tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post8800248709162581761..comments2024-03-28T00:33:57.308-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: 80/20 ruleUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger195125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-46673992466483348652013-05-29T10:13:56.342-07:002013-05-29T10:13:56.342-07:00Firstly, Jessi, I'd like to begin by saying, y...Firstly, Jessi, I'd like to begin by saying, your views are your views. And secondly, most sociopaths see no difference in right or wrong, as morality tends to be heavily influenced by emotion, and empathy. Some sociopaths see nothing wrong with "abusing others" as long as their point is made, or their goal achieved.Laquiothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00591361098487141021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-32095455588364935952013-05-29T10:02:22.096-07:002013-05-29T10:02:22.096-07:00Still, you don't give me any reasons of why &q...Still, you don't give me any reasons of why "Society rules are about living and let live." is wrong.<br /><br />I think I can about reply to this. No one can answer for society's "rules" because society's rules are subjective to the individual's thoughts and beliefs. For instance, I'm part of society, and I believe society's rules are about "Doing as you please, to prolong and enhance your own experience." See the difference? Your version of societies rules are DIFFERENT THAN MINE! That doesn't mean they're WRONG, but it also doesn't mean they're RIGHT! Again, morality is subject to alteration.<br /><br /> This is not about having or not having an inner bitch, this is about all humans being of equal value and that the best for all and each of us is to keep our inner bitches tied to live together. <br /><br />Now then, about this... I'm glad people like you exist. I really am. I'm glad that there are people like you who keep themselves imprisoned for the sake of being imprisoned. It's like the door is unlocked, but you won't leave, simply because you've been TOLD you're a prisoner! I'm the guy who lights a fire in your cell, and waits and watches to see whether you leave or die. I'm the manipulative bastard that lurks about, that you, out of fear of becoming, stay locked in your prison until the fire burns you alive. Meanwhile, I just laugh. I laugh because rather than freeing yourself in the midst of a crisis, you'd rather DIE A PRISONER! And, hate to be the one to tell you this, but, humans are NOT equal, as they are not alike. (To make an example, 2 and 5 are not alike, therefore they are not equal.) In this world, you are who your intelligence allows you to be. And you, Jessica, are not exhibiting much of this trait. You blindly accuse Daniel of being wrong, simply because your "Prisoner" views, do not match his "Freed" views. Perhaps you should take a step out of that prison, and see if your views line up. Talk to me when you've seen the sun, mate.<br />Signing off,<br />Laquiot.Laquiothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00591361098487141021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-13538148014527541412013-05-29T09:30:27.240-07:002013-05-29T09:30:27.240-07:00I don't know, ME could be, but we'd never ...I don't know, ME could be, but we'd never know. Though, it is easier to note the authenticity of what he/she has said, based on the facts. Quite honestly, I don't understand the public's view of sociopaths as "monsters", honestly, they're normal people, like you, they're just smart enough to not be sheep herded like the rest of the general populace. They've realized that people CAN be manipulated, and that other than that, they can manipulate themselves. In a way, they're like extremely logical actors! You can say that they're monsters, because they coldly manipulate people with little regard for that person's safety, but honestly... Tell me you've never been selfish. You have the capability to do the exact same thing as they, except you allowed yourselves to be conditioned by the public's view of "morality". Just because someone sees things more logically, or even differently than you do, does it really make them monsters? <br /><br /> Taking a stand,<br /> Laquiot.<br />And as a side note, I'm not really a sociopath, but I've "learned" the same things they have. It's easy to manipulate people. And all I have to do is not care. Think about it. You could have anything you want, if you simply see things with an objective mindset. Use whoever, whatever, and do it however you please. It's life without consequence, and all you have to do is simply not care.Laquiothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00591361098487141021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-5755529983831421802013-05-22T10:29:17.565-07:002013-05-22T10:29:17.565-07:00Chet, it was interesting what you said about marri...Chet, it was interesting what you said about marriage being prostitution. I've thought of that myself. It's a legal way for (stereotyping here) women to get money and for men to get sex, or for people to get other things from each other that they want or need. At the same time, when people are in love, they want to be with that other person for the rest of their lives and would be very sad to have to be apart and they will take care of the other even if the other person can't give them anything in return. So I can see it both ways.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-9373938772494518542013-05-22T10:16:27.351-07:002013-05-22T10:16:27.351-07:00Chet, that's very interesting what you said ab...Chet, that's very interesting what you said about watching them on TV. That explains to me why the sociopath I know didn't seem to view me as a person worthy of their concern. I guess I was like a TV character to her. Not as real and as feeling as she is. <br /><br />Quasi Modo, I would love to have a conversation with a sociopath and I will not say "you're a monster" between every exchange. I just want to learn about how sociopaths think and I realize that saying they're a monster would hinder that. Now though, I'm afraid to get near one because they will hurt me in some way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-46590218320274617592013-05-16T13:07:16.191-07:002013-05-16T13:07:16.191-07:00I read your blog so I know 20%. and I'm your s...I read your blog so I know 20%. and I'm your student. What % is that? I'm a pathological liar. Is that another way of saying sociopath?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-74314935808652350912013-05-09T18:55:19.626-07:002013-05-09T18:55:19.626-07:00he digs his own grave, Jessie. he needs no exposur...he digs his own grave, Jessie. he needs no exposure. You give em rope , they hang. Period.Intimacynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-59413604630073598532013-05-09T18:49:00.780-07:002013-05-09T18:49:00.780-07:00no, i am way hard on myself. i am more genuine th...no, i am way hard on myself. i am more genuine than i say. i can say all the truth, and unfortunately i self destructive. i dont play good game because i want them to love me even with my topsey turvey. <br /><br />THis is a tall order. <br />Intimacynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-48327203156913913352013-05-09T18:40:40.061-07:002013-05-09T18:40:40.061-07:00Thank you for your encouragement Jessie. He is no...Thank you for your encouragement Jessie. He is not a sociopath. He's a common narcissist who thrives on people telling him how smart and roguish he is. He laid upside down on his sofa whilst we were wrapping up the break up, pondering himself. He's just a player, that's all. A player's claim to fame is that they make you feel good in the sac. That's all they really concentrate on in life. He is a seducer just like me and we both have sex on the brain. <br /><br />I am a phony too, Jessie. I try really hard, but one day I love, the next day I devalue. I cannot spend more than 2 days per week with someone. I get very antsy. I dont want tobe loved because i feel smothered, and yet i need it very badly. I chose him. I hoped, and that is my bad, not only his. <br /><br />I am happy i made decision to leave, but i am very sad and will miss him . Not just bec of the sex. I dont talk about the good things.<br /><br /> I think there are plenty of partially narcissistic people out there who are lovable. When I see the little baby in them and I see myself as also just a poor little baby, we want to heal one another. This is very difficult and nearly impossible for the one who is unaware. You cannot tell them they are weak. His ex points it out but he did never want me to see. i did not confront him. It is rude, unless you are a parent. I do not need a parent, nor do I need to parent any adult male. <br /><br />Im so sick of childish men and here i am, a grown woman, still with daddy issues... who am i to point fingers? <br /><br />I send mixed messages. It takes 2, Jessie. In the end i admitted had he thrown his children at me and was eager eager eager to put me with them, i'd have felt suffocated.. his response? "good to know." I am a bit responsible, you see. For lying. I am a liar to myself and a liar . I seduce and i want to have. I change my mind. I get scared . I am a hypocrite too. Just differently than he.<br /><br />I devalue all boyfriends at some point, while hanging in there. It's disgusting.<br /><br />Yeah, I got rid of this one, but only because he cheated.<br /><br />I'd have become dissatisfied and devalued him as well. <br /><br /><br />No one knows this about me. They think i am victim. Yes, sure, but It is only partially true. tbh, i would only wish myself on a pig. a nice man i will eat alive. Intimacynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-53286501108999639552013-05-09T10:51:52.515-07:002013-05-09T10:51:52.515-07:00We are already cool with you (we even gave you a d...We are already cool with you (we even gave you a disorder type to be seen as a victim of your health!!) it's your manners what we disapprove. Nothing personal, we don't accept those methods on anyone else.<br /><br />JessiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-29278738355910664622013-05-09T10:46:11.179-07:002013-05-09T10:46:11.179-07:00Hey Intimacy :)
That's a good moment. The mo...Hey Intimacy :) <br /><br />That's a good moment. The moment you look at the tin-plate marionette and see the strings and the pathetic man behind them. And you can look at him and say: play the stupid puppet again and he does. There is even some pity because, he is evil, but above all he is stupid, he thinks that to play a tin-plate marionette is a challenge. He is even too stupid to see that his tricks will just made all lose our time for nothing; he more than us, while he was faking life we were at least living it and now, we will go on, and continue living and loving, while he will just keep on playing the tin-plate marionette faking his whole existence. <br /><br />If you reach the point of spotting the marionette, and even make it play one or two tricks just for fun, more would be boring, the break up with a sociopath is one of the easiest. If that was ever Prince Charming, you know now you are leaving behind a stinky frog. People that have a problem breaking with a sociopath have an issue with denial. <br /><br />Congrats, it was definitely for the best :) Good luck with the next! Make the test of the frog! And do a social service and expose him, it's even fun.<br /><br />Jessi<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-85606331624840102652013-05-09T08:35:25.124-07:002013-05-09T08:35:25.124-07:00Do you think society will ever be cool with sociop...Do you think society will ever be cool with sociopaths? They haven't accepted us for the last few thousand years and have demonized us all throughout literature and religion. I don't think we'll ever be fine to say it aloud, and that is completely fine with me. I'd rather not have everyone I know know that I'm a sociopath.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04010263832525801393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-69366018387223456682013-05-09T03:00:50.640-07:002013-05-09T03:00:50.640-07:00oh, sadness is a good one, you cannot direct it li...oh, sadness is a good one, you cannot direct it like anger, just have to have it and weepAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-45976732589184879812013-05-09T02:06:15.529-07:002013-05-09T02:06:15.529-07:00omg i cannot believe i did the thing again. i did ...omg i cannot believe i did the thing again. i did it again. the same thing. desperate trying to please a person incapable of finding me "enough." <br /><br />what a waste of an existence.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-37640273684842524222013-05-09T01:15:03.968-07:002013-05-09T01:15:03.968-07:00quasimoto, @ 709 that post sound a little bit like...quasimoto, @ 709 that post sound a little bit like me. do you have a specific personality type?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-11833559737207465722013-05-08T19:02:15.608-07:002013-05-08T19:02:15.608-07:00thank you, monica.
i am ok with it. It was feeli...thank you, monica. <br /><br />i am ok with it. It was feeling charadey, and not in an enjoyable way.<br /><br />He says it is the best relationship he ever had. I say it time to move forward bec my happy meter is under the line too often. I say it is a logical decision. he is an attny, he knows logic. Yet he banks on my emotions to make me stay. <br /><br />...Do you know when a person tries to be dramatic, and is all trying to be romantic, pseudo begging you to stay?? - Feet spread, planted firmly on the ground, arms and chest strong with the eyes wide and locked on you, as if to force their deep feelings on you? It was so undeniably phony, i just kind of stared blankly. <br /><br />He said, get this: I was the light in his life, the only thing that made him so happy. I told him if i had such a light i would cherish it with all my heart, i would water it every day, i would love it and hold it . I get loud with him for one second to say sthg, and i see his face light up. I almost laughed. These narcissists will just want to soak in all the passion they imagine that they make you feel. <br /><br />*facepalm*<br /><br />However, he did finally admit that he used women to boost him when he felt bad abt himself. <Now this enjoyed hearing. I say yes, i am not enough. He then tries to tell me how wonderful i am. I say i do not need that bec i already know. (He thinks bec HE likes to hear compliments like this that i would appreciate them.)<br /><br />You know how it is when you are done with someone? It is a really beautiful thing.<br /><br />I could be angelina` jolie withOUT the kids and he'd still be a bottomless pit.Intimacynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-75371332779088688972013-05-08T15:38:32.691-07:002013-05-08T15:38:32.691-07:00I practiced being sad last night. How hilarious i...I practiced being sad last night. How hilarious is that?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11839062309074681642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-84465160473992483142013-05-08T14:53:06.902-07:002013-05-08T14:53:06.902-07:00Yes, it is a disconnect with yourself.Yes, it is a disconnect with yourself.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-57837496382181740492013-05-08T14:52:08.775-07:002013-05-08T14:52:08.775-07:00Sorry, Intimacy Anon xxxSorry, Intimacy Anon xxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-63385894565303250792013-05-08T13:52:47.367-07:002013-05-08T13:52:47.367-07:00And in case there is any confusion, I don't me...And in case there is any confusion, I don't mean its on the autism spectrum. I'm saying there are huge variations in how it manifests. The autism spectrum is similar in that there are extremes in the severity e.g. aspies their always going to have intense focus and special interests but they can still succeed in life. But some are so focused that they can't be distracted to learn language or whatever and that's autism. In BPD you could have someone dumb as a nail a total daydreamer and cries at the drop of a hat or you could have the "bitchy strong type" capable of manipulating people to cater to their demands. It really could be any one in your social circle. And ya "female socio" is just one of those very many different kinds of people. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-27743347992237984142013-05-08T13:16:37.407-07:002013-05-08T13:16:37.407-07:00i can shut down empathy, too. but not really volun...i can shut down empathy, too. but not really voluntarily, it's a brain stem's program, i guess. then i still can reason about emtotions, mine and other's, without actually feeling it. it's learned behaviour, i think, to avoid pain. it also disconnects real relationships.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-21727766385038257032013-05-08T13:02:21.626-07:002013-05-08T13:02:21.626-07:00If i wanted to defend another person against anoth...If i wanted to defend another person against another evil person i'll try to make sure the supposed victim wants to be defended and my motive is really coming to rescue somebody. You flock animals be careful, you might get entangled in a drama triangle with your horns and stuff.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-16013695523851239252013-05-08T10:29:19.878-07:002013-05-08T10:29:19.878-07:00I opened a debate with you and I was going to be b... I opened a debate with you and I was going to be back to see if you answered. Still, you don't give me any reasons of why "Society rules are about living and let live." is wrong, neither which is your opinion about it. You gave me for the 3rd time in a row the feedback " you wrong. You bad. Buah". So I guess this conversation has reached a dead end. This is not about having or not having an inner bitch, this is about all humans being of equal value and that the best for all and each of us is to keep our inner bitches tied to live together. <br /><br />What do you think about the Cleveland kidnapping?<br /><br />Jessi<br /><br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-54820779021242383442013-05-08T08:55:33.969-07:002013-05-08T08:55:33.969-07:00He was a narcissist. He tried to lie again, but i ...He was a narcissist. He tried to lie again, but i told him he could not with me, and i told him of the things i found snooping. It was laughable, the way he tried to dance around and lie again. He finally admitted to cheating in the past to make himself feel better about himself. He wanted me to stay. He tried to act with me, but he can never be as good an actress as i. It was pitiable.<br /><br />Abot a week ago, I tried to sell him on my belief that my bipolar 1 is more manageable than bipolr 2. Can you imagine??? I was selling myself to this idiot bec he admitted my condition was a concern. My condition isn't a concern when he is fucking me or showing me off, or feeling fucking great when he's with me. <br /><br /><br />"pretend to appreciate and treasure their latent abilities (the ones they treasure the most), and you become their world."<br /><br />I do this all the time. I am the narcissist's wet dream. with me, they feel like they can do anything. all of a sudden they fancy themselves a producer or a writer. I dont care for such power. I used to. But all it does is bind me to a needy person, craving me for supply. It was and will never about me. <Must be the draw for me.<br /> <br /><br />I'm ok with this. once again, i feel like i can breathe after a break up. <br /><br />New reverse breakup manipulation tactic:<br />Just tellem you're bipolar and leave lots of stories about us on their desktop. ..We're all animals who dont take our meds.. danger danger.<br /><br />Good time, good riddance.<br /><br /><br />Intimacynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-32558262292326082002013-05-08T07:36:52.527-07:002013-05-08T07:36:52.527-07:00No Jessi, what bores you are the impenetrable wall...No Jessi, what bores you are the impenetrable walls of your own self constructed and self imposed intellectual prison. I imagine it would be very tiresome, looking at the same thing over and over and over again, yet feeling uncontrollably compelled to defend your prison whenever someone tries to free with you facts. Almost every single time someone on this blog has tried giving you facts that you don’t seem to be aware of, you respond not with curiosity, but with close mindedness. Fear often drives close mindedness. <br /><br />Yet… You keep coming back here. Perhaps, along with the fear, there is an inner rebel that wants out. The mind is legion. Most are never nearly as internally unified as they think they are. Listen to your inner bitch. She wants to blow your prison apart. She wants you to breath fresh air. She wants you to be free. <br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07454357880087789626noreply@blogger.com