tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post6602880872598521040..comments2024-03-28T00:33:57.308-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: LoyaltyUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger161125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-68911249391598551842018-03-28T10:30:39.271-07:002018-03-28T10:30:39.271-07:00I have no qualms altering any aspect of my behavio... I have no qualms altering any aspect of my behavior to align with my decision to become involved with someone. I don't hold sexual loyalty to any esteem, and in general find it pedantic, but it doesn't persuade my involvement with that person one way or the other.<br /><br />Now that I think about it I have actually never broken my decided loyalty. I have, however, unscrupulously, slept with many married partners. <br /><br />Let me relate this, then, to other "promises" I may have made within a relationship: if I choose to break an agreement I make with someone with whom I am actively involved, then I have most likely reached a place where the outcome is inconsequential. I will neither be hurt, nor relieved to be forgiven. I will most likely keep on with my life in whatever ways I choose and if the "injured" party wishes to stay along for the ride that's just dandy with me. So long as they do not become cumbersome or fussy once making their decision to stay or go with the understanding I will do as I please.<br /><br />An interesting note on this topic of fidelity: I have engaged myself in these "promises" of sexual fidelity. I have also been cheated on by highly emotional types. They ultimately felt much more about the whole thing than I did. I did play my part as the "hurt one," which did prove advantageous if I ever needed to elicit particular reactions. However, I do not recall being "hurt" in the way that my heart was broken, or I felt I wasn't good enough. I do remember feeling irritated and a bit let down that the person I had chosen to be my partner had so little control -or even understanding, of their impulses, desires, motivators, etc. TheUsualDeviantnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-45626387943664388862016-02-19T21:30:29.188-08:002016-02-19T21:30:29.188-08:00That actually bothers me in people, how easily I c...That actually bothers me in people, how easily I can see something from another's point of view, free of judgement and prejudice but other people can be so quick to criticize an idea just because they don't agree. They don't consider the possibility that they might be wrong but somehow the sociopaths that consider ideas as radical as Hitler's, Marx's or Stalin's on equal ground as democracy, freedom of speech and habeas corpus are the villains, for being impartial. People, jeez...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14798990767465540869noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-43940104062392838452013-12-12T22:21:59.847-08:002013-12-12T22:21:59.847-08:00I'v always felt alone, not trusting anyone to ...I'v always felt alone, not trusting anyone to do the right things so i'v always done them myself. I run my own business and everyone respects me and looks up to me and all but I'm left wondering if they actually care or not if "Loyalty" if something they value just as much as respect, afew that I would certaintly call my brothers and sisters if we were related have been through with me from the good and the bad times. My question is, am Ment for this? To be respected? or am I the one who should be respecting them and being loyal to them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-66099781642299873282012-11-14T22:57:28.454-08:002012-11-14T22:57:28.454-08:00Thank you both for your responses.
Yes, I agree ...Thank you both for your responses.<br /><br /> Yes, I agree all situations will be different. "one foot out the door" sounds familiar. <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-48288184848783569152012-11-11T09:42:55.131-08:002012-11-11T09:42:55.131-08:00Sociopaths need to respect those that reject or wa...Sociopaths need to respect those that reject or walk away from them. Those are the strong ones. The weak ones stay.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-3995132536860562232012-11-09T00:09:13.078-08:002012-11-09T00:09:13.078-08:00I am trying to answer this but i think all situat...I am trying to answer this but i think all situations will be different. I do not trust people. If I fall for someone there is still always going to be one foot out the door because of this. It is very hard to think about loyalty with this attitude.<br /><br />I would not expect anyone to remain loyal if I ever cheated. <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-46982301117540785202012-11-07T22:00:02.434-08:002012-11-07T22:00:02.434-08:00A question about loyalty. To anyone, but the quest...A question about loyalty. To anyone, but the question is mostly generated from the initial post, though I've read through all the discussion since. Do you expect loyalty from someone even if they feel betrayed by you? As an example, if you promised something that was important to them(such as sexual fidelity and exclusivity in a relationship) but then lied and cheated anyway, would you expect the other person to remain loyal anyway, even though you broke an agreement you both mutually agreed upon? It seems that at least one of you would consider yourself loyal even while breaking this agreement? Would you be enraged if you were rejected because you broke the agreement? Would you consider the other person disloyal for rejecting you for breaking your agreement? <br />Maybe these questions are naive on my part, but they are honest questions, I'd really like to hear your perspective(s).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-33621860899147409752012-11-06T17:39:25.936-08:002012-11-06T17:39:25.936-08:00TNP
I did not say that, nor would I to someone I ...TNP<br /> I did not say that, nor would I to someone I really hated, but I don't hate you.<br /> <br />However, the way you felt is how I felt when people said horrible things to me, so maybe it may be a teachable moment for you <3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-17470867938845767582012-11-06T12:52:18.029-08:002012-11-06T12:52:18.029-08:00If, anyone, would believe that TNP would responsd ...If, anyone, would believe that TNP would responsd so passively - needs their fucking head examined. In fact, listening to all of Monica's alias's - I need my head examined. lol...lol <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-43810769504733910712012-11-06T12:07:51.270-08:002012-11-06T12:07:51.270-08:00TNP
I WOULD NEVER SAY THAT TO YOU OR ANYONE.
I ...TNP<br /> I WOULD NEVER SAY THAT TO YOU OR ANYONE. <br /><br />I hope you believe me, but I can't make you, of course.<br /><br />I know we have words but I would never hurt you like that.<br /><br />I am sorry someone said that to you, TNP.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-69021440584391293372012-11-06T11:32:22.663-08:002012-11-06T11:32:22.663-08:00Monica, I will never forgive for saying that, espe...Monica, I will never forgive for saying that, especially anonymously.<br /><br />Maybe some day I'll come by and pay you a visit so I can teach you some manners.Payam Darvishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02027312104152494932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-45129446800297624232012-11-06T09:20:35.648-08:002012-11-06T09:20:35.648-08:00TNP Please explain how monica projects herself ont...TNP Please explain how monica projects herself onto others and you do not.<br /><br />I have heard her make comments like "I am worthless" after someone depressing says they have a trouble. She will pick up their cues and run to look at herself in the mirror and say to herself "yes yes I am wretched like that person who just posted something self loathing." I see her doing this. this is what it is like to have loose identity.<br /><br />People here do not like negativity. It is contagious because some of us have so much flexibility. <br /><br /> <br /><br />TNP You are a shitflinger with loose bowels, yes? and you are proud of it, yes? You like to see the diarrhea spew out of your ass and hosed onto others, yes?<br /><br />Well people here where protective goggles and gas masks and rain gear for your diarrhea volcanoes. <br /><br />Everyone knows you like your feces. You hold it close to your heart. And That is why you got cancer. There I said it. <br /><br /> Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-45435244968283288452012-11-06T06:48:14.186-08:002012-11-06T06:48:14.186-08:00It has only been very recently that the Judeo-Chri...It has only been very recently that the Judeo-Christian faith has been introduced to a bulk (not even all) of the world, yet it has been populated by billions of people that never heard the word of god nor subscribed to that particular cult.<br /><br />They made sense of the world just fine without him with their own valid and working laws and morals.Payam Darvishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02027312104152494932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-65868229956766785722012-11-06T06:29:29.980-08:002012-11-06T06:29:29.980-08:00How so, Big boy?How so, Big boy?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-62146966040295497122012-11-06T05:57:59.087-08:002012-11-06T05:57:59.087-08:00You just checkmated yourself, idiot.You just checkmated yourself, idiot.Payam Darvishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02027312104152494932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-40551600581038363532012-11-06T04:40:32.101-08:002012-11-06T04:40:32.101-08:00^^^^ Wonderful work, as usual^^^^ Wonderful work, as usualAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-88285924667803787162012-11-06T04:38:21.660-08:002012-11-06T04:38:21.660-08:00Right
Remove God and there is no sense to anything...Right<br />Remove God and there is no sense to anything. Checkmate :DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-79447872430185426972012-11-06T04:06:14.430-08:002012-11-06T04:06:14.430-08:001. Remove God from the equation, and your justific...1. Remove God from the equation, and your justification holds no water. The fact that you've used that as your lone justification for the value of humans is both funny and tragic. Were you born in another land without your God, would you not value others?<br /><br />2. You repeatedly say "we" when referencing "you" and assume that "everyone" shares your problems. That's projection.<br /><br />3. There's no pill to fix Stupid. When there is one, I suggest you get a prescription.Payam Darvishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02027312104152494932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-18544798294242712222012-11-06T04:00:36.141-08:002012-11-06T04:00:36.141-08:00Ok---1st of all no human being is worthless. We ar...Ok---1st of all no human being is worthless. We are all created by God. Even the unwanted baby in the womb is loved and wanted by God. So, this first comment is completely false from the point of view of a Born Again Christian, which I am,<br /><br />2nd---How do I project on others as a source of comfort? What does that mean?<br /><br />3rd--I don't understand at all, the rest of your loose bowels meandering. I don't understand enough to even ask a question, so maybe you would Ex-lax me and give me your take on it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-79559379900560093102012-11-06T03:56:06.590-08:002012-11-06T03:56:06.590-08:00TNPNovember 5, 2012 10:34 PM
Monica, you realized...TNPNovember 5, 2012 10:34 PM<br /><br />Monica, you realized how worthless you were, and had a momentary crisis of identity. It broke a carefully crafted mask, and in your moment of shame and weakness, you made a new mask to hide yourself.<br /><br />You didn't grow as a person at all, and now you're projecting on others as a source of comfort. You're worse off now than you were before because you've believed your own lie.<br /><br />Because you're wretched and weak, now everyone else must be wretched and weak. That is how you are coping now, and it will turn you into a very bitter and empty person, or at least more than what you've already been.<br /><br /><br /><br />TNP<br /> I want to break down your answer because this is one of the most irrational thought processes I have ever seen. Are you willing to break it down with me? I am interested in other people's thinking processes, as I am trying to change my own.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-21337194919201182652012-11-05T23:40:31.419-08:002012-11-05T23:40:31.419-08:00What bandwagon?What bandwagon?Payam Darvishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02027312104152494932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-27092263452634996012012-11-05T23:28:09.006-08:002012-11-05T23:28:09.006-08:00The hell rich, what are you trying to accomplish? ...The hell rich, what are you trying to accomplish? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-14878740109518314592012-11-05T23:23:32.211-08:002012-11-05T23:23:32.211-08:00Dependable, but not loyal. I wont trust a psychopa...Dependable, but not loyal. I wont trust a psychopath... deceit is their very nature, lying is like their natural tongue. But from my experience, they are dependable, I think its pride that requires it of them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-47332489320637756012012-11-05T23:23:18.221-08:002012-11-05T23:23:18.221-08:00you too.you too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-13489077411449434082012-11-05T23:15:20.928-08:002012-11-05T23:15:20.928-08:00Jumping on the bangwagon like a little girl again,...Jumping on the bangwagon like a little girl again, TNP?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com