Is anyone else not surprised that he is a fencer?
Saturday, March 17, 2012
Friday, March 16, 2012
1 in 10 Wallstreeters are psychopaths
- They excel in any arena where aggressive behavior is rewarded and where grandiose levels of confidence can result in rousing applause.
- It is often difficult to argue that these people are indeed sick until the day they have to exchange their Armani suit for an orange jumpsuit.
- I only know one man who openly admits he's a psychopath. I called him to see what he thought of the numbers Ms. DeCovny reported. "First of all, it's not one out of 10," says Sam Antar. "It's probably eight out of 10." "The reality is, to succeed on Wall Street you've got to be a psychopath in one form or another," Mr. Antar says.
- Mr. Antar now teaches law-enforcement organizations how to spot psychos. He thinks of himself as a psychopath in remission, but he admits he could snap back at any time, much like a relapsing alcoholic.
- It may be part of the human condition to venerate psychos, mistaking their grandiosity for leadership.
- If you work on Wall Street, chances are good you are not a psychopath, but chances are also good you report to one.
Thursday, March 15, 2012
Fictional sociopaths: anime
From a reader:
I'm not sure exactly how interested you are in anime, but I thought I'd recommend Puella Magi Madoka Magica. It's a 12 episode anime which at first, due to the title and opening song, appears very much like some terrible fantasy anime made for eight year old girls, but probably by episode two you'll start to see why I would recommend it to you. The show is basically about how an alien creature named Kyubey, promises to grant one wish to teenage girls in exchange that they fight witches. Throughout the series you'll learn his real motivation, and what sort of emotionless, selfish lives these girls must learn to lead in order to protect themselves. Yet throughout all the times they're suffering, he's just smiling and cute and completely unaffected. Where he comes from, emotion is a mental disorder.
Also looking this up, I came across the concept that Daleks are sociopaths. Ahaha maybe.
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Sociopath vs. sociopath (part 2)
This is a good question and a hard one to answer. I'd say that it is definitely possible to recognize another sociopath in real life because I have done it once. But it's also impossible to know whether or how many other sociopaths I have met in real life without being able to identify them.
The one time I recognized a sociopath in real life, the person was of my same general background, education, and was even in my same career, which helped immensely I am sure. I think when you recognize each other, the thing that tips you off the most is watching them perform your same tricks. This must be how conmen spot each other (or at least this is how it is always portrayed in film). There was something somewhat unnerving about our subsequent interactions. With both of us mirroring the other to a certain extent, it was almost the effect you get when two mirrors are facing -- an endless loop with no substance. Still, I think we understood each other and got on well.
The only other sociopath I have met in person is someone whom I had been previously informed was a sociopath. That interaction was in some ways more telling. We come from very different backgrounds, are in different stages in life, and just generally live in two different worlds. I don't think I would have been able to tell whether this person was a sociopath if I hadn't been made aware of the diagnosis ahead of time. The more time I spent with this person, the more I saw similarities, but this person's tricks were a different set than mine -- surely a set more suited to their daily life than mine. We still talk and get along well too, but I think we also can bore each other with our lack of substance and commonalities to discuss. But also we must intrigue or attract the other, because we definitely still play games whenever either of us is in the mood.
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Sociopath vs. sociopath (part 1)
Forgive me if this is a question that has been asked and addressed before; I stumbled upon the site quite recently, and have not yet had a chance to look back through the archives in any great detail.
I am curious about the interaction between sociopaths. Not just in an online medium such as this site, but in real life, in day-to-day activities. I ask because I have reason to believe that I have recently, through a family member, become a target of a high-functioning sociopath, who makes a game of destroying people from the inside out.
I recognise in myself several tendencies that point towards sociopathy, though I am not particularly anxious to label myself as anything. I know what I am; I don't need words to describe it to be at peace with my own identity. Though I am curious about it at times, it is more like an exercise in thought than an existential crisis.
What I wonder about is how quickly sociopaths are able to recognise one another, to see through the facade of an otherwise "normal" human being. I was not at all surprised to find that this person was a sociopath - after meeting him a few times, I found myself interested in him - not sexually; he has displayed sexual interest in me, but I believe that this is more of a ploy for control, free of either emotion or desire, as are many of his actions - but on an intellectually stimulating level. We got on like the proverbial house on fire; I found his conversation very diverting and humourous, and we quite quickly alienated the other people we were talking to. I will admit to a complete lack of modesty in saying that I am quite often unable to meet and converse with someone who is on the same level as me in terms of intelligence, so I relish these chances when I get them.
Before our meeting, he had displayed interest in me through hearing about me from my family member, and I reciprocated that interest, purely because of the sheer amount of second-hand flattery I was receiving from him. I found it questionable, and was curious as to the reason behind it. To find out that he was a sociopath who had made it his goal to destroy my family member, and had possible intentions of transferring those attentions to me, either to hurt them further, or as a new target, was not surprising, but rather, confirmed some suspicions of mine. Even if the word 'sociopath' had not sprung to mind on meeting him, there was something in his behaviour that matched the hallmarks of a sociopath.
To reinstate, I would like to know how sociopaths react to one another, being as they are lone wolves rather than pack animals, if you will. If they are quickly able to identify a fellow sociopath; if they feel the need to force a confrontation upon meeting; if they are able to co-exist in harmony; if they are inclined to avoid other sociopaths. While sociopaths are vastly outnumbered by the general population, it would be ridiculous to assume that their paths would never cross.
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