Sunday, December 4, 2016

Smartest person in the room

Sorry for the particularly slow posting and comment moderation, I've been out of the country.

I stumbled upon this video, I have forgotten where. It's from personal financial guru Dave Ramsay, but it takes an interesting turn from the personal as the woman seeks what she believes is financial advice and instead he gives her marital advice.



Dave Ramsay says that they're at an impasse not because of the consumer debt that the couple has, but because their world views are colliding. He talks about there being a respect meltdown where "he is the king of everything and your opinion doesn't matter." He says it's debilitating. "How do we get your husband on board, uh, we don't, until he decides he's on board with being your husband." "He's just doing whatever the flip he wants to do and the rest of you just exist around him." "You're trying to work around this elephant that's in the middle of your living room . . .  and you can't work around it."

I feel like this must be the experience of a lot of people who are in a relationship with someone with certain types of mental health issues (including a lot of people with personality disorders) who have difficulty validating or acknowledging the personhood of others. I know in dealing with some lower functioning people with personality disorders, they will insist on absolute autonomy -- the right to do and say what they want, when they want and not to be accountable to other people for their choices. Often there is a double standard because they expect other people to consider them and their preferences in making choices. They can be hyper sensitive to anyone having an expectation of them, that they show up on time or do what they say they're going to do or fix the problems that they've created for other people. They'll whine about how people are trying to manipulate them or control them, trying to micromanage their life.

Unfortunately I think that Dave Ramsay is right -- when someone believes that he or she is the king of everything and the rest of people just exist around him/her, a healthy, functional relationship would be impossible. Trying to help a relationship that is already there is also impossible unless the other person is really willing to start acknowledging the personhood and role of others in his or her life. 

256 comments:

  1. FIRST!!!

    YEAH!!!

    Hey, M.E.!!!

    :)

    ~Vegas

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    1. Hey, M.E.!!!

      Welcome Back!!!

      The "Song of the Day", is for you:

      Savage Garden

      IWantYou

      I hope you like it...

      :)

      ~Vegas

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  2. Am I the only one who loves meeting people like this? People who are convinced they are the center of the universe? I find few people more enjoyable to needle and infuriate. It's like a present from the world.

    I found myself in an orgy, a few weeks ago. There was a man who was clearly compensating for something; he had that forced swagger of one who wants the limelight, but doesn't want that light to illuminate the cracks in the veneer. He seemed to think of himself as the shot-caller; telling people where to go, who to suck and fuck, and where to stay. He also had a bit of a rough hand, which he used to punctuate whatever commands he felt to give.

    It was glorious. Throughout the night I played coy and docile while in groups, but would resist him at every turn when it was just us. Even when I decided to let him fuck me, I pulled him close and whispered insecurities in his ear. "They don't respect you", "Hear that? They're laughing about you", "Why do you think they wanted you to leave them alone and come to me?"

    His first response was to amp up the aggression--he got very rough at one point, bordering on violent and coercive--but once it became clear that it wasn't affecting me, you could literally see him wilt like a flower in the heat.

    It culminated when I kissed a bystander after pointedly refusing to kiss him for the entire night. He couldn't focus on his fucking, he couldn't focus on his performance; he just ended up in the corner, drunk and trying to hold the attention of pitying passer-bys.

    Night well spent. Plus, getting fucked is always fun. Someone has to predate the people who think they've been knitted from God's pubic hair.

    -k.b.

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    1. k.b.-

      How does one find themselves in an orgy, if you don't mind my asking???

      Did you go, knowing it was an orgy, or did it turn into one???

      Just curious...

      ~Vegas

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    2. k.b.-

      PS-I liked your comment.:)

      ~Vegas

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    3. You orchestrate it yourself, or you ask around. I went knowing it was one; it's all in who you know.

      -k.b.

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    4. k.b.-

      Have you ever orchestrated an orgy???

      What do you say, when you ask around???

      I would be interested in hearing more about your "orgy experience", if you'd like to share it.:)

      ~Vegas

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    5. Once or twice, but I prefer to grow one organically rather than know people who throw sex parties.

      Few things are as exciting as managing to get my friends and acquaintances riled up enough to fall upon each other. And then, of course, to get involved in the carnage.

      Ask around; i.e., know other sexually liberal people and be worth inviting to an orgy. If you can bring a smashing body, great flexibility or drugs to the table, you'll probably wing an invite.

      -k.b.

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    6. k.b.-

      I agree about growing one organically.:)

      I think I know, but what do you mean by "flexibility", and which drugs do people usually bring???

      Just curious...

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    7. k.b.-

      PS-Have you ever been to any sex clubs???

      Just curious...

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    8. I mean physical flexibility. Nothing qualifies you for an orgy like the ability to put your feet behind your ears.

      As for drugs, the common favourites seem to be speed and coke. They're more-ish drugs, and not my favourite by a long strike, but you take what you get.

      Haven't been to sex clubs--don't think they exist in my city--but I have been to fetish parties. Stripped down and got flogged in front of a room full of people. Lots of fun.

      -k.b.

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    9. Hey k.b.-

      That's what I thought-thanks for the clarification.:)

      ~Vegas

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    10. Hey k.b.-

      What city do you live in???

      ~Vegas

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    11. Hey k.b.-

      You do not need to answer, if you do not wish to...

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    12. why would you attend an orgy you weirdo? you clearly have no self respect and couldn't give a toss about your reputation, if your acting like a sleaze ball. i find it funny that youd show yourself at an orgy but your staying anonymous in a place that would actually boost your reputation. Reminds me of UKan taking dick pics of a randomer but is afraid to reveal himself on here. All I see on here are amateurs at getting power.

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    13. Where is that clown UKan? I remember he copied my writing style when I came in here and busted up the regulars. He acts like a don yet is afraid of the limelight. How can you be powerful if your afraid of revealing yourself? That shows everyone your a fraud because powerful people are comfortable with exposure and people knowing their identities. Stay in your castle UKreep while I mingle with my people

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    14. Hey, k.b.-

      Have you ever seen the movie "The Center of the World", with Molly Parker and Peter Sarsgaard???

      If not, I think you might like it...

      ~Vegas

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    15. Hey, k.b.-

      When you said "center of the universe", it made me think of that film...

      :)

      ~Vegas

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  3. Hey, M.E.-

    I hope you had a good trip, and I'm glad you're back!!!

    I like this post-I've seen a few of Dave Ramsey's shows.:)

    M.E.-You are "The Master"!!! It's cool that I don't even have to tell my story, and you just "know".:)

    ~Vegas

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  5. Hey, North-

    If you're out there, I wanted to apologize to you.

    It's not an excuse, but I had been through/was going through a lot when I got here, and for most of the time that I've been here.:(

    I was way amped and ultra-sensitive, and I'm sorry.:(

    I'm feeling much more like myself now, and realize how I was, and I wanted to apologize to you-will you accept my apology???

    I hope so!!!

    I'm missing your comments, and updates on your saga with **-*.:)

    ~Vegas

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    1. Hey, North-

      PS-I've read a little bit of your blog, and am enjoying it.:)

      Hopefully, I will get the chance, to read more.:)

      I hope you continue with it.:)

      ~Vegas

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    2. No problem, Vegas. I threw punches too. Always happy to start fresh :)

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    3. Hey North-

      Thank you, for accepting my apology-I'm always happy to start fresh, too.:)

      ~Vegas

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  6. Hey, A-

    Guess what???

    I see "Pollyanna", on the TV Listings...

    :)

    ~Vegas

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  7. Once you can see all the debris that has been swept under the sanity rug of the Narcissist, you hold their heart in your hands. Then you can make it play your own rhythm as it beats.

    Frustration is killing us.
    We need to kill frustration.

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  8. Why is frustration killing you? What is frustrating?

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  9. Hey, M.E.!!!

    I loved the "Brain Pickings" on Rilke!!!

    Thank You!!!

    :)

    We are definitely "telepathically linked"!!!

    :):)

    You are already "in my head"!!!

    :):):)

    Man, you are quick!!!

    :):):):)

    The Lisa Hanawalt re-tweet TOTALLY CRACKED ME UP!!!

    HA!!! LOL!!!

    :):):):):)

    You always know, just when I need to laugh, too!!!

    Thank you...

    :):):):):):)

    ~Vegas

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  10. For entertainment purposes only.

    http://www.nytimes.com/2016/08/05/opinion/the-sociopaths-diary.html?WT.mc_id=2016-KWP-MOBILE-INTL_AUD_DEV&WT.mc_ev=click&ad-keywords=IntlAudDev&kwp_0=198251&_r=0

    Mr. Hyde

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    1. “Show authority. Keep people on their toes. Bully them a little. Contradict yourself. Remind them you can get nasty.”

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    2. "And don't forget to check your email."

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    3. A,

      Nice seeing you back. Now if only Jonaid was here . . . kinda miss those flaming takedowns.

      Damaged,

      Someone just sent me a pic of bloody-mouthed lion. How did you know?

      Mr. Hyde

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    4. D,

      No.

      You'll have to respect that.

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  11. Vapid said:

    I just read a quote, that I think is true:

    Real power doesn't yell, it whispers. -John Gray


    No.
    Real power *accomplishes*.

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    1. Why would Real power whisper 'John Gray'?
      Tis an absurd notion.


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    2. Swop I thought you might be pulling everyone's proverbial leg but I kinda agree. Real power is power over yourself. You don't needto yell or whisper to yourself.

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    3. Hey A-

      You like me, don't you???

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    4. Hey A-

      PS-Do you think M.E. likes her song???

      I was surprised you didn't like the "Wonderwall" song I gave her...

      :(

      ~Vegas

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    5. No. I don't like you. I think the persona you choose to embody here is vacuous and phony. I know you are not who you claim to be.

      And I hate Oasis. :P

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    6. > Real power doesn't yell, it whispers. -John Gray

      Real power gets asked or says however it wants.


      > No.
      > Real power *accomplishes*.

      *nods head*

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    7. > And I hate Oasis. :P

      *nods head*

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    8. Then Damaged has no clue what Real Power is. If it's just a case of sucking up to A, get fucked, that's my job.
      Hey A, how's it going fella? Getting quite a fanclub aintcha big guy?

      As for Oasis, I wouldn't expect you Yanks to appreciate or even acknowledge British music, they may be dicks, but some of their music is undeniably excellent.
      But then, you lot invented music though didn't you? And the known world, good old America. Oh, wait, hold the phone sorry...I meant, police and destroy the known world in thine own image.
      Now, that's Real Power.

      Anon,I was pulling the proverbial, make inane comments all you want, but don't use mine as a launchpad for your shit

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    9. Enlighten me as to the true nature of Real Power(TM).

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    10. I dunno? To be honest, I can't really say it's of much concern to me either, Real Power (other types of Power are available) isn't something that concerns me. Why would it? I'm perfectly in control of my own life, and those I hold closest to me, I'm not interested in wielding supreme power or *accomplishments*, I have everything I need and a lot I don't.
      Define Power I guess?
      I have electricity going directly in to my home, available at the flick of a (non proverbial, anon) switch, that's pretty, powerful yeah?
      Ooo, and gas.
      Is Power relevant to me? Nah, can't say it is, so, on that detailed and informative run down, maybe the need for Power is a weakness?

      Hey Vegas ;)

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    11. To accomplish is a verb.

      ac·com·plish

      verb

      -Achieve or complete successfully.
      "the planes accomplished their mission"

      synonyms: fulfill, achieve, succeed in, realize, attain, manage, bring about/off, carry out/through, execute, effect, perform, do, discharge, complete, finish, consummate, conclude;

      To accomplish is to successfully execute.

      By any definition, this demands that power be executed.

      When you flick a switch, the power goes on. Your action accomplishes a task: you turn on the light.

      Is this an *accomplishment*? Yes, it is:

      ac·com·plish·ment

      noun

      -Something that has been achieved successfully.
      "the reduction of inflation was a remarkable accomplishment"

      synonyms: achievement, act, deed, exploit, performance, attainment, effort, feat, move, coup
      "the reduction of inflation was a remarkable accomplishment"

      -The successful achievement of a task.
      "the accomplishment of planned objectives"

      -An activity that a person can do well, typically as a result of study or practice.
      "long-distance running was another of her accomplishments"

      There are many types of power, but none of them may be expressed outside the definition of accomplishing. In fact, "power" is defined primarily in terms of one's ability to do, or accomplish, something:

      Noun
      1.
      ability to do or act; capability of doing or accomplishing something.

      2.
      political or national strength:
      the balance of power in Europe.
      3.
      great or marked ability to do or act; strength; might; force.
      4.
      the possession of control or command over others; authority; ascendancy:
      power over men's minds.
      5.
      political ascendancy or control in the government of a country, state, etc.:
      They attained power by overthrowing the legal government.
      6.
      legal ability, capacity, or authority:
      the power of attorney.
      7.
      delegated authority; authority granted to a person or persons in a particular office or capacity:
      the powers of the president.

      Verb (used with object)
      21.
      to supply with electricity or other means of power:
      Atomic energy powers the new submarines.
      22.
      to give power to; make powerful:
      An outstanding quarterback powered the team in its upset victory.
      23.
      to inspire; spur; sustain:
      A strong faith in divine goodness powers his life.
      24.
      (of a fuel, engine, or any source able to do work) to supply force to operate (a machine):
      An electric motor powers this drill.
      25.
      to drive or push by applying power:
      She powered the car expertly up the winding mountain road.
      adjective
      26.
      operated or driven by a motor or electricity:
      a power mower; power tools.
      27.
      power-assisted:
      His new car has power brakes and power windows.
      28.
      conducting electricity:
      a power cable.
      29.
      Informal. expressing or exerting power; involving or characteristic of those having authority or influence, as in power lunch; power couple; power suit.
      Verb phrases
      30.
      power down, Computers. to shut off.
      31.
      power up, Computers. to turn on.
      Idioms
      32.
      the powers that be, those in supreme command; the authorities:
      The decision is in the hands of the powers that be.

      Is Power relevant to me? Nah, can't say it is, so, on that detailed and informative run down,

      Bullshit. You're a dom. It is completely disingenuous for you to claim that power is of no import to you, considering that you have wrapped up a considerable portion of your identity in terms of wielding power of a very specific kind.

      You are defensive because you know you have not lived up to our potential in certain areas of your life.

      maybe the need for Power is a weakness?

      Maybe it is yours.
      ;)




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    12. Well, the thread is labelled Smartest Person In The Room.
      Thankyou for the dictionary quotes, always welcome.

      I am not defensive.
      (that was a, being defensive gag anon)

      Out done by a dictionary. Well fuck me.
      But...as a 'dom', do I wield the power A?

      Accomplishing flicking a switch just allows me to tap into the power supplied by others.

      Ooo...just checked my own dictionary...

      A:
      1. The first letter taught to infants.
      2: a single word question used mainly by northerners in place of What? Sorry? Say again? i.e... A?
      3: a hairy man giant masquerading as a petite beauty

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    13. A-

      I'm sorry you don't like me, and that you hate Oasis...

      :(

      I guess it's time to try, and give up my girl crush on you...

      :(

      ~Vegas

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    14. Hey Swop...

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    15. Vegas you are a doll who radiates sunshine. You know who you are. ;-)

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    16. P = W / t

      I like the definition of power as accomplishment.

      I've recently witnessed some inept wielding of legitimate power by my MoR. It definitely hasn't resulted in work being done; meaning the business is in a precarious position and staff are heading into Christmas questioning their choice of employer. Nothing has been accomplished; indeed his strategy deliberately isolates achievers and is leading to the failure anyone with half a brain might have predicted.

      Leaders hire leaders. Narcs hire sycophants to create an empire as false and fragile as their own self.

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    17. The best learning from the experience for me was that I no longer need to react chaotically to the drama created in these false power dynamics.

      As I've said all along regarding **-*, the worst they can do is frustrate. That's annoying... but it's not the global control they wish they had.

      I'm still learning to apply this stuff with **-*. For the most part it simply means realising his otherness and thus my own distinctness. Then I'm left to address my own fears before responding.

      Neo in the Matrix says "the problem is choice." Rather: choice is opportunity. It is the inevitable result of personal power and flows from self-awareness.

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    18. Hey Swop-

      If I lose power, can I come stay with you???

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    19. Hey Swop-

      PS-Then, I'll get to see Wales, too!!!

      :)

      I haven't been there yet...

      :(

      ~Vegas

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    20. Hey, SE!!!

      I don't really think we overdrew it-I just thought I'd agree with you...

      :)

      I found my pipe, and now I've found my passport!!!

      WOO-HOO!!! WOO-HOO!!! WOO-HOO!!!

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    21. Anon @ 9:24-

      *****BLUSHING*****

      ~Vegas

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    22. Vegas, you're very welcome.
      Whoever you may be.

      Don't play the touchy card either miss, you come to a blog site aimed at sociopaths or, um, sociopathicites (?) and expect everyone to be nice all the time? Shit, that doesn't happen outside of here.
      I thought A's bluntness was hilarious to be honest, don't take offence.

      Ooo, you'll get to see Wales! Beautiful country, you could get to experience actual heritage and ancient, truly historic traditions of an, original country.
      Not that you can't do that now of course, but here you could do it without the guilt.

      Albeit a country dominated by its neighbour to the point where their language has become its first.

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    23. Hey Vegas!!!

      Yeah... Me neither. :P

      I just thought it'd be a funny quip...
      Oh, and I also wanted to see how many times I could get you to agree...

      :)
      ...
      Well, I just got bored.

      I guess this is it for now, then - I'm out of new ideas.

      Take care! ;)

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  13. My ex-husband's best friend said "He's the air traffic controller and we're all his little planes."

    I've learnt what my wings are for :p

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  14. People think what they want to think-or maybe what they need to think. That's OK. I can't control them. And even though they have controlled me I broke free. And I did it on my own. Unaware. They are aware of so much but are ultimately still trapped in their own game.

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    1. Anon-

      I'm breaking free, too...

      :)

      ~Vegas

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      PS-What did you mean by "Unaware"???

      ~Vegas

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  15. Isolation
    When you leave it's like I disappear
    Desolation
    Every time you go it feels like
    Seconds slowly turn to minutes
    A month of Sundays coming up
    Time again it pulls me under
    Wonder if I'll ever rise above
    It's too much but not enough

    Misery loves company
    For a little bit of sympathy

    It's here today but it's gone tomorrow
    It's here today and today will never come again
    It's here today

    Misery loves company
    For a little bit of sympathy

    It's here today but it's gone tomorrow
    It's here today and today will never come again
    It's here today but it's gone tomorrow
    It's here today and today will never come again
    It's here today

    Minutes slowly turn to hours
    Another moment passes by
    Seconds of eternity
    I wonder if it's time to say goodbye

    It's here today but it's gone tomorrow
    It's here today and today will never come again
    It's here today but it's gone tomorrow
    It's here today and today will never come again
    It's here today

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    1. Adam-

      I loved that-thanks for sharing it.:)

      ~Vegas

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  16. Hey, M.E.!!!

    I agree with your tweet:

    "Real power is power over yourself."

    :)

    ~Vegas

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  17. Hey, SE!!!

    If you're out there...

    I just wanted to let you know, that I'm drinking some of my "Winning Coffee"!!!

    :)

    ~Vegas

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    1. Hey, SE!!!

      I also wanted to tell you, that I FINALLY FOUND MY PIPE, which means, it's time for me to buy some weed!!!

      YIPPEE!!! YIPPEE!!! YIPPEE!!!

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    2. Hey, SE!!!

      I meant "Magic Tobacco"...

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    3. Hey Vegas!!!

      Congratulations, on winning the coffee game!!!

      :)

      It was fun playing that one - thank you for playing! :)

      Although, it looks like we might have overdone it juuuust a little bit...

      :)

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    4. Hey, SE-

      Thanks for the "Congrats"...

      :)

      It was fun-thanks for playing with me, too...

      :):)

      We probably did overdue it, just a little bit...

      :):):)

      ~Vegas

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    5. Hey Vegas:

      Thank you for the "Thanks"...

      :)

      Yeah, it seems that, yes, we did end up overdrawing it, just a little bit...

      :):)

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  18. Vegas -

    Has M.E. ever responded to you in any way?

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    1. Damaged-

      No.

      I'm sure she has a harem and probably doesn't like me (like A), so I should stop...

      :(

      ~Vegas

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    2. Damaged-

      PS-I wanted her to know how I feel, and now I have...

      ~Vegas

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  19. Hi everyone, my name is Garrison Jeff and am from London, I met this spell caster called Dr. Ozil of drozilsolutionhome@yahoo.com online and so many other, but i decided to go with this particular spell caster and this is about 2 weeks ago.I needed the spell caster to reunite me and my lover because she started behaving strange and a day came she text me and told me she cannot continue with the relationship anymore, that she just want to be alone.But a close friend of hers shows the guy to me that she was now dating.So i contacted this spell caster because i was totally heart broken and i smoked and get drunk till i could not even notice if am standing or lying.This spell caster told me not to worry, he gave me hope that am to have her again just like old times, and i provided all the requirements, and in just 5 days, my ex lover called me crying over the phone asking for me to forgive her for her stupid act, and she swore with her mother grave to love me and never hurt me again.This was what the spell caster earlier told me and it came after he has done the spell and that same night, my lover came to my house and spend the night with me.I have never seen spell as powerful as this but now, am convinced that Dr. Ozil is the best ever, You can contact him through him email address: drozilsolutionhome@yahoo.com or drozilsolutionhome@outlook.com or call: +2348144479007 or view his website: http://drozilsolutionhome5.wixsite.com/dr-ozil

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  21. Hi everyone, I'm so excited.
    My ex-boyfriend is back after a breakup,I’m extremely happy that will are living together again.
    My name is Mary Wilkie from England.
    My boyfriend of a 4yr just broke up with me and am 30 weeks pregnant.I have cried my self to sleep most of the nights and don’t seem to concentrate during lectures sometimes I stay awake almost all night thinking about him and start to cry all over again.Because of this I end up not having energy for my next day’s classes ,my attendance has dropped and am always in uni and on time.Generally he is a very nice guy ,he ended it because he said we were arguing a lot and not getting along.He is right we’ve been arguing during the pregnancy a lot .After the break up I kept ringing him and telling him I will change.I am in love with this guy and he is the best guy I have ever been with.I’m still hurt and in disbelief when he said he didn’t have any romantic feelings towards me anymore that hurt me faster than a lethal syringe.He texts me now and then mainly to check up on how am doing with the pregnancy,he is supportive with it but it’s not fair on me, him texting me as I just want to grieve the pain and not have any stress due to the pregnancy.i was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Unity can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a spell for me. 28 hours later, my bf came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I and my bf are living together happily again.. All thanks to Dr Unity. If you have any problem contact Dr.Unity now and i guarantee you that he will help you.Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com ,you can also call him or add him on Whats-app: +2348071622464 ,His website: http://unityspelltemple.yolasite.com .

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  22. Wow what the fuck happened to this place, what a geek fest! Where are all the charismatic thugs gone with their fascinating stories? It looks like adam is the only good one left her. All I see here are boring everymen and nobodies. LAME

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    1. There are plenty of spellcaster adverts too? Jeez, some people

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    2. I agree. I came her looking for cool people like me, but I found this crap. I can't even get through one of these comments because I end up not caring about two words in. I just want to find someone who thinks like me so I can see if I can make them cry. Feel free to contact me at admiremyskills@yahoo.com if you want a sociopath for a friend so you can get hurt or see how great your manipulation skills are.

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    3. I already have a sociopath for a friend: myself. And many others who want to be that. I don't need you, and no you can't make me cry. But I agree with your comment and the others above, this site seems to be being taken over by spam. Maybe the moderator can get rid of it, since I can't.

      This Adam guy seems to be running low on energy, caught deep inside the void and needs to locate an energy source to fill that up, there's plenty of it out there waiting to be had. He appears insightful and thoughtful definitely though.

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    4. Socia whats your idea of an energy source?

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    5. Anon 5:24,

      Interesting post.

      Inventive (?) twist on the usual entrance which almost always involves an attempt to disrupt the established hierarchy (?) by assuming superiority.

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    6. There are no hierarchies, just compromises.

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  23. who ever is reading this testimony today should please celebrate with me
    and my family because it all started like a joke to some people and others
    said it was impossible. my name is James i live in Chicago i am happily
    married with two kids and a lovely wife something terrible happen to my
    family along the line, i lost my job and my wife packed out of my house
    because i was unable to take care of her and my kids at that particular time. i
    manage all through five years, no wife to support me to take care of the
    children and there come a faithful day that i will never forget in my life i
    met an old friend who i explain all my difficulties to, and he take me to a
    spell caster and the name of the temple is called, DR. JUDE, i was
    assure that everything will be fine and my wife will come back to me after
    the wonderful work of Dr. drjudesolutionhome, my wife come back to
    me and today i am one of the richest man in my country. i advice you if you
    have any problem email him with this email:
    drjudesolutionhome@gmail.com and you will have the best result. take
    things for granted and it will be take from you. i wish you all the best.
    Contact Dr. JUDE on: drjudesolutionhome@gmail.com. or you contact him on this website (drjudesolutionhome.wixsite.com)

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  24. Hey, M.E.!!!

    We are DEFINITELY TELEPATHICALLY LINKED!!!

    I was just wondering when you would do some funny tweets, and then, there it was...

    :)

    ~Vegas

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  25. Regarding the video, the husband doesn't care about their financial debt. If the wife doesn't drop it, he'll either declare bankrupcy or find a way to leave the mess with her and move on.

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  26. Man I wish this blog would go back to the way it was. Remember those times, when it was interesting and insightful as opposed to writing common sense bullshit for the sake of humanizing herself so she can get a job again? Shame.

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  27. The best manipulation is don't be manipulative. If you're a good guy people will like you and you'll go far. Remember being a good guy has nothing to do with being a pussy or pushover. A good guy is just a person who knows the world and his worth

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    1. Agree. A person who can handle themselves is effective and attractive.

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    2. Well I couldn't pass by here without saying: 'Adam', who the hell *are* you and what have you done with the old Adam? 8-) You are making perfect sense. [@8.17 am]

      And North [@ 10.41am]: Also agreed.

      As for Anon @ 3.41am: Being full of common sense is a rare quality so don't denigrate it; anyone who comments on a blog 'to make someone cry' really needs to get a life. Create your own blog, maybe.

      Unemployment is vastly overrated as a career option; and ME spending two years in therapy without having learned the lessons encapsulated in her current blog entry, would have been a rather pointless waste of her money and time.

      On a more negative note; North, 8-/ it was easy to feel superiority when the 'established hierarchy' consisted of V, A/SE masquerading as individuals with a few brain cells to rub together. It seems that ME has grown up, and is not very subtly suggesting that some of her posters never will.

      No need to respond North, just passing thru. [and don't feel bad about the other place; it's really *not* suitable for most].
      KAT

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  28. Most people are manipulated willingly, whether they know it or not. For all kinds of reasons. Sometimes because it's easier to believe a lie, especially a flattering one. Sometimes we're too lazy to confront the manipulation and so play along. Sometimes we allow others to manipulate because we know that that will bind them closer and lower their guard -- then we can work the glow of things beneath their conscious awareness. And sometimes, by allowing the person to think they are the one who is manipulating/controlling, we do so to relish the joke, and/or the feeling that we are bolstering someone's sense of power, so they won't bother seeing us a threat. I often let people think they are the ones in control, especially if the matter at hand means little to me (what show to watch, where to eat). Easier than butting heads most of the time.

    Mr. Hyde

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  29. I suppose in lieu of the NSA, FBI, whoever, that I should, in all conscience, clarify that I'm not a physical threat. Unless you come for my family. Then I'm capable of extreme direct action. Otherwise, I prefer the pen to the sword.

    But, hey, why not chat first? Find common ground? If someone tries to control me via money, sex, status, it doesn't work. I don't care about those things, thus they have no power over me. I also consider my own corpereal-spiritual-mental being a bit of a fluke, all things considered.

    A yoga master once ate LSD in front of me. Then gave a lecture at a university in Boulder Colorado, to much acclaim. I asked him, How? He said, You think drugs alter reality. I say I alter drugs.

    Anyway, those who think they manipulate their way into perceiving and manipulating fundamental reality are fooling themselves. Physics always wills out. I.E., You can't decimate earth's life-sustaining ecosystems for power and profit without destroying yourself. That's why Trump and his selfish and stupid cabinet will lead to the ends of earth as we know it.

    Many people want to champion the individual's will to power and supremacy over other beings. The truth of science shows that all living organisms are interconnected. No escape from doing to others what we do to ourselves.

    Whew. What a relief to rant a wee bit

    Mr. Hyde

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    1. hey mr. hyde, I like your post... this story with the yoga master, is it really true? if yes it's very fascinating and I'd like to hear more about it...

      alice

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    2. Not much to tell, Alice. It happened in 1973 or 74, while I was staying at an ashram. A guy brought in a sheet of blotter acid, about 50 or so hits and was about to give me one, when the yogi walked into the kitchen and saw what was happening. He grabbed the blotter sheet from the guy's hand and proceeded to lecture him and me, saying something like, You think this drug has power, that it can help you see the true nature of reality? He said more stuff I can't remember -- I just recall him being very mad that the guy had brought LDS into the ashram. Anyway, he ate the whole sheet of blotter acid, sat down in Lotus and made us sit facing him, till it was time to go give the lecture. Afterwards, he asked me what I had seen. Confused, I said, Nothing. Nothing happened. Exactly, he replied. I altered the chemistry of the drug. Or something like that.

      He was a scary but very cool guy. I still wonder whether he was simply a magician whose hands were quicker than my eyes. I've thought about it for years because at the time it had a huge impact on me. (I had been a student of yoga for many years by this point, and had already experienced the initial awakening of the kundalini, which convinced me that yoga was truly an exercise that could lead to enlightenment.)

      Mr. Hyde

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    3. hey mr. hyde, thanks for sharing. very interesting story... your yoga master is quite a fascinating person, maybe I should also start with yoga, even if I don't believe that it's possible to alter the impact of drugs only by willpower I guess it's worth a try.

      alice

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    4. Alice,

      I dunno either. Like I said, I've always wondered if he fooled us. Then again, the placebo effect is real. . .has a real physical effect. And so is kundalini a real phenomena. I only experienced it once, unexpectedly during a yoga class, but the effect on my mentality was astounding.

      Mr. Hyde

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  30. Hi everyone, I'm so excited.
    My ex-boyfriend is back after a breakup,I’m extremely happy that will are living together again.
    My name is Mary Wilkie from England.
    My boyfriend of a 4yr just broke up with me and am 30 weeks pregnant.I have cried my self to sleep most of the nights and don’t seem to concentrate during lectures sometimes I stay awake almost all night thinking about him and start to cry all over again.Because of this I end up not having energy for my next day’s classes ,my attendance has dropped and am always in uni and on time.Generally he is a very nice guy ,he ended it because he said we were arguing a lot and not getting along.He is right we’ve been arguing during the pregnancy a lot .After the break up I kept ringing him and telling him I will change.I am in love with this guy and he is the best guy I have ever been with.I’m still hurt and in disbelief when he said he didn’t have any romantic feelings towards me anymore that hurt me faster than a lethal syringe.He texts me now and then mainly to check up on how am doing with the pregnancy,he is supportive with it but it’s not fair on me, him texting me as I just want to grieve the pain and not have any stress due to the pregnancy.i was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Unity can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a spell for me. 28 hours later, my bf came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I and my bf are living together happily again.. All thanks to Dr Unity. If you have any problem contact Dr.Unity now and i guarantee you that he will help you.Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com ,you can also call him or add him on Whats-app: +2348071622464 ,His website: http://unityspelltemple.yolasite.com .

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  31. Today i was ridiculed and mocked by this low level thug who doesn't even know me. Every time he's around I'm using a low key, reserved mask/persona and he thinks I'm a soft target. I was planning on challenging this prick to a boxing match, that way I'm sanctioned to hurt him. I also thought of whacking him, but too messy. The thing is I have so much self respect and I can't even take it when my false personas are mocked. How would you sociopaths/normie's deal with this prick? I'm open to advice

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    1. I'm in low key mode when I'm saving energy or around people I don't have respect for (Law 10) When I'm trying to impress someone or around wealthy affluent people, I switch into a 100% gregarious, high energy persona.

      Generally, I'm nice to people though, people love me. Today, some randomer came dashing around the corner and clipped my shoe I fell forward onto my face. I got up, smiled and gave him a thumbs up. Most people would've ran off, scowling, but I don't really get upset.

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    2. Project power at him. Make him be inferior. Slow down his movements with your eyes and stare him down for a few seconds like your gonna kill him, strike in him a cold fear. Then as soon as you've got him and you see that he took you seriously, start laughing in his face that you see the pathetic little ant that he probably is. Make him have to run.

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    3. > Today i was ridiculed and mocked by this low level thug who doesn't even know me.

      Why?


      > Every time he's around I'm using a low key, reserved mask/persona and he thinks I'm a soft target.

      Then project an image of strength.


      > I was planning on challenging this prick to a boxing match, that way I'm sanctioned to hurt him.

      or him you


      > I also thought of whacking him, but too messy.

      Uh, yeah... That's why.


      > The thing is I have so much self respect and I can't even take it when my false personas are
      > mocked.

      narc


      > How would you sociopaths/normie's deal with this prick? I'm open to advice

      Ignore him. He's beneath you. Or take action. If he says he's going to kick your ass, kick his ass.
      Whatever he says he's going to do to you, do to him. Once he says it, start doing it. No talking. It
      isn't action.

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    4. If i show him I'm strong he will shut down and I won't extract anything from him. I love playing games with people, I do it constantly. I'm going to act even weaker next time I see him. In doing that he will get more reckless and arrogant and is bound to show his weakness and reveal information.

      I do this on my family as well, I told them I was half deaf and now they talk about their most personal goings on while I'm in the next room cause they think I can't hear none of it lmao really my hearing is fine. I have so much dirt on big gaps in my family that if they ever cross me I'll spill everything on them

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    5. oh adam you made my day haha... I've rarely read something pathetic like that... you think you are clever and intelligent and cunning, but instead you are so stupid and pathetic... well I guess your ego will not let you realize this... but that's fortunately none of my business

      alice

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    6. I don't see myself as anything. If you put a label on yourself you invite others to put them on you as well (law 48) It's like people who deal drugs and are in the gangster scene. They adopt the whole thug persona and soon it becomes apart of them. After that, they're more likely to get whacked by a rival gang and have trouble with the police. Be fluid and flexible

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    7. We all have judgements who people on here are, aspie the loser, ukan the thug, north the poindexter nerd, jonaid the jihadi, but not one of you can pin me down because I'm formless

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    8. Sure thing, Adam the sciolist. ;)

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    9. Hey, SE!!!

      Sciolist is a new word for me...

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    10. Hey, SE!!!

      PS-One of the cool things about being a chick, is the free stuff dudes will give you, for just smiling and being nice!!!

      I just got a FREE "Winning Coffee"...

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    11. Hey, SE!!!

      PPS-It's fun to get free drinks in bars, too...

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    12. Hey, SE!!!

      PPPS-It's good to get out of traffic tickets, too...

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    13. Hey Vegas!!!

      Oh yeah, getting free stuff is always fun! Oh, and don't forget free favors and such!

      :)

      As the saying goes, the best things in life are free, no? :)

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    14. Hey SE!!!

      Getting free stuff is always fun...

      :)

      Free favors are always nice...

      :):)

      The best things in life are free...

      :):):)

      I really enjoyed my free "Winning Coffee" today...

      :):):):)

      ~Vegas

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    15. Hey Vegas!!!

      Free coffee is nice...

      :)

      But, free "Magic Tobacco" is even nicer...

      :):)

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    16. Hey SE!!!

      Free "Magic Tobacco" IS EVEN NICER!!!

      :)

      Do people give it to you, for free???

      :):)

      You'll laugh at this...

      The other day when I found my pipe, I was so excited, and it looked like I didn't finish the bowl!!! I was hopeful, and tried smoking it, but it was gone...

      :(

      I need to buy some!!! HA!!! LOL!!!

      :):):)

      PS-What is your viewpoint, on people flirting with you??? Do you not care, like it, or dislike it???

      I'm curious as to the sociopathic viewpoint...

      :):):):)

      Today was funny-free "Winning Coffee" from a dude, and then I had to go to the store, and a chick there was flirting with me...

      :):):):):)

      It's especially funny, since I was totally natural today-natural hair/no makeup/normal clothes...

      :):):):):):)

      I wonder, if it's because I wasn't wearing my wedding ring???

      ~Vegas

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    17. It seems alice is correct. Your statements are mutually contradictory. Your comments below make you look bipolar, even if you're not.

      Not as a judgement, just as an impression based on your stated mood swings, and your up and down posture about whether or not you should manipulate other people, whether to show weakness or strength.

      You are weak, but you want to be strong, and this is good for you. The part about formlessness is very good, as is your studying the laws of power.

      As for Vegas, who knows what she is, maybe she is a nuisance.

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    18. Hoo boy. Let's take a slow swing, shall we?

      "who doesn't even know me" --> Broody aspirations towards being enigmatic and misunderstood.

      "Every time he's around I'm using a low key, reserved mask/persona and he thinks I'm a soft target" --> You mean, every time he's around you fold in on yourself and mute up?

      "I was planning on challenging this prick to a boxing match, that way I'm sanctioned to hurt him." --> No one has ever used the word "sanctioned" while talking about street violence. Step up.

      "I also thought of whacking him, but too messy" --> Suuuuuure you have, buddy. I believe you. I believe you have the capacity to "whack" somebody.

      "I have so much self respect and I can't even take it when my false personas are mocked" --> So much self respect, some two-bit guy on the street drives you to whine on the internet? Fuck off.

      You're a nobody. You claim to be masked under false personas just to distract from the fact that you're a spineless, boring dredge of human garbage, muttering through closed teeth at the "injustices" of the world.

      That muted persona isn't a facade. It's who you are. I'm willing to bet that you're someone who spends a lot of time thinking about how recent arguments "could have" gone, and fantasising all sorts of domination and verbal conquest which ends up with you on top. Imagining "then I'd have said this, and boom!"; or picturing yourself beating up someone I've little doubt will run you through the ringer.

      My advice is to accept that you're a boring hunk of flaccid impotence. You will amount to nothing. Your fake personas are worthy of being mocked. YOUR persona is worthy of being mocked. Because they are one and the same.

      -k.b.

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    19. your stabbing at air you dumb cunt. there's no one there. what has been noted in is your appearant hatred of one of my personas that tells me those traits are all to familiar to you and you share them. i call that ploy the 'dirty mirror', and unfortunates like you can't help but look at yourself in it hahaha. i made up that story and other sob stories just to trap your types, now we all know who you are. just when you figure out the rules i change the fucking game

      - God

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    20. The dirty mirror is when you act a certain way or tell stories to ellicit a response from your mark. By acting arrogant or other times, timid or weak and telling sob stories, people look into your "mirror" and see themselves. They start projecting onto their own reflection. It's subconscious on their parts, but as a manipulator you know how to pull the person's strings by their response. it works a dream.

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    21. it works best with beepers and other psychically broken types. when they see the dirt on the mirror (their reflection) they have a need to clean it by projecting and getting rid of their 'dirt' the key is to keep making the mirror dirtier and dirtier so the beeper savages themselves and spills their guts out to clean it.

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    22. Adam, that's frikkin genius (: I guess that makes k.b psychically broken becuz otherwise healthy people walked right by the mirror you put up, but k.b saw a speck on it!! (:

      k.b<3 i heart you, but i think you owe Adam an apology for not making the mirror dirtier and instead, walking off. Otherwise, he could've royally played you xD

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  32. Hey, M.E.!!!

    I only have a moment...

    What's going on???

    Did you not like your song???

    No tweets today???

    :(

    ~Vegas

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    1. Hey, M.E.!!!

      PS-You know, I love your tweets...

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    2. Hey, M.E.!!!

      OMG!!!

      That "4eyes re-tweet" was HILARIOUS!!!

      I TOTALLY CRACKED UP LAUGHING!!!

      I wonder what tune, it used to play???

      HA!!! LOL!!!

      You always know, just what will make me laugh!!!

      I'll "take that to mean", you liked your song...

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    3. Hey, M.E.!!!

      PS- 2 "signs" today...

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    4. Hey, M.E.!!!

      When I need to laugh, I re-play the "Skin" stuffed animal!!!

      HA!!! LOL!!!

      The "crackling" noise it makes when it moves, is the best!!!

      HA!!! LOL!!!

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    5. Hey, M.E.!!!

      It's like a crackling/squeaky noise...

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    6. Hey, M.E.!!!

      Did I tell you, that my stylist is Mormon???

      He thought I was divorced, and was "making the moves", on me.:)

      ~Vegas

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    7. Hey, M.E.!!!

      My mom has a good and longtime friend, who is also Mormon.:)

      He is a very talented musician.:) He and his wife are really great people-salt of the Earth.:)

      We have traveled with them several times-we just love them.:)

      ~Vegas

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    8. Hey, M.E.!!!

      PS-I just had another "sign"...

      :)

      I'm not even kidding!!!

      :):)

      ~Vegas

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    9. Hey, M.E.!!!

      PPS-Do you have any more "funny tweets" today???

      You have THE BEST FUNNY TWEETS!!!

      :)

      ~Vegas

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  33. Hi everyone, I'm so excited.
    My ex-boyfriend is back after a breakup,I’m extremely happy that will are living together again.
    My name is Mary Wilkie from England.
    My boyfriend of a 4yr just broke up with me and am 30 weeks pregnant.I have cried my self to sleep most of the nights and don’t seem to concentrate during lectures sometimes I stay awake almost all night thinking about him and start to cry all over again.Because of this I end up not having energy for my next day’s classes ,my attendance has dropped and am always in uni and on time.Generally he is a very nice guy ,he ended it because he said we were arguing a lot and not getting along.He is right we’ve been arguing during the pregnancy a lot .After the break up I kept ringing him and telling him I will change.I am in love with this guy and he is the best guy I have ever been with.I’m still hurt and in disbelief when he said he didn’t have any romantic feelings towards me anymore that hurt me faster than a lethal syringe.He texts me now and then mainly to check up on how am doing with the pregnancy,he is supportive with it but it’s not fair on me, him texting me as I just want to grieve the pain and not have any stress due to the pregnancy.i was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Unity can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a spell for me. 28 hours later, my bf came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I and my bf are living together happily again.. All thanks to Dr Unity. If you have any problem contact Dr.Unity now and i guarantee you that he will help you.Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com ,you can also call him or add him on Whats-app: +2348071622464 ,His website: http://unityspelltemple.yolasite.com .

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  34. The thing I treasure most in life cannot be taken away
    There will never be a reason why I will surrender to your advice
    To change myself, I'd rather die
    Though they will not understand
    I will make the greatest sacrifice
    You can't predict where the outcome lies
    You'll never take me alive

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    1. Anon @ 2:05-

      I really loved that-thank you, for sharing it.:)

      ~Vegas

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  35. HOW MY MARRIAGE WAS RESTORED.
    Am chamberlain packer from USA, On feb 23, 2016 my wife and family confronted me in our marital home about an issue of a lady I was having an affair with and it resulted that my wife parked her belongings out of our home. She later filed for a restraining order which was granted 8/28/2016 - 8/28/2017 and she has also filed for divorce. I have done everything I could to communicate with her to no avail. Her family does not want to see me either especially her mother. Her mother has been an issue since day one as she constantly rejects the union. i became so confused as thinking now becomes my food daily , even at work i came hardly concentrate until a friend of mine notice it and ask what was wrong and i explain everything to him and he told me how Dr.Noble had helped him restore his broken marriage earlier so i ask him for his contact and he told me that the doctor stay in Italy so i couldn't travel to Italy so i collected his email (noblespellhome@gmail.com) and email him and explain everything to him and he assure me that everything will be okay in 7 days, and to my greatest surprise after casting the spell within 7 days my broken marriage turned around and my wife who had earlier packed out of my house came back begging and i forgive her and we are now together happily and she have cancelled her divorce case and her mom and everyone in the family are now happy with me peace and love now reign in the family . all thanks to Dr.noble who helped me restored my broken marriage .
    you can contact him via noblespellhome@gmail.com for CASINO SPELL
    REMOVE CURSE SPELL
    PROTECTION SPELL
    LOTERY SPELL
    GOODLUCK SPELL
    FERTILITY SPELL
    E.T.C
    best regards
    from
    chamberlain packer

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  36. psychopaths have a blank robotic stare. it's very eerie when you first witness it. it's hard to describe. it's not a beady look or an angry one. not malicious or vindictive. the eyes are innocent and doll like. they look past you as if you're a piece of cardboard or block of a cheese. it shows the empty white walled room that is their soul

    http://images4.fanpop.com/image/photos/24100000/those-eyes-need-i-say-more-michael-jackson-24120897-2560-2048.jpg

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    1. Scholar-

      My husband has that stare/those eyes-you described it perfectly...

      ~Vegas

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  37. when i get into these morbid sad moods i tend to listen to gloomy music and read the articles on mydeathspace. it's weird because i was feeling on top of the world this morning

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  38. Thanks for sharing the information. It is very useful for my future. keep sharing

    retrica  |  | cat mario |superfighters 2  |

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  39. Hey Vegas!!!

    Yeah, it happens...

    :)

    Lol, you got tricked by your own pipe???

    ...yeah, had that happen to me a few times...

    :):)

    Usually no, I don't care. But, I do like to play from time to time.

    I think it depends on whether I find the person interesting, and whether I wanna play...

    :):):)

    It must be!!!
    They probably thought you got freshly divorced and all that, since you didn't wear the ring - no ring, plus no makeup, plus casual clothes...

    :):):):)

    But I think you already knew all that...

    :):):):):)

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  40. How i got my Husband back Thanks to Lord Alika for bringing back my Husband ,and brought great joy to my family??? My name is Kathryn Louise, My Ex-Husband dumped me two weeks ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don't know what to do, so I reach to the internet for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell caster help people to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 48hours that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you Lord Alika , You are truly talented and gifted. Web:http://lordalikaspelltemp8.Wix.Com/http is the only answer. He can be of great help and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man.Email: lordalikaspelltemple@yahoo.Co.Uk or +19287694882. Web:http://lordalikaspelltemp8.Wix.Com/http

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  41. Has anyone observed someone with borderline traits that they have this insane deep love for animals. I love my dog, sleep with my dog and my husband can't understand why I am so attached to her. He's gone so far to even say, " it's a fucken dog, why do you attach better with animals than humans." Lol.

    I have no idea why I'm like this? Can anyone relate or have you observed this in anyone who has borderline traits that you know of.

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    1. SP,

      Borderline or not, humans find comfort and acceptance in animal companionship. No judgments, abstractions. They are what they are, and accept us as such. If you treat an animal kindly, they will risk fire, earthquakes and other dangerous situations, to save you. They touch the silent screaming presence of being alive in every nerve. Pets provide solace, joy and a link to the beast inside us all.

      Mr. Hyde

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    2. Typo: SP should be SC. For Superchick

      Mr. Hyde

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    3. The only things I get attached to is clothes. I care more about some items of clothes I have than my family. I have this North face jacket 9 years, from my school days and I can't just throw it away. I feel like it's an ancient relic like the Shroud of turin or the Mona Lisa because it's been worn by me so much. Also, if I bleed while shaving or something, I always try to save my blood in a jar because i can't just waste something that rare and majestic, it's not common blood that you just chuck away.

      With animals I don't feel an attachment to them when I look at them. If anything I just get hungry and it makes me want to cook and eat them.

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    4. seriously adam, you are trying to save your blood in a jar? it's neither rare nor majestic haha... it's nothing special, just consisting of iron and hydrocarbons and a little bit nitrogen... like most organic compounds... it would be better to put all your blood back to nature so it can be decomposed and be used as new natural building blocks so it would have at least one meaningful function... honestly I have never seen someone that pathetic and annoying

      alice

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    5. My Hyde I love what you said. Seriously.....
      I'm going to put that on my white board. Signed Mr. Hyde. Because your words bring solace.

      "Humans find comfort and acceptance in animal companionship. No judgments, abstractions. They are what they are, and accept us as such. If you treat an animal kindly, they will risk fire, earthquakes and other dangerous situations, to save you. They touch the silent screaming presence of being alive in every nerve. Pets provide solace, joy and a link to the beast inside us all."

      ~ Mr. Hyde

      Adam adam, my lord ! Wtf! :D

      How's my alpha ? Let's fight and draw blood !

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    6. is anyone getting a strong undercurrent of gayness from adam??? He makes my gaydar go IIIIINSANEEE!!! (:

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    7. Thanks Superchick. Glad to hear your inner animal heard me.

      Adam, Clothes? Seriously? Deep attachments to clothes - wonder what Freud would say. ;)

      Mr. Hyde

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    8. Adam, Almost forgot - got you beat. I have fine black leather vest bought in 1993. In NYC, 5th Avenue. The tag reads Second Skin. I wear it constantly.

      Mr. Hyde

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  42. Hi everyone, I'm so excited.
    My ex-boyfriend is back after a breakup,I’m extremely happy that will are living together again.
    My name is Mary Wilkie from England.
    My boyfriend of a 4yr just broke up with me and am 30 weeks pregnant.I have cried my self to sleep most of the nights and don’t seem to concentrate during lectures sometimes I stay awake almost all night thinking about him and start to cry all over again.Because of this I end up not having energy for my next day’s classes ,my attendance has dropped and am always in uni and on time. Generally he is a very nice guy ,he ended it because he said we were arguing a lot and not getting along.He is right we’ve been arguing during the pregnancy a lot .After the break up I kept ringing him and telling him I will change.I am in love with this guy and he is the best guy I have ever been with.I’m still hurt and in disbelief when he said he didn’t have any romantic feelings towards me anymore that hurt me faster than a lethal syringe.He texts me now and then mainly to check up on how am doing with the pregnancy,he is supportive with it but it’s not fair on me, him texting me as I just want to grieve the pain and not have any stress due to the pregnancy.i was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Unity can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a spell for me. 28 hours later, my bf came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I and my bf are living together happily again.. All thanks to Dr Unity. If you have any problem contact Dr.Unity now and i guarantee you that he will help you.Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com ,you can also call him or add him on Whats-app: +2348071622464 ,His website: http://unityspelltemple.yolasite.com .

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  43. Hey, M.E.!!!

    I just wanted to say...

    "Skin"...

    :)

    HA!!! LOL!!!

    ~Vegas

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    1. Hey, M.E.!!!

      PS-I know you're smiling...

      :):)

      ~Vegas

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    2. Hey, M.E.!!!

      PPS-Do you ever watch "Sister Wives"???

      I've watched it a few times...

      :):):)

      ~Vegas

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    3. Hey, M.E.!!!

      PPPS-When you went out of the country, did you go to the German Christmas Markets, and not invite me???

      :(

      Just curious...

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    4. Hey, M.E.!!!

      PPPPS-Are you having a "Holiday Party"???

      Am I invited???

      :)

      I want you...

      ...to sign my book...

      :):)

      ~Vegas

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    5. V,

      Please chill about M.E. I assume you do, as a constructed persona, realize how creepy you sound.

      Merry times are coming. Saint Nick.

      ;) Mr. Hyde

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    6. Mr. Hyde-

      Noted.

      I will resign myself, to no book signing...

      I don't want to be creepy.:(

      Merry times are coming, and I do have a lot to do...

      Happy Holidays Everyone!!!

      :)

      ~Vegas

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    7. Mr. Hyde-

      I'm sorry if I was "creepy"...

      :(

      I think Darren Hayes (the lead singer) is WAY HOT in that video, and I think that is a WAY HOT VIDEO, and I got too excited and lost control...

      My bad...

      :(

      ~Vegas

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    8. You don't have to apologise to me, V. I pointed it out simply because you are presenting like a stalker. And stalkers are creepy. I was starting to pity M.E., picturing her rolling her eyes, wielding knives. This may be a sociopathic space but that doesn't mean anything goes. Show some class. Restrain yourself. I would imagine being overly gushy does not win the cold hearts of socio ladies.

      Mr. Hyde

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    9. M.E.-

      I'm sorry if I've seemed like a "creepy stalker"...

      :(

      ~Vegas

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  44. Hey SE!!!

    I just saw your comment...

    :)

    You didn't say you had "Turkish Coffee", although I still don't know, if that would beat "Peppermint"...

    :):)

    You let me "have" that one, so I am the winner...

    :):):)

    Letting me win-you must like me...

    :):):):)

    We'll definitely have to "do it again"...

    :):):):):)

    ~Vegas

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    1. Hey SE!!!

      PS-Do you have any "Allahu Akbars" today???

      ~Vegas

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    2. Hey Vegas!!!

      Yes. Yet it would.

      Turkish coffee would beat peppermint coffee...

      :)

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    3. Hey Vegas!!!

      PPS -

      Congratulations, on your win!!!

      :):):)

      I hope you are enjoying your win...

      :):):):)

      That win must be really satisfactory...

      :):):):):)

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  45. Hey Damaged-

    I also just saw a comment of yours, from awhile back...

    I'm not sure if I was having delicious coffee, when you wrote your comment, but it's very possible...

    HA!!! LOL!!!

    :)

    ~Vegas

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    1. for no reason at all...


      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ukf-BZzX4oM

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  46. Hey Swop-

    I'm glad you liked "True Romance"-I think it's an awesome movie!!!

    I don't know if Clarence was schizophrenic or not, but he sure "saw Elvis" a lot, didn't he???

    ~Vegas

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  47. Wow, I'm reading an article about ted bundy and a line stood out - "At a moment's notice, Bundy could switch from euphoria and compulsive talking to anger followed by long periods of sullen silence"

    This is what I've had since i was 12. Does anyone know how you treat it?

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  48. Perhaps today's youth intentionally decorates their skin because in reality they are, as ive observed at the weekend, Generation Yawn, a boring, self-obsessed tribe of social-media-addicted, tablet-tapping, law-abiding, career-obsessed, Right-wing, alcohol-avoiding, gym-going consumers who simply don't know how to enjoy themselves. Youth truly is wasted on the young

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    1. Yes Adam!!! Just nurture and feed it. You can't teach a tarantula to be a honey bee

      # straight outta the isolation cell

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    2. Elaborate or nah?

      Also, beats

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    3. Dave Ramsey is on point...Shannon, your relationship is finished!!!

      #straight outta the isolation cell

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    4. I meant your bundy skills(shaking my eyebrows). Just let it flourish

      #straight outta the isolation cell

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  49. Facts!!

    #straight outta the isolation cell

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  50. Hey Vegas!!!

    Guess what???

    :)

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  51. you know you're charismatic when ALL your youtube comments get over 100 likes. I feel bad for people without charisma, I'd just off myself if I had no charm

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  52. Adam,

    Constant bragging about oneself is NOT charming. Bragging does not convince others that you're smart, cool or alpha. Quite the opposite.


    Mr. Hyde

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  53. Believe me, in the real world I dont brag at all. I have low keyness down to an art form. When I come on here I loosen the collar and act vulgar. You're right in a way, son. People today think peacocking and bragging are a sign of being powerful, but power is more to do with how you carry yourself and what goes on between the ears

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  54. Strenghtened by fury, I feel no fear
    Fire inside, it keeps me awake
    For no blind I ever shall bend!
    This is my law! This is my way!

    He's the one, pure in his heart
    Shining fair in the bright never lost
    Noble grace, unbroken faith
    Running throughout the fields immense
    Shouting free in the air embraced
    Dancing there with the wind

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  55. Replies
    1. Did someone say something about gaydar with regard to Adam? Yeah maybe that's it. Likes on You Tube videos, oh pahleeze really he has to be kidding. Clearly never been out in the real world, just hiding out 35 years old in mommy's basement learning how to play pretend games with her computer.

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  56. My wife divorce me, she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she did not love me anymore, So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. One day I came across a website that suggested that Dr.Unity can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and told him my problems and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next 28hours, what an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do and i did it, Then the next morning, So surprisingly!! my wife who did not call me for the past seven months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a Dr.Unity.If you have any problem contact Dr.Unity now and i guarantee you that he will help you.Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com ,you can also call him or add him on Whats-app: +2348071622464 ,His website: http://unityspelltemple.yolasite.com . Mike Robinson from England.

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  57. An intriguing interview. Her casual remarks somehow struck me odd.
    http://www.vice.com/en_uk/read/teenager-nazi-armed-resistance-netherlands-876?utm_source=vicenewsfb&utm_medium=vicenewsfbuk

    Post truth, Trump and Superman come together in this article:

    https://theconversation.com/the-post-truth-era-of-trump-is-just-what-nietzsche-predicted-69093?utm_content=buffer9c837&utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook.com&utm_campaign=buffer



    At the end of his 1887 book On the Genealogy of Morality, he writes:

    The more eyes, different eyes, we know how to bring to bear on one and the same matter, that much more complete will our “concept” of this matter, our “objectivity” be."

    Mr. Hyde

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  58. Here's an excerpt from my upcoming publication, "Diary Of A Legendary Pimp"

    "In school I was the class entertainer, so entertaining people comes naturally to me. I've always been great at using my body to communicate and it's a handy weapon to use on losers and timid types. Recently, while walking to the gym some business woman blocked my path. I wailed my hands around and said "so very sorry your highness" Instantly, the whole street erupted in laughter. With one line I made all the bitches on that street wet and all the guys wanted to buy me a drink because of my display of courage, but unlucky for them, I'm a busy man"

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