Wednesday, April 6, 2016

Needing things to go a particular way (part 1)

The reader's response: 

I agree that it would be magical thinking to say that you can think your way out of any emotion at any given time. But if you're already familiar with how the undesirable emotion is resulting from your processing of the situation through a lens of beliefs, you can attempt to eliminate the feeling if you can identify the belief underneath.

Think; if a neurotypical sees the world through a lens of "There is no right and wrong, or good and evil, those are man made concepts that do not exist in nature, and they are a means of control. Rights don't exist either, they are imaginary, we made them up. Emotions are, simply put, biological functions that helped the survival of a stage of our species but at this point are obsolete and nothing but harmful, even though at times they (especially the mammal/herd animal instincts like shame) come with a sense of 'meaning'. The duration of your life is the only time you will enjoy rewards and suffer consequences, your conscious experience will not exist after you die."
How can you expect this total non-sociopath to feel guilt/remorse/shame, or fear in his deathbed after a life of 'wrongdoings'?

"There is no greater purpose to this existence, it is futile, it is at best a form of entertainment and I don't mind tapping out if I get bored" would be another one to make it all seem meaningless, thus making any moral judgement irrelevant and unimportant, and the lives' of oneself and others unattached to some sort of sacred value.
Don't you think just remembering this one would make one a let less of a neurotic in general?


BUT (I think I'm speaking for non-socios here, I might be wrong):

Let's say, before the person had those said beliefs, since early childhood he/she were raised to believe in something vastly different than that, like most people are. When he does something that makes sense to him but goes against a certain norm, he has to think his way out of, let's say, shame.
Especially if people react. A number of them, at the same time. Yikes. 
Because he's hardwired with the instinct of shame, and shame was already previously programmed to fire at types of situations like this, he will probably feel shame while knowing/thinking that it's irrational. 

But you can't just stop feeling something just because you know it doesn't make sense, that would be too good to be true. Of course the feeling isn't rational, it's a fucking feeling. Still, After recognizing the feeling and wanting to get rid of it, there will still be some thinking work to do to eliminate it in my experience, that's my point.


For me it was a challenge to identify beliefs on most of my past issues (social anxiety, OCD, 2 nonsense phobias) as they were easy to recognize as irrational even to the person who has them, and no part of it I could connect to anything. But at this point I can confidently say that at this point I can easily eliminate mild anxiety, shame and mostly anger (The ego-hurt at least. you know how when the bus driver acts entitled and disrespectful to you, and you just have to find a way to not punch him in the throat and insert your thumbs into his eyes because at that moment it looks like a very reasonable risk to take?) .

Still, fear is different I think, it's more deeply rooted than anything else. It's probably the first emotion that ever came to exist and I don't think one can think its way out of fear as a feeling, but maybe with sufficient recent exposure to fear-evoking situations or an exceptionally trained prefrontal cortex it could be fought. As long as fear is not sabotaging one's decision or performance, I think it's fine to feel it somewhere in the background.

Am I depressed? I think it's my own cognitive bias that I don't think about my mood when i'm in a good mood, but I'm recently realizing that I tend to live 4-5 days beautifully and 4-5 days terribly. Not that I'm bipolar or anything, I just have a great relationship with drugs and a less faithful one with sleep. Being in the zone so hard that refusing to sleep and failing to take a break and just functioning for hours more, and then having a sleep deprived crash landing for 12 hours in the afternoon does not sound like consistent depression to me. 

I loved your last paragraph, that's a belief I haven't even questioned, or regarded as a belief till now.
And yes, you can publish it. 

(Also, you didn't miss sarcasm, Bill wasn't being sarcastic, it's just that Bill is a normal dude with a temper, and when he calls himself a psycho he mostly means 'psychotic'. 
Irrelevant: I got stung by an exotic insect while writing that last sentence.)

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    1. A-

      I think it's "HOT", when you swear.:)

      ~Vegas

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  2. Socioempath-

    Have you read "The Bible"???

    ~Vegas

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    1. Yes. My family members are, in fact, "hard Catholic Christians", and take their faith religiously and seriously, oftentimes to the point of ridiculousness - in my opinion, they take it all "too literally and rigidly", often ignoring the "spirit of the message".

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    2. Socioempath-

      Do you identify as Catholic?

      The "Spirit of the Message", is what's important to me.:)

      ~Vegas

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    3. Socioempath-

      I would imagine, that there are a lot of beautiful Catholic Churches in Bosnia-is that correct?

      Are there any in particular that you are familiar with, that you would recommend seeing, if I ever find myself in Bosnia someday???

      ~Vegas

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    4. Socioempath-

      I love beautiful churches!!!

      Especially, when they have a lot of cool stained glass.:)

      ~Vegas

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    5. Socioempath-

      The Serbian Orthodox Cathedral in Sarajevo looks AWESOME!!!

      Have you ever been???

      ~Vegas

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    6. At the moment, I do not identify myself as "religious".

      As for churches, well, I have not visited nor have been paying much attention to them, so I wouldn't really know what to recommend...

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    7. Socioempath-

      I understand.

      I think whenever Jonaid posts, I'm going to start saying "GO MALALA!!!" See my posts from yesterday.:)

      ~Vegas

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    8. Hehehehe ;-)

      P. S.
      I wonder why Jinnaid never bothered to mention that muslims are permitted (and even encouraged) to lie and act contrary to their faith, lie about their beliefs, even renounce and change them, whenever they "feel it's justified", and not suffer any "ill will" in the eyes of their God and fellow muslims?
      :-)

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    9. Socioempath-

      I thought you might like that.:)

      You have presented another excellent question for Jinnaid.:)

      I would like answers to my posts, as well.:)

      Jinnaid will ignore us, quote Qur'an, or attempt to explain with some "BS answers", I'm sure.:)

      Jinnaid-where are you???

      ~Vegas

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    10. Socioempath-

      Jinnaid has been "amazingly quiet", since my posts from yesterday...

      ~Vegas

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    11. I'm pretty sure he's quite busy consulting his all-knowing book for another "a-ha!" quote.

      I think his next answer to your questions about terrorist groups will be something akin to "those are not real muslims", as any "legitimate critiques" (which he perceives as "attacks") on his faith are one of the "justified situations" :-)

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    12. Socioempath-

      Love Jinnaid's "a-ha!" quotes.:) NOT!!!

      I think you are right, about what Jinnaid will say, about terrorist groups.

      I'm interested to hear, what is "justified", about terrorism...

      ~Vegas

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    13. This is my take on the issue of terrorism:

      For terrorists, publicity, terror and chaos is "victory" - they do not care about territory and "normal objectives", but what they care about is the spreading of their ideas; by distrupting the leadership and "normal lives" of countrie(s) through memorable emotionally charged attack(s), they can get a lot of exposure, and the terror will paralyze individuals who hear of the attacks and constantly make them think about the terrorists, and their next attack.
      The harder the "counterattack" and "countermeasures" (as was with America's "expedition" in the Middle East and it's increasing security at the cost of personal freedom), the more the terrorists "win" (as it makes their targets look "weak" and "incompetent", unable to provide security), as their ideas get wider exposure and become more known, and the more recruits they could gather; the greater the limits of personal freedoms and longer and more expensive the "counterattack", the greater the dissatisfaction, as now individuals could start thinking that the terrorists were perhaps "right".

      Since terrorists have extremely limited resources but great mobility, they need to make their attacks count, as they cannot do much of them due to their limited resources and manpower. They do excel at hiding and slipping away, and the more visible, longer and expensive the attempts to catch and "punish" them, the more it plays into their strengths and makes the persecutor look bad and damages his reputation - it is as if someone breaks everything in his house trying to kill a single fly just because that fly landed on his expensive food, even if you kill it it won't look good in the eyes of those who saw and heard of his reaction.

      The terrorist attacks gave muslims exposure and the chance to, over time, "prove their innocence" by claiming it was "just a few extemists" and denouncing them (while simultaneously acting "peacefully" and lying about their faith, just as Jinnaid does). If everyone sees how "misunderstood and persecuted" the muslims are, and enough time passes, then they could gain sympathy, draw away suspicion and even gain potential new converts.

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    14. Socioempath-

      Well said-I completely agree with you.

      I will not convert.

      My thought has been, that Jinnaid's purpose for being here all along, is to attempt to convert people...

      ~Vegas

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    15. Socioempath-

      PS-I cannot speak for anyone else, but I would imagine that if anyone had been interested in becoming Muslim, Jinnaid has changed their mind...

      ~Vegas

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    16. Socioempath-

      I value your intelligence.:)

      Even though you are not religious-what are your thoughts on "The Bible", since you have read it?

      Was "Revelation" your favorite part?

      ~Vegas

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    17. Truth be told, I have read it a few times, but it was a long time ago, when I was a kid; my favourite parts were from the Old Testament (especially the battles), which I found more interesting and "fun" than the New Testament. I remember the breaching of the walls of Jericho as being my favourite.

      My "Bible knowledge" is rusty and limited though, due to the passage of time, but from what I vaguely remember, and the excerpts I read, I think it contains a lot of valuable lessons about human nature.

      In any case, the Bible is more A's "territory" than mine :-)

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    18. It is absolutely forbidden to lie about anything to anyone ever in Islam. The only exceptions are:

      1) Deception as a strategy during war (i.e. battlefield tactics).
      2) If one is coerced and one's life is in danger it is actually recommended that you lie if that's likely to save you (i.e. if one is being tortured).

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    19. Yes. Not allowed to anyone ever, in Islam. Those of you outside of Islam, you're out of luck :-)

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    20. Taqiyya, taqiyya. :)

      "Battlefield tactics" that extend to Jihad on western soil.

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    21. Up next:

      Will we see Jihaid using taqiyya about taqiyya? Stay tuned! :P

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    22. @ Socioempath at 5.27am:

      "The terrorist attacks gave muslims exposure and the chance to, over time, "prove their innocence" by claiming it was "just a few extemists" and denouncing them (while simultaneously acting "peacefully" and lying about their faith,"
      [snip]
      "If everyone sees how "misunderstood and persecuted" the muslims are,

      Are you saying that Muslims are actually not at all persecuted anywhere?

      You're from where: Serbia? Bosnia?

      XK

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    23. Oh yes! Yes I am!
      There is absolutely no muslim in existence that is persecuted, nor was there any muslim that was, is, or will be persecuted, ever!
      ;-)

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    24. 8-)
      Figures. You coming from that part of the world an' all.

      Glupo covjek. [Bosnian's easier on the standard keyboard]

      XK

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    25. Socioempath-

      I've missed your "hehehehe's".:)

      I say "hee, hee, hee!!!", all of the time, too.:)

      I was just curious what your favorite part of The Bible was. Non-socios often find Revelation confusing and disturbing, so I wondered if that would be a socio's favorite part.:)

      ~Vegas

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    26. Jonaid-

      Why are there SO MANY MUSLIM TERRORIST GROUPS???

      GO MALALA!!!

      ~Vegas

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    27. Jonaid-

      "It is absolutely forbidden to lie about anything to anyone ever in Islam. The only exceptions are:

      1) Deception as a strategy during war (i.e. battlefield tactics).
      2) If one is coerced and one's life is in danger it is actually recommended that you lie if that's likely to save you (i.e. if one is being tortured)."

      When you answer, "the exceptions" don't apply here, SO NO LYING!!!

      ~Vegas

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    28. GO MALALA!!!

      ~Vegas

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    29. Socioempath-

      What does "glupo covjek" mean???

      ~Vegas

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    30. Hey A-

      I heard "TD Jakes" today, and guess what???

      He was talking about how dirty the Jordan River is!!!

      HA!!! LOL!!!

      It made me think of you, and what you said.:)

      The irony of life, right???

      SEA OF GALILEE AND THE DEAD SEA-HERE WE COME!!!

      ~Vegas

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    31. A-

      OMG!!! Guess what else???

      Right after I wrote the above post, I heard a pastor (Steven Furtick), talking about "crossing over" from The Jordan, to Jericho!!!

      I haven't heard pastors talking about The Jordan, and then you mentioned it, and I've heard it mentioned twice in a row!!!

      More than "coincidental", in my book.:)

      ~Vegas

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    32. "Yes. Not allowed to anyone ever, in Islam. Those of you outside of Islam, you're out of luck :-)"

      Once again, in simpler English: a Muslim is not allowed to lie to anyone (Muslim or not), ever and the only two exceptions I've listed above.

      Sometimes I'm shocked when I realize what you really are - or are becoming. You won't be able to come back if you keep letting yourself drown like this. You'll be happily deluded until your time comes and then it's all over.

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    33. Joanie-

      You didn't answer my question.

      Why are there SO MANY MUSLIM TERRORIST GROUPS???

      GO MALALA!!!

      ~Vegas

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    34. "Glupo covjek" means google translate was used.

      "Glup čovjek", however, means "a stupid man".

      I'm not quite sure if XK caught on to my sarcasm, but seeing how she takes the words literally and out of context, I'd say no :-)

      Once again, in simpler English: a Muslim is not allowed to lie to anyone (Muslim or not), ever and the only two exceptions I've listed above.

      Let's try some easy interpretation;
      Whoever denies the will of the Allah is an infidel and a possible threat (ie. someone not a muslim), therefore, muslims are at a religious war with non-muslims, and lying there is permitted.

      Next lie, please :D

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    35. Hey Socioempath-

      Your sense of humor cracks me up!!!

      I think you're cool.:)

      Thank you for the translation.:)

      I don't know why XK said that-you're anything but stupid.

      Nice, and I believe quite accurate, interpretation.

      ~Vegas

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    36. Socioempath-

      PS-Have you noticed, that Jinnaid has still been unable to explain, why there are so many Muslim terror groups???

      PSS-You obviously don't have to, but do you have any songs??? I seem to be "at a loss", for a song today.:(

      ~Vegas

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    37. Socioempath-

      Thank you!!!

      That was perfect-you never disappoint.:)

      A wink, too.:)

      Are you a "gamer"???

      ~Vegas

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    38. Not really. I do play sometimes, but I prefer reading and going out :-)

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    39. Socioempath-

      I like reading and going out, too.:)

      ~Vegas

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    40. Socioempath-

      Do you like to dance???

      You don't have to answer, if you don't want to...

      ~Vegas

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    41. I aim to learn dancing someday :P

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    42. Socioempath-

      I love to dance.:)

      I find that people who have good rhythm when they dance, are also good lovers.:)

      ~Vegas

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    43. @ Socioempath at 10.42pm

      "I'm not quite sure if XK caught on to my sarcasm, but seeing how she takes the words literally and out of context, I'd say no"

      I'm doomed to being misunderstood on here. LOL

      I knew yours was humorous sarcasm; I was appreciating it in kind [well, attempting; you're right, that Google Translate is useless].
      I *thought* the ending 'o' was wrong.

      I wanted to say silly man, [in a very genial way] not 'stupid'. 8-/

      Anyway, I hope Google Translate might do better with this [and yes I know it's not Bosnian; this is not only spelled properly but the word endings are all correct]:

      Pana przepraszam.
      8-)

      XK

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    44. Hehehehe

      Mistakes were made ;-)

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    45. Don't let your past prevent you from freeing yourselves. God is in control of everything and He is all-forgiving if you repent while alive. Don't subscribe to anything you genuinely consider to be deceptive & immoral - be that a religion or anything else. If you're genuine, the Truth will find you. I don't mean to sound like a preacher but I'm just still in my honeymoon stage - shocked at how real and how brilliant God is.

      "Say: "O my Servants who have transgressed against their souls! Despair not of the Mercy of God: for God forgives all sins: for He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful."

      Qur'an 39:53

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    46. Abandoned all logic, have we, Jihaid?

      Ahem...

      Lo! Behold! Oh how the dark ones have taken their poor, willing pawn over!
      Once their seeds are planted, and roots subtly envelop the mind, body, and soul, there is little hope for salvation!

      But, fear not! For redemption there always a chance exists! One needs merely be genuine and true to one's self!
      Heed thee sorrowful example of Jihaid, and harden thyselves from the influences of unforeseen, dark invisible forces of the fallen ones!

      Fret not, Jihaid, for your true salvation is mere steps away! Listen to my voice, adhere to my writings, follow me on the glorious sacred path of holy salvation, and may you pass through the arches of life completely reborn, a completely renewed soul, bristling with limitless restorative energies of the heavens!

      You CAN do it, Jihaid! However, I shan't force nor exhort you to choose this demanding but rewarding, true road, for ultimately that choice rests in your own hands, for only YOU can be your own catalyst of positive change! I sincerely hope that you genuinely open your eyes, that you choose wisely, for this path you have been threading on can only lead you to your untimely, imminent, inevitable demise!

      XD

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    47. I think you're hurting.

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    48. If only I could convince you I'm not lying nor am I deluded. With God is every good thing that lasts. Why settle for less?

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    49. And of course my friendship is priceless ;-)

      That was of course a joke. Seriously now help me out and come back...without a mask. It's not fitting for you to be like this.

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    50. You dissapoint me, Jihaid...

      I offerred you salvation, and you rejected it! Why do you settle for less and choose your own demise? That false path of yours is not fitting to anyone, not even you!

      If only I can convince you I'm not lying nor making fun of you or using any masks! Only the road I have offered you will last for eternity, everything else is fleeting and fades away!

      Seriously, why are you doing this?? You are a lost child, rebelling against your own salvation! Help me out here, for nobody except you can save you, and I will gladly help you see the light of redemption! Will you choose life, or will you continue to deceive yourself and sow the seeds of your own demise???

      :-)

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    51. Do you actually think anyone or anything can really harm you if God intends otherwise? Stop being afraid and free yourself.

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    52. Do you actually think anyone or anything can really harm you if you follow the only true path to salvation instead of this falseness you prophesize? Stop being deluded and afraid of the false idol and finally allow yourself to free yourself.

      ;-)

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  3. "Art is making something out of nothing." Be with this thought always.

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  4. Hey ME isn't this post part 2?

    "How can you expect this total non-sociopath to feel guilt/remorse/shame, or fear in his deathbed after a life of 'wrongdoings'?"

    You can expect it because as you say he is a total non-sociopath.

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    1. aspie-

      I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING, ON BOTH OF YOUR POINTS!!!

      M.E.-Were you drinking, when you did this post???

      ~Vegas

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  5. I had a really good session with my mental health therapist today. She's had some time to consider things and better understand psychopathy, so she had some things she wanted to address with me and we had a very productive discussion. She seems to think that special emphasis is needed on developing better cost-benefit analysis.

    We watched a couple of your interviews, M.E.. The Huffington Post Live one and that one you spoke with your face blurred? I also have your talk with the Brain Broad downloaded on my phone, and she wants to listen to it in our next session.

    I also told her about my public-ness of my personality disorder; for the most part I've gotten a very positive reaction. The homeless youth very much respect me, and the organization I work with accepts me for what I am. A woman who works with the organization and is the boss of my case manager (who is working with me to make sure I'm on track with getting off the streets and etc..) seems to think I'm very brave coming out as a psychopath and spreading mental health awareness. Something they're working on with me is getting me onto a panel of speakers to talk about mental health awareness, the homeless youth epidemic and consequently the mental health crisis within the homeless youth community.

    ESTP Sociopath

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  6. I was bored and decided to check out the Huffington Post phone interview video with ME mentioned above and during it it is asked what a clear definition of sociopathy is. So then it cuts to a Dr John Edens and his answer is words to the effect of:

    “people who are emotionally disconnected from others — they don’t have the same sort of desire for relationships or capacity to connect emotionally with people."

    LOL.

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    1. Might pay to check out Dr. Eden's breadth of research and range of collaborators prior to demonstrating your embarrassing cluelessness in public.

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  8. More people need to be on http://sociopath-community.com/

    !!! it used to be connected to this blog but was disconnected over a year ago. We need fresh blood and lots of interesting things have happened recently (relates to kiwifar.ms drama: https://archive.is/M2tXa) that will go down in the forum's history! Be sure to check out http://www.psychforums.com/antisocial-personality/ too, as some of its regulars are regulars on SC too!

    Goddamn ME refused to reconnect the blog to the forum so we SC goers will just have to spam advertisements for the forum in the comments section. ;)

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  9. My husband and I have been married for about 7 yrs now. We were happily married with two kids, a boy and a girl. 3 months ago, I started to notice some strange behavior from him and a few weeks later I found out that my husband is seeing someone. He started coming home late from work, he hardly care about me or the kids anymore, Sometimes he goes out and doesn't even come back home for about 2-3 days. I did all I could to rectify this problem but all to no avail. I became very worried and needed help. As I was browsing through the internet one day, I came across a website that suggested that Dr Unity can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he did a spell for me. Three days later, my husband came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I and my family are living together happily again.. All thanks to Dr Unity . If you need a spell caster that can cast a spell that truly works, I suggest you contact him. He will not disappoint you. This is his E-mail: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com .

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  12. My life became devastated when my husband sent me packing, after 8 years that we have been together. I was lost and helpless after trying so many ways to make my husband take me back. One day at work, i was absent minded not knowing that my boss was calling me, so he sat and asked me what its was all about i told him and he smiled and said that it was not a problem. I never understand what he meant by it wasn't a problem getting my husband back, he said he used a spell to get his wife back when she left him for another man and now they are together till date and at first i was shocked hearing such thing from my boss. He gave me an email address of the great spell caster who helped him get his wife back, i never believed this would work but i had no choice that to get in contact with the spell caster which i did, and he requested for my information and that of my husband to enable him cast the spell and i sent him the details, but after two days, my mom called me that my husband came pleading that he wants me back, i never believed it because it was just like a dream and i had to rush down to my mothers place and to my greatest surprise, my husband was kneeling before me pleading for forgiveness that he wants me and the kid back home, then i gave Happy a call regarding sudden change of my husband and he made it clear to me that my husband will love me till the end of the world, that he will never leave my sight. Now me and my husband is back together again and has started doing pleasant things he hasn't done before, he makes me happy and do what he is suppose to do as a man without nagging. Please if you need help of any kind, kindly contact Happy for help and you can reach him via email: happylovespell2@gmail.com

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  13. Hi, I am a USA citizen, am here to testify how i got my Ex back with the help of this God-sent called Dr Unity for the great things he has done in my life.. First of all i want to thank mareen for the post she made on how Dr Unity helped her in bringing back her lover. At first when i saw the posting i was so happy and in the other hand so scared,That this might not be real, Then i decided to give it a try in which i contacted Dr Unity and told him how my lover left me for another lady for the past 3years and i have been lonely and depressed without him,So i asked him if he has helped anyone called mareen and he said yes, that was the lady he helped in bringing back her lover. I said good and i told him that if he can help me in bringing back my own lover,He laughed and said once i have contacted him that my problem will be solved.He said that my lover will be back to me within 48hours, Truly when the 48hours was completed i got a text from someone saying am sorry, then i decided to call the number i saw it was my lover Steve voice.i was so happy he was begging me and crying on phone, That he is ready to do anything that will make me happy in life,So i told him to come over which he did,As he was coming he came with a brand new Car as gift. i am so happy today with the help of Dr Unity. He has proven to me that he is not going to leave me for another lady again and stay with me forever, Am so happy today and am also thanking mareen for posting this early.Dr Unity you are truly a man of your word. He can also any kind of sickness and he can solve any kind of problems in this world. Friends i believe Dr Unity is a man to trust and believe on. You don't need to cry anymore Dr Unity has been sent to clean our tears you can contact him on his Email: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com or cell phone +2348072370762.

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  14. I want to share my great experience to the whole world about how i got my lover back. I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my boyfriend return back to me, and today with all due respect i want to thank Lord Alika for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my boyfriend, I required help until i found lordalikaspelltemple@yahoo.co.uk a grate spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in two days after the spell has been cast. two days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past 6 months now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. Lord Alika released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I'm writing this testimony right now I'm the most happiest girl on earth and me and my boyfriend is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break up. So that's why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe.All thanks goes to Lord Alika for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, she will definitely help you too. lordalikaspelltemple@yahoo.co.uk or http://lordalikaspelltemp8.wix.com/http call him +2348072718865

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