Saturday, January 26, 2013

Gullibility

I thought this was an interesting video from illusionist Derren Brown about gullibility, via Brain Pickings:



"Somewhat counterintuitively, it’s the more trusting people that actually emerge as less gullible. They obviously get fooled, as we all do… but they tend to be very good at learning from those experiences where they have been duped, they tend not to generalize it over everybody and then to start being cynical about everything, which then makes them more effective socially."

"You create a false logic. You create what appears to be an A, B, C. . . . That's not about gullibility, that's about a certain grammar that people will follow. . . . We can't function unless we form those patterns . . . . It's better to have that false positive than a false negative. . . . We are hardwired to fall for that . . . . it's pretty much inescapable and ultimately probably positive."

I found this relevant for two main reasons:

1. A lot of people either write me or come on here and feel like an idiot for having bought into the "lie" that their sociopath spun for them. I don't think it's anything to be ashamed of, I don't know that it is necessarily a lie, and also I don't believe these sociopath slayer types who say that they are so skeptical that say they always spot sociopaths and beat them at their own game (whatever that means).

2. I actually think sociopaths tend to be gullible in surprising ways. That's why I think that feeding them false information, particularly about areas that are their natural blind spots like the emotional worlds of others, is effective. I know others have disputed this point with me before, but it at least works on me.

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    1. after yesterday's post i'm more convinced than ever that me is a narc

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    2. Don't tease me. Tell my why.

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    3. Everyone knows that narcissism is a symptom you have when you are a sociopath.

      Narcissists are irrational with their narcissism while as sociopaths for one thing. M.E. for sure shows narcissistic traits that are present in every sociopath, but he is not a narcissist because he is a sociopath. Narcissists do not care about of feel emotion towards other people because they are too consumed with their love for themselves. Sociopaths on the other hand are simply incapable of feeling emotion (even for themselves). They believe they are owed much respect and love from other people, but this is because it is a logical and rational conclusion they have come to.

      Once again, M.E. is not a narcissist; he is simply a sociopath with narcissistic traits.

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    4. Hi there!

      I'm new to this sight. I don't see what's narcissistic about yesterday's post, but then again, I'm no expert.

      I have a new blog wherein people asked me for advice all the time, What would be narcissistic about me giving it and printing it?

      I'd probably be curious to hear how I come across. I might be checking in with the more intelligent people who frequent my blog to get feedback, positive or negative.

      I don't want to make mistakes, as my reputation is on the line each and every time a stranger asks for my opinion.

      What could be narcissistic about that?

      And If the content of my reply seemed narcissistic, I'd certainly want to know why.

      Anon 12;55 idk, you may be trolling, but it's hard to tell lol -I'm kind of new to this whole blog thing.

      If you can articulate what's narcissistic about printing advice, or if you could kindly point out a piece of narcissistic content in ME's reply, I'd greatly appreciate it.

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    5. LURKING VEGITOPATH LOVES MONICAJanuary 26, 2013 at 1:40 PM

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    6. 1ST VEGITOPATH POSTER LOVES MONICAJanuary 26, 2013 at 1:41 PM

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      TEEHEEE MONEECA WEELL BEE PWEGNUNT TEEHEE

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  2. Are you a boy or girl??

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  3. i wander if narcworld is run by a sociopath

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    1. i'm gonne start a borderline blog (for the hot chicks)

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    2. h(e)aven
      feels like h(e)aven

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    3. Haven's blog is full of cum filled, dissociated Sexbots. They all have aids.

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    4. you know what i like
      (talk dirty to me)

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    5. Haven's single again and she doesn't even HAVE aids.


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    6. russian roulette ftw

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    7. Duuuuuuh

      What're u wearing??

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    8. she doen't but i do
      I'll fuck here in the ass and plug up the hole so the cum can't get out
      (i'm submissive like that lol)

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    9. Not true anon 407. I gave her my aids last week.

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    10. What're u wearing??
      a smile and my sister's underwear

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    11. *I* gave her aids first!

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    12. what kind of underwear does your slutty sister wear?

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    13. did i say here underwear i ment here skin
      just call me buffalo bill

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    14. lol.

      That;s hot. She still alive in the basement?

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    15. know what happens if you corkupyour hole with somweone's cum in you? I once left a sponge in my gf's pussy an it stank

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    16. your gf still stinks

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    17. i like a dirt girl

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    18. my gf's you mutha

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    19. i can be the pole in here basement

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    20. HEY. All I have is herpes, not aids, assholes!

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    21. Do a pole dance for me, gilie

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    22. gona suck me some cocks now. Have a pleasant day.

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    23. puss pussy saves on lube

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    24. Wow people seem to be quite bored this morning. Good job.

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    25. You're welcome :)

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  4. gullibility, hmmm. I necessarily do not generalize people, though trust doesn't come to me easily. I believe each person is an individual. They have their own reasons for doing something, they are like an equation of line.

    Though I'm not capable of love and empathizing with people, but I'm good at understanding them as individuals, so well I don't think I'm a sociopath.

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    1. NO THEY ARE NOT HEY ARE PUPPETS ON A STRING

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  5. I didn't really get your point. What exactly do you mean. who is the puppet where are the strings.

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  6. I see the average intelligence level of some posters here haven't increased much since my last visit almost a year ago. - Not your fault, of course, M.E., our gentle host. :) It's just in the nature of the subject that we cover, I guess, it attracts the mal-adapted and the immature.

    [i]"1. A lot of people either write me or come on here and feel like an idiot for having bought into the "lie" that their sociopath spun for them. I don't think it's anything to be ashamed of"[/i]

    I agree and tell my readers the same thing. It's not about being gullible or stupid. But sometimes gullibility is part of it.


    [i]"... also I don't believe these sociopath slayer types who say that they are so skeptical that say they always spot sociopaths and beat them at their own game (whatever that means)."[/i]

    People like to brag. But I agree again. You don't 'beat' a (psychopathic) sociopath, you get as 'stalemate' if anything. Personally I think it's a waste of time and only engage in "fighting" with other psychopaths if they seek me out, when I know how to push some of their buttons, and there's something for me to gain in other ways by doing it.

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    1. omg a rely sociopath
      he so cute
      can i get an autograph?
      do you have a auctionfigure?

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    2. whith a name like that you must be japanese
      i used to do karate
      do you like rice,noodles?

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    3. quit getting the intelligence level up and go visit the aspie bloges and show them how smart you are they will whipe the floor with you
      ru lbl btw?

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    4. brains are for narcs
      i'm just entertaining

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    5. i'll be stupide and harmless
      you'll be smart and dangerous
      deal?

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    6. @Zhawq, I couldn't agree with you more. It's disturbing and sad how these little kids talk on here.

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    7. you hurt my feeling ano
      no wait i don't have anny
      btw zhawq weren't you in jail that makes you sound really smart btw

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    8. Go back to your blog you fat autistic rape victim. and I'm not talking about the one you had to lock because you were so ashamed of who you were, im talking about your eating disorder blog. 'cupcake' is waiting for you.

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    9. Ignore him, Zhawq
      You have every right to be here, as much as he does

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    10. MONICA

      cry me a river cause i cried a river over you

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    11. i think you sould take a holiday in india

      they know how to treat their women

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    12. Hahaha

      http://www.youtube.com/user/Zhawq

      now we can all see what zhawq's been up too. Really, Zhawq? What're you , trying tobe infOrmative and helpful??? hahah. Giving advIce?? Hahah

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    1. sup rick
      how's the headshop

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    2. LET'S PLAY DR. VEGITOPATHJanuary 26, 2013 at 1:10 PM

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      TEEHEE

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    3. Lol anon I've been there a bunch of times when those herbal smokable incense like spice were available, I've also been there while I was drunk but I still think I may give it a try. Plus it's close to my house!!!!

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    4. stop beating up your brain rich

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  8. Featured comment
    everyone talks about suppressing feelings but how would that work? so many feelings, so many scenarios. i think what happens is we suppress the present and that effectively keeps the feelings at bay. with the fog there is nothing to look toward and nothing to see behind you. pure present. that's what i like about it, that feeling of being lost in it. but more like the world is lost and all you have is yourself and the present moment. but if you normally suppress the present and everything you have is concepts engaged in reflection of the past and anticipation of the future, it must feel like a sudden dying.


    Just saw the new Featured Comment.
    Zoe is such an out of the box thinker!!

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    1. that's so sweet thanks Themes :-)

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    2. themes, it didn't come from thought but more like the end result of thought trying to grasp feeling with words. wine was my fog, and words the worms on the end of the fishing rod that i cast in the SW pool, only because it was there and i was there, not really expecting a nibble in a place of thinkers.

      did anyone ever ask ME why he features the comments he features? is it when he connects with them? when he agrees with them? or the opposite? when they seem naive or trying too hard? a private joke or is it just a manipulation tactic, to stir up the pot?

      that he featured my fog comment makes me wonder if he's a sociopath. i don't see the appeal to a purely logical thinker. if he is that.

      but nice to have a nibble such as it is. thanks ME, themes, and whoever else y'all

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    3. LET'S PLAY DR. VEGITOPATHJanuary 26, 2013 at 1:10 PM

      TEEHEEE ZOE IS A CRACKWHORE WITHOUT THEE DIGNITEE WHOO WATCHEES GAY NAZI LEZBO PORN TEEHEE

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      TEEHEE

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  10. Classic and Original Theme

    Theme for M.E.

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  11. so i'm curious now. question for all of you here. does a featured comment have more weight with you? when ME features it is it a kind of seal of approval, like an Oprah book?

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    1. "When ME features a comment is it a kind of seal of approval?"

      Yes and no, not in it's entirely

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    2. i'll go first. the featured comments get my attention. i tend to think they are comments ME relates to.

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    3. Or related to in the past

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    4. I think they're read and appreciated by his followers. Does it matter?

      I've liked and related to the last 3 i think. But I do a bunch of the talking here, so.

      I'm going to assume they're JUST for me lol

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    5. I think they're things that sound good and that pretty much everyone will forget as soon as they're changed.

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    6. LET'S PLAY DR. VEGITOPATHJanuary 26, 2013 at 1:09 PM

      TEEHEEE ZOE IS A CRACKWHORE WITHOUT THEE DIGNITEE WHOO WATCHEES GAY NAZI LEZBO PORN TEEHEE

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      TEEHEE

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    7. VEGITOPATH LOVES MONICAJanuary 26, 2013 at 1:38 PM

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      TEEHEEE MONEECA WEELL BEE PWEGNUNT TEEHEE

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  12. another point and i'll try to post later on topic. good topic.

    i can see three main reasons to write.. to communicate information, reveal oneself, and ego boost.

    nibbles are ego boost. there was nothing, no content, reflected back. from the back patting, i can't tell if anyone really related to my comment. no offence to anyone, ME, themes, but vegitopath was more successful in his fishing... ;-)

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    1. "i can't tell if anyone really related to my comment."

      I did. People who worry about how to navigate instead of how to glide on coast probably do.

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    2. ^"I did. People who worry about how to navigate instead of how to glide on coast probably do."

      I feel sorry for you that you think so little of yourself that you have to operate from "the better than position." It is so telling!

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    3. Ukan instigate"rolls eyes*January 26, 2013 at 12:53 PM

      I am/was talking about myself. I often do the "people" thing, because I do not like to talk about my self, and i just want another person like myself to say they could be like me so i can identify, are you happy now?

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    4. Now, there are fake UKan's? I wonder "who" this is?

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    5. How manipulative and cunning, sneaky and underhanded you are. Think you're "better than " because you can artIculate your cunning prowess?

      See how you show off by then explAining yourself in a "less than" position, to get sympathy and show humble and self effacing quality. HA.

      Why don't you just say " I "?

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    6. Ok. *I* worry how to navigate and glide and coast. Is there anyone here who does that? Because *I* would like it to have someone somewhere like me so *I* can discuss what *we* do, so *I* can know *I* am 'not alone.

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    7. did you just fart?

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    8. And I got as close to monica as I could!!!!!!! Enjoy!

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    9. I am enjoying the fogginess of anon 1:24's farts. The present, never smealt so divine in, all my life.

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    10. Gee, I tried!

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    11. monica, UKan is so right-on about you.

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    12. The content of this blog has improved greatly, much like a well aged, fine wine.

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    13. "The content of this blog has improved greatly, much like a well aged, fine wine."

      Can we assume those that rally around monica have contributed, also?

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    14. Monica for president.

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    15. You can have her! lol

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    16. @anon

      glad you liked my comment but why worry when you navigate? wouldn't people who coast through life worry more?

      actually coasting implies some navigational action that led to the coasting that's probably not there. how about floating? it suggests a more appropriate vacuousness.

      how about driving and floating? i can see how the floaters might not relate. it would be like having to haul water out of a well when you could just turn on the tap.

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    17. I have things like love that I worry about. I want to not care anymore whether I am loved and I do not want to care anymore if I am "good"or acceptable or going to succeed. I just do not want these ideas in my head anymore.

      It requires what you say. I will not change into you no matter how much i want. I have to live with who I am and just try to look in the mirror and say is good enough.

      This is a topic I am not ready for yet.

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  13. Anyone ever notice how gullible UKan is?

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  14. I am a sociopath and I find that I too can easily be tricked by other peoples' false emotions because I don't feel them myself.

    Also, I have noticed that I cannot pick up easily on sarcasm and that I always take things very literally and seriously. Any other sociopaths on here find that they do this?

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    1. "Mac" is trying to bait people to say they are sociopaths.

      Like Medusa.

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    2. STFU, WHORE. MEDUSA is W O R K I N G, HulllOooOoo. Why are you trolling her? What do you have a fucking crush on her?

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    3. It was a serious question. Anyone?

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    4. Obvious troll is obvious.

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    5. Mac, sociopaths love sarcasm.

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    6. Yes, they love to use it. I use it all the time. What I'm saying is that I often have trouble distinguishing sarcasm from seriousness.

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    7. I talk too much here, but I can tell you how it is for me in detail, if you like.

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    8. I'd love to hear it, Mable

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    9. I have lost a bit of what I was thinking before. It has to do with paranoia, or gullibility i think. Probably narcissistict trait. I love to use sarcasm. Not snark.

      IRL I am more the way Haven says...we are focused on too many things at once so it only looks like we dont get something.

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  15. VEGITOPATH LOVES MONICAJanuary 26, 2013 at 1:38 PM






















































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    TEEHEEE MONEECA WEELL BEE PWEGNUNT TEEHEE

    TEEHEE



    MONEECE EES GOEENG TOO HAV MAH BABEES AFTUR WEE GET MARREED TEEHEEE























































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    TEEHEEE MONEECA WEELL BEE PWEGNUNT TEEHEE
    TEEHEE



    MONEECE EES GOEENG TOO HAV MAH BABEES AFTUR WEE GET MARREED TEEHEEE























































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    TEEHEEE MONEECA WEELL BEE PWEGNUNT TEEHEE
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    MONEECE EES GOEENG TOO HAV MAH BABEES AFTUR WEE GET MARREED TEEHEEE























































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    TEEHEEE MONEECA WEELL BEE PWEGNUNT TEEHEE

    TEEHEE



    MONEECE EES GOEENG TOO HAV MAH BABEES AFTUR WEE GET MARREED TEEHEEE























































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    TEEHEEE MONEECA WEELL BEE PWEGNUNT TEEHEE

    TEEHEE



    MONEECE EES GOEENG TOO HAV MAH BABEES AFTUR WEE GET MARREED TEEHEEE













































































































































































































































































































































































































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  16. VEGITOPATH LOVES MONICA DEARLYJanuary 26, 2013 at 1:41 PM

    MEE LUV MONEECA BEECOS SHEE HAS VEGEETOPATHIC TENDENCEES TEEHEE

    SHEE EES LIEK MEE TEEHEE

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    1. Vegitopath has made this blog worth the visit.

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    2. Best love story since Twilight? I think so

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    3. i don't get it. why would the crumpled mars bar wrappers be sticking to the floor like beetle husks?

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    4. because he was out of kleenex

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    5. At least Vegitopath will marry me. He knows I am not the kind of girl who will sleep around.

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    6. that will change if you marry him

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    7. i hope you like virgins monica

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    8. he won't have to buy so much kleenex any more :-)

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    9. or mars bars

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  17. http://www.iviewtube.com/videos/152193/

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  18. I am a billiard ball sort of person. I was a billiard ball child. I don't know which ball I was, color wise. I may have been the eight ball, but I was probably one of the others. I thought I knew the game, but I kept feeling worse and worse until I was very sick. Yet, I still played, even though it was like bumper cars. Honestly, the whole game was rigged. I, just,woke up to it. The rest of them are still playing like damn fools. I guess they will play, until they can't anymore and it will end like that.

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  19. I had one amnesty zone in my entire life. It was someone who loved me. Love snuggles in really close, down to your core. It sustains you like dry rations, when you are hungry. You can never repay someone for loving you, especially if you have nothing to offer, such as power. You were was a lump. Someone could kick you, for all anyone cared. You had the tensile strength of tissue paper. But, someone reached down to love you. That is akin to the Virgin Birth. Even if you don't believe in it, it is still pretty amazing.

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  20. Do you wish for things to be straight out like "I love you' or "I hate you" not some dingy gray zone where everything melds together like vegetable soup that cooked too long and you feed it to the dog. It is fucking indigestible. No wonder people jump out windows.

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    1. hope you find more amnesty <3

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    2. yah but congee is so yummy!

      nothing is straight out. you deal with it from moment to moment. pointless to anticipate. being loved is lost on those who can't love and if you can love that's everything. if you're loved back that't the other person's problem ;-)

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    3. Zoe, can you love?

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    4. yes anon. shall we talk about love?

      love is not need wrapped up in words. it looks so pretty when they give, all wrapped up just for you, but when you unwrap it all that's there is need that now you have to keep. it doesn't mean they're always there. they leave you home alone all the time with their need and yours. while yours stews and slowly turns to rage. and it does that when you think only others can truly satisfy it.

      love is wild and free. it's navigating, not coasting. love doesn't turn into bitterness. that's unsatisfied need. love is always there, even when the lover isn't. you don't own, you plug in.

      the popular idea of love, to me, is really just a mutual exchange of need. you keep mine and i keep yours. this is why i'm not married, yet (never say never). to date i haven't met anyone who sees life like an adventure rather than a burden to be shared and mitigated. even worse, to a lot of guys women are like load bearing pack animals. their physical features are nice, but more importantly how much crap will they be willing to carry? zoe expects a guy to carry his own crap. :-)

      now i'm sure there are guys out there for me but it's like hunting for a needle in one super enormous frigging haystack. i'm just too busy living to spend life buried ass deep in itchy hay.

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    5. I see how people can become tools for masturbation, to put it nicely. I have gotten the window to that, from writing, I think. The problem with people being tools for masturbation, is that we need them, as much as they need us, and it is not symbiotic, but parasitic. I realized this yesterday, when I had company ~

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    6. Zoe "Thoughts anyone?"

      I applaud your thoughts on the desired other. Women have slept with their enemy (married spouse) for too long. Men, also.

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  21. ^Is generosity. ^Is love without asking, begging. ^Is love.

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  22. The face is looking at me, from up high. I am a tiny dot, under the force of it. I see it in everyone I meet--the eyes, the upward turn of the lip, the downward turn of the nose. I run but that doesn't work. I could scream and never stop, but I know they would take me away. I can't let them have that final glory. Then, they will smile at me with the smirk of the eyes, as they tell me that I made it all up.

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    1. look deep in your mind and step out of the funhouse. it's like you're going in circles where the mirrors distort it all. the mirrors are thoughts gone hard, like old stale bread.

      they make you look all small and funny, and the face gigantic. you stand entranced before them. you know they lie, but yet they lie and lie. you want them to stop lying. they can't, they've gone too hard. and to break them seems a sin.

      you could walk away and leave them but you're unable to walk away. how do you keep living when they're still out there, waiting?

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    2. They leave, little by little, when I write. Once I can SEE them and enunciate them, enough to write, I can make them go. Before, they are a part of me like a field overgrown with weeds.

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    3. Thank you, Zoe and Sofa. That's how I know love, too. It's like finding a needle in a haystack

      Zoe, you don't need to marry (or share your money) to have the love you describe. They exist, these men. I've seen them. I've dated them. Sometimes they fuck up and lie, sure. They're human. They can give the kind of love we can.

      They've gone to group therapy for like 20 years, alongside having been in a miserable marriage ~

      They just want a piece of heaven on earth, a time in the fog next to you in silence.

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    4. And they may need you for masturbation, but me like to masturbate. They like pretty things to look at, they admire "what they have". M.E. says he/she collects good bodies and minds, and here we are on the blog appearing in the Twitter and featured comments, being ok with it.

      To this day, my father who abandoned his wife (an a-hole) still talks about how he "had" a person he was proud of, who he admired. This is a poor, sad, fellow, capable of love. --Just a pussy. That's all. A spec of vagina. But they aren't all pussies or users.

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    5. *men! *Men like to masturbate. To women. Not a freudian slip!

      Although..

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