tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post7250579962571690256..comments2024-03-28T00:33:57.308-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: Schizoid (part 1)Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger129125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-65034984302588179022013-03-27T09:44:59.609-07:002013-03-27T09:44:59.609-07:00Nicely stated!Nicely stated!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-75798602455955773902013-03-26T00:54:22.623-07:002013-03-26T00:54:22.623-07:00Yes.
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Happy Messianic Jewish Passover, Monica...Yes. <br /><br />:)<br /><br />Happy Messianic Jewish Passover, Monica. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-87612878430057920752013-03-25T05:33:24.738-07:002013-03-25T05:33:24.738-07:00There was another woman I was talking to who was a...There was another woman I was talking to who was a ballerina and a lawyer but could never feel like she was worth anything. I had a horrible day, yesterday, very low, but a friend helped me to see that I have value. She lifted me up when I could not really do it myself. People on here were so kind, too.<br /><br /> We need each other. My mother used to scorn people who needed people, but we do need a lift up. Everyone does. I would put myself down for it and think I was too needy and dependent. I probably am, but the fact remains that we all need each other.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-14753122946330541582013-03-25T05:29:05.448-07:002013-03-25T05:29:05.448-07:00Thanks so much for writing Anon 6:39
I know my wr...Thanks so much for writing Anon 6:39<br /><br />I know my writing is not always the best and has platitudes but my heart touching yours is what heals.Up From the Sofanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-4358736739034374562013-03-24T23:15:43.077-07:002013-03-24T23:15:43.077-07:00It is the programming, sure. The only difference? ...It is the programming, sure. The only difference? <br />I was not a ballerina, Monica, but i do know the mindset well. <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-16732931201055379582013-03-24T18:39:58.307-07:002013-03-24T18:39:58.307-07:00I like this a lot, Sofa.
Felt like I was burying ...I like this a lot, Sofa.<br /><br />Felt like I was burying the real me for many years. Trying so hard to be who I'm not, to convince myself that I really am the way everyone wants me to be. It was more by trapping me than humiliation, but I know what you're saying. Was miserable, empty. And occasionally violent. Problem is, I tried to bury my demons and my angels hid too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-81913546018047336782013-03-24T17:43:51.963-07:002013-03-24T17:43:51.963-07:00A long time ago, when things were not so complicat...A long time ago, when things were not so complicated or painful, there was me. The you of you remains. It just gets buried so far down that you despair of ever finding it, and rightly so. It is there in the stirrings of wants and needs. It never stops calling, but the trick is to trust it more than the humiliations, which are trying to change you into a from that is consumable to the non thinking public like a Big Mac. Be a super sprout raw burger on a whole grain bun.Up From The Sofanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-19427123145859403522013-03-24T09:02:18.055-07:002013-03-24T09:02:18.055-07:00You know, I was thinking that the only difference ...You know, I was thinking that the only difference between us and someone with high self esteem is just the programming. In a way, it is that simple. Are you the person who was a ballerina? Monicanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-25975801414792333692013-03-24T08:12:05.716-07:002013-03-24T08:12:05.716-07:00I have a lot of them, too.I have a lot of them, too.Intimacy Anonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-15725332185909399932013-03-24T05:02:21.890-07:002013-03-24T05:02:21.890-07:00@Intimacy Anon
I have most of those shame qualit...@Intimacy Anon<br /> I have most of those shame qualities. UrrgghMonicanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-1880675200711359482013-03-23T20:45:20.304-07:002013-03-23T20:45:20.304-07:00Thank you QM. Thank you QM. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-58808714904544691562013-03-23T20:32:41.678-07:002013-03-23T20:32:41.678-07:00thanks, themes.
thanks, themes.<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-16742877115352861892013-03-23T19:36:13.519-07:002013-03-23T19:36:13.519-07:00Hi Scelli. It sounds like you knew him better than...Hi Scelli. It sounds like you knew him better than most here. I'm sorry. QMAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-10723949459379673512013-03-23T19:34:07.590-07:002013-03-23T19:34:07.590-07:00Hi Aspie. I hope you don't mind, I have a ques...Hi Aspie. I hope you don't mind, I have a question on a completely different topic. <br /><br />Is listening to a song over and over again ever associated with the autism spectrum? What about sensitivity to sound or problems with facial recognition? I think people have identified lots of commonalities that aren't part of the diagnostic criterion, like executive function problems, but I don't know all the folk wisdom, only what Penelope Trunk has discussed.<br /><br />Thank you. QMAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-73190924292485638542013-03-23T19:24:18.713-07:002013-03-23T19:24:18.713-07:00Hi, aspie. Thank you for the clarification on the...Hi, aspie. Thank you for the clarification on the shaming issue.<br /><br />I felt really sad when I read your Rich may have OD'ed news. I hope that is not true. Rich drew a very sad picture for me, led me to watch Traffic and all episodes of Breaking Bad I could get on Netflix. I hated that chemistry teacher character, and inadvertently sure came to dislike the actual actor as well. He was looking snaky in Argo as well.Scelinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-34158561660350947832013-03-23T18:47:55.018-07:002013-03-23T18:47:55.018-07:00Meant to begin all of that with .. hi sceli.Meant to begin all of that with .. hi sceli.aspienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-38924475751790758542013-03-23T18:31:35.227-07:002013-03-23T18:31:35.227-07:00A child ashamed of his father is a child ashamed o...A child ashamed of his father is a child ashamed of his father.<br /><br />A shamed child is a cruely treated and humiliated child. It damages the core identity. Could be through the parents, could occur through bullying etc. An example would be to publicly announce to your sons friends that your son still wets his bed because he is a lame-ass. <br /><br />Someone posted in the forum that Rich OD'd. Who knows if true. <br />aspienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-64359291954389810842013-03-23T18:10:38.970-07:002013-03-23T18:10:38.970-07:00Hi Medusa.Hi Medusa.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-66151662852507578472013-03-23T18:01:31.753-07:002013-03-23T18:01:31.753-07:00Theme for Intimacy Anon
With Love and Apprec...Theme for Intimacy Anon <br /> With Love and AppreciationThemes for SW Regularshttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AHppGfw25donoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-77023301167997698212013-03-23T18:00:11.271-07:002013-03-23T18:00:11.271-07:00Theme SeriesTheme SeriesThemes for SW Regularshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07522625032960203608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-87493861608346134652013-03-23T17:53:50.342-07:002013-03-23T17:53:50.342-07:00Rich could have been UKan or Missus. For all prac...Rich could have been UKan or Missus. For all practical purposes they are the in-house drug experts. It just would surprise me that they'd be able to stay in character for so long.Scelinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-54757960943637714442013-03-23T17:51:07.176-07:002013-03-23T17:51:07.176-07:00Hi everybody. Can someone please tell me how pare...Hi everybody. Can someone please tell me how parents shame their children? I mean this could be in different ways, and I am nt sure what the literature means. Is it as simplistic as putting the child down for physical or mental gap from the parents' expectations? Or, does it also include cases such as a child is ashamed because he feels his dad is not man enough, or her mom is not worldly enough?<br /><br />Also, I have not been reading lately, has Rich been at large for a while that you think he's gone gone?Scelinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-57465812392812971652013-03-23T17:07:10.425-07:002013-03-23T17:07:10.425-07:00Yeah you guys got me, I'm a huge drug addict i...Yeah you guys got me, I'm a huge drug addict in real life and love exclamation points. Mɵᴅʊsahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13217438537249025614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-71614516198847782562013-03-23T16:46:08.667-07:002013-03-23T16:46:08.667-07:00@ 3:49 Intimacy? I think that's you. Anyway, t...@ 3:49 Intimacy? I think that's you. Anyway, the answer is you don't. Nurturing yourself and poisoning the parasite are mutually exclusive and only one will help you survive. <br /><br />It sounds like you know what your mom taught you is wrong, so use that information. You have to search for healthy attachments and lean in toward the people you feel safe needing. Find a job you love. Tie yourself to the good things in life. That will strengthen your core.<br /><br />And the parasite? It's not your mom; it's you, so you will never drown it out. Actually you have to lean in to it. This is sort of a guerilla tactic, but it's basically what a shrink would do with you: You have to let your demons out, whatever they are for you. Unleash your anger (at the right targets). That's probably scary, but you have to go with it. Maybe you'll be the person who sucks the air out of the room for a while, as you feed yourself what you've needed. Rude? Embarrassing? So what. Fuck that shame. This is how you actually heal and you won't be fully functioning until you do. You'll be splitting your power in half and really vulnerable. And no one worth anything will begrudge you doing what you need, so be selfish! (Caveat: with adults, not kids.) If you're an empath you have a good chance of finding your way back and reestablishing balance. <br /><br />And when you're done, the parasite won't be a parasite anymore, but something that makes you incredibly strong. And you'll actually have more to give to others because you yourself are fulfilled. Don't be scarred. You can do this. It's actually the easy bit after everything you've been through. QMAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-58020552623378773362013-03-23T16:14:33.880-07:002013-03-23T16:14:33.880-07:00you are supposed to love yourself with all the ugl...you are supposed to love yourself with all the ugly.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com