Friday, September 16, 2011

Sociopath(ic) (part 2)

From a reader (cont.):
I may not be neurologically atypical when it comes to having a conscience, but we are (at least in part) the product of our environment, and I was raised around a group of men obsessed with regaining their youth, as well as their potential "go" at fame, and that impression has stuck with me. My mother associated with my father initally because of his unpredictability as well his ability to make everyday life seem exciting, despite its disfunctionality. Don't get me wrong... I'm not blaming my desires on my anyone. I comprehend them fully, and I see where they're going, but when my personal relationships are going well, I detach because I'm incredibly bored. If things are going well in ANY of my personal relationships, romantic or otherwise, I disentangle. At this point, it's a game to me. How long can I keep people interested in me without personally investing in them? 
I learned to manipulate before I could walk. From my perspective, this is sick. There's an Onion article that really resonates with me, despite its obvious jab at overanalysis... ... I don't think that I'm neurologically atypical, but I do think that I've learned techniques from people whose world view doesn't resonate with mine. 
Back to my actual question, though... How often do you see strong socipathic traits in people clearly in possession of a conscience? Have you noticed these tendencies and learned bahaviors to be more prevalant in those related to socipaths? I'd love to hear back.
M.E.: It's an interesting question. I think there are a lot of people in my family who have sociopathic traits and tend to think like sociopaths, but do seem to have empathy. Sometimes I think I make the mistake of just assuming that they are sociopaths, but then they say something that doesn't make sense, like talking about how important love is. And I think sometimes they assume that I am normal but just like them, but then I say something that they think is horrifying, like telling them some sketchy thing I did. I've gotten emails from a few other people who had sociopathic parents and adopted some of their sociopathic traits. I guess you could say that they are bilingual in sociopath and empath. Although I don't think anyone can ever be completely empathic if they have seen the world through sociopathic eyes, do you?

137 comments:

  1. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PBL4XVC0knM

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  2. Anyone seen my conscience recently? I'm sure I left it lying somewhere around here.

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  3. u don have 1 sily it ranned away but idk u mite be abel to see were it went 2 if u filmd it

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  4. Why the fuck would anyone film a conscience, you cretin?

    They're notoriously elusive around these parts and best suited to capture by cunning physics.

    I mean for Bog's sake, the conscience, on celluloid!

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  5. why is sociapaths so paranode androde

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  6. Do not deign to take my name in vein, Anon, or I will vent my spleen all over your face.

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  7. Although I don't think anyone can ever be completely empathic if they have seen the world through sociopathic eyes, do you?

    -there's not much reason to be.

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  8. I just watched Truth or Dare for the first time in many years.

    Madonna giggled when she heard her make-up artist got ass-raped.

    Gotta love her.

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  9. And she also said to her, "I used to beat up girls like you when I was a little girl."

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  10. @Medusa

    I saw that when it came out at the theater! My roommate at the time was obsessed with her. Always said that the only woman who could turn her gay was Madonna.

    It was actually more entertaining then I'd expected.

    I'd forgotten all about it... Now I know what I'll be renting this weekend! ;) Thanks

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  12. Obsessed with regaining their youth? That's something I definitely grew up with, but my father was a Narcissist, nit a sociopath.

    Personally, I've always seen myself sort of detached from time and age, as if my internal clock was set at a certain point far ahead of what it should have been as a kid, and decades later I know that clock has advanced but I don't feel too differently. Different perspective, different experiences, but I've never really felt a shift in age, unless we're talking literal, like the bodily changes such as increased recovery time for sickness/injury.

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  13. Careful Eden, he's immortal!

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  14. Live from the Swamp!September 16, 2011 at 9:10 AM

    Mmm mee sa love to watch you dominate, you so cunning. Mee sa love how you gonna show uppity curly word lady who da boss. Mee-sa smell blood. Mmmmm.

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  15. Eden won, already, Fool. The swamp water is messing with your head. Come on to the bank and take another look .

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  16. I had one parent who told me how great at what I did, and then did my homework for me when it was hard. Guess what? WE got A+ !Yay!

    If people treated me badly, asked with a wry smile what was it I did that caused it, when the answer was simply nothing --kids were just cruel.

    Then at other times turned around and said they're jealous.

    My sibling was a professional dancer. My mom would say oh, you're the BEST at this thing; the others are fat and clutzy. 10 minutes later? "You, ..you have no neck"

    -Really fucked up shit. Completely unreliable.You never knew what you'd get. Every interaction was a praise and a put-down.

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  17. i mean and she would call herself a cold fish. Could not keep friends, way controlling. Said she's better off alone. -people are unreliable. She and sis both can't keep friends.

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  19. I mean that's like you're great/you suck.
    I HAD to get 100% on statewide exams. She'd ask what was the mistake if I got 99%. THEN she'd ask what ev else got, turn around and call them "Dummies"!!

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  20. It is funny, Erin .

    But what is sad is that my sis does a bit of it to her kid, AND keeps him a baby, and the kid has low self esteem, with a disapproving father. Sibling won't go to therapy or even google solutions cause doesn't trust outsider's opinions on her life. Doesn't want to manage her household the way she has to manage her office!

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  21. Erin did your mother ever cry?

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  22. I knew the difference between her and other parents. I was so lucky to have a teacher who sent me to therapy in 6th grade. And I thank god my illness kept me there later on. And I thank god I don't have kids to fuck up. And I don't even believe in god lol

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  23. I feel free and easy , and also trapped in me and bitter. I take every day as a new one, but not really cause I have trapped myself. I have to struggle to keep my thoughts realistic and it is very tiring. I'm tired and energetic at the same time.

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  24. Personally, I've always seen myself sort of detached from time and age, as if my internal clock was set at a certain point far ahead of what it should have been as a kid, and decades later I know that clock has advanced but I don't feel too differently. Different perspective, different experiences, but I've never really felt a shift in age, unless we're talking literal, like the bodily changes such as increased recovery time for sickness/injury.

    I feel this too, tnp

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  25. "I have so many funny things to share like that.It is just too depressing."

    Well which one is it Erin? Funny or depressing?

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  27. "I have to struggle to keep my thoughts realistic and it is very tiring."

    y

    r u a

    schizo path

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  28. Reader: 

    Having traits of both is frustrating wiring because your world has many, contradictory inputs and you need to upgrade to an operating system that  better integrates and orders the data. 

    It's always a mindfuck when you see the design and react with the emotion or  the action intended to trap you.  Your dad's enjoying himself immensely,  consider giving him a bit less power. The  guilt driven compassionately 'valorous' scurrying is you, own it and elect to change it or keep complaining.  UKan favor a trait or disposition, and shield yourself from other people's emotive emissions and manipulation.  Remove sociopathy from judgement and you get logic, opportunism, and an attendance to desire and impulse that has both personal and social dividends.  See:  Erin enjoys Eden's erotica.

    If Infants didn't smile at three weeks, there would be fewer of them.  An empathic person raised as an object will have some attachment differences,  the place to resolve that is in relationships, an arena you've turned into a game.  Does that remind you of anyone?

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  30. madonna is just another illuminati compartmentalized whore. would her giggle at the ass-rape be more psycho than socio - would a socio care? where as a psycho would take pleasure? pleaase correct me if I'm wrong.

    I am curios about me's statement regarding "sketchy things." What kind of sketchy things have any of you socios done that you care to share? i always figure those frat boys that torture one another must be socio.

    -kush

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  32. Most people who come in here thinking they have sociopathic traits turn out to be suppressing emotions instead. Some people mix up apathy with callousness. The comparison is like a person burying their head in the sand to drown the world out because it keeps hammering them down or someone who buries other people's heads in the sand to get back at it.

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  35. I watched 'Reservoir Dogs' last night.

    That's been a long time for me. Some movies get even funnier for you when you get older. You catch things you didn't before because of lack in experience.

    My favorite part is when Mr. Blonde, does that little dance to The Sound of the Seventies, before he cuts the cops ear off.

    My favorite quote: "Are you gonna bark all day, little doggy, or are you gonna bite?"

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  37. "Are you gonna bark all day, little doggy, or are you gonna bite?"

    that's so fucking corny, the best characters are the ones without the cheesy lines, like pat batman.

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  38. Eden said...
    My favorite quote: "Are you gonna bark all day, little doggy, or are you gonna bite?"

    was that quote directed at somebody here in particular? (;

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  39. Anon 12:46

    TNP you ain't made one dent in the girl, Buster :-)

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  40. @Erin

    Nope. Busy day... not much time to be on here.
    I run a salon, and it's Friday.

    I'll be off soon... and then it's play time! Cheers to the freak'n weekend!

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  41. what's your salon eden? i need a hair cut

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  42. It's called: Lesbians In The Making

    ;)

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  43. I just found you on facebook.. funk o tron eh???

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  44. Story time!

    Last weekend I spent time with some females that invited me over to a dinner party. After we ate they talked on and on about what most women talk about when tipsy and only a couple of men are there, sex. One girl, there were three, asked, "What do you do when you masturbate", and one of the females managed to turn a simple question into a debate on vaginas. This prude said she can't masturbate because it doesn't make sense nor does it seem right to just touch yourself. She kept exclaiming she needed a man.

    As they discussed the vagina chronicles all over again, I just watched and listened, amazed at how trivial their topic of choice was, and the same twat that talked about how she can't masturbate said it doesn't make sense for a vagina to tighten unless she is having sex. I tried to explain logic to her, finally speaking, on how if a woman is not getting fucked all day every day her snatch will eventually retighten itself. She proceeded in pulling a TNP by cursing, getting offended, and interrupting others when they tried to help her understand.

    I compared the situation to a piercing. You put a hole in, you add the plug (for imagery). If you want the hole bigger, add a bigger plug, and the opening will stretch. If you take the plug out, it will shrink back to a smaller size, but never the original tiny hole. The cunt didn't get it, and started to claim everyone was taking it too personal, then started mocking others in a little kid "nanny nanny boo boo" voice, getting hysterical in her actions. I pointed out that her pussy must be a giant gaping hole if she is trying to defy fact by saying that fucking a lot makes the vagina smaller. She was pissed, and the convo ended.

    I thought it was funny that the topic at hand was the woman's body, and vaginas in general, yet somehow princess clitoris thought we were talking about her and her apparent wide opening. I was not thinking of her baby cannon. I was thinking of when this would finally end, and who out of the other two would give me some. I ended up with the ridiculously curvy black chic.

    Moral to the story kids!: Drink more. It'll help drown out topics that lead to dreadfully boring pussy talk, and possibly aide in "choking" a pussy later ;)

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  45. The reason why people want to adopt traits dubbed "sociopathic" is quite obvious. It's sort of like why people turn to drugs when they are feeling low. It stems from a need to feel powerful as a result of being weak. Most of the broken down losers who try to pass themselves off as non-affective are in reality pathetic. They feel weak, and know deep down that they are weak, and seek to brand themselves as manipulative monsters to impress people. It just so happens that people like us are not really impressed with fellow socios, we envy them, and take every opportunity to obliterate the downtrodden. I like to think of it as malicious psychotherapy.

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  46. If you guys really want to feel empowered, why don't you try being a leader of a superpower? I tell you right now it's a power-trip of a lifetime!

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  47. "Unnatural behavior of sociopaths is also observed when they break into violent outbursts over insignificant issues."

    "No matter how calm and composed they appear, sociopaths are insecure and restless to the core; their very nature compels them to constantly live on the edge."

    "A promiscuous behavior can be observed in sociopathic personalities. These people can also degrade themselves to the level of committing rape or abusing children sexually. Fear of hiding such kind of anti-social and inhuman acts always looms over the sociopaths."

    http://www.buzzle.com/articles/characteristics-of-a-sociopath.html

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  48. I know you are but what am I
    I know you are but what am I
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    I know you are but what am I

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  49. I think Ukan is black. He claims not be white or from Europe, so he must be a nigger.

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  50. I think UKan is a black chick in about her 16's. With a diagnosed BPD and a severe depression. She was diagnosed after being hospitalized after an attempted suicide.

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  51. It takes one to know one
    It takes one to know one
    It takes one to know one
    It takes one to know one

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  52. UKan sounds like he is from the UK. I think he is jus lieing to us to throw us off.

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  53. 0 empathy does not = secure person
    stop kidding yourselves

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  54. UKan, why don't you just be honest and tell us what part of the world you come from. Stop being such a pussy.

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  55. "The reason why people want to adopt traits dubbed "sociopathic" is quite obvious. It's sort of like why people turn to drugs when they are feeling low. It stems from a need to feel powerful as a result of being weak."

    Sociopathy is weak, why would one want to turn to that ?

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  56. chicken
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  57. Exactly Anon, why would someone want to become something they aren't? Because they are too lowly to make something out of themselves. It's as simple as that.

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  59. I don't care
    I don't care
    I don't care
    I don't care

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  60. youre a really bad liar erin

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  61. Doesn't it get burned down by rednecks all the time Eden?

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  62. Erin, you sound like one of those conspiracy theory idiots that believe in shit like the Illuminati. Do you believe that the plebeians are going to visit earth in 2088 also?

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  63. Well, she is religious.

    Religion = Conspiracy theory

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  64. Of course they watch this blog erin.... you're very naive if you think they aren't keeping a close eye on everyone.


    I'd like to take this moment to make a shout out to my friends over at homeland security! hi guys!

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  65. Erin, did they have my name on their database? Please, it is really important for me to know!

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  66. Religion should be a synonym for retardation. Unfortunately the people who write the damn dictionary have to tread carefully and not "hurt" anyone's feelings.

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  68. Also erin... that circle IS NOT the location of the computer they were using??? fucking idiot

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  69. I think they have a lot of files on Anonymous, Anon.

    And Erin, don't you think it's far more likely that it was just some bloke that went on your site during office hours because of personal reasons?

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  71. ...And now you're talking about landing a plane in the Homeland Security-building...

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  74. I dunno.. a bunch of people who are essentially claiming to be capable of many horrible acts without guilt? This place may be of national security interest. They have lots of money and time to be dicking around all over the internet spying on people... why not here?

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  75. Erin, can you punch in UKan's IP and find out where he lives?

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  76. Why the fuck would homeland security put a circle over their office that they spy on people in??? that's retarded erin. They wouldn't do that. I'm sure they control google earth anyway. They're not gonna put anything that might endanger them on there. So, so, soooooo stupid, this one.

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  78. Erin, can you punch in UKan's IP and find out where he lives?

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  79. Or maybe Erin... They've been thinking about asking you to use your psychic abilities to help them fight terrorism!! I'll bet that's what it is :)

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  81. UKan might be from Mexico.

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  82. Religiousness is more like a symptom of retardation. Some form of spirituality or another doesn't really do any harm; Buddhism can be really help people, for example

    Organized religion however, is the biggest scam in human history. Kinda makes you feel impressed, what sociopaths throughout the ages heve been capable of doing, no?

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  83. There is indeed a UKan from Mexico; one you can pay and who will then make a facebook page for you (no joke, look it up), but I doubt 'our' UKan stupid enough to use 'UKan' somewhere it can be traced back to him.

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  84. You contradicted yourself dipshit.

    "Religiousness is more like a symptom of retardation. Some form of spirituality or another doesn't really do any harm; Buddhism can be really help people, for example "

    Wheatly is a symptom of retardation.

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  85. When I said religiousness, I meant the organized one. I'm sorry if it's confusing. :)

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  86. wheatly wuts ur theory on why UKan won't reveal his real location?

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  87. Although some form of spirituality or another doesn't really do any harm; Buddhism can really help people, for example.

    Better?

    And also: Retardation and 'Doing harm' or not synonyms, so there was never a contradiction to begin with, dipshit.

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  88. If Ukan were a real sociopath, he wouldn't be scared to reveal where he is from.

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  89. I post my home address all over the internet, so im a socio

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  90. I like to keep my IP private so I am a socio.

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  91. ukan is tot not a socio.

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  92. why this place is sooooooo boring right now?

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  93. cause wheatly is a 17 year old virgin.

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  94. why this place is sooooo empty right now?

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  95. I happen to know for a fact UKan lives in Botswana, Africa.

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  96. I like to spell my farts

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  97. everytime SW becomes empty, UKan becomes the center of attention. He really is king to a lot of people here. We hail him as king as he backstabs us.

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  98. *sniff*

    *sniff sniff*

    yum

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  99. I have come from the sky to deliver us, for UKan truly is a false prophet

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  100. i lik UKan's fart.

    i lik UKan's fart.

    i lik UKan's fart.

    i lik UKan's fart.

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  101. Ukan's IP has placed him in Biafra.

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  102. aya da rumors r true, i have aids and ive cum to infest SW with my virus.

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  103. nah ukan sounds sorta irish.........

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  104. there needs to be more real ppl less anoness in here

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  105. I think we need to think of a plan how to get rid of that deviant.

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  107. you are the dumbest smart person ever erin

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  109. what is this anime crap erin? you asian hooker bitch

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  110. I just created an account by the name of "UKan" in an avoidant forum. Teehee.

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  111. I am da greatest eva OMG LOLOLOLOL!!!

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  112. i dont get it erin. what are we supposed to be trying to figure out?

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  113. tehehhehee avoidant?!?!??!! how outlandish

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  114. Create a Ukan character in an OCD forum, germ phobic.

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  115. erin puts the lotion in the basket or she gets the hose again.

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  116. You fuckers are all a bunch of fakes! Do you really believe in this false world you've constructed??? Really?
    Bunch of Breakfast Club luvin prats!

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  117. how cums no ones fighting

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  118. http://www.chameleongroup.org.uk/npd/misconceptions.html

    Here's another perspective on NPD
    It;s pretty different

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  119. ^"An abused child might turn into a^ fighter or psychopath but not into a narcissist"

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  120. what do you guys think of assassination?

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  121. why does sociapath take friday off

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  122. http://www.nextmovie.com/blog/charlie-sheen-parody-posters/?xrs=synd_facebook

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  123. @ wet.... i'm sort of surprised it doesn't happen as much anymore, but then again I suppose murdering people is harder to get away with than it used to be, too. Why do you ask?

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  124. For the narcissist lying is fun and a tool, and anybody who doesn't lie is a fool in the eyes of the narcissist. Trying to communicate with a narcissist is therefore pointless.


    So very true of some people here.

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  125. "being a pimp aint easy, especially when you gotta stand on a phone booth to smack a bitch"

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  126. Narcissists also have to go through other educational programmes because they basically do not have any particular skills (other than manipulation, information taking from TV and endlessly lying). They are people who are unable to deal with any issue. That's why they escape into Freudian psychology.

    Freud was a fraud and so are his followers. Nietzsche is a fraud and so are his followers. Yes they had incestuous relationships with mothers and sisters and possibly with some male relatives.

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  127. Whoever comments next is a faggot.

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  128. That ship already left.

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  129. Erin, Maybe homeland was looking for a psychic.

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  130. Sociopaths can have feelings for one or a few people. It is well documented. Stalin was certainly a sociopath, but he loved his wife very much. When she died he said, "There goes my last connection to the human race."

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