tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post7610365904053662708..comments2024-03-28T00:33:57.308-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: Narcissists in the newsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger106125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-56876671624189739422015-05-11T05:02:07.765-07:002015-05-11T05:02:07.765-07:00I knew I have found the solution to my problems wh... I knew I have found the solution to my problems when I came across this spell caster "vudoo Priest in Washington. Though I have heard about him online, I was really sure Until I met him in the states.<br />He then completed my joy when he brought my wife back after 2 years of divorce. This spell caster is a wizard. I got results in about 28 hours after he finished the spell. My wife text me after a long time. I do not even know how she got my number. I am sure Its from my Facebook page. Anyways, I wish to tell the world how this spell caster turned my shattered family into a lovely home. I am trying to go on with a money spell too.<br />Contact him on phone 443 459 1140, or email at vudoospell@gmail.com. I sure you would be more grateful than I am when you use his spell.<br />Lork wood.lorkwoodhttp://greatvudoospellshrine.my-free.websitenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-14525831322966905642014-10-02T07:42:06.014-07:002014-10-02T07:42:06.014-07:00I can't believe that someone had an experience...I can't believe that someone had an experience so similar to mine. My mother (who is in her 70's) dropped a casserole in the floor. When I walked in the room, she was on her hands and knees.. Half the casserole was on a tray, and the rest on the floor among chards of glass. I helped clean up & asked if the casserole on the tray had been on the floor. She looked as if I was the devil and spat, "No!". I felt bad about questioning it. She delivered the casserole on the tray to my aunt to serve. A few minutes into the meal, my cousin found a large piece of glass-at least an inch long- that had been part of the corner of the casserole dish. He was calm about it but suggested that we check ours. My mother got defensive & played the victim & said, "Well! I'm eating mine!" The rest of us scraped whatever part of the casserole that we had not ALREADY consumed to the side and let it go...because 'that's mom'..it's ironic because if a 'normal' person had done such a thing, I imagine most of us would never invite them back, considering it could have killed us, but mom got a free pass because we know that she has issues. I'm unsure what's wrong with her... Is she a narcissist? She's selfish & tactless & hurts people's feelings. She's a racist and says inappropriate things like "People with large gums shouldn't smile like that" or "Gay was such a wonderful word until the homosexuals ruined it" When I brought squash from my brother's garden, she refused to cook it.. "they are such perfect specimens from my child's garden, I want to look a them." She took pics of them. It's surreal b/c it's not the way that we grew up, but maybe my dad balanced her out? The older she's gotten, the worse she acts. She didn't date when my dad left. She liked being the victim. I was closer to my father & paternal grandmother. My dad hung in as long as he could. He's so much happier now. we're very close. If anyone knows what sort of disorder this is, or has suggestions as to how to deal with her guilt trips & passive aggressive behavior, I thank you. She ives in the past. House is wall-to-wall pictures of friends & family, including her ex-husband (my dad)'s family- back to the 1800s,.She kept my teeth & last year asked me if I wanted them (Uh, no). She has 100 yr old wallpaper with plaster from an old house that was being demolished. She was crushed to see it destroyed but had no connection to it. Last yr she asked about her hair style & how to change it. I said if she wanted to change it, she might thin it out (it was a poofy & grey). I said if she wanted to color it, the auburn color that she had for yrs was gorgeous. That went over well. Not She pouted & then weeks later, i get an envelope in the mail with a Ziploc bag filled with hair & a note: "I'm shorn" I wanted to throw up. Her friends act like I'm horrible b/c I don't visit much. I feel guilty but it sucks the life out of me to be there. Nothing's ever good enough. I'm damned if I care and damned if I don't...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-12545370238030530982014-09-25T19:58:33.719-07:002014-09-25T19:58:33.719-07:00I am here to give testimony on how i got my wife ...I am here to give testimony on how i got my wife back ,He is real.?<br /><br />Hello to every one out here, am here to share the unexpected miracle that happened to me three days ago, My name is Jeffrey Dowling,i live in Texas,USA.and I`m happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she did not love me anymore So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.(bravespellcaster@gmail.com}, So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day what an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who did not call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster . So, was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster . So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website http://bravespellcaster.yolasite.com,if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to “bringing your ex back. So thanks to Dr Brave for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again.{bravespellcaster@gmail.com} , Thanks.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08265022066167151946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-6834673744221739572014-09-18T13:57:13.970-07:002014-09-18T13:57:13.970-07:00I don't think there's a big distinction be...I don't think there's a big distinction between sociopath and narc. Sociopaths also try to uphold what they've presented to certain people to some degree. With the narc saying the sky is green, after they're proven wrong they'll keep saying it to the person who proved them wrong, but stop saying it to different people. They're ultimately not attached to opinions either and just trying to look insightful saying that the sky is green. There's just a bit more vanity involved with narcissists,Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-80785307590286332212014-09-15T19:43:31.633-07:002014-09-15T19:43:31.633-07:00@OldAndWise: regarding your last question to Puppy...@OldAndWise: regarding your last question to Puppy Basket... I'm intrigued. What reason do you have for asking her? I don't think I've ever collected parental figures, so I'm wondering if there's something that I missed.VooDooPorknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-7768305955447216132014-09-15T19:35:40.972-07:002014-09-15T19:35:40.972-07:00I grew up in a household with a very likely border...I grew up in a household with a very likely borderline mother and a narcissist father, so early on I learnt that to try to connect to them meant to open myself to further abuse at their hands. It was every man and woman for themselves and I could only ever trust myself. <br /><br />This has carried on in my adult life; I just moved back to my country and left behind perhaps the closest friend I have ever had and probably ever will have. That person knew I was a sociopath and was still able to get close to me, thanks in part to her own sociopathic traits. The Frozen parody song, "Will you help me hide a body?" (Do you want to build a snowman?) is/was our friendship theme, chosen by her. In the last few weeks I decided that I should become 'detached' from that person to prevent feeling negatively over not seeing them again. It was very nice to have someone who saw and accepted me, someone I could remove the mask in front of, but now I hardly ever think of her. It's bordering on character flaw. I don't usually find people who I want to stay connected to, though, so it's not been a huge problem. I think it will be in the future.VooDooPorknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-76044117123096711322014-09-15T16:35:52.153-07:002014-09-15T16:35:52.153-07:00Haha! Good analogy with the dog. Yeah, "Pleas...Haha! Good analogy with the dog. Yeah, "Please pay attention to me" is probably tattooed to this guy's forehead. I'd fuck with him, too. Insecure types are low-hanging fruit, though.<br /><br />Bonus points for the "look at how much money I make" comment, too. It's funny how men who stereotype women as golddiggers are the first to flaunt their wealth to get them to pay attention to them, in a very sad self-fulfilling prophecy sort of way.VooDooPorknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-19593871861337899902014-09-15T16:20:37.985-07:002014-09-15T16:20:37.985-07:00@Axl Davis: you also do not seem to want to give i...@Axl Davis: you also do not seem to want to give in to your desire to use proper punctuation. Holy run-on sentences, Batman!<br /><br />I'm in a particularly foul mood today.VooDooPorknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-82095607235520466522014-09-13T13:35:28.936-07:002014-09-13T13:35:28.936-07:00Puppy Basket@ 6:47
Your post was wonderful. I es...Puppy Basket@ 6:47<br /><br />Your post was wonderful. I especially like what you said about skid row bums and stargazing. The sun shines equally for every living earthly thing, not simply for me and my own. Awed by the splendor of the stars, we are touched by the light of their force. .Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17184532853762731152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-21445611614506606542014-09-13T13:08:36.551-07:002014-09-13T13:08:36.551-07:00This post was fascinating. Thanks, M.E., for your...This post was fascinating. Thanks, M.E., for your valuable insight. The distinctions you make between socios versus narcs ring true to me.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17184532853762731152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-90597751398754294732014-09-09T18:37:26.998-07:002014-09-09T18:37:26.998-07:00Puppy Basket, anybody special?
Do you know why I ...Puppy Basket, anybody special? <br />Do you know why I am asking the question?<br />OldAndWisenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-89638239825856214872014-09-09T17:15:11.025-07:002014-09-09T17:15:11.025-07:00okay so then theyre just beliefs and not lies or t...okay so then theyre just beliefs and not lies or truths... just beliefs that either help you or hinder you.. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-47489851311320302542014-09-09T16:37:13.958-07:002014-09-09T16:37:13.958-07:00"For example it is no good walking around tel..."For example it is no good walking around telling yourself you are a piece of shit" -- that is a constructed belief or a lie too. So there is no way to determine, if all beliefs are constructed, malleable and lies, what is useful.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-81041335511881327032014-09-09T15:10:24.517-07:002014-09-09T15:10:24.517-07:00I think I'm an empath but for reasons ME has w...I think I'm an empath but for reasons ME has written about, I get Narcissistic tendencies in terms of self-delusions and justification in arguments. In order to be more tactful and self-aware, I've been trying to adopt these kind of Sociopathic tendencies of just letting go of that need for self-justification and just accepting my views (which can and do change) as well as accepting others'. I think this would help me pick my battles better and keep me open-minded. But I am having some trouble with what it really means to simply accept and only being aggressive out of a desire to be aggressive. Is it really just a matter of smiling silently in the face of controversy until the feeling to retort passes? And only playing Devil's Advocate for fun, not because anyone "deserves" it or I really "need" to?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-7899669001329289552014-09-09T08:26:43.409-07:002014-09-09T08:26:43.409-07:00It can be made up. Made up and constructed person...It can be made up. Made up and constructed personas are good too. But often they just come out from habit.Jeliza Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03976114169941577450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-89986603685646976132014-09-09T08:23:32.236-07:002014-09-09T08:23:32.236-07:00Its really just self-hypnosis. Look it up.Its really just self-hypnosis. Look it up.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-55122334810308201942014-09-09T08:21:57.232-07:002014-09-09T08:21:57.232-07:00For example, a lie or constructed belief I could m...For example, a lie or constructed belief I could make for myself are just simple things like basically I decide how I want to feel and then I make up a belief that makes me feel that way. For example it is no good walking around telling yourself you are a piece of shit (even if this is accurate or you believe this to be true), you better reprogram yourself because you are going to feel like a piece of shit until you start telling yourself otherwise.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-26699936993916698832014-09-09T08:16:38.423-07:002014-09-09T08:16:38.423-07:00I don't believe anyone has a single personalit...I don't believe anyone has a single personality. I think for everyone it depends on who we are with. You adopt whatever persona works in the given situation. Its not made-up, its just what feels appropriate for the time being.Jeliza Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03976114169941577450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-42752784100106387582014-09-09T07:52:47.399-07:002014-09-09T07:52:47.399-07:00The Great doctor has so many different names. The Great doctor has so many different names. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11926447788945249397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-78620383977539222042014-09-09T07:51:33.949-07:002014-09-09T07:51:33.949-07:00You do crack me up Anon. Typical jealous crap fro...You do crack me up Anon. Typical jealous crap from a blue collar loser who has delusions of grandeur. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11926447788945249397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-84733990158853599332014-09-08T19:01:45.356-07:002014-09-08T19:01:45.356-07:00There, there.
I do realize that you poor, poor op...There, there.<br /><br />I do realize that you poor, poor oppressed peasants secretly have no idea what to do with all your newfound 'freedom'.<br /> <br />I really do feel your pain. <br /><br />It's all because no one knows how to properly wield power anymore.<br /><br />Perhaps one of these days you and your children will be slaving away again.<br /><br />Fear not, it's all for the greater good.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-74891508000210766002014-09-08T18:58:37.655-07:002014-09-08T18:58:37.655-07:00Is that deep or idiotic? How do you determine what...Is that deep or idiotic? How do you determine what are 'useful beliefs' if your constructions are lies?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-45134765467042756282014-09-08T18:12:40.334-07:002014-09-08T18:12:40.334-07:00Wee! Now I have a face with my comments.Wee! Now I have a face with my comments.Free-Behind-My-Maskhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16010921155356975543noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-31120780493270583512014-09-08T18:01:03.804-07:002014-09-08T18:01:03.804-07:00"These disorders are inherent in lower races,..."These disorders are inherent in lower races, and among the poor who had to adapt and rely on deception for the sake of survival."<br /><br />Wise of you to be anonymous. Free-Behind-My-Maskhttp://www.kiasherosjourney.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-40914007481398224962014-09-08T17:41:59.251-07:002014-09-08T17:41:59.251-07:00I realize I that make up my reality, by constructi...I realize I that make up my reality, by constructing my beliefs... and I feel free to shift belief systems or change my rules whenever and wherever need be. I will believe my own 'lies' (if they are useful lies). If they are not useful beliefs I will drop them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com