tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post6442700663301697330..comments2024-03-18T07:07:07.291-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: Pro-social sociopath?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger66125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-52316100467721993472014-08-21T08:28:04.872-07:002014-08-21T08:28:04.872-07:00I think that what you have to understand is that n...I think that what you have to understand is that no matter how much both sides try, a psychopath will never be able to feel or see the world the way you do. Is simply impossible for us, I think for us pro-social this is most marked in funerals, I've never been able to see the sense in one, or understand people grief or even why people seem to need this concept that you will go on after death. <br /><br />As a psychopath, you are governed by pure logic. Actually, your only basis of reference in the world is just data. The amount of energy one spends in a day trying to follow all of the sentimentalist around is draining You need to understand that for us, talking with the fat girl is far from hypocrisy, we see things in values, and this doesn't mean is wrong it just means that our points of views are completely contrary. <br /><br />sometimes everything is really confusing, I think we get this good at cataloguing and being able to act out emotions because we've spend our whole lives trying to understand why the people that surrounds us react in such weird ways. You find us very unnatural, and for the most part we find you uncomplex and annoying, or in rare cases fascinating in how different you seem to be. <br /><br />I do not take advantage of the outcasts, I see no advantage in that. My worst fear has always been people finding out, it seems to be vox populli that I'm cold hearted, and it annoys me to no end, because I try horribly hard to be a good person. <br /><br />You need to understand that for us hurting another person is easy, much easier than when we chose to be good. Not harming and trying to understand is hard work for us, but we pro-socials still do it. We put on a smile and go out of our way, out of our nature to try and be there when a friend need us even when we can't care, I have seated by a friend and held her while she cried when he aunt died, i comforted her the best i could, even when in essence I have no idea of why she is even acting this way, her aunt no longer exist, like when you dispose of a pen because the ink run out, you may feel a bit of loose because it was your favourite pen but that's it. It just stopped exiting so why does she still cares for it? when the problem just solved it self. Can someone explain to me why if her aunt that had an ACB and was no longer herself since about 6 months, because she developed alzheimer, and was an honest to god burned for her whole family as much as an economical taxing as emotional and physically draining for them... can someone just explain to me why people mourn? This girl is my neighbour, so I've seen what the disease of her aunt has put them thought, I was relieved when she died, I mean by all logic the aunt was a problem and the problem just solved itself. I don't understand why they get like this. <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-17602490264032385142014-06-23T14:33:12.529-07:002014-06-23T14:33:12.529-07:00@monica
I once knew a sociopath. After a few month...@monica<br />I once knew a sociopath. After a few months without beeing able to categorize his personality I could not help but think of a wire monkey. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-63268403881542439512013-06-08T12:17:16.631-07:002013-06-08T12:17:16.631-07:00"You have to be kidding to ask this one. If y..."You have to be kidding to ask this one. If you are frequently marginalized from society the last person in Earth you want to meet is somebody who is purely going to abuse you."<br /><br />I'm a diagnosed sociopath. I agree with your worry, but it's not like we have this constant desire to abuse every person we see or are in contact with. I'm a straight, fit, middle class white male but I don't associate with anyone that fits that description. Most of my friends (and yes, sociopaths can have friends and are extremely loyal to a default) are "minorities" and I rarely hang out with anyone who is in esteem. For me, it's like this: I know I can fake it and fit in with society, but why? The "outcasts" accept me and I accept their social "faults". Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04010263832525801393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-88937600211965893472013-06-07T19:31:46.768-07:002013-06-07T19:31:46.768-07:00"Can you see the real M.E., can ya?, can you?..."Can you see the real M.E., can ya?, can you????!!!"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-8316101761549455452013-06-07T17:02:19.857-07:002013-06-07T17:02:19.857-07:00maybe she doesn't judge tube top girls persona...maybe she doesn't judge tube top girls personal appearance to be the most important indicator of ver value as a human being because she's not constantly asking "if I talk to fat girl in a tube top am I still cool?" Maybe she is just interested in being pleasant and seeing past the surface. <br /><br />Jessi- there is no virtue in expressing truly felt disdain for someone you are not invested in enough to support in a constructive manner (and no, snide comments and fashion advice do not count as constructive). And fake basic dignity? Is that just something you made up? You either treat people in a way that acknowledges their humanity or devalues it. Your personal experience of the behavior matters only to you- not to tube top girl.onewomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11320973006497715467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-56906728679420110712013-06-07T15:13:46.489-07:002013-06-07T15:13:46.489-07:00I will google Welcome Back Kotter. :)I will google Welcome Back Kotter. :)JustAGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00876939313824004085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-80675349702459048622013-06-07T15:13:24.062-07:002013-06-07T15:13:24.062-07:00I have very low antisocial scores on the psychopat...I have very low antisocial scores on the psychopath test. I could be better described as asocial. I have never scanned anyone in my life. Everyone has ulterior motives, I'm just more likely to try and fulfill those motives through subtle actions.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11932547142801073974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-66670825236538353112013-06-07T15:06:29.937-07:002013-06-07T15:06:29.937-07:00Hand raised high in the air, Horseshack-style: &qu...Hand raised high in the air, Horseshack-style: "Oooh! Oooh! Professor Lund!"<br /><br />Ooops, I suppose Welcome Back Kotter is before your time. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-8951276612252214132013-06-07T15:01:26.369-07:002013-06-07T15:01:26.369-07:00Ha ha ^^^^ I'm totally joking. But for some ...Ha ha ^^^^ I'm totally joking. But for some reason it makes me feel creepy to even joke. Oh well. Back to planning my fall enrollment. JustAGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00876939313824004085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-89862559619740725692013-06-07T15:01:04.408-07:002013-06-07T15:01:04.408-07:00Ha!Ha!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-38112910888056779072013-06-07T14:58:46.797-07:002013-06-07T14:58:46.797-07:00Shoot, just enroll at BYU and take her class. Sit ...Shoot, just enroll at BYU and take her class. Sit on the front row. Attend her office hours. Email her all the time. The possibilities boggle the mind...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-34647503000029802102013-06-07T14:58:15.988-07:002013-06-07T14:58:15.988-07:00Sorry.... I meant JAMIE.Sorry.... I meant JAMIE.JustAGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00876939313824004085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-16011366805109456502013-06-07T14:56:22.254-07:002013-06-07T14:56:22.254-07:00So wait.... M.E is possibly getting hired at BYU??...So wait.... M.E is possibly getting hired at BYU???? Would it be weird if I stalked her during my next trip to see my dad at BYU?...... just kidding. :/ seriously. I'm kidding. Unless you're up for that pedi..... JustAGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00876939313824004085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-36081747436441568882013-06-07T14:37:20.800-07:002013-06-07T14:37:20.800-07:00The Martha Stewart of Sociopaths. You must have an...The Martha Stewart of Sociopaths. You must have an apron lying around somewhere, M.E./Jamie!<br /><br />"M.E./Jamie: Up Close and Personal" Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-58836208344715782832013-06-07T14:22:30.202-07:002013-06-07T14:22:30.202-07:00She seems to have a thing for Ayn Rand...She seems to have a thing for Ayn Rand...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-73392866570419711452013-06-07T14:21:24.587-07:002013-06-07T14:21:24.587-07:00lol, maybe she'll change her name to jamie on ...lol, maybe she'll change her name to jamie on here, but up pictures of her pets and family, change the background to a spring garden theme.... then she'll be like every other woman that has a blog xDAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-15729610508942165482013-06-07T13:53:38.856-07:002013-06-07T13:53:38.856-07:00I realize a lot of you here are in the habit of wr...I realize a lot of you here are in the habit of writing "M.E.", but isn't that passe now that we all know the true identity of our favorite sociopath..."M.E." = Jamie. Doesn't it make more sense to call her by her real name? Otherwise, it's like going along with a stripper and using her fake name. Come on, you all can say "Jamie." Try it. Ja-mie. That's it. Once more, with feeling. Ja-mie. There you go. It's okay. I mean, she's not Voldemort for Christ's sake?!? <br /><br />Besides, according to the Stripper name generator, Jamie's fake name should be Candy: <br />http://thejuicyj.com/strippername/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-47688067552389182172013-06-07T13:41:17.654-07:002013-06-07T13:41:17.654-07:00Yes or No. Is Casey Anthony a psychopath?Yes or No. Is Casey Anthony a psychopath?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-27966891867351914192013-06-07T13:34:25.450-07:002013-06-07T13:34:25.450-07:00My father is a psychopath. He abandoned a son (fro...My father is a psychopath. He abandoned a son (from another mother) because the mother vowed to never allow him any contact with her child after he went to prison- a decision I understand. He tried to establish contact after many years, but his son rejected him, for good reason. My dad went to jail for an act of extreme brutality. I met my half brother only once. He looks and even speaks like my father. He seemed quite aggressive. We did not maintain contact.<br /><br />My father never abandoned me, although he did not support or love me in the way I wish he had. He was *very* hard on me and imposed exceedingly high expectations and standards. He taught me to "resolve" my problems with my fists and was proud of me when I did. He would brag that he pitied any man who tried to assault me.<br /><br />I would never abandon my children for any reason. Alteregonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-8740225126654971322013-06-07T13:18:11.138-07:002013-06-07T13:18:11.138-07:00If there is the "sociopath", but also th...If there is the "sociopath", but also the "prosocial sociopath", maybe our dear M.E, is the "introspective sociopath" ;)Jessinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-19094547033826252682013-06-07T13:11:28.798-07:002013-06-07T13:11:28.798-07:00I also think that a sociopath parent has the compe...I also think that a sociopath parent has the competence to raise children successfully. I specially agree with “children respond to how I *react* to them; whether or not I possess the ability to *feel* what they do is relatively inconsequential.” The issue is more that if for any reason, those kids are not part of the public image the sociopath cares to protect and become an impediment, they will have few problems in abandoning them and never go back to them (unless they can use them again)Jessinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-85717900567999935502013-06-07T13:04:03.088-07:002013-06-07T13:04:03.088-07:00You know your "stuff", Joe :)You know your "stuff", Joe :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-39920606580431913022013-06-07T13:00:54.337-07:002013-06-07T13:00:54.337-07:00You know I have followed your blog for a few month...You know I have followed your blog for a few months and while some of what you have to say is interesting, I am not convinced that you are in a fact a sociopath. You seem to be self aware of who you are, your actions, and seem to posses some sense of right and wrong. At best I think you're narcissistic and you enjoy the attention you're getting. <br /><br />The reason I say this is because I was friends with a guy named Eddie who I strongly am convince is a true sociopath. Unlike you that loves the attention, he would run away from it. He is someone who hides in plain sight, charming, full of shit, talks a very convincing game, but sees everyone as an object to be used and once their usefullness runs out, he tosses them aside looking for the next opportunity to cross his path. He cares about no one except himself and would use anyone to satisfy his greed.<br /><br />Calling him out on his bullshit and digging up dirt on his past was the only way to rid my self of him and using truth against his lies was the only way to stop him.<br /><br />I don't believe that's you. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-35922964356420296792013-06-07T12:31:23.128-07:002013-06-07T12:31:23.128-07:00And no, I don't actually recommend that folks ...And no, I don't actually recommend that folks apply to law schools in this current climate. But many students who call me still don't listen.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-60272156937824125382013-06-07T12:28:18.960-07:002013-06-07T12:28:18.960-07:00I'm tenured, yes. And students are still appl...I'm tenured, yes. And students are still applying to my own school (whew). And I still maintain practice connections (I get recruitment calls from within academia and legal practice regularly) so I think I have a good fallback.<br /><br />But I also realize I'm fairly fortunate that way. Took a lot of work, though.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com