week straight every morning cause I just wanted school to end. But the principal loved me. I called the vice principal an asshole when I saw him, because he thought my tops were too short. They weren't, my fuckin tits were just too big for my body frame and he was staring. But my Mr. MCKINNON cared, and stuck up for me, always. I graduated because he believed in me. And I could go to his office anytime and shoot the shit with him. He promised if I stuck with school, he'd give me that extra science credit I was in need of upon graduation if I just stuck it out. I got most improve student award upon graduating. My marks soared because of that principal and his sense of ease. When that same principal ran for councilor years later with his campaign, he got my vote. I never forgot his kindness. His acceptance. His laugh about things.

    ""We know this is You Superchick - and no schools not cancel the for the day."" So start walking up the road to school now.

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  18. "I remember I called my high school and threatened them with a bomb for one week straight every morning"...hmm something about this appeals to my irish side, I dunno what it is : /

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    1. Lol Dr G. My friends dared me. I was just a young teeny bumper. We wanted school to be canceled.

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  19. Speaking of violating social norms... If you could pick a particular person (you or someone else) to have a fiberoptic cable implanted in their head, so that with a flip of a switch you could have them: (a) cower in a corner, (b) attempt mating, (c) fight the person in front of them, or (d) some other action

    which action would you pick and whose mind would you hack? This possibility is just around the corner -- see "Hacking the MInd"
    http://scificentralsociopathy.blogspot.ca/2014/09/hacking-soul-part-1.html

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  20. The things I would do if I could.....

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  21. I tend to be a little politically minded. When I identify an enemy, I hone in on them with complete tunnel vision. They gotta be taken out. If I'm thinking politically, it's the person who is a in a position of power. This is what years of british imperialism has done : / It's responsible for creating my family : / I dunno, since things are so heated and political in the field of psychology right now, it would probably be another psychologist. Head of the NPA or sumthin. Nuthin personal, just politics :):)

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  22. What's the difference between a malignant narcissist and a malignant sociopath?

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    1. A malignant sociopath knows he is one. A malignant narcissist thinks he is normal but just better, and so he deserves/ is allowed to act that way.

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    2. I was recently talking to a neuropsychologist, and I said to her that I want to see evidence that narcissistic personality disorder is a real disorder. She agreed. Using neuroimiging technology we've seen what the borderline brain and the sociopathic brain look like, but I haven't seen anything yet that shows what a "narcissist's" brain looks like.

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    3. Dr. Ginger, I agree with your point.
      Anon, "You only need a one-question test to identify a narcissist": are you a narcissist? It seems most narcs know they are one, and will answer yes to that question. That means they know they are different [not normal], doesn't it?
      http://www.washingtonpost.com/news/speaking-of-science/wp/2014/08/05/you-only-need-a-one-question-test-to-identify-a-narcissist/

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    4. Ask a room full of people in the UK to stand up if the are a narcissist. None would stand up. It's cultural. We venerate these ideas of being narcissistic over here.

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    5. Like you mentioned before Dr. G, we pathologize everything. I'm curious when the next DSM comes out -- what will be taken in & and what will be taken out. We pick and choose what are disorders, and think a DSM manual is the LAW. It ain't, too many variables to it. I believe, It only becomes a disorder when it hurts others or yourself continually. Every person in the world has sociopathic, borderline, narcissistic traits in them to some degree. And some people are better equip because of it. Some are simply not. Learning how to channel it, your cycles, and work with it is important to realize.

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    6. nooooooooo...no more dsm's. I'm thinking of staging a protest in front of an APA convention. Light one of them mother effers on fire. We'll get the APA's attention :P

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    7. A malignant Narc believes their own lies. They don't have a compartmentalized brain like a sociopath. They also have a single personality unlike a sociopath's mirror constructs. Narcs NEED the ego feeding. Sociopaths don't really. Narcs attach to their sources of feeding they will not leave a source before finding another one. A sociopath can walk away at any time.

      A sociopath understands that they are other. That there is a degree of separation between themselves and the reset of humanity. A narc is enmeshed. Nothing is separate from them. A sociopath becomes a mirror, we recognize that to fit in we must become a mirror of those around us.. The Narc thinks that they ARE the mirror. That everyone and everything is a reflection of their godlike self. They can't even understand why someone else would like a different food than they would. If they hate peas all people should hate peas. They will then try and make you eat peas and enjoy them because obviously you are defective if you do not.

      Example: Sociopath meets a person who thinks the sky is green who has something they desire. They agree the sky is green.
      Narc decides the sky is green. No one on the planet and no amount of scientific proof will get them to admit they are wrong. Ever. They will keep telling people the sky is green and try to make everyone else think the sky is green too. They can NEVER be wrong.

      Just a few differences. There are many similarities but these are some of the most basic differences.

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    8. Good example Puppy. I enjoy listening to you :)
      Dr.G please light Em on fire, they've cause too much havoc to society. Lol.

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    9. Dr. Ginger, it's only the people who otherwise scored high on narcissistic traits (a 40 point questionaire) that answered the question "are you a narcissist" with the answer Yes.

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    10. in other words, it's a dating tip.

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    11. idk, we are all narcissistic to various degrees. It's part of the human condition, we are born that way -- at least that's what psychology asserts to be part of inborn survival mechanisms.

      I wouldn't say that any type of person can be a sociopath, but I would say that any type of person is narcissistic to some degree. So sociopathy is more fundamental as a condition that separates a person from the 'norm'.

      I think that both socio type people and empath type people have narcissism to various degrees (it seems absurd to think otherwise). But both can lie pathologically, present one face to people at work and another to people at home (or mirror) -- whatever serves their own purposes.

      In practise, I am not sure what the difference is, for instance, between needing approval of others for self-esteem, or needing it because that approval is part of the control one wants to have over the other person(s). Socios are about control because they are about winning their game, and so are narcs.

      And for all this talk about you are what you do, not what you think or why you do what you do, it seems almost absurd then to place primary importance on the why of behavior. I think this is what OAW was saying about dealing with problematic narcs and socios in a similar way.

      Some socios are more narcissistic than others. Same for 'neurotypicals'. Would you agree?

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    12. Narcissistic personality disorder was slated for removal from the DSM 5, but after a hue and cry it was put back in! Personality disorders come down to a vote, and it seems a fair number of those allowed to vote don't think the criteria for NPD are a reasonable classification for an illness. I don't think it is either, and my guess is that it will be probably be gone soon.

      "With regard to the guidelines set up by Kendler et al.,[6] the DSM-5 work group on Personality and Personality Disorders decided to retain only half of the personality disorder types listed in DSM-IV-TR. Schizotypal, borderline, antisocial, narcissistic, avoidant and obsessive–compulsive personality disorders are slated for inclusion in DSM-5. Narcissistic personality disorder, first slated for removal, was reinstated later on. Paranoid, schizoid, histrionic and dependent are no longer considered for inclusion as specific personality disorders in DSM-5."
      http://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/776854_2


      ps my first ever blog comments section should be working now

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    13. where's your blog?

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    14. Anon thanks for your interest, and to others I've decided to spare clogging up these comments.. My new blog is at http://scificentralsociopathy.blogspot.ca/

      if you click on the name DoctorSciFi in the Heading of this post you will go there. The first post is called "Hacking the MInd", alot of the topics and questions come from sociopathworld empire.

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    15. What is your PhD in again?

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    16. Dr. Ginger, what difference does it make?

      "Come, let me know whether thou art a creature of good or not.” And the creature replied: “I am a man.” “What kind of a man art thou?” "Such as thou seest me to be: I am by no means otherwise."

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    17. I wuvs you dr. sci fi :):):)

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    18. Wuvs you too Dr. Ginger. If only I could find some fascinating posts/articles on power -- this business of giving and taking power as you have written so crisply about... then I would feel enlightened.

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  23. But a person-or a society-can GO bad. It doesn't happen overnight.
    It's like the decline and fall of the Roman Empire. Many "Empires" of
    various types "raise and fall." No "victory" is perminate as is no "loss."
    Nothing is static. My beloved Casey Anthony will raise again!

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    1. I mean hey, if there's any place to let the crazy out of your system, it's sociopathworld :P Then you can go back in to the real world, and pretend like everything is ok. Whew good thing for this site. People have an outlet.

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  24. FYI... Most kids these days think & act like a socio. Socio's really don't seem to be a unique snowflake as they think. Carry on.. in believing you are different than society and better which is absolutely not correct.

    Mostly people in their 40's & 50's were raised quite different. I'ts nothing now for people to want to take you out.

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    1. kids these days... :P

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    2. If you look at the media these kids are raised on you can see why this happens. They are rewarded for filming and posting high risk behavior. Reality clip shows train them to laugh at the pain of others. See a grandmother fall over and injure themselves? Fuckin hilarious right? They are watching life through their cameras now instead of participating in it which is proven to cause a disconnect between emotion and reality.

      Most "hero's" in their movies act like sociopaths but have "feelings". Almost all action movies are based on the "hero" taking revenge on someone and ignoring any collateral damage. The "hero" tortures, kills, lies, and steals without any remorse. Violence is glorified. Ditto on video games (most). I was at a friend's birthday party not to long ago and her little sister brought her own friends. So we had about 10 kids at picnic table texting and not talking to each other for a few hours. Turns out they were texting each other............

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    3. Puppy are you my SO sweetie in disguise. Why do you sound so much like him. :)

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  25. That was dumb as shit.

    Overall, it's just completely pointless.

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    1. Um um where's your funny bone. :) jk

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    2. I have standards.

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    3. Lol. Oh. You're my hero. Lighten up. We all have standards to varying degrees. I seriously read the list and laughed. But i guess others would read it and get a bit rigid about it. Point taken Anon. :)

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    4. Someday, you'll have to face the fact that you're just a dumb cunt.

      Sorry to say, but it's just the way it is.

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    5. anon, you lack a good imagination, and a sense of adventure.

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    6. a starting point can be 'dumb as shit', and seem 'completely pointless', but with a 'sense of adventure', and a 'good imagination' it can turn into something else. Peace?

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    7. When you're on enough 'happy pills' anything seems possible.

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    8. God that cunt word again.............

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    9. It individuals like you Anon that I pity. You do remind me of someone. And it's individuals like me that you project your shitty remarks with behind a screen. Tell me that face to face - and I'll show you who the dumb CUNT actually is.

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    10. I see that reality has begun to sink in.

      Such a shame.

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    11. All give you your own reality face to face. And then you can choke on your own words.

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    12. You're such a sweetheart.

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    13. Hi Superchick, great to see you back! This place seems to take a decidedly more serious turn when you are not here, and if Dr. Ginger were absent too, it could become decidedly grim at times.

      I don't have pity for this anon person who calls you a 'cunt'. I just think he is dumb and has got nothing better to do than to choke on his own vomit. Superchick, please know that many of us do love your presence here.

      And Anon, 11:29 AM who wrote "When you're on enough 'happy pills' anything seems possible," if that was directed at me maybe you can put your thinking cap onto the point that actually I'm depressed, and actually pills don't work. Have you tried some happy pills yourself?

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    14. Suppers on. Please do come eat with me. Your dish is ready. Better come while it's hot and delicious.

      And I have a special drink poured for you.



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    15. So cunt's a trigger word for superchick. Note to self: never call superchick a cunt :P

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    16. Thanks Polka dots..:) I hope you don't mind me calling you that. I like nick names. I think it's kinda cute.

      Dr. G doesn't this Anon sound familiar? The same tune....the same ring? I know that type all too well. It just kinda triggers me that's all when I hear that CUNT word. I have this sudden urge to beat them into submission and respect for women they come into contact with. I'm sure Anon will hide or come up with another witty remark. I should just pass them over. Obviously they passed me over calling me a dumb CUNT. Then they'll think, "what's the big deal." It's so disrespectful. That's all






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    17. Lol never saw the previous comment. Neat Dr. G how you sensed it triggered me. It does. :(

      Anyhow, enough fun and games for chick gal. I have papers galore to catch up on. Great evening to you all.

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    18. Superchick's freudian analysis offered for free, or a parody on Freud.

      Superchick: "Suppers on. Please do come eat with me. Your dish is ready. Better come while it's hot and delicious. And I have a special drink poured for you."

      Prof. Dr. Freud: " Ah, I see zupperchik has repressed sexual urges exhibited here again to her luv of cum and of icing.. hmmm, scratching his beard thoughtfully.

      "Suppers on. Please do come eat with me." Please do come. Eat me. I want to eat cum, yumm. An oral fixation. Ah zupperchik, zu are confirming all my teoryz.

      "Better cum while it's hot and delicious" -- Indeed.

      "And I have a special drink poured for you." Zupperchik, my dear zu have penis envy.

      Would you still consider a three-some, Superchick?

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    19. Lmfao. Haha close, o dear yes so close. But would i poison the dinner? What's in this special drink? Threesome. I can't. My conscious would never allow it. I'm kinda split. See I'm real good inside, but I'm kinda real naughty inside. I tell my partner everything. How it turns me on to think of him with another women. He accepts it. Jokes that I'm his little freak. But them he shows me another way; that's it's good enough with just us, me and him. i cant risk it long term. How could i have strayed so far? Without having an actual physical affair? But yes, inside my mind it strays.... o yummy. Lmfao I just play slut with him. He likes it that way. It safe too.

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    20. Superchick. I hope you enjoy your dinner and studies, and whatever might cum before or after.

      Polka Dots sounds cute, whatever suits you. I can see how upsetting it is to be called a 'cunt'. "I have this sudden urge to beat them into submission and respect for women they come into contact with. I'm sure Anon will hide or come up with another witty remark. I should just pass them over."

      I get that too if I'm dealing on a repeated basis face to face with someone. It goes into the category of misogynist words like 'bitch' that also trigger me. In the end I won't be around someone who uses those words, if they can't stop or won't.

      But online, well, anyone who resorts to disparaging name calling and misogyny isn't capable of making witty remarks. They are just dumb.

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    21. Omg. Dr. Alter, I just read that again, there's lots of truth to that I must admit. :p but that's the other side of me I'm trying to suppress inside. No no good Dr Freud long term consequences ;)

      Now onto desert..


      ...

      ;)

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    22. Okay polka dots. :P Thank you. True about the misogyny. Till next time doc.

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    23. Okay is this Anon just a bullshit character? I'm just curious.

      I just can't keep up with all these alters. Its fun and all. But sending me for a loop.

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    24. Dots, you say "trigger", I can't help but ask now if you have bpd?

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    25. Dr. Ginger, I don't have bpd but have been in cbt for awhile -- where I learned about triggers, which most have to some degree or another. I'm curious why you ask.

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    26. I have heard that cunt is an affectionate name down under.. And by down under I mean Australia!
      You use that word when you like somebody. My son works part time with an aussie... that is how I know this. I will double check...
      Superchick, hugs. Enjoy your desert!

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    27. I know the term "trigger" is used for other things, but I usually think of it with bpd because bpd triggers can be pretty intense. What was your diagnosis?

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    28. I am curious to know why you ask?

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    29. Just curious. It doesn't really matter anyway. Me and superchick are staging a protest at the next APA convention where we're going to burn the DSM-5 so there won't be anymore diagnoses....jkjk :P

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    30. I am my connectome. I am my diagnosis (if I have one). I am how you see me to be...

      And the next time, should it happen, that an aggressive man calls me or someone else a 'cunt' -- I'll remember that in Australia it's a term of affection.

      Normally I would find the idea of book burning appalling but in the case you suggested, may I join you? Psychiatry in my view is one of the greatest for profit hoaxes that have ever been pulled, starting with Freud. That's not to say I think it is all useless and harmful malware, but much of it is.

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    31. K it's getting a bit freaky and I do say that kindly. Are you just bouncing ideas and thoughts from yourself? You're all the same people (alters) except for
      O &W.

      The funny wasn't just so funny being called a dumb cunt. Just toying. I get it. I do. but it was a bit low in my opinion alters. And ya i was offended. Because the stuff I shared & revealed was exposed and you played with my emotions that I wanted to forget. They became raw. That "person" in my past needs to be forgotten. I mean nothing to them, and they need to mean nothing to me. You both kinda sound like each other.

      But looking it from your point of view. You where having your own kinda fun, so I get it. No hard greetings, but I'm allowed to say I was a bit disappointed. But it's forgotten. Water under the bridge. I just wanted to express my feelings. But on S.W. World I might not get very far with that. Good morning and know I must drive.

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    32. I do wonder how many of the Anons are a single Troller too SuperChick. I figure since they got no reaction with their racist BS they switched to misogyny. Do note how very inelegant and short their writing is. This denotes a stunted intelligence and lack of education. The racist/misogynist stuff is more evidence of this and also reveals his deep seated insecurities. Hiding behind an Anon label even more so. Misogyny is what happens when a male is so Gamma they can't even aspire to being a beta male and yet want to be an Alpha without even comprehending how to get there. They blame their inadequacy on women since they cannot bear to look at the real reason. (Cough_microdick_cough). Note that while he calls you dumb he never posts anything longer than a sentence or two since he would reveal himself as an ignoramus otherwise.

      So full of misplaced hate these poor souls. They turn their disgust for themselves and their obvious inadequacies outward. This has always been the base drive of hate. His "sparkling personality" lack of wit and social skills and obvious malformations have most probably insured his lack of breeding opportunities. Forever shall he remain a miserable virgin.

      He obviously envies you in particular for your carefree life and ability to mate. Living in his mother's basement as he does he envies my sweet mocha skin and easy way among the masses. He envies Tii's prowess with women and all the others on the site he envies our intellect and wit.

      Therefore the poor pitiable thing lashes out the only way he knows. With pitiful insult. We really should pity him. Alas we are incapable. We can get a good laugh about the way he is flailing through life though. Let us all point and laugh then.

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    33. Play us the song of your people.

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    34. Hi Superchick, I can see how that parody of Freud went a bit too far -- misplaced humour. But no, I'm not any of the anon's or others posting here, or would call someone a 'cunt'.

      I've got enough DoctorXYZ to keep track of. On the other hand, at a place like this there is no way to prove or disprove that assertion. I hope you have a safe drive.

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    35. Thanks Puppy for yr thoughts.... :-)
      I appreciate them. Your very wise and see through lots of stuff. ��


      Doctor Alter, The play is not so fun anymore for me and I just need a big time out. :) The Freud parody I laughed at, I honestly wasn't offended by that.
      It's the other stuff that I talked to you about awhile back previously in emails and getting called derogatory statements by him when the friendship collapsed. It ain't your fault, I'm just kinda pissed at me for letting some fleeting feelings get the best of me. And also feeling like a complete idiot for having an attachment where there clearly should have not been one. I valued the friendship. But it was for a season. I accept that. But only knew what it really meant to me ....till it was gone. Weird. He just dumped our friendship like that. It was just nice shooting the shit with him when opportunity presented itself. There were no strings attached, but kinda attached when we talked friendly to each other in those moments. Not romantically, just edifying, funny stuff. I never expected nothing else. Because these are "ludas love" types. You'll never be the ONE. There's just too much beauty to be the ONE. There's so many 'ONES.' to them. And I don't think its wrong or right, its very grey to me. They make you feel on top of the world, supportive. But it's only short lived momentarily when it presents itself. He's apologized for his rage and lashing out because I held him accountable or I'd beat his ass. Lol. I don't hold it against him. I wish him the best because I understand him. I used to joke in that group and call us sister wives and the guys - husband brothers. Because we loved eachother. Just a different type of love where not used to in society. We put it down because many lead monogamous lifestyles. Morals, ethics maybe got blurry a bit by the end, not to extreme though. And no I've never had an affair,, I can't justify it because there's other people to think about long term. And I made a vow of commitment that I need to follow through with. For me one on one works best. But other people have alternative lifestyles that I tolerate, embrace and respect.

      Yesterday that Cunt word just placed me back in that vulnerability mode. But I'm ok. So peace.

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    36. Superchick, Peace with you too, and to everyone here.

      Your last comment, as with some others, is both edifying and mystifying. I find it helps me sometimes to write, and sometimes not to write. I think also the comment by anon about shame and shaman, that's also insightful.

      I intended humour with my parody of Freud, who was a parody of himself. It's easy to through up a Rorschack test of terms like 'penis envy' etc., all things associated somehow with shame. We most all have to some degree mixtures in our gender and/or sexual identities.

      The main thing for me is that Freud, living in a puritanical sexually repressed society, well, when he first started his 'talking cure' he found many women talking about sexual abuse when they were young. At first he took that seriously. But then he realized that no one would believe him if he claimed this level of sexual abuse, that it was real that is.

      He made a strategic decision to CHANGED HIS ASSERTION and decided these memories were inventions of these women's imagination (AND STUCK TO THAT FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE), that they had repressed sexual urges that led to what he now considered to be delusions.

      In the end, none of the basic premises of Freudian analysis can be tested empirically. No one can prove or disprove there are 3 parts to our conscious experience: ego, super-ego and id. It is all crap from my point of view. But a
      kind of shamanism that affects people in a deep way sometime, especially if it comes from an authority. It took well over a century for society to realize the extent of sexual abuse of children in their homes, in their churches, in their schools, in their activities. The women he treated with his 'talking cures' more than likely were sexually abused and were betrayed by Freud to advance his own career. I'm not saying Freud did or was evil. He did what suited his purposes.

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    37. A cunt is a terrible thing.

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    38. I'll say that depends on what you mean by cunt. If you mean insult to women? Maybe. If you mean vagina... No. Vaginas are wonderful things.

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    39. I don't really understand why most people have such strong reactions when someone casually mentions female genitalia in a conversation.

      So I can't help but to assume the worst.

      Everyone likes to fool around with words like 'cock', 'dick' and the like.

      But dare to mention something like 'cunt' and bam. It's like you murdered a puppy.

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    40. your are a stupid cunt. how do you like that?

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    41. Honestly, the 'cunt' part doesn't really bother me much at all.

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    42. "So I can't help but to assume the worst." What is the worst?

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    43. When my partner has called me a cunt a few times so far, it's because he's so wickedly mad at me for something. I've seriously crossed his line. Its like the worst part of anger ive seen. And its usually justified. Ive hurt him. :( I get it. So the cunt word triggers me; but at the same time i admit, it seriously arouses me too. Kinda like an oxymoron. And I tell him that. That cunt word is a double standard and not to be used lightly or else......... ;)

      But it's how it's used in context. If someone said "God your cunt feels so good, it's so sweet to feel you inside" I would not be offended.

      When someone calls me " a dumb cunt or an evil cunt. " it's just not nice mannerism. And I freak a little.......

      Just call me a nice cunt. Fuck.

      I have changed my name to zupperchick Dr. Alter Freud. Just for a little while-- while I'm in session with you. That accent I can hear. Haha

      It's all about perception. :)

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  26. A very nice animated video "The truth about dishonesty"... I love these videos...
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XBmJay_qdNc&list=PL39BF9545D740ECFF

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  27. How about this as a solution to a "pressing problem" (No pun
    intended.) Female felons can be "freed" from prison in return for
    giving "creeps" sex.
    We have an increasing problem with social outcasts taking out their
    agressions on innocent women-college co-eds usually. In the proposed
    arraingement, instead of serving time in prison, the girls would be set
    up in private houses. They would "service" the men in return for thier
    freedom.
    Wouldn't it be wonderful if these creeps would have a shot at Jodi Arias
    INSTEAD of having to "shoot" college girls who would never give them the
    time of day? And Jodi's life wouldn't have to be wasted in prison.
    She could take pretty photo's and paint pretty pictures on the outside.
    A great deal for all involved!

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    1. These are not in fact not getting laid BECAUSE they are social outcast. Take some time and talk to them like I have. The ones who go on shooting sprees have deep seated hatred of women. They see them as objects. They treat them as objects. No surprise they can therefore not get laid. I believe that they way we socialize our young men and women in the US has lead to this problem.

      Sadly most cultures and religions view women as the root of the man's own desires. Once the blame is laid upon women for a man's desire the woman becomes and object and the man is free from any responsibility to control or even manage their own natural urge to breed. Women are taught to buy into the fantasy of a "soul mate". That only one person on the whole planet is "the one". Let's face it this is a really fucked up way of doing something that should be simple. Society and religion layers all these stupid expectations on the simple mating urge. Pressures and ridiculous expectations and lies. We have over-complicated a simple biological urge to the point it destroys life.

      We need to demystify the act of mating. Take out the religion, take out the sex roles and expectations, remove the fantasy and advertising. Bring it back to where people can just meet each other and honestly express what they wish. No stress. Not going to happen of course but.....

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    2. mysogyny + sociopathy = poison
      mysogyny + Paranoid Personality Disorder (PPD) = destruction or even death

      http://www.manipulative-people.com/a-rare-but-potentially-dangerous-personality-disorder/

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    4. Puppy,

      I mentioned this before in the last thread, but I'm sure it got lost in the noise. I objectify everyone, and so I can't really understand the concern you have about objectifying women in particular. It isn't because I hate people, its just the way I relate to others. Also, I've never had a problem getting laid. ;)

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    5. misogyny is the hatred, dislike or distrust of women in particular. it is not about objectification exactly, esp for someone who objectifies everyone.

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  28. For men who want to lose emotions of shame and caring about what people say or think, here is another exercise, easier and more risk free then the one M.E suggested. For one week walk around with a boner without trying to hide it or anything. Own that boner! If anything show it off or make sure people can see it. Do that for a week without feeling embarrassed.

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    1. I can see the "Own You Boner" campaign going viral on youtube.. This would be hilarious.

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    2. Okay Puppy & I will get on making t-shirts for you men, "own that boner. stand tall - and own it!"

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    3. That would actually be pretty great XD. I always see guys embarassed and trying to hide their boners. Worst part is, the more they try to hide it the more obvious it becomes. But I sorta get them, when I walk around with a boner people stare at me as if I was the rudest, most disgusting and perverted around. What can I do about it guys sometimes get random poppies. Lol I'd buy that shirt.

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    4. We sell them at a high price!

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    5. :D deal! shakes hand* Notti Nighty , dolci baci a voi. . ♔ ♕ ♖ ♗ ♘ ♙

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  29. Loved it. Best article I've read in a while. To get rid of shame, become a shaman. You can't shame a shaman. What I mean is when you feel yourself feeling negative thoughts, change them to their positive opposite (like hypnosis) so turn fear into confidence, shame into pride, etc...

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    1. and i know it sounds silly but you gotta do this repetitively until your subconscious treats it as fact and then it just becomes habit.

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  30. or shame into humility. cuz true pride is humility. its the same thing

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  31. The "male" half of a lesbeian couple behaves JUST like the
    biological male does in society. "He" beats on "his" partner.
    So this "trait" is not confined to ordinary male/female relationships, but
    also exists in "gay" relationships.
    In fact, two male homosexuals will be as nurturing towards children as
    straight females will. Also, sociopathic women with lots of male
    testosterone like Casey Anthony and Jodi Arias, will either be indifferent
    towards children or not want them. Even M.E.'s interest in a child (If she
    can be believed) is to mold one into an "acceptable" sociopath. M.E. is
    displaying no desperation to have a child. There are plenty of "bad seed"
    sociopathic children she could adopt and work on.
    BTW, the "Love Fraud" blog says that the most dangerous sociopaths
    are the bi-sexual sociopaths. Do you agree?
    Finally, will someone please predict a future for Casey Anthony?
    Will she always remain in hiding? Or will she marry a man in her
    immeadiate enviornment like a bodyguard or an attorney. I ask you
    folks because I know of no one more qualified to answer.

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    1. Umm... I know couples where the wives beat their husbands. One of them the guy was scared to lose her so he let her beat him until he had to be sent to the E.R. Then his family forced and pressured him into divorcing her.

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  32. "If you aren't thinking to yourself in some way, 'man, I'm fucking crazy' then you aren't doing it right."

    This is extremely funny.

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  33. Does anyone have seen the documentary " i am a psychopath" with Sam Vaknin?

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    1. I very much enjoy Dr. Vaknin and I've watched numerous videos about/with him on YouTube. I also enjoy the fact that he'll answer questions posed to him in the comments section.

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  34. In real life, "M. E. Thomas" is apparently Jamie Lund, the listed owner of the domain name SociopathWorld.com (and the selfsame Jamie Rebecca Lund who until recently taught law at St. Mary's University School of Law in San Antonio, Texas).
    http://bigthink.com/devil-in-the-data/are-you-a-sociopath

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    1. You mean you've found out her real name??? Get outta town!

      Seriously. Everyone who ever cared already knows. And even they don't care anymore. It's old news. No need for the press release.

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    2. "Everyone who ever cared already knows."
      I didn't know, perhaps some others. This is not a newspaper.

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    3. Anon@3:45, there are a number of interesting and credible articles written about the real person, who is really interesting. Is it one of the rules of sociopath world to eschew that subject?

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  35. You have nothing to fear from Sociopaths; It can only take a bullet to the head.

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    1. honore inter fures

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    2. Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery
      None but ourselves can free our minds
      Have no fear of anybodies energy
      Cause none of them can stop the time

      -Tii Marley

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  36. Thanks to Dr Brave for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family

    Hello to every one out here, am here to share the unexpected miracle that happened to me three days ago, My name is Jeffrey Dowling,i live in TEXAS,USA.and I`m happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she did not love me anymore So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.(bravespellcaster@gmail.com}, So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day what an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who did not call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster . So, was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster . So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website http://bravespellcaster.yolasite.com,if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to “bringing your ex back. So thanks to Dr Brave for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again.{bravespellcaster@gmail.com} , Thanks.

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  37. Thanks to Dr Brave for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family

    Hello to every one out here, am here to share the unexpected miracle that happened to me three days ago, My name is Jeffrey Dowling,i live in TEXAS,USA.and I`m happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she did not love me anymore So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.(bravespellcaster@gmail.com}, So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day what an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who did not call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster . So, was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster . So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website http://bravespellcaster.yolasite.com,if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to “bringing your ex back. So thanks to Dr Brave for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again.{bravespellcaster@gmail.com} , Thanks.

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  38. I love how crazy the people are here. It makes me feel I like I just won lottery big on sanity.

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    1. Looks more like BPD and NPD posing as Socios than anything else..

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    2. Reality check on yr lottery winnings. Arrogance has one. I have never been diagnosed with narcissism, but I don't think I'm better than or less than anybody else. I have been diagnosed with borderline traits, not even full blown, whatever that means. Not one borderline is completely alike to the other. Just like not one aspd individual is completely alike to the next. I dislike being mingled into and meshed in with the rest of the borderlines when they've displayed some pretty idiotic shit.

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  39. I'm just a honest person. I am not a sociopath.
    do you a empath or a normal really care what you think or can't fill, I'm not the smartest of people but always been able to get what I want, think this site is a ego rub it's never really going to tell you even thing you don't already know just a place to hang a mask for a little

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  40. This was probably the worst entry you have written so far, I believe you have become bored with this blog as I would have too no shame in it but I think you should stop writing because you are bored. This article was a complete waste of time on your part, pandering to idiots is all you are doing now. It was a fun ride while it lasted though, sucks people found out who you are : / but thems the brakes I guess. Good luck. M

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  41. sociopaths are sad people who have large parts of their brain function missing. If you want to be like this, just run at a wall and bang your head. Or get someone to hit you with a brick.

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    1. Do your fucking research. With statements like this, you seem to be the one with large parts of your brain missing.

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  42. If this is what a sociopath is, we should really separate sociopathy and machiavellism. Former sucks, latter is awesome.

    Also is this true she appeared on some show? She was talking about how she gets off, when she cuts herself and realises she's still alive.

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  43. I killed my uncle after reading this thanks

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  44. DSM 6 will declare that the entire human species is mentally ill. As there is no God (you know there is no God no matter how much you claim IT exists), we have no therapist to treat us. Either we come up with a "self cure" or we commit suicide as a species. Which will it be?

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    1. Radical Agnostic, when you say there is no God, then you're saying that there is Nothing here for us to experience and there is no experiencer to experience it. You're saying there is no me or you. No I.

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    2. No Universe and no Intelligence in nature's patterns.

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  45. I totally want to go buy a random homeless person a backpack full of $40 dollars worth of groceries now.

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  46. I am here to give testimony on how i got my wife back ,He is real.?

    Hello to every one out here, am here to share the unexpected miracle that happened to me three days ago, My name is Jeffrey Dowling,i live in Texas,USA.and I`m happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she did not love me anymore So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.(bravespellcaster@gmail.com}, So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day what an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who did not call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster . So, was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster . So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website http://bravespellcaster.yolasite.com,if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to “bringing your ex back. So thanks to Dr Brave for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again.{bravespellcaster@gmail.com} , Thanks.

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  47. Hello, my name is Miss faith, I'm from USA. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is genuine and real. I never really believed in any of these things but when I was losing Garvin, I needed help and somewhere to turn badly. I found consultant.odia spells and i ordered a LOVE SPELL. Several days later, my phone rang. Garvin was his old self again and wanted to come back to me! Not only come back, the spell caster opened him up to how much I loved and needed him. Spell Casting isn't brainwashing, but they opened his eyes to how much we have to share together. I recommend anyone who is in my old situation to try it. It will bring you a wonderful surprises as well as your lover back to you. The way things were meant to be." you can contact the spell caster on ogbonispelitemple@hotmail.com he's very nice and great.

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  48. i am very damaged, my childhood trauma made me this way, i just want people to notice........ please reply please

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    1. Do you want to talk about it? I'm really sorry this happened to you..

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    2. I have my own problems to worry about.

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  49. This is completely silly. I've got better things to do than follow some ridiculous plan like this. Whoever wrote this is just some fuck trying to be funny. I don't have to do anything like this to be a sociopath. I can just be one and do whatever I want at my own leisure when it's convenient and casual. Some of this would create too much unnecessary risk for myself so why the hell would I want to do that? Spend $40 for groceries on a homeless man? Utterly ridiculous. That proves nothing other than I am an idiot for not spending $40 on myself.

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  50. Why do you presume that the person reading this blog will be a guy?? It's pretty apparent that that's what you think with all the "flirting and then destroying the chick" tone going on.
    Also beat the dog if you want, shoot a bird and be HAPPY about it?? Whoever is writing this is fucking retarded. Sociopaths are not crazy people. All the above described is just plain vandalism and wrecking of lives.
    Wow, this article is so stupid and lame. Maybe the person writing it is a sociopath to the extreme, so they just don't care about WHAT they are actually writin.
    In that case, good job. LOL

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  51. FUCK ALL OF YOU

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  52. That is not the idea, Anonymous. A sociopath would not get so emotionally entangled as to type in all-caps some angry tirade unless the negativity were directed at her or him. If the reader truly wishes to become a sociopath, then take every relationship one has with all other human beings and apply the value of that relationship in one simple equation: revenue minus cost equals profit. (it happens to be the basic equation of a private business operating in a capitalist society, such as the U.S.) And then, every time one chooses to interact with others, think of profit above all. And then one dark, stormy day you might wake up as a sociopath.

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  53. My Name is Carol Williams ..I never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster when i contact this man called Dr.jartospellcaster@gmail.com Execute some business..He is really powerful..My wife divorce me with no reason for almost 4 years and i tried all i could to have her back cos i really love her so much but all my effort did not work out.. we met at our early age at the college and we both have feelings for each other and we got married happily for 5 years with no kid and she woke up one morning and she told me she’s going on a divorce..i thought it was a joke and when she came back from work she tender to me a divorce letter and she packed all her loads from my house..i ran mad and i tried all i could to have her back but all did not work out..i was lonely for almost 4 years...So when i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for her full name and her picture..i gave him that..At first i was skeptical but i gave it a try cos have tried so many spell casters and there is no solution...so when he finished with the readings,he got back to me that she’s with a man and that man is the reason why she left me...The spell caster said he will help me with a spell that will surely bring her back.but i never believe all this...he told me i will see a positive result within 3 days..3 days later,she called me herself and came to me apologizing and she told me she will come back to me..I cant believe this,it was like a dream cos i never believe this will work out after trying many spell casters and there is no solution..The spell caster is so powerful and after that he helped me with a pregnancy spell and my wife got pregnant a month later..we are now happy been together again and with lovely kid..This spell caster has really changed my life and i will forever thankful to him..he has helped many friends too with similar problem too and they are happy and thankful to him..This man is indeed the most powerful spell caster have ever experienced in life..Am Posting this to the Forum in case there is anyone who has similar problem and still looking for a way out..you can reach him here:Dr.jartospellcaster@gmail.com... CONTACT THIS GREAT AND POWERFUL SPELL CASTER CALLED Dr.jartospellcaster@gmail.com ... HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS :Dr.jartospellcaster@gmail.com.. CONTACT HIM NOW AND BE FAST ABOUT IT SO HE CAN ALSO ATTEND TO YOU BECAUSE THE EARLIER YOU CONTACT HIM NOW THE BETTER FOR YOU TO GET QUICK SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS.

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  54. I attend Remnant presbyterian church in new york. Our senior pastor victor kim ran out on us after he was discovered having a 10 year affair. Now that facts are coming out, he lived a double life, with many women and exploiting church finances. It is clear that this man is a sociopath. he is pathological liar and has been having sex with women within the church for all this time. His family is in denial and completely believed his lies claiming conspiracy theory and the world is lying and is out against him. Typical sociopath avoiding responsibility. No cure for this guy.

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  55. i had no emotions for a good 2 and a half years and did many things in this period. Even shot someone on the leg, and when my friends came to visit me and whats going to happen now they were all worried i was like ''i dont know i guess i go to jail'' but then i guess i unlearned this behovior because now i have anxiety! :D
    I can tell that being emotionless is not something good tho, you dont feel like God(thats just wishfull of the above sociopath) you just dont feel. Life is colorless, you see someone suffering, it doesnt attract your attention if you have something important to do or you are on your way to do something.
    But i know this behoviour can be unlearned cus i did, and i became highly anxious too. I dont think i WORRY a lot, but i care about what people think about me now and get sad if someone i love is sad.

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  56. I get a kick out of this. You wanna be top dog and set the standards , aye? Well everyone lsitening, if you be a real psycho, don't be anyone at all.

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