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I was lost and helpless after trying so many ways to make my husband take me back. One day at work, i was absent minded not knowing that my boss was calling me, so he sat and asked me what its was all about i told him and he smiled and said that it was not a problem. I never understand what he meant by it wasn't a problem getting my husband back, he said he used a spell to get his wife back when she left him for another man and now they are together till date and at first i was shocked hearing such thing from my boss. He gave me an email address of the great spell caster who helped him get his wife back, i never believed this would work but i had no choice that to get in contact with the spell caster which i did, and he requested for my information and that of my husband to enable him cast the spell and i sent him the details, but after two days, my mom called me that my husband came pleading that he wants me back, i never believed it because it was just like a dream and i had to rush down to my mothers place and to my greatest surprise, my husband was kneeling before me pleading for forgiveness that he wants me and the kid back home, then i gave Happy a call regarding sudden change of my husband and he made it clear to me that my husband will love me till the end of the world, that he will never leave my sight. Now me and my husband is back together again and has started doing pleasant things he hasn't done before, he makes me happy and do what he is suppose to do as a man without nagging. Please if you need help of any kind, kindly contact Happy for help and you can reach him via email: happylovespell2@gmail.com<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-76422037373656640402016-02-19T19:23:43.717-08:002016-02-19T19:23:43.717-08:00How To Get Your Ex Back After a Divorce or Breakup...How To Get Your Ex Back After a Divorce or Breakup.! Am giving this testimony cos am so happy, I want to thank Dr Frank Ojo for the great thing he has done in my life , he brought happiness to my life .! A very big problem occurred in my Marriage seven months ago,between me and my husband .so terrible that he took the case to court for a divorce. he said that he never wanted to stay with me again,and that he didn't love me anymore.So he packed out of the house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get him back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and he confirmed it that he has made his decision,and he never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my husband .So i explained every thing to him,so he told me that the only way i can get my husband back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for him too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow his advice. Then he gave me the email address of the spell caster whom he visited. TEMPLEOFLOVEANDPROSPERITY@GMAIL.COM. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address he gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my husband back the next day. What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me, and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my husband who didn't call me for the past 7 months, gave me a call to inform me that he was coming back. So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster. So, i will advice you out there if you have any problem contact Dr Frank Ojo, i give you 100% guarantee that he will help you.. Email him at: Templeofloveandprosperity@gmail.com . My name is Amanda Bryan, me & my family live in Toronto, Canada. Thanks for reading, and best of luck!<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-2389827029191268912016-02-14T09:19:36.252-08:002016-02-14T09:19:36.252-08:00"In my defenselessness,my safety lies." ..."In my defenselessness,my safety lies." My soul needs no armor.��Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-33602630527438099732016-02-11T11:27:14.674-08:002016-02-11T11:27:14.674-08:00A tourist in their own life - I understand what yo...A tourist in their own life - I understand what you mean. Yes, it was all pre-planned. Except for one or two surprises from me. Northhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09244806273774124428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-67653069726753913862016-02-10T19:52:51.425-08:002016-02-10T19:52:51.425-08:00That sort of math makes sense to me. I know I'...That sort of math makes sense to me. I know I'm not guilty of anything more than filling in the blanks. It didn't turn out well. I think about the conversations. There were so many over a long period and yet I only consider one to be a true organic conversation and not some weird preplanned sound bite. That seems impossible but I have really thought about it. They seemed like a tourist in their own life. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-70344953558545670842016-02-10T17:58:27.935-08:002016-02-10T17:58:27.935-08:00That doesn't sound like something one should b...That doesn't sound like something one should be guilty of ;)<br /><br />How did that play out for you?<br /><br /><br />He was probably wondering why I was showing up in his clinic spouting philosophical theories when my life seemed more or less in order. I clearly wasn't articulating the problem; but then that was part of the problem. I had thought I'd need the psychologist for as long as I felt I needed **-*; on that day, I flipped the equation, deciding I didn't need the psychologist and hence didn't need **-*. Did the trick :)Northhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09244806273774124428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-61897418378010187122016-02-10T10:56:04.236-08:002016-02-10T10:56:04.236-08:00Thank you, Socioempath. Your words are appreciated...Thank you, Socioempath. Your words are appreciated. I've had some of these same thoughts myself.<br /><br />ESTP SociopathAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-56255441642918511782016-02-10T10:34:05.640-08:002016-02-10T10:34:05.640-08:00I definitely think it is possible.
My theory:
Let...I definitely think it is possible.<br /><br />My theory:<br />Let people believe what they want about you, it doesn't matter what they believe, everyone's a critic, the reality and the truth is all that should matter to you. Do your own thing; pursue your hobbies, learn valuable skills, follow your interests.<br />By being genuinely proficient in a lot of things, you can develop your "own identity" - you are what you do. Your work and deeds will speak for itself.<br />That way, you can navigate the "social minefields", utilize your mask for defense and deflection, use it to advance and promote yourself, so you still get to manipulate (at least, until you are so powerful you might not need it as much), and the skills will help you when the times are tough and the mask is useless. By relying on your hard-earned skills, doing it the "hard way", you will prevent the downfall that happens when you "don't deliver" too many times.<br />In addition, doing it the "hard way" will eliminate your weaknesses, teach you discipline, you will be much less impulsive and prone to destrucion and boredom.<br /><br />And once you attain enough power and influence, you will be much more free to change the rules and public perception to suit yourself and your agenda (say, sociopathic rights).Socioempathnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-69796943773700459332016-02-10T08:02:26.491-08:002016-02-10T08:02:26.491-08:00North I don't know why your Dr didn't get ...North I don't know why your Dr didn't get it. I know I was guilty of "being a creative thinker who imagined someone was more. " I think that is to be expected. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-56895601242273314822016-02-10T06:35:40.956-08:002016-02-10T06:35:40.956-08:00" She threw away all her masks - And put on h..." She threw away all her masks - And put on her soul." <br /><br />M.E. Just saw s pic on Facebook , reminded me of you in this post :-)Superchicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-85277727287397397952016-02-10T01:08:37.684-08:002016-02-10T01:08:37.684-08:00Hmmm and perhaps you are right about my empathisin...Hmmm and perhaps you are right about my empathising, external perspective enabling me to see you as a package revealed over time. <br /><br />I think the core of the empathic functions is projecting our own experience. So, what I am perhaps really judging is that if I were to use flexible social masks yet have persistent traits, I would still perceive myself as that same, coherent self.<br /><br />I noticed that, for example, when sharing my story, A predicted, or at least explained **-*'s behaviour very nicely. And she's not the only one. In fact, the people most helpful to me in learning about and coming to grips with **-*'s behaviour were all psychopaths. Two of them from INTJF invested significant energy into doing this. <br /><br />And it seems sociopaths generally have as much clue about other sociopaths as neurotypicals do of each other. Sometimes we are on the money, other times less so... we are all black boxes :)<br /><br />I haven't seen any evidence against my projection hypothesis and though I haven't articulated a clear argument for it here (I do have additional sources to draw on), I'd be interested in yours or anyone else's thoughts. When I told my psychologist, he got a little bit cranky and things went rapidly downhill, meaning it was our last session together. But he didn't convince me otherwise, lol, he just upset me about **-*.Northhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09244806273774124428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-17707584303303371032016-02-10T00:54:12.107-08:002016-02-10T00:54:12.107-08:00Thanks for your reply, ESTP Sociopath. I like your...Thanks for your reply, ESTP Sociopath. I like your approach and think it will be fruitful for you. <br /><br />The most important thing I learnt from my experiences with **-* was to live and grow in accordance with my own nature. It was clear to me he was doing this. He is high-functioning; after 4 years in our company people thought he was a "nice man", "zen-like", and "a genius". Only one person said he was "a pain in the arse", but then later when he became **-*'s boss said "he was a funny and nice guy". That's not to say **-* couldn't have done things better - I'm sure I've already pointed some of those things out! He has found a way to use his masks productively yet still get what he wants from life. <br /><br />And likewise with myself: I am growing and making mistakes and have endless things to learn and avenues to explore. Learned helplessness still paralyses me sometimes and that's next on the list. Northhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09244806273774124428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-28969355919972076712016-02-09T21:40:19.982-08:002016-02-09T21:40:19.982-08:00M.E, I want to challenge you to shift your perspec...M.E, I want to challenge you to shift your perspective; you can have the cake and the ice cream, the mask to still be utilized and enough self respect for your innermost self. I think it is genuinely achievable, or do you think they are mutually exclusive?<br /><br />ESTP SociopathAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-22228408249898773952016-02-09T20:05:58.707-08:002016-02-09T20:05:58.707-08:00Speaking for myself, I think it's a bit of bot...Speaking for myself, I think it's a bit of both; recognition of the significant difference from myself from others and seeing how in comparison in society that my underlying static traits are not exactly traditionally appreciated in society, and from throwing so much of myself into my ability to blend in to always externally represent to the people I make use of in life a certain amount of uncertainty of true self is allowed to ruminate within my mind. In a way it is like how Alan Watts says to how so far in one extreme is to inflict a kind of self harm, whereas if I pulled back and realized if I could consider the right amount of balance between my chameleonism and following my true sense of self, I can be that well formed storm cloud, or that perfect tsunami. I understand what M.E. means with,<br /><br />"Self-awareness about my sociopathic tendencies didn't make me better, it made me worse as I came to internalize how unpalatable that was in society. That's when my behavior became so aggressive, passive, hollow, desperate, and impotent. That's when I started wearing masks basically all of the time. Sayonara to my sense of self. I may have hurt others a little less but it was accomplished by hurting myself much more."<br /><br />I can say this was true for me as well. I don't want to throw away my mask though, it's a valuable mechanism I've spent my whole life developing and perfecting. It's something I can still use to my benefit, not for ill informed adaptations, but as a tool to positively build the kind of fulfilling life I want to have and make the kind of impact I want on my environment.<br /><br />I might want to think that it is your ability to empathize, North, that truly lets you see a more solidified identity within sociopaths that we ourselves would otherwise be oblivious to. By default we see ourselves as the mask, whereas your external perspective and empathy allows you to see within us something much more than meets the eye. Is it projection, or is something truly there? As you described it yourself, "It's the package we recognise as you - even if that is something revealed over time."<br /><br />ESTP SociopathAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-64972736587159012382016-02-09T17:12:48.353-08:002016-02-09T17:12:48.353-08:00Interesting indeed. I'll check it out, thanks....Interesting indeed. I'll check it out, thanks.Northhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09244806273774124428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-5498429449917033472016-02-09T14:03:33.791-08:002016-02-09T14:03:33.791-08:00I didn't read "Flow", but from what ...I didn't read "Flow", but from what I could gather, it might be - he describes the moments of inspiration, as akin to a "flow", as ideas surge through us.<br /><br />It certainly helped me further "discover" myself, as I'm constantly having these deep thoughts, about myself, about the reality, solutions, as if there's a constant flow of unique information. And I'm not even halfway through the book, imagine that!<br /><br />I like it for it's "practicality" - as mentioned, it contains a lot of real life examples. It also has theories based on science and biology, practical steps to follow. It's less "mystical, poetic", and more "practical", yet it still has that "spark" that keeps you transfixed for hours and hours...<br />If you've read "Laws of Power" (same author) you'll know what to expect, altough here the focus is less on power, and more on self-improvement, taking the "hard way", going for what you love to instead of money (attain mastery, follow your passion, and the money will eventually flow), and so on.<br /><br />Even though I had knew the what the book has to say intuitively (after all, I wouldn't have attained and kept socioempathy without going the "hard way" and practicing), it further enhanced my understanding of it all - now it seems much more clear! So I'd recommend it to you if you seek to master something, as it most definitely will help you find your "uniqueness", help you find the root of your behavior and you can work with that to attain skills; for example, Greene says that Einstein, as a child, would spend an inordinate amount of time watching a compass move on it's own, completely flabbergasted by it, and all his accomplishments came from his fascination by the invisible forces affecting the compass needle, and the world, not by his interest in physics.Socioempathnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-55853319866668786522016-02-09T13:42:57.020-08:002016-02-09T13:42:57.020-08:00Your friend's position makes natural sense to ...Your friend's position makes natural sense to me. In fact it kinda puzzled me that sociopaths don't tend to see it that way - is it an understanding of the difference to others or a genuine concern over a lack of self?<br /><br />I think when I responded above about you particular kind of beauty, this would be something I recognise - or formulate in my mind - as part of my conception of you. And with **-*, there were things that were more or less static and intensely beautiful about him that he refused to share.<br /><br />What I am trying to say is that we can conceptualise you or another sociopath as having this flexibility of presentation but can also recognise the more static traits or characteristics. It's the package we recognise as you - even if that is something revealed over time.Northhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09244806273774124428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-32667552992581395822016-02-09T13:30:45.407-08:002016-02-09T13:30:45.407-08:00Socioempath,
I read your note on Mastery above. I...Socioempath,<br /><br />I read your note on Mastery above. It sounds like an application of Czikzentmahalyi's Flow? It does sound interesting and may be useful to me.<br /><br />I also like to think everything is possible and take great pleasure synthesising solutions, getting things to work. The art I seek to master is when to shape and when to let go. I'm reading The Art of War and Tao Te Ching as I seem to have landed naturally on the shores of Taoism. But I like to explore different views for their usefulness.Northhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09244806273774124428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-59470203718936891892016-02-09T13:20:53.122-08:002016-02-09T13:20:53.122-08:00A friend of mine that I've decided to come out...A friend of mine that I've decided to come out to as a sociopath because I decided she is intelligent enough to take what I have to say in way that informs her well enough to not hold prejudice against me (I walked her through the idea that sociopathy is not truly the sole reason for a sociopaths issues or destructive antisocial behavior, but actually ill informed adaptations made by the sociopath to cope with their mental illness and more or less function in society in a manner that isn't necessarily good for themselves, etc). She apparently suspected for a long time that I'm a sociopath, so I not only confirmed her suspicions but educated her in a way that would allow her a sense of security and allow me to be more of my self more or less.<br /><br />One thing that came up in conversation was that she posed the idea that my supposed inauthenticity of my social chameleonism is in fact, in a seemingly ouroboros fashion, my authenticity; she asked me to shift my perspective of my ever shapeshifting mask as something that was sabotaging my ability to have a truer sense of self to that of the idea that perhaps this it could just be quality of myself no less valid then my static personality traits like my lack of empathy and inability to experience genuine guilt or remorse. I also then think more of the words of Alan Watts, to consider myself much like a cloud or a wave; who has ever seen a misshapen cloud an imperfect wave? Never, as they always are as they are meant to be.<br /><br />I still have to be cognizant of lingering ill adaptations in relation to these things; finding the middle way of being true to what my inner self while still utilizing all the same mechanisms built within my self like my chameleonism. I think if I could truly master that I could have a more fulfilling and enriching life.<br /><br />ESTP SociopathAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-71676689151921666262016-02-09T13:13:05.792-08:002016-02-09T13:13:05.792-08:00ESTP Sociopath,
Thankyou for opening this window ...ESTP Sociopath,<br /><br />Thankyou for opening this window into your way of seeing the world. There's a particular kind of beauty in what you write, a kind of isolated strength - like a <a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-wA1lJl8ZiHc/USUu_ShqV1I/AAAAAAAAC1M/qVQuEzVuJ6E/s1600/1288928945_b.jpg" rel="nofollow">watchtower</a>.<br /><br />I find you have a knack for pulling me beyond my own perceptions in a useful way.<br /><br />Personally, I've found that breaking old patterns to find new paths is like snowboarding in a blizzard: pure whiteout with no guide but a faint sense of motion and the edge of my board in the snow. It's difficult and slow going but is rewarding in a deeper sense.<br />Northhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09244806273774124428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-19809178441438489612016-02-09T07:10:56.471-08:002016-02-09T07:10:56.471-08:00I may check out "The art instinct", once...I may check out "The art instinct", once I finish reading R. Greene's "Mastery"; I've been reading his book for a few days now and it has made me think...<br /><br />I have always been the happiest, most satisfied, most focused, when there was a seemingly "impossible" problem, when there is something that "just is". In other words, if something has "cons", I'd get obsessed with finding a practical, permanent way around those "cons", that anyone could repeat if they put in the effort - if there's a way to improve something, I'll find it and show you, in practical ways, why and how you CAN have your cake and eat it! I couldn't accept something "as-is", I'd spend a lot of time investigating the "why's" and "how's", from various unrelated fields and sources of information if necessary and combine that knowledge, until I find what can be done and what can't.<br />Give me something, get me interested in it, and I'll improve it to the limit of it's potential.<br /><br />For example;<br />* A few "pros" of apple were easy usage, "superior" sound, battery life, fast response... And I'd get a lot of lecturing from friends that it "just is", and that I should just accept it.<br />So, what did I do? Custom roms. Viper4Android (amazing sound - undeniably, objectively superior). Xposed Framework. Custom kernel (precise hardware tuning). Et cetera.<br />And the result was an android phone without "cons", proving to all those friends badgering me to "switch", that my phone was better in just every way, objectively, in front of their eyes, just so they'd stop bothering me with their useless "advice".<br />* I don't smoke weed now, as it merely made me lazy, "slow," and stifled my "creativity", but while I did, I have noticed that it hit me better after I exercised. Scouring the internet, I also found that heating it in a oven, at ~120 °C, for 5-20 minutes, inside a closed aluminum foil (so it keeps it's "essence", it's "taste") increases the amount of THC, and it reminded me how weed forgotten for a month or so (drying naturally) always seems to hit you stronger. And I also found forum reports (and even some "official" scientific reports) that drinking/eating (ripe if possible) mango 30-60 minutes prior to smoking seems to wastly enhance and prolong the experience - mango and weed both contain myrcene, myrcene helps the THC cross the blood-brain barrier. So I concluded: doing physical activities, ingesting mango, and thermal treatment would make even the weakest weed very potent. And every time I did those steps, it was as it was my first time!<br /><br />My strength was also my weakness, as I'm sure you've concluded. So to "fix" myself, I became "socioempathic", learned discipline and patience. I concluded recently that, due to my nature, when I read "official facts" about sociopathy, my subconscious just couldn't accept the fact that it was "impossible" just because it was "accepted" - maybe it was impossible, but not 'till I know for sure; if there's a way, I'd find it, no matter how long it takes, and I'll be able to combine the best of emotional and logical - mere "stoicism" just wouldn't do! And now, I am free from the shackles of "negative neurotypical" emotions. Unlike somebody adept in stoicism, I don't have to "keep on top" of my emotions. Yet I can use them to my advantage, as I already had them all my life and know them intimately.<br /><br />I highly recommend the book to anyone looking to find their "true calling", to "find themselves", as I consider it interesting, insightful, it's very "to the point", with a lot of real life examples. It's a easily digestible, engaging read that will probably get you thinking deeply about yourself...Socioempathnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-16928021921980273952016-02-09T05:28:19.232-08:002016-02-09T05:28:19.232-08:00Art is the calling card of the free spirit. Or the...Art is the calling card of the free spirit. Or the spirit that has freed itself. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-46705010780858430232016-02-09T02:07:12.001-08:002016-02-09T02:07:12.001-08:00Gaslighting is a term you possibly know, but in th...Gaslighting is a term you possibly know, but in the event you don’t, it means the act associated with telling and effective someone that his or her feelings or perceptions are not really true. Inside context of social relationships, gaslighting is thought to be an abusive conduct, as it can certainly render people incapable of trusting themselves and their very own judgment, instead placing an undeserved trust in the gaslighter.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.munnartaxiservices.com" rel="nofollow">My webpage</a>james_lopezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16862465251161133484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-61441462627724652362016-02-09T02:02:59.803-08:002016-02-09T02:02:59.803-08:00*there is
*light bulb turning on in my head
I sm...*there is<br /><br />*light bulb turning on in my head<br /><br />I smoked some really dank weed.<br /><br />ESTP SociopathAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com