tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post7339167237392714013..comments2024-03-19T05:59:13.602-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: Perfect prey (part 1)Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger263125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-26136907112267357392014-04-01T15:29:23.249-07:002014-04-01T15:29:23.249-07:00ME/others:
If they can live without us so easily...ME/others: <br /><br />If they can live without us so easily, then why do they keep coming back for more? I'm starting to think it's them who need us (or people like us empaths) to keep going, like they need to feel something, anything. <br /><br />I have been patient with this socio because I feel sorry for him, but I'm getting tired of his games.<br /><br />GMAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-65732327989934486122013-09-20T17:53:35.143-07:002013-09-20T17:53:35.143-07:00I hope someone will respond to this post. Sociopat...I hope someone will respond to this post. Sociopaths love me. I don't understand what it is about me, but I have attracted these folks all my life. What specifically would interest a sociopath so much for them to stay interested in someone? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-72953557130248404022012-04-19T18:38:23.440-07:002012-04-19T18:38:23.440-07:00The "good side" they show is, from MY ex...The "good side" they show is, from MY experience, one of the best things to be had. I read "... I've never met someone as intellectually and emotionally stimulating as my sociopath" or something similar and that holds true for me. From not only what I previously mentioned, I can't say I was treated like dirt and I understand you made a general statement, but it's essentially false given I've improved a lot from him in my life including where he went too far and ...he said he left me ... but all I did was make him do what I couldn't do - Have him gone. Damn it. I'm lying to myself. I was treated like dirt. I'm out $3,500 and he called me stingy. haha.... =/Bright Eyeshttp://google.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-85534779488789222252012-01-17T09:24:47.182-08:002012-01-17T09:24:47.182-08:00My current best friend is that kind of person. She...My current best friend is that kind of person. She outed me a few months after we met. She's very good at analyzing people, and she confronted me about it. I think she expected me to deny, but it got me interested how fascinated she acted.<br />SHe's the only person who puts up with my shit now, and she's still fascinating.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-17001525411148836492012-01-08T01:38:59.081-08:002012-01-08T01:38:59.081-08:00"How many sociopaths do you know who were not..."How many sociopaths do you know who were not abused?"<br /><br />psychopaths usually have suffered moderate abuse, nothing serious. people get abused much worse than psychopaths and don't grow up to become one. abuse is no excuse.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-35883607041083382482012-01-08T01:00:22.211-08:002012-01-08T01:00:22.211-08:00That isn't true. Everyone has a few masks they...That isn't true. Everyone has a few masks they put on every day. You can't call yourself a liar for having to socialize with people you don't want to be with. Everyone does it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-30005779218552732842012-01-08T00:52:50.980-08:002012-01-08T00:52:50.980-08:00No.No.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-42465906035215853402012-01-08T00:38:20.700-08:002012-01-08T00:38:20.700-08:00Doesn't everyone act?Doesn't everyone act?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-15451701269533547002012-01-08T00:37:04.225-08:002012-01-08T00:37:04.225-08:00Oh without a doubt, I don't have empathy. lol ...Oh without a doubt, I don't have empathy. lol That above all else was established with the doctors from the beginning! I didn't realize in the beginning though, what the process of therapy could mean for me. Never in my mind did I ever suspect at first, that they would be focusing on me as the "bad guy", or one needing diagnoses. I figured the attention would remain with my parents, and what they did.<br /><br />Once I came around to the realization that there was more to it than that... I learned real quick to start faking a few things.<br />But by then the damage had already been done. Hence the reason I had to a-wall. They made it very clear they had no intention of letting me out till adulthood.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-14178802365244060282012-01-08T00:28:02.854-08:002012-01-08T00:28:02.854-08:00Sounds like you may have been misdiagnosed to me, ...Sounds like you may have been misdiagnosed to me, too, if you never experience depression, but I am no expert in the field of psychology.<br /><br />For years I called myself "mildly bipolar" because I didn't know how else to describe some of the issues I have, which are similar to yours: detachment, anger and violence. I have never been depressed, nor have I experienced psychosis, but I do have creative upswings in which I am tremendously productive, which feel somewhat like manic episodes. (Love those!) I lose steam fast, though, and rapidly get bored. It is very hard for me to sustain my attention on a long-term project.<br /><br />After a good deal of research and some time spent here, I have come to realize that I am almost certainly on the antisocial spectrum, if such a thing may be said, although I am not entirely devoid of empathy.<br /><br />I don't really care for labels, especially if I think they are being foisted upon me by someone who doesn't know his ass from his elbow. If I develop respect for someone and their opinions, it is hard-earned.<br /><br />vw: "expart", lol!Alteregonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-72918810720255704572012-01-08T00:23:09.250-08:002012-01-08T00:23:09.250-08:00I always stay in some form of mania... it never re...I always stay in some form of mania... it never really goes away. And believe me, that has confused the shit out of more than one doctor.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-36855669640004711812012-01-08T00:20:09.733-08:002012-01-08T00:20:09.733-08:00Raven, I thought you go from medium to a bit high ...Raven, I thought you go from medium to a bit high and back. That's not how you feel?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-17363411543095992812012-01-08T00:16:49.242-08:002012-01-08T00:16:49.242-08:001143
I leave. I'm not into that stuff either. ...1143<br />I leave. I'm not into that stuff either. <br /><br />But ( and this is what I do at a job interview)it is like what Medusa pointed out a while back. -You temporarily give up a part of your self. I'm pretty sure it's that simple. It's fucked up too, because you could scramble around like a jackass for nothing. Most often no one is worth that kind of effort. You could lose yourself temporarily to some idiot's system of values, and wake up the next day feeling yucky. But I am bpd, and you didn't ask a bpd.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-13246539308836517202012-01-08T00:09:43.369-08:002012-01-08T00:09:43.369-08:00I've had many people tell me they think I was ...I've had many people tell me they think I was misdiagnosed with bipolar. I never experience depression.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-21758700805960085292012-01-08T00:07:42.464-08:002012-01-08T00:07:42.464-08:00Yeah... after that I started thinking of my therap...Yeah... after that I started thinking of my therapists as voyeurs, and believed that they just wanted a peep show. If I gave them what they wanted, it would serve to get them off. And there was no way I was going to be the source of that. <br /><br />Well, lots of things have been suggested but never officially diagnosed. Because once they started going in that direction... I shut it down and got the hell out of there. I wouldn't have believed them anyway. No one was allowed to tell me who I was, unless I already agreed. And even then...<br /><br />What I'm willing to share here; is that all of my therapists focused in on my detached demeanor, and my violent tendencies. Primarily I had been institutionalized for terrorizing and threatening my family, of whom I intended to end.<br /><br />When I was 26, I managed a therapist who gained my trust enough to have me be more honest about my childhood behavior, instead of just the abuse issues. She told me that if I were a child telling her what I was as an adult... she would have diagnosed me with Reactive Attachment Disorder.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-58186458189557510802012-01-07T23:58:30.066-08:002012-01-07T23:58:30.066-08:00@Raven: Hah! Creepy. Yech.@Raven: Hah! Creepy. Yech.Alteregonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-20075283498449998012012-01-07T23:55:13.659-08:002012-01-07T23:55:13.659-08:00Why would you need to play a game? Just tell them ...Why would you need to play a game? Just tell them you're not interested in the shit they talk about. That's what I do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-76074685716664694862012-01-07T23:54:39.324-08:002012-01-07T23:54:39.324-08:00That is exactly how I reacted when my mom insisted...That is exactly how I reacted when my mom insisted I go for therapy: "blah blah blah bullshit". I certainly never told my shrink that I was physically abused.<br /><br />I relate thoroughly to what you say about not having any attachment whatsoever to those memories: to this day, I am only able to intellectually analyze and assess them. I feel nothing with regard to my past. And if anyone had tried to lock me up in an institution, I have *certainly* a-walled too.<br /><br />Do you have sociopathic tendencies, (I seem to have gleaned this from your posts, but I know other disorders encompass antisocial traits) or do you suffer exclusively from bipolar disorder?Alteregonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-51618131994055255672012-01-07T23:43:46.645-08:002012-01-07T23:43:46.645-08:00How do you sociopaths manage to stay calm and play...How do you sociopaths manage to stay calm and play the game and be actors around people talking about a whole lot of things you don't give a shit about and that don't make sense? How do you manage to play the game around people who only care about cars, expensive clothes, etc?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-56555772272278297412012-01-07T23:42:51.261-08:002012-01-07T23:42:51.261-08:00When I started psychotherapy, I began to have drea...When I started psychotherapy, I began to have dreams that I was having sex with my father, and all my therapist were watching from the window.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-69372249339302156692012-01-07T23:32:46.725-08:002012-01-07T23:32:46.725-08:00laila tov.laila tov.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-60930209489612150232012-01-07T23:31:58.605-08:002012-01-07T23:31:58.605-08:00ya wanna sodie water?ya wanna sodie water?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-19179541062969169742012-01-07T23:31:05.417-08:002012-01-07T23:31:05.417-08:00Well no. Because they couldn't really penetrat...Well no. Because they couldn't really penetrate my head. I would just state what facts I knew would satisfy the session, or make them feel I was trying to work on my "issues". But I have never felt attached to the memories, so nothing has ever been affective. <br /><br />Once it became apparent that there would be no definite expiration to these treatment... I would begin to manipulate. Say whatever they wanted to hear, and lie... so that I could be passed to the next level. <br /><br />I a-walled from the institution though. Once they told me they were planning to keep me there till my 18th birthday.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-81309548575034059592012-01-07T23:30:50.745-08:002012-01-07T23:30:50.745-08:00This comment has been removed by the author.davidsocio01https://www.blogger.com/profile/17298781531503644037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-90055929348508164162012-01-07T23:30:48.556-08:002012-01-07T23:30:48.556-08:00je connais poquito, pequenito espagnol. Le lange e...je connais poquito, pequenito espagnol. Le lange est mucho bueno por des vendueraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com