tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post8870515822520411216..comments2024-03-28T00:33:57.308-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: Sociopaths in literature: ParollesUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger39125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-17628321986547089272014-12-20T01:36:48.298-08:002014-12-20T01:36:48.298-08:00Thanks for any other informative site. The place e...Thanks for any other informative site. The place else could I get that kind of info written in such a perfect manner? I have a mission that I am simply now running on, and I've been at the look out for such info.<br /><a href="http://www.kanolab.info" rel="nofollow">http://www.kanolab.info</a> | <br><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-20494536638366077952014-11-24T20:43:03.929-08:002014-11-24T20:43:03.929-08:00I surprised with the analysis you made to make thi...I surprised with the analysis you made to make this particular publish incredible. Wonderful activity! <br /><a href="http://www.su2technology.org" rel="nofollow">su2technology</a> | <br><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-55255086176404565192010-09-15T10:19:22.034-07:002010-09-15T10:19:22.034-07:00This pertains to the original question:
The answe...This pertains to the original question: <br />The answer was givine in reference to S's have emotions!<br /><br />Aerianne said...<br />Redwald's comment state, "Then they may conclude that the behaviors they saw as “kind” and “caring” were deliberately contrived by the psychopath in order to “take them in” and “put them off their guard.”" And then, "That may well be true in some cases, but in other cases it may not be true at all. The contradictory behaviors may be largely random and impulsive, not part of any greater “scheme” or purpose."<br /><br />I think this is where being in a relationship with a psychopath becomes maddening. You see some behaviors from them that seem so genuine that you have no reason to doubt them. At at later time you may see behaviors that so contradict the earlier behaviors that you are left feeling like everything was bullshit and you got conned. Then a loop of trying to analyze the behaviors sets itself up and you get trapped. You are pitting the two behaviors against each other expecting one to be true and one to be a lie. The truth may be something that you never expected: Each of the behaviors were genuine.<br /><br />This answers your original questionAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-60590661572571338242010-09-15T09:44:23.370-07:002010-09-15T09:44:23.370-07:00Disorder-a physical condition in which there is a ...Disorder-a physical condition in which there is a disturbance of normal functioning.<br /><br />Why would anyone want to maintain a relationship with everyday disturbance of normal functioning. Which would lead to some type of abuse<br /><br />A very accurate statement!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-60526709961758604022010-09-15T07:36:48.187-07:002010-09-15T07:36:48.187-07:00'To be in a relationship with someone with ANY...'To be in a relationship with someone with ANY PD is abuse.' - What a sweeping statement!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-17668550517516973562010-09-14T11:38:46.704-07:002010-09-14T11:38:46.704-07:00Inside the Mind of a Sociopath
http://www.cix.co....Inside the Mind of a Sociopath<br /><br />http://www.cix.co.uk/~klockstone/spath.htm<br /><br />This is a very interesting article!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-66506993583576298022010-09-14T09:05:14.375-07:002010-09-14T09:05:14.375-07:00When S's find a benefit in maintaing a relatio...When S's find a benefit in maintaing a relationship the relationship will last as long as the S is satisfied and is able to be free and not questioned.<br /><br />Every relationship will be different. To answer your question they do have the ability to switch off and on. It is part of what makes them.<br /><br />Be happy he has moved on. To be in a relationship with someone with ANY PD is abuse. <br /><br />Grieving and questions are normal as Medusa mentioned. <br /><br />Anyone with a PD who makes you feel less than them has conquered their own self esteem. <br /><br />Do not feed in to the darkness.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-54097086667198182782010-09-14T06:33:59.597-07:002010-09-14T06:33:59.597-07:00HaHaHa ...It's ok again I NEVER wanted YOUR de...HaHaHa ...It's ok again I NEVER wanted YOUR debate! <br /><br />As far as English yes, you are right English is not my first language. As I have immigrated to this country ten years ago.<br /><br />Perhaps if you were more open-minded and mature we probably can have an open discussion without the degrading.<br /><br /> Hopefully, you can come to terms with your own personal issues. Which obviously are way beyond this blog!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-3934933115881947662010-09-14T02:45:42.140-07:002010-09-14T02:45:42.140-07:00Well not according to the DSM IV but whatever. I h...Well not according to the DSM IV but whatever. I however noticed that clearly English isn't one of your strongest suits. Perhaps if you were more coherent maybe I could even debate this 'intelligently with you' but I doubt it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-58473338704957220672010-09-13T17:02:55.439-07:002010-09-13T17:02:55.439-07:00Just take Medusa's advice...as you mentioned y...Just take Medusa's advice...as you mentioned you and him know. Which is all that matters<br /><br />You can pick and choose who's advise you wish to take.<br /><br />Maybe you can reach out to his colleagues since you mentioned they are in the medical field.<br /><br />I have been in this position and it is difficult to tell people and have them believe you.<br /><br />Keep your head up and my opinion is he sounds like an S. Being overly attentive and not leaving her side. The paranoia of being abandoned. When you meet a new person and want to show them how dedicated you can be and the only way you can show is by overly smothering them with time and dazzling them <br />with expensive gifts and trips.<br /><br />I was her. He smothered me, alienated me, I needed nothing he provided everything. Financially, emotionally. <br /><br />Then he found another interesting one and left me to fend for myself. Sex was amazing how i craved it. When I met him I had no sexual experience he lured me into his world very slowly then I was fully submissive to his every sexual need.<br /><br />So this is his lure to her and he will say "Hey lets' try this" and she will think this is something between her and him and be another fool in love.<br /><br />So this may be his way of trying to prove he is the one to this new one. But that doesn't last long. <br /><br />So she will be in your shoes soon...Just look at it when you first met him. Im sure he swept you off your feet then the real him appearedAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-17241120511153346652010-09-13T17:02:43.065-07:002010-09-13T17:02:43.065-07:00Just take Medusa's advice...as you mentioned y...Just take Medusa's advice...as you mentioned you and him know. Which is all that matters<br /><br />You can pick and choose who's advise you wish to take.<br /><br />Maybe you can reach out to his colleagues since you mentioned they are in the medical field.<br /><br />I have been in this position and it is difficult to tell people and have them believe you.<br /><br />Keep your head up and my opinion is he sounds like an S. Being overly attentive and not leaving her side. The paranoia of being abandoned. When you meet a new person and want to show them how dedicated you can be and the only way you can show is by overly smothering them with time and dazzling them <br />with expensive gifts and trips.<br /><br />I was her. He smothered me, alienated me, I needed nothing he provided everything. Financially, emotionally. <br /><br />Then he found another interesting one and left me to fend for myself. Sex was amazing how i craved it. When I met him I had no sexual experience he lured me into his world very slowly then I was fully submissive to his every sexual need.<br /><br />So this is his lure to her and he will say "Hey lets' try this" and she will think this is something between her and him and be another fool in love.<br /><br />So this may be his way of trying to prove he is the one to this new one. But that doesn't last long. <br /><br />So she will be in your shoes soon...Just look at it when you first met him. Im sure he swept you off your feet then the real him appearedAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-60852443173086360292010-09-13T17:02:24.174-07:002010-09-13T17:02:24.174-07:00Just take Medusa's advice...as you mentioned y...Just take Medusa's advice...as you mentioned you and him know. Which is all that matters<br /><br />You can pick and choose who's advise you wish to take.<br /><br />Maybe you can reach out to his colleagues since you mentioned they are in the medical field.<br /><br />I have been in this position and it is difficult to tell people and have them believe you.<br /><br />Keep your head up and my opinion is he sounds like an S. Being overly attentive and not leaving her side. The paranoia of being abandoned. When you meet a new person and want to show them how dedicated you can be and the only way you can show is by overly smothering them with time and dazzling them <br />with expensive gifts and trips.<br /><br />I was her. He smothered me, alienated me, I needed nothing he provided everything. Financially, emotionally. <br /><br />Then he found another interesting one and left me to fend for myself. Sex was amazing how i craved it. When I met him I had no sexual experience he lured me into his world very slowly then I was fully submissive to his every sexual need.<br /><br />So this is his lure to her and he will say "Hey lets' try this" and she will think this is something between her and him and be another fool in love.<br /><br />So this may be his way of trying to prove he is the one to this new one. But that doesn't last long. <br /><br />So she will be in your shoes soon...Just look at it when you first met him. Im sure he swept you off your feet then the real him appearedAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-21723585470165317552010-09-13T17:01:56.804-07:002010-09-13T17:01:56.804-07:00I went off on a tangit, but I can agree. She needs...I went off on a tangit, but I can agree. She needs to move on. Hopefully end of topic.JDnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-55156940326202894762010-09-13T16:26:22.045-07:002010-09-13T16:26:22.045-07:00Thank you Medusa!
Sadly, others chime in from the...Thank you Medusa!<br /><br />Sadly, others chime in from the ass in and gear off the topic to try to show some sort of intelligence.<br /><br />i dont take anything personal and hopefully others are able learn as we try to Intelligently give advice to each other!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-58535232989514363742010-09-13T16:06:41.771-07:002010-09-13T16:06:41.771-07:00Well, you know what that's probably the best a...Well, you know what that's probably the best advice since this exchange!<br /><br />But hooked on phonics works really well! And I was asking for a general advice nothing specific! <br /><br />But again reading does a brain good! LOL This is so funny!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-40081225767356932662010-09-13T16:00:44.678-07:002010-09-13T16:00:44.678-07:00Sociopaths, typically male, aren't insanely se...<i>Sociopaths, typically male, aren't insanely sexual. That is a trait usually found in women sociopaths, or borderlines.</i><br /><br />I don't necessarily think this is true.<br /><br />But the rest of your post stands. Doesn't matter if he's a sociopath or not... the advice you get anywhere (sociopath blog or not) will probably be the same.<br /><br />The guy sounds like an immature douche who doesn't seem to know himself very well or what he wants. Nothing you can do about that. <br /><br />Your reactions are normal... and I know you want to try and figure it out, but you probably never completely will. Only thing you can do is take responsibility for yourself and your <i>own</i> choices [insert reference to featured comment here]. <br /><br />It may take some time to truly get there, is all.Medusanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-4313612225577146342010-09-13T15:55:02.652-07:002010-09-13T15:55:02.652-07:00well realistically how the fuck are any of us supp...well realistically how the fuck are any of us supposed to offer you any advice? we don't even know the guy, you should try asking him what he meant or as jd said just forget about it.*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-47500126455537177992010-09-13T15:41:16.647-07:002010-09-13T15:41:16.647-07:00First of all only one person gave an opinion! And ...First of all only one person gave an opinion! And if any obsessing is going on it's from Mr. know it all who KEEPS INSISTING he isn't.<br /><br />I never asked ANYONE to advise me if he was an S or not!<br /><br />Again I know and he knows! So really off the topic!<br /><br />FMLAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-17160345046463166362010-09-13T15:29:38.489-07:002010-09-13T15:29:38.489-07:00Hey, I don't know exactly what your looking fo...Hey, I don't know exactly what your looking for. Everytime someone says anything about him not being one, you get defensive. Even if those responding to you aren't or are, we all seem to be saying the same thing, that your ex doesn't sound like one. Sociopaths, typically male, aren't insanely sexual. That is a trait usually found in women sociopaths, or borderlines. Not saying it isn't possible, but the way you word your ex sounds like he had other issues, not lack of empathy, and carelessness towards fellow man. Might have been only lack of respect for you. This is coming from people who are, or know, enough about them.<br /><br />Again, even if this all rang true, no matter how bad he may be, WHY do you keep insisting. It's like you are trying to prove to us that he is some hardcore cold hearted badass. Please sweetheart, move on. Stop obsessing over what he is, or what he isn't, or how well he is or isn't treating other people. It's no longer your concern. The only way this would matter to you is if you plan on being with him again, or you are already seeing him again. Whatever it may be, just get away, sociopath or not no one need to treat you that way. It's like you are asking for it, and when you continuously direspect yourself, others are going to notice, and continue the abuse. You don't have to be a sociopath to disrespect a woman with low self esteem.<br /><br />Btw, sex addicts aren't in the same category of sociopaths. Sex addicts are missing something, and they use sex as a way to deal. I know enough about APD, and not once has being a sex addict been the major characteristic in diagnosing one. Sex issues has it's own axis, according to the DSM. To me it sounds like he is feeding you bull, and just wants to make himself sound better than he actually is, because you fall for it, and it will bother you. Narcissistic characteristics, and that of someone seriously insecure.<br /><br />It could be sociopathy, but like I stated in the beginning, the most important part of my rambling, WHO CARES! MOVE ON! PLEASE!JDnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-75114872478222667662010-09-13T15:28:17.049-07:002010-09-13T15:28:17.049-07:00nobody on this particular blog yet but many on tho...nobody on this particular blog yet but many on those related to other articles and i'm not upset in the slightest.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-62137738521128926642010-09-13T15:26:52.382-07:002010-09-13T15:26:52.382-07:00Exactly Medusa...
But yet has all this input and ...Exactly Medusa...<br /><br />But yet has all this input and other diagnosis's.....Something seems very suspect ! <br /><br />I agree with the other anonymous this may be him who she is talking about!<br /><br />Even at the end he states your right you really don't and you actually have no idea what I am!<br /><br /><br />Wow soap opera-ishAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-28283952299439282272010-09-13T15:18:12.584-07:002010-09-13T15:18:12.584-07:00Anon, exactly how many people commenting on this b...Anon, exactly how many people commenting on this blog have claimed to be a sociopath?<br /><br />What is upsetting you so? And why? Curious...<br /><br />Someone like you seems to show up at regular intervals, to tell everyone they are frauds when no one has really claimed anything.Medusanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-24923441793357104342010-09-13T15:00:38.980-07:002010-09-13T15:00:38.980-07:00Really? How would you know if your a new to the bl...Really? How would you know if your a new to the blog and you are no expert?<br /><br />And maybe you do know because you are one!<br /><br />S's always with the vague answers! Poor Thing!<br /><br />So if any S's would like to give some input on my original post please feel free to chime in.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-81737068268272112052010-09-13T14:51:25.273-07:002010-09-13T14:51:25.273-07:00well the great majority of the "sociopaths&qu...well the great majority of the "sociopaths" who visit this blog are comlete fruads trust me, and you actualy have no idea what i am. but you are right about one thing, i am new to this blog.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-7016050497869327482010-09-13T14:42:52.012-07:002010-09-13T14:42:52.012-07:00How would you know? Your not one!
And within a y...How would you know? Your not one!<br /><br /> And within a year in a half into the relationship with much tug and getting advice from his other medical colleagues. He finally told me. I never said when we met he said his name and also said I'm an S'.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com