tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post6165628808464255147..comments2024-03-28T00:33:57.308-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: Resconstructing ourselvesUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger93125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-21382011302742403492017-06-11T11:43:02.883-07:002017-06-11T11:43:02.883-07:00Funny I'm seeing someone who is a sociopath an...Funny I'm seeing someone who is a sociopath and he claims both parents are narcissistic. His parents are very wealthy but he said were never around emotionally and were very much into themselves he also said after he built his house his father went out and has a house built twice the size of his and asked him.." well what do you think" my guy said he was pissed and he talks as if he can't stand his parents lol so In his case there is no forgiveness on his partAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-78650195644890530682017-06-02T07:31:57.321-07:002017-06-02T07:31:57.321-07:00Our inability to grasp this concept does indeed su...Our inability to grasp this concept does indeed sum up sociopathy. As people who can change themselves completely in an instant we don't grasp how norms are so unable to change even a little about what and who they are. Personality to us has always been an illusion we reweave our past and present to meet our needs. That the rest of humanity is static is foreign to our minds. This is the core of our inability to understand this. However ME has a good point here aside from our (to you) skewed worldview. <br /><br />The idea that it is OK to vilify certain people in society we see as "evil" has led to many of the worst things that is wrong with society right now. It stems from the fact that humanity is tribally driven. Therefore whatever is outside the tribal norm is "evil" thus you get slut shaming of rape victims, you get racism, you get homophobia, you get fat shaming etc.. The idea that as long as victim DESERVES the abuse, and the majority rules who deserves it make no mistake, then the abusers can feel better about themselves by vilifying the person they are abusing. Just watch Jerry Springer for examples of how this works. What ME is saying is that there should be a better way than mob rule. That when we except that abusing a person is OK if society deems that person evil then we are on the slippery slope because society is always the majority and that leads to very bad outcomes sometimes. Like genocide. Look now to the Soviet union and what is happening to homosexual men there. That is end result of this mentality. In many European countries criminals are actually rehabilitated humanely and rarely reoffend. Perhaps a kinder model should be adopted. In the case of child sexual abuse though we should always keep the safety of children above the rights of the abuser. They always say they are sorry, they could not hep themselves, they are really the victim. They are most often lying. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11926447788945249397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-24393537076953232872017-06-02T07:08:08.748-07:002017-06-02T07:08:08.748-07:00To understand is to understand the depth of abuse ...To understand is to understand the depth of abuse it takes to create a sociopath/psychopath. They are not deserving of forgiveness in that it is somewhat like forgiving a demon.There is no point, the demon does not care if you forgive it, you are nothing to it. For the malignant narcissist children are but an extension of themselves, they are property to do with as the narc wills, victim and toy. There is no point to forgiving them, in thier mind they can do nothing wrong. You can heal and move on though. I understand that my mother was what she was. My father her blind general. Do I forgive them. Should the world forgive them for creating me? :) In a way yes I do but that is just my nature. <br /><br />We must look at the definition of forgiveness to understand<br />for·give<br />fərˈɡiv/Submit<br />verb<br />stop feeling angry or resentful toward (someone) for an offense, flaw, or mistake.<br />"I don't think I'll ever forgive David for the way he treated her"<br />synonyms: pardon, excuse, exonerate, absolve; More<br />stop feeling angry or resentful toward someone for (an offense, flaw, or mistake).<br />"they are not going to pat my head and say all is forgiven"<br />cancel (a debt).<br />"he proposed that their debts should be forgiven"<br /><br />As a psychopath I moved past the anger yes. My question though to anon is would you forgive someone who tried to kill you on multiple occasions? Who tortured you daily? Who killed your pets? Who pimped you out at five? I forgive in the way that I no longer feel anger about it, but then I don't really feel anything now do I? Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11926447788945249397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-86213121114396406662017-05-11T01:52:28.586-07:002017-05-11T01:52:28.586-07:00including the penultimate post) society's will...including the penultimate post) society's willingness to let self-righteous feelings to dominate their rational capacity and/or empathy to continue to persecute people for something that they did or said in the past... I just struggle to understand why it's still such a problem, and one that is rarely discussed as such.hotmail loginhttp://hotmailloginproblem.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-12896424122359510792017-05-02T08:54:32.695-07:002017-05-02T08:54:32.695-07:00Oops, wrong link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=...Oops, wrong link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HXCOoKYIPU4<br /><br />"True, there are no gratis stappen to heaven."<br /><br />https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=31POsJIAXsY<br /><br />https://68.media.tumblr.com/34c03b861b9eb614e14e1bbf016909f5/tumblr_n16020I9O51r8a09mo5_250.gif<br /><br />No, non è facile...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-57623205485662747082017-05-02T08:42:12.695-07:002017-05-02T08:42:12.695-07:00Papa?
https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/origi...Papa? <br /><br />https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/ae/7d/4f/ae7d4ff0a829cd6456c5232113814cad.png<br /><br />https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HXCOoKYIPU4<br /><br />http://68.media.tumblr.com/57d19720eb17bc886530a58382e27ced/tumblr_n16020I9O51r8a09mo2_250.gif<br /><br />Why don't I have three heads? Why? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-77188157961751737932017-05-02T08:16:16.709-07:002017-05-02T08:16:16.709-07:00"Come to think of it, Does he have ---"
..."Come to think of it, Does he have ---"<br /><br />https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HXCOoKYIPU4Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-76560473825902403082017-05-02T08:08:47.947-07:002017-05-02T08:08:47.947-07:00“Ah, gentlemen, good morning. What do you have for...“Ah, gentlemen, good morning. What do you have for me today?” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z20dhgfP9VA<br /><br />The brief answer: A gala. “I always had a repulsive need to be something more than human. I felt very puny as a human. I thought, 'Fuck that. I want to be a superhuman’.” Aladdin <br /><br />An artist’s inoffensive journey on foot around the world can fulfill an appetite for inspiration. <br /><br />“Just to be clear, **-* is not offending. He's my boyfriend.”<br /><br />North seems to be describing a strange specimen. Does he, conceivably, talk backwards?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eeOE4BQPHxk<br /><br />Come to think of it, Does he have another side that sounds more like this illustrious example?http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xqrk9d_the-painted-veil-clip-proposal_shortfilms<br /><br />Why doesn’t he have three heads, though? If you could, or if you can picture him before you in this very moment, which head would you slap? Oh, the outrage. Yes, it would require some assessment… and more shut-eye. <br /><br />The long answer: Ooof! https://hips.hearstapps.com/hbz.h-cdn.co/assets/16/18/1462172047-02-rihana-met-gala-pizza-fablefeed-exclusive-800x600.jpg<br /><br />I am seeking proper support for my unauthorized - yet curiously fading - memories or memoirs, which I am writing. Hopefully, my work will sell in such colossal numbers that I will be able to finance the film version in which I play four heads. I will write you waning flashes of ingots, I will whirl you Valentine twilights... True, there are no gratis stappen to heaven. <br /><br />I think that I can say curiouser in every language. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-42172875277996906102017-05-01T15:47:24.513-07:002017-05-01T15:47:24.513-07:00"There was nothing more the orc could tell me..."There was nothing more the orc could tell me." Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-30132288047784457902017-05-01T15:34:49.064-07:002017-05-01T15:34:49.064-07:00“This has been an interesting exercise in percepti...“This has been an interesting exercise in perception and well... After a little nap, I ended up interpreting his response as…”<br /><br />Swop or an “LOTR/The Hobbit” orc… What’s the difference, really? Simply Swop the orc's words below, and you have the right answer, keeping in mind that both accounts are fictitious - both Swop's and that of the orc. Needless to say, my own meanings in this specific context must not become a fundamentalist's feast. <br /><br />So, without engaging in said feast when contemplating this case, the orc represents odium. In other words, when I read “LOTR” or “The Hobbit,” or when I spot and analyze stories from the Bible, I do not favor or choose their literal interpretations. Following this train of thought, when Thranduil decapitates the orc in this particular scene, I do not think of it as a literal beheading of an orc. Thranduil seeks to expel the claws of acrid hate, mockery, derisive hissing and mordant destruction. Again, similar to the Bible, J.R.R. Tolkien meant “LOTR” and “The Hobbit” to be read on more than one level. Yet again, it is fiction.<br /> <br />https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h318jKI9uC0<br /><br />Tolkien was also an impassioned linguist, and certainly not one to be taken literally. <br /><br />I hope this explanation helps, Tauriel. :) And, of course, another elucidating nap. WEtchnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-64069520825677719512017-05-01T10:27:40.444-07:002017-05-01T10:27:40.444-07:00“So, the interesting thing is, will it be released...“So, the interesting thing is, will it be released in China?” <br /><br />https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WUHuX0MV8-oAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-39896032177837098302017-05-01T10:20:40.386-07:002017-05-01T10:20:40.386-07:00Nǐ hǎo! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTZTkJ_Lkr...Nǐ hǎo! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTZTkJ_LkrQ<br /><br />One-on-one dialogue. I think some people fear the idea and practice of doing one-on-one communications or private exchanges. Why? In my world, I have yet to find out. Honestly. <br /><br />"What else appeals to me? I like discerning and hearing that a partner is willing to do one thing every day that scares him.”<br /><br />“Pondering cholera, yes, I like immersing myself into a dicey, experimental and pivotal cholera epidemic from time to time.”<br /><br />“So, the interesting thing is, will it be released in China?” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uv-Y1OHr1uo<br /><br />“Yes, it is a guaranteed release in China.” <br /><br />“Definitely not an ordinary mortal.” <br /><br />https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uv-Y1OHr1uoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-7530078699737758162017-05-01T09:32:28.033-07:002017-05-01T09:32:28.033-07:00The fear factor. Why did people fear him?
http:/...The fear factor. Why did people fear him? <br /><br />http://i.onionstatic.com/avclub/5404/7/16x9/960.jpg<br /><br />Once, someone even told him that he was too smart for his own good. https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/55/3a/c0/553ac0291b7161d929e489f6e4f39b28.jpg<br /><br />“I told him our customers are smarter than that. They won't buy it. I believed in you.<br /><br />But he insisted. Bizarre. <br /><br />So, we tested it out at one location, against my better judgment.” http://www.indiewire.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/the-incredible-hulk.jpg?w=680<br /><br />“Do you know how much it costs us to make a Unicorn Frappuccino? <br /><br />Nothing.” http://mashable.com/2017/04/22/stop-buying-the-unicorn-frappuccino/#6gj9K3rL8aqr<br /><br />The fear factor? - “Our baristas are begging you not to buy this monstrosity. It has made their lives hell. You are all ants and I am a boy with a magnifying glass, gone mad with power.” <br /><br />http://powet.tv/powetblog/wp-content/uploads/2007/04/ednortonhulk.jpg<br /><br />And… M.E.eeeeeeeeeee!! Aesthetics, the user-friendly component, easy on the eyes, remember? Hell's bells, it makes me look scary. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-33067112676637342032017-04-29T12:20:04.655-07:002017-04-29T12:20:04.655-07:00Thanks for your replies anon, WEtch and Anon 10:46...Thanks for your replies anon, WEtch and Anon 10:46. I've been pondering these things, it's been helpful - appreciated. (I had a little freak-out myself and that's been on my mind.)<br /><br />I'll be out riding for much of the morning and will respond later :)<br /><br />anon, your sentence about them preparing you to accept them... I have a few things to say on that topic.Northhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09244806273774124428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-65449772013516220912017-04-29T10:46:35.975-07:002017-04-29T10:46:35.975-07:00“The seduction was like a creative masterpiece tha...“The seduction was like a creative masterpiece that he wanted to perfect."<br /><br />A creative masterpiece that he wanted to perfect. Your choice of words is eye-catching, so I must comment. This directorial formula and its idealistic, extraordinarily faithful approach, sounds like Christian Faure’s technique in “Un Amour à Taire” (2005). <br /><br />“Elusivity. Must have an escape route. All the time” <br /><br />You’ve mentioned the emergence of triggers. Your inkling reminded me of a tragic scene, or a devastating flashback in my mind, from this film. Why? By sheer chance and trigger-anatomy, I suppose. http://dvdinfo.be/images/reviews/3874-4.jpg<br /><br />Although he was not a director, Philip K. Dick, a prolific, transcendental author, seemed to aspire toward perfecting the concepts of memory modification and gazing into “the yet to transpire.” Elusiveness and ambiguity are also integrated into these catchy themes. http://www.media3.hw-static.com/wp-content/uploads/paycheck-movie-still-ben-affleck_1737299-305x400.jpeg<br /><br />What will the future bring, or, better yet, is there a true time to come?http://www.cinema52.com/2013/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/Paycheck-Question.png <br /><br />K. Dick corroborated and chewed over his experiences and allegiance in a private journal he called his "exegesis,” parts of which were later printed and circulated as “The Exegesis of Philip K. Dick.” The ultimate novel he wrote was “The Transmigration of Timothy Archer.” <br /><br />"He wanted me to respond to it and on the days I didn't, he would actually say it disappointed him.”<br /><br />Timothy Archer was published posthumously. <br /><br />What does the above have to do with sociopathy? You decide, North. After all, you are the canvasser, here. <br /><br />A brief note to M.E.: Aesthetically-speaking, being able to embed the linked images would have enhanced and visually-correlated my presentation. Also, it would have been easier on the eyes of the reader. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-65856978505307162552017-04-29T03:56:16.918-07:002017-04-29T03:56:16.918-07:00Beauty is truth. Justice is mercy. Beauty is truth. Justice is mercy. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-85059132981419515422017-04-28T09:14:09.775-07:002017-04-28T09:14:09.775-07:00My post is a response to the link north posted abo...My post is a response to the link north posted about the fear of no. I get this but with me i there is also something like a longing to be invisible. This is something that i believe has to do with growing up with a sociopath sibling and being a sort of reflection of them. anonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171208907687415100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-38052622339034013912017-04-28T08:06:29.472-07:002017-04-28T08:06:29.472-07:00hey anon, why should they envy you, because you do...hey anon, why should they envy you, because you don't care what others think? or be fascinated or amazed because of this. you are not the only one who has his own thoughts and doesn't care what others think. you are also not the only one who is self concious. actually i think it's quite stupid to do not care at all (about what people think). "It doesnt matter if i am booed off the stage or if i recieve a standing ovation." citicism (if it is constructive) should be seen as opportunity to improve or overthink one's actions/ideas etc...<br /><br />aliceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-84936690720861498202017-04-27T21:42:20.254-07:002017-04-27T21:42:20.254-07:00“This has been an interesting exercise in percepti...“This has been an interesting exercise in perception and well, a leap of faith. After a little nap, I ended up interpreting his response as more along the lines of him actually trusting me a bit more. He explained what had "triggered",<br /><br />What I find most interesting is that both my fears and his fears have remained the same over time. I am afraid he will leave and he is afraid I will try to control him. Neither of these fears is based on the behaviour of the other. He didn't leave me; I left him. I've never tried to limit his freedom or control his behaviour. This is how the classic avoidant / anxious* pairing plays out.”<br /><br />Your interpretation is definitely plausible, North, having been taken to that defining point or realization upon the aftermath of his trigger. Your insightful construal or presentation of what had actually occurred is quite impressive in my eyes. <br /><br />You most likely left after he had been deeply triggered by something that affected his thinking at that particular point in time. He did not mean to react as he did, and yet, it happened. You experienced fear or confusion as a result of that unfortunate juncture, and, consequently, decided to leave. His words or behavior seemed uncharacteristic to you, having been used to seeing and experiencing him in only one specific way. The absence of predictability in that moment, coupled with the intensity of his triggered reaction, had made you feel fearful and confounded. Once he rationally transcended the event, I am quite sure that he gained insight from it and shifted his behavior. On the whole, I intuit that he would do so for you, North, and… only you, since you seem to be so adept in interpreting his communications and atypical behavior.<br /> <br />In all likelihood, he does not want to leave, either. Based on your exchanges, it is evident that he also likes you quite a lot. The interchange is mutual. <br /><br />“But as you kinda say, it's all very unexpected behaviour. I had no idea how to deal with it.”<br /><br />Believe me when I tell you that not many people do, and yet, you are on the right track, developing a number of exceptional interpretations. There is something rather atypical about you as well, since you comprehend his peculiar ways. Placing and finding yourself inside his mind does not come with great difficulty.<br /><br />Do you really believe that he does not seek a connection? I think he does, but all of it must come with trust and some type of mutual familiarity in his world. <br /><br />“What is the appeal for you? For me, the appeal of ambiguity is the possibility for creation.”<br /><br />The appeal for me is creating something that has not been done before, and that is what I desire from a liaison or a relationship as well. What else appeals to me? I like discerning and hearing that a partner is willing to do one thing every day that scares him. There is much attraction for me in that, deriving considerable strength, stimulus and breathtaking inspiration from it. <br /><br />“I had a question about these extreme fantasies. Do you think they ask for them in part because it's something unique they would have with us, something they would have and no one else?”<br /><br />Yes, that is the unique factor, I believe. It can only transpire and materialize with one person, since it must be one-of-a-kind. If you do not give up on something you truly believe in, you will find a path. All great things come to pass. There will always be better moments, hours and days. <br /><br />“The first time around, during our affair, he did plan things out, but it was more like theatre. The seduction was like a creative masterpiece that he wanted to perfect.”<br /><br />Why did you perceive it as seduction? You are mentioning perfection, theatre and, to my mind, a way of being or personal expression for him. Is this foreign to you, and was this "seduction," perhaps, something that you feared from his side? <br /><br />https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Abwu07y1tLM ... And, it features Rossini. WEtchnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-70726447075891772292017-04-27T13:20:14.170-07:002017-04-27T13:20:14.170-07:00North your first paragraph is so familiar. They we...North your first paragraph is so familiar. They went so far as to say they wanted everything to be perfect. I found it sweet but strange. Also i know you dont mean to control him. I mean relate in that i felt that. I'm not sure where it came from exactly. There had been some talk of control. And i always found it to be a little off. And yes i agree we find safety in connection and that connection is made poasible thru trust. The whole thing about sociopaths knowing something to be true but still not trusting it- choosing to not trust it has been a bit of an epiphany for me. I feel so much was meant to prepare me to accept things about them. But so much of what made me like them was who i thought they were. And i do accept who they are but it just changed things.. anonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171208907687415100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-85335961944965390312017-04-27T12:11:27.810-07:002017-04-27T12:11:27.810-07:00Wow, that does sound odd. The first time around, d...Wow, that does sound odd. The first time around, during our affair, he did plan things out, but it was more like theatre. The seduction was like a creative masterpiece that he wanted to perfect. He wanted me to respond to it and on the days I didn't, he would actually say it disappointed him.<br /><br />These days it's more direct. He doesn't create those "scenarios" anymore. And sometimes, as predicted by Cirk, he offers me the chance to express my ideas (I honestly don't have many and from experience, it's definitely more effective to wait for the offer. Several mini disasters when I didn't give him warning.)<br /><br />This has been an interesting exercise in perception and well, a leap of faith. After a little nap, I ended up interpreting his response as more along the lines of him actually trusting me a bit more. He explained what had "triggered", but he did do it in a way that felt like he was trying to box me in. But when I woke, the idea was already in my mind to treat what he was saying at face value. I asked him what practical things I could do to put him more at ease. <br /><br />> (that was an interesting exercise WEtch, thanks for prompting it. It might otherwise have taken me a few more days to reach equilibrium and see things clearly.)<br /><br />What I find most interesting is that both my fears and his fears have remained the same over time. I am afraid he will leave and he is afraid I will try to control him. Neither of these fears is based on the behaviour of the other. He didn't leave me; I left him. I've never tried to limit his freedom or control his behaviour. This is how the classic avoidant / anxious* pairing plays out.<br /><br />I think it's a much more helpful lens to put on my relationship at least. It's just that psychopaths, operating from a completely different social paradigm, do really, really unexpected things to ensure their safety by secure advantage. And to not "lose". <em>Being in a safe, strong position is more important to them than connection - which is so odd to us, because we feel that connection is what puts us in a strong position.</em> Typically:<br /><br />- Timing is a key lever. Key. It's about surprise, sleight of hand, the purpose of which is to constrain the other party's choice<br /><br />- Misinformation. Again, this is about choice constraint. I think we can view any sort of lying by anyone in this way, but it's of particular importance to psychopaths. Misinformation is a tactic to keep their position hidden. They don't think about it as a moral or unfair thing... that's what they need to do in order to protect themselves.<br /><br />- Elusivity. Must have an escape route. All the time. <br /><br />Tons of stuff that everyone knows about. <br /><br />I'm not saying they necessarily feel these are the reasons they do things. I wouldn't have a clue what they experience. It just seems to marry up this way and has been a much more <em>useful</em> framework for me.<br /><br />So that's why I don't view him as contemptible. It's a different way of operating. Maybe it's very difficult for a psychopath to understand that they can be genuinely liked. But I do like him really quite a lot.<br /><br />*it's an oversimplification. We can each be both anxious and avoidant at different times. Northhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09244806273774124428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-38959485952685487952017-04-27T06:14:19.580-07:002017-04-27T06:14:19.580-07:00Yes, they were into some kinky stuff. And i like k...Yes, they were into some kinky stuff. And i like kinky stuff as much as the next anon....but i didnt like the almost cult like religous fervor that surrounded them. Everything was just this long drawn out thing to make one completely brain dead- or so it seemed to me. I was living in the lovely technicolor dreamworld and was awoken by chants of "join us." that wasnt what i signed on for. At all. In a strange way i can relate with what *_** said about "you just want to control me." i think i made the same statement. Its all so strange...anonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171208907687415100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-61719110742550551542017-04-27T05:20:37.324-07:002017-04-27T05:20:37.324-07:00That's how it played out the first time around...That's how it played out the first time around for me too. He said once he wanted me to feel jealous... my response was typically "go to the red light district then"<br /><br />I think I've grown up a bit, lol. But as you kinda say, it's all very unexpected behaviour. I had no idea how to deal with it.Northhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09244806273774124428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-92122085032629990642017-04-27T05:08:42.018-07:002017-04-27T05:08:42.018-07:00Looking back i believe they didnt want to let me g...Looking back i believe they didnt want to let me go but they felt they were loosing control. I feel talking about others was a bit of a warning to me-to fall in line or else. And also to make me feel"less than" as they say. All of this, of course, went over my head. anonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171208907687415100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-60609883732646437732017-04-27T05:03:53.963-07:002017-04-27T05:03:53.963-07:00Hhmmm, I see. Yes, that's a useful distinction...Hhmmm, I see. Yes, that's a useful distinction to call out. <br /><br />Is it something along these lines you were calling out with the anecdote about your sister?Northhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09244806273774124428noreply@blogger.com