tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post8531774580740611689..comments2024-03-28T00:33:57.308-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: Thinking too much of oneselfUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger49125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-28022413609319555032013-12-26T09:00:58.036-08:002013-12-26T09:00:58.036-08:00are you M.E?are you M.E?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-82682868330250082952013-12-05T09:20:40.900-08:002013-12-05T09:20:40.900-08:00Thank you you re right.. unfortunately, for a lot ...Thank you you re right.. unfortunately, for a lot of people , im assuming codependents (socio pre, imo) do not mind exchanging negative qualities forvthings the socio knows they like..<br /><br />I am not a sociopath, machemp. But I have prostitured myself to one. I liked it, all whilst knowing it was going on.<br /><br />We, as people who were raised by narcissistic parents are quite used to transactional relationships. I bel7eve a packloads of sociopaths were raised this way, and want to come up in the black....winners. <br /><br />I understand the way the world works , and this is the way it does for so many institutions and relationships gone sour. <br /><br /> We need to keep everyone happy to get things done, with checks and balances, but personal integrity trumps all.<br /><br />Thats why dave chappell is one of my favotite comedians.<br />He turned down 50 million dollars forpersonal integrity. He did not sell himeself short. It was a beautiful thing.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-64094043202286757082013-12-05T05:12:53.237-08:002013-12-05T05:12:53.237-08:00Everyone has been used or objectified at some poin...Everyone has been used or objectified at some point. Even sociopaths. What tends to hurt/cause anger is when you realize you have emotionally invested in a person who saw the connection primarily as a transaction meant to achieve certain ends. <br />No one can make you feel like a prostitute without your consent. If the other person actively deceived you, the shameful legacy of relationship breakdown is their failure, not yours. onewomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11320973006497715467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-48978109128816900432013-12-04T09:37:01.654-08:002013-12-04T09:37:01.654-08:00" Being diplomatic over your life, both profe..." Being diplomatic over your life, both professionally and personally is a skill."<br /><br />Good insight, thank you. I'm working on developing this skill.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-89766622926720152642013-12-04T08:16:25.678-08:002013-12-04T08:16:25.678-08:00True, it's a journey and takes some effort to ...True, it's a journey and takes some effort to find friends your truly compatible with. But it's worth it when you find them!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-63853022054133425102013-12-04T07:26:01.617-08:002013-12-04T07:26:01.617-08:00Being diplomatic over your life, both professional...Being diplomatic over your life, both professionally and personally is a skill<br /><br />People who have boundary problems are not the greatest at managing stuff, idk what happens to me that her life got upset and relationships fell apart every few years, but in order to prevent that from happening, you have to see manage your life better, which sometimes means stop associating and giving out to people who waste your time. Like trolls and groupies. <br /><br />There are people deliberately or unconciously putting mines out, sometimes they are even disguised as prey. I would imagine if someone wants to be mes prey then me has every right to insult them behind their back.<br /><br />And with te added publicity, youre gonna get some of that, me. Good , vvery good to keep a sense of humour about it, celebrity is a bitch, be careful what u wish for bla bla bla, and enjoy the show hahaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-41893721387552303832013-12-04T06:37:24.868-08:002013-12-04T06:37:24.868-08:00I love ME's honesty here. I'm not sure it...I love ME's honesty here. I'm not sure it's done with the intent of being abusive or hurtful. I think she's just expressing some of her pathological perceptions. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-2732584131429732572013-12-04T06:07:30.288-08:002013-12-04T06:07:30.288-08:00They're just trying to figure out why you'...They're just trying to figure out why you're friends with them. Seems perfectly logical to me Since you essentially confessed that your every interaction is self-interested, they're trying to figure out what makes them "interesting" to you. It makes sense to look to one's talents or expertise for a reason behind the friendship.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-7355835506939297002013-12-04T02:12:56.022-08:002013-12-04T02:12:56.022-08:00Sweet mystery of life .young frankenstein .youtube...Sweet mystery of life .young frankenstein .youtubeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-15626057498673522602013-12-04T01:43:58.124-08:002013-12-04T01:43:58.124-08:00Ok mom.Ok mom.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-48327526555114373792013-12-03T22:36:33.990-08:002013-12-03T22:36:33.990-08:00You know what it is like, Machemp, to be used for ...You know what it is like, Machemp, to be used for a special purpose?Do you have experience being used or objectified? It makes you feel like a prostitute, you know.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-39402687046530803492013-12-03T20:13:31.070-08:002013-12-03T20:13:31.070-08:00Weather you had a sociopathic child or not, you...Weather you had a sociopathic child or not, you'd probably do everything you could to be the best mother you could. You have so much knowledge and information, your child would benefit from your wealth of information. I know a sociopath who says the person she loves most is her only child. If you have a baby, it might be very healing for BOTH of you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-28498529381486586312013-12-03T19:03:17.955-08:002013-12-03T19:03:17.955-08:00ME, what's with the tweet? You said on Dr. Ph...ME, what's with the tweet? You said on Dr. Phil you would like to have sociopathic children.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-78755627494769056462013-12-03T12:59:08.045-08:002013-12-03T12:59:08.045-08:00sometimes seasons come and go, and the trophies ar...sometimes seasons come and go, and the trophies are back on the shelf, sometimes there meant to stay. but at times, we do recollect and dust of the trophie off again. <br />it's just having the wisdom and deciphering through, as which ones to pick up at times -- and which ones are meant to stay on the shelf. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-19124574283974981192013-12-03T12:50:13.831-08:002013-12-03T12:50:13.831-08:00great post M.E. i totally get the message you brin...great post M.E. i totally get the message you bring forth in this blog post. i liked the video clip too. <br />few blog post back you talked about why a socio keeps in contact. really thinking about this lately. i think this can be true for many of us. my friends are like trophies, some are gold, some bronze, some silver, some bigger than other, others smaller. not one is better than the next. all unique. some suited better for each other. All serve a purpose and function. And i hope of course i serve some purpose to them as well. i get it. :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-66991648824928710422013-12-03T09:58:10.439-08:002013-12-03T09:58:10.439-08:00I'm addressing anyone who has to analyze and d...I'm addressing anyone who has to analyze and dissect friendship. Now I'm going to work for 12 hours (won't have access to a computer), and I'm going to think about all the MEANINGFUL friendships and relationships I am blessed to have.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-12853955461206434382013-12-03T09:45:56.400-08:002013-12-03T09:45:56.400-08:00As a columnist who sometimes mines personal experi...As a columnist who sometimes mines personal experience for topics, I have learned the hard way that most people prefer that you don't use them as muses and you'd better disguise their identities. My younger children still like being written about but it is strictly off limits to write about my teenage daughters. I actually think Carrie on SITC crosses a lot of boundaries that would land me in hot water with my friends if I were to air private info in that fashion. Carrie's friends aren't real people. They are characters. Real people generally get embarrassed when they are called attention to in print unless it's to mark a career or personal triumph. onewomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11320973006497715467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-24177356043714267982013-12-03T09:40:08.068-08:002013-12-03T09:40:08.068-08:00I'm not addressing friendship in general- I am...I'm not addressing friendship in general- I am addressing the individuals who doubt that ME genuinely wants to be friends. Sociopaths, just like anyone else enjoy pleasant experiences. While the Sociopath might be more likely to have an agenda, it's not a constant thing. It is, however, the mark of a narcissistic type to assume they've been selected for friendship because of their superior skills. ME's post made me think of Napolean Dynamite listing his skills (Nunchuks, anyone?) <br />In real life, friendships tend to happen when both parties enjoy each other's company. If there's any cynicism I have about friendship it's simply an awareness that it's human nature to seek pleasure and avoid pain. The individuals who mistake friendly interaction for climbing a social or corporate ladder reveal their own narcissistic motives when they immediately assume it is their "specialness" that makes them enjoyable. onewomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11320973006497715467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-56435231443692922522013-12-03T09:26:00.410-08:002013-12-03T09:26:00.410-08:00Who are you addessing,?Who are you addessing,?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-22965485736073917172013-12-03T09:22:09.559-08:002013-12-03T09:22:09.559-08:00Who are you addressing?Who are you addressing?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-23555184599306176242013-12-03T09:20:19.268-08:002013-12-03T09:20:19.268-08:00Omg u are boring and have absolutely no sense of ...Omg u are boring and have absolutely no sense of humour. Why dont u google the quote and youtube itAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-33335245176179817112013-12-03T08:54:01.915-08:002013-12-03T08:54:01.915-08:00Get over yourself, your NOT that important.Get over yourself, your NOT that important.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-71058085942463688192013-12-03T08:50:48.121-08:002013-12-03T08:50:48.121-08:00Why do you have to turn everything into something ...Why do you have to turn everything into something bad? Friendship is actually a beautiful thing. It's a shame you'll never truly experience it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-4898560322618745312013-12-03T08:09:45.978-08:002013-12-03T08:09:45.978-08:00"Aaaaah sweet mystery of life at last ive fou..."Aaaaah sweet mystery of life at last ive found you", MEAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-44716257380397554262013-12-03T08:07:16.527-08:002013-12-03T08:07:16.527-08:00?... that madeline kahn is one of my favorite actr...?... that madeline kahn is one of my favorite actresses too?<br />W t f ME!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com