tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post9169733019872920535..comments2024-03-18T07:07:07.291-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: Where on the dark triad are you?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger61125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-5578885043228119352014-08-28T11:10:10.582-07:002014-08-28T11:10:10.582-07:00A bit of a late reply, but I agree with you here. ...A bit of a late reply, but I agree with you here. It isn't something that really matches, at least in my experience, either. No matter if I secretly want someone to 'see' and 'understand' me, talking about high machiavellianism and any other trait that I have is practically always a no-no. The revealing part, and allowing such information to get through isn't something I enjoy. Secretiveness and staying hidden and away from attention is something I actively work on and desire.C.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-32621981196557828762014-05-30T02:18:55.381-07:002014-05-30T02:18:55.381-07:00" its more that your so polite that criticism..." its more that your so polite that criticism gets lost "<br /><br />It doesn't get lost at all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-6889414357783490482013-11-08T03:09:21.872-08:002013-11-08T03:09:21.872-08:00@WriterOfThisEmail
From your email and your respo...@WriterOfThisEmail<br /><br />From your email and your responses. It seems quite evident to me that you have Narcissistic Personality Disorder with an added element of some self awareness which puts you in the almost sociopath category, as a previous poster mentioned, but your narcissism is what expresses most from your writing. <br />I say some self awareness whereas sociopaths have more self awareness and would recognize the tone of their email more so than it seems you are able to.<br />And on the topic of self awareness it is clear that neither sociopaths or empaths, as they are described on this website, have a great deal either, for the greater consciousness expands and genuine understanding of what Self is, the less one identifies with any one form of expression or identity, and the less fear there is about such things as being a victim to anyone or any personality out there. :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-65482566131411481742013-09-12T13:43:15.401-07:002013-09-12T13:43:15.401-07:00I always feel a certain amount of sadness, when pe...I always feel a certain amount of sadness, when people think they are a sociopath or a high mach and want to talk about it. Why? Because it doesn't fit the picture. <br /><br />A high mach will never ever talk about his inclination to the dark and a sociopath just doesn't care.<br /><br />But a narcissist actually can find value in posting on this site. He can feed on admiration or revulsion. <br /><br />For a high mach these kind of sites are scary, because they work towards revealing him and revealing is something he will never do. They don't want attention, they want secretiveness. Pinonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-60176173043248623472013-08-19T23:02:12.705-07:002013-08-19T23:02:12.705-07:00"Originality, please."
I think I can su..."Originality, please."<br /><br />I think I can supply some interesting originality. Here's a story for you. I was at the bar with my friends the other day and as far as I've ever been able to tell I've managed to maintain a rather demur, even demeanor. The theory being that assuming the role of narcissist in empaths clothing would give me the fullest access to their vulnerabilities. Not to use this knowledge to hurt them for the sake of hurting them but simply to be used a leverage to the most minimal extent necessary to get what I need.<br /><br />So while at the bar with my friends the other day I decided to test who well my cover was working. So I cave them all the "dirty dozen" personality test to fill out. They were told to answer the questions for themselves and then to also answer all the questions for everyone else in the group based on the way they perceived them.<br /><br />Basically a fun, see if your friends think your crazy, kind of experiment. When everyone was finished I totaled up their scores and evaluated them and then read them out loud to the group and explained what the scores meant. Fascinating enough the score I received were considerably lower then anyone else' in the group. While in reality my actual scores from a legitimate assessment were more than double and in some cases triple theirs.<br /><br />I was throwing it right in their faces and they couldn't even tell. To them I was the most harmless innocuous person in the group. And because of that belief they were willing to comply with almost any request I could possibly make of them, within reason.<br /><br />I hope that story was at least mildly entertaining and stimulating. Maybe some of you guys would be interested to see how your own friends might evaluate you with the "dirty dozen" personality test.Jonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-43173673745218057342013-08-19T22:30:51.589-07:002013-08-19T22:30:51.589-07:00Fear those that extend a handshake with a warm smi...Fear those that extend a handshake with a warm smile only to conceal the ready dagger in the other hand.Jonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-8072314903813738662013-08-19T22:24:10.291-07:002013-08-19T22:24:10.291-07:00I think I might have some more productive, non-sla...I think I might have some more productive, non-slanderous, comments to make about your original letter and your thoughts about the dark triad and where you fall in that spectrum.<br /><br />First I would like to start by saying I am a sub-clinical psychopath (interchangeable here with sociopath), sometimes also referred to as a successful psychopath or an almost psychopath. I have also have narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). In addition to this considerable amount of personal experience I am also a personality psychologist.<br /><br />I believe you would benefit from reading the book "Almost A Psychopath" as I believe you fit into the "almost" range of psychopathy. If normal and psychopathy are placed on a scale of black and white, with normal being on the white end and psychopath being on the black end, then the almost range would make up the middle "grey" area.<br /><br />You strike me as a typical NPD sufferer who also has just enough psychopathic traits as to be categorized as an almost psychopath. This means that you have just enough psychopathic traits to give yourself a certain level of self awareness that most narcissists do not posses. I believe if you were to evaluate yourself with the "dirty dozen" personality test of dark triad traits you would find that you would nearly max out the Narcissist and Machiavellian scales. While also scoring slightly above average in the Psychopathy category.<br /><br />This means that you understand that people are less inclined to be manipulated if you attempt to overtly dominate them as a traditional narcissist would. You are a narcissist in an empaths clothing because you realize this gives you free rein over the flock. People are more willing to go out of there way for and do things for an individual they perceive as being kind and caring, sweet and charming. It is your psychopathic traits that allow you to think this way and your Machiavellian personality that makes you so skillful in practicing this type of deception.<br /><br />But I believe you are, like I am, first and fore most a narcissist. Tempered into perfection by the other axis' of the dark triad.Jonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-38532838233421158092013-07-31T11:56:56.213-07:002013-07-31T11:56:56.213-07:00Does anyone else notice that so many of the author...Does anyone else notice that so many of the authors of these letters from readers claim to be smart but their writing is atrocious? Just an observation.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-55563302940559194772013-06-04T08:18:23.673-07:002013-06-04T08:18:23.673-07:00Thank you :DThank you :DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-35562030850046887152013-06-04T06:07:52.014-07:002013-06-04T06:07:52.014-07:00Anon, “you'll never think the best one could b...Anon, “you'll never think the best one could be one”<br /><br />This is just at the beginning. Give them enough time and they will hang themselves. The real thing it is never as the fake thing. <br /><br />Teen problems are too boring to discuss for me. Jessinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-30644613897834619312013-06-04T03:32:47.004-07:002013-06-04T03:32:47.004-07:00Hi sw .
I took the aspie test yesterday and it ...Hi sw . <br /><br />I took the aspie test yesterday and it said i have both nt and aspie traits. Does anyone else here get that result? Is it pretty common? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-90374130798058267302013-06-04T02:24:18.745-07:002013-06-04T02:24:18.745-07:00yeah.yeah.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-35750558172129605582013-06-03T22:35:32.491-07:002013-06-03T22:35:32.491-07:00its not that your nice Machavellianempath, its mor...its not that your nice Machavellianempath, its more that your so polite that criticism gets lost or compensated forAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07092274662687830878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-13034172129357342132013-06-03T21:30:23.831-07:002013-06-03T21:30:23.831-07:00Monica you are too much.
Seriously too fucking ...Monica you are too much. <br /><br />Seriously too fucking much.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-22875784932321712302013-06-03T17:42:14.533-07:002013-06-03T17:42:14.533-07:00Yes, I am Jewish. Why am I the most dangerous pers...Yes, I am Jewish. Why am I the most dangerous person on here. This should be good. And no, I don't adore myself. I lost most of my self esteem.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-87055207471290547102013-06-03T17:22:36.722-07:002013-06-03T17:22:36.722-07:00Do tell you are also a Jewish person. You are suc...Do tell you are also a Jewish person. You are such a collection. You really could be the most dangerous person here if not the one who definitely needs to be kept at a far distance.<br /><br />Your strength and self-respect... Do you stop adoring yourself in the mirror?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-27635270216823440542013-06-03T17:21:25.277-07:002013-06-03T17:21:25.277-07:00You just have to get them through high school. On...You just have to get them through high school. Once the gossip circles break up and people get lost in the flow of college, mistakes have less devastating consequences. Oh, but I surely do not envy your job right now :PAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11932547142801073974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-9121618171899466312013-06-03T16:53:33.158-07:002013-06-03T16:53:33.158-07:00Personally, I just find whoever am infatuated with...Personally, I just find whoever am infatuated with to be a drug. I'm careful not to depend on the person, like I'm careful not depend on drugs. Simple logic, it's also wise not to care about drugs unless truly valuable. Haha.<br /><br />I do agree that the best of seducers just do it effortlessly and have mostly been naturals. I'm no natural, but if am relaxed enough, smoothness in doing what I've accumulated feels natural, but I still have to calculate it.WriterOfThisEmailnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-1685807516867688192013-06-03T16:44:45.551-07:002013-06-03T16:44:45.551-07:00ha!
2 daughters (teens) 2 sons (preteen)
Here...ha!<br /><br />2 daughters (teens) 2 sons (preteen)<br /><br />Here's the sad thing- it's hard to protect daughters via the shotgun method bc boyfriends aren't players- players are the ones who hook up with girls at parties, and do things like what was done to the girl in Steubenville OH (which is why I don't tend to be nice to the manchildren who seduce girls for sport)<br />What's hard is you can't really anticipate them and protect your daughters from them if you are a parent. If you learn about them it is only after the damage is done. Bc I don't want to indoctrinate them the way I was by making them fear that having sex will somehow taint them, I am hoping that I am helping them develop bullshit meters instead. What I always say is to not overlook the quiet/shy ones and that anyone who is more interested in their own satisfaction will have no problem posting "private" snap chat images to all of his friends. onewomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11320973006497715467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-42814365852479833392013-06-03T16:43:03.798-07:002013-06-03T16:43:03.798-07:00I am about 3/4 of the way through ME's book.I ...I am about 3/4 of the way through ME's book.I really have insights into the parts of myself I threw away. I can't think of the psych word for throwing away parts of yourself but there is one.<br /><br />It is weird that I am having these encounters with the same Mal Narc I talk about. Although I am a Born Again Christian, I feel God leading me to beat her down with all that is in me. She is an Anti-Semite. This makes me able to do anything to her( verbally)<br /><br />The more I decimate her and she is no match for my verbal skills and gaslighting( which I learned on here). I am driving her down to the nub and all the while I am finding my strength and my self respect.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-34750262588968836622013-06-03T16:27:42.899-07:002013-06-03T16:27:42.899-07:00For some reason, I thought you had 4 boys. A coup...For some reason, I thought you had 4 boys. A couple years ago I got hit on by a 15-year old girl, and she was telling stories about having sex with her boyfriend when her parents were downstairs. Whatever emotions I may lack, my ability to be creeped out is entirely intact.<br /><br />If I ever have daughters, I think I would tolerate the existence of boyfriends close to their age. If they're teens and with adults, well, that would require the purchase of a firearm. I'm not well-practiced at shooting, but I've heard your aim doesn't have to be perfect at short range with a shotgun.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11932547142801073974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-69902005905186123592013-06-03T16:14:06.356-07:002013-06-03T16:14:06.356-07:00A TED talk about the Dark Triad. I think he leane...A TED talk about the Dark Triad. I think he leaned towards Moe but he said curly. Nyuck nyuck NyuckTED Talkshttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MHq26RxB7WUnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-71768234437832163282013-06-03T16:12:41.751-07:002013-06-03T16:12:41.751-07:00When you are infatuated with someone you don't...When you are infatuated with someone you don't know and every bit of your mental focus is drawn to winning that person over, what you are really doing is testing your own desirability. The successful chase means that you are desirable. The game of chase is mostly about ego gratification.onewomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11320973006497715467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-36061545114106744012013-06-03T16:09:13.962-07:002013-06-03T16:09:13.962-07:00not really- but I am the friend who always heard h...not really- but I am the friend who always heard horror stories from friends bc I am the one who can keep a secret. When I love someone (child, friend, husband) I do not like to see them exploited- one reason why I work with battered women (on a volunteer basis). Too many women are very sweet and open and then get crushed by men who seem to forget that they are dealing with real people. And some women never get over that wound even though the man forgets her days later.<br />That being said- I don't think I am above being "played"- my fear of losing my virginity was the only thing that kept me safe until I met my husband. Lest it seem that I am pretending to be above those who succumbed to falsely spoken words of love - the only reason I escaped unscathed was my super conservative Christian background. <br /><br />I agree with what you say about effective seducers- those I am more vulnerable to because they take the time to really stake out their targets. My weak spot was a man who pretended to love children- after they were also hurt I will not make that mistake again. But he was not a player. And we are talking about players here. A player is after the short term easy lay... <br /><br />You are correct in picking up my sensitivity here, though. Because I have two teenage daughters this sort of behavior is on my radar because of the recent experience of one of my daughter's best friends. She is fourteen and beautiful- he is twenty and nowhere in her league intelligence wise or looks wise- but definitely knew how to "play" a young teen's ego. <br />What you are picking up on is maternal protectiveness. <br />onewomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11320973006497715467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-85692998104900094462013-06-03T15:48:43.464-07:002013-06-03T15:48:43.464-07:00Seems like you've had some bad experience with...Seems like you've had some bad experience with players Machavellianempath. Did one hurt you bad some time ago?<br /><br />First, those who say they are players, are crap most of the time. And those you identify as players are too.<br /><br />Then, if a seducer (the term player makes me think of morons in clubs reciting memorized lines) is skilled enough, you won't know he's one, it will just flow and you'll think "we got along very well and it just happened".<br /><br />That's the paradox with them, you'll never think the best one could be one. And you'll think they're all morons because the worst ones are the most visible ones.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com