tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post5651861777255150954..comments2024-03-28T00:33:57.308-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: Raised by wolvesUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger69125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-90114910827782836362016-04-03T17:57:03.959-07:002016-04-03T17:57:03.959-07:00TIPS ON HOW TO GET YOUR EX BACK OR SOLVE YOUR DIFF...<br />TIPS ON HOW TO GET YOUR EX BACK OR SOLVE YOUR DIFFERENT PROBLEMS<br /><br />Getting to contact DR. EWAN on these details +2347052958531 or via email at covenantsolutiontemple@gmail.com gave me a very huge joy because this details were not just useful but through DR EWAN my relationship that was heading to a break down was restored and i am proud to say it on this site that i have been successfully married to the man that i have always wanted to marry. You can still fulfill plans to marry the person of your heart desires by contacting DR. EWAN through those details above or Are you going through a mid-life crisis for example divorce,miscarriage,can't find love no need to worry covenantsolutiontemple@gmail.com can help you with any personal need.many people will try to sugar coat the truth and give you false hope but not Dr.Ewan he will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth and keep your hopes high and alive so, please don't waste your time and hope on somebody who doesn't deserve it contact him today @ covenantsolutiontemple@gmail.com+2347052958531. thanks<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-20373144369814840832015-03-24T21:02:29.681-07:002015-03-24T21:02:29.681-07:00OMG!!,I am out here to spreed this good news to th...OMG!!,I am out here to spreed this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex husband back. My name is Natasha Johnson,i live in Florida,USA,and I'm happily married to a lovely and caring husband ,with three kids. A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my husband .so terrible that he took the case to court for a divorce.he said that he never wanted to stay with me again,and that he didn't love me anymore.So he packed out of the house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get him back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and he confirmed it that he has made his decision,and he never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my husband .So i explained every thing to him,so he told me that the only way i can get my husband back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for him too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow his advice. Then he gave me the email address of the spell caster whom he visited.{bravespellcaster@gmail.com}. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address he gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my husband back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my husband who didn't call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that he was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster. So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website { http://enchantedscents.tripod.com/lovespell/},if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to "bringing your ex back. So thanks to the Dr Brave for bringing back my husband ,and brought great joy to my family once again. { bravespellcaster@gmail.com }, Thanks..Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12248487868082359150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-63750764076824815712015-03-08T19:59:41.253-07:002015-03-08T19:59:41.253-07:00"Unpleasantries?" Would you care to elab..."Unpleasantries?" Would you care to elaborate? I am curious.<br /><br />I am not familiar with these pieces. I listen to classic rock more than to classical music- but I do like Ravel's Bolero very much. <br /><br />I will listen to these, tonight. Thank-you for sharing them.Anoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-52717927266029151122015-03-07T09:03:54.342-08:002015-03-07T09:03:54.342-08:00A,
I’ve had some “unpleasantries” to handle, and...A, <br /><br />I’ve had some “unpleasantries” to handle, and that is my reason for having been away for the past three days. <br /><br />You have phrased the following in a manner that has given me more insight about you:<br /><br />“Could not even these emotions be sublimated through the composition of music, resulting in something dark, hard or even wrathful, in a manner that assuages their potency and divests them of their capacity to harm others? The vicarious indulgence of these themes might provide a common outlet for their harmless expression, transforming them into a musical canvas of sorts, to be created by the inspired few, and appreciated by those with a taste for their strange beauty. (My unhealthy fascination for dark things is revealed here, for those interested in learning to read people.)”<br /><br />The sheer act of composing and performing music is altogether cathartic when it stems from one’s depths, or from a life experience that has enhanced one’s perspectives, or inherently changed one’s intuitive and finely conceptual connections to people, diverse places or immediate surroundings. You speak of a few concepts and tastes which I can understand on a level that has shaped me as an individual, and on yet another level, which I can relate to when delving into a more increasing profundity of expression. You are drawn to strange beauty, hard or wrathful emotions, seen in a darker and more transforming fashion. These thoughts bring "Gaspard de la Nuit," to my mind; it is a poignant and moving piano piece by Maurice Ravel. Hector Berlioz’s “Symphonie Fantastique” is also a distinct composition that connects to your main point, as well as a larger suite of piano pieces called Musica Ricercata (I especially like these due to their distinctive musical intensity), and, certainly, Liszt’s "Mephisto Waltz." You might also find John Williams' "Duel of Fates" quite appealing. You would most likely understand what I really mean if you are familiar with these pieces, or if you choose to listen to them. <br /><br />Having said the above, and now that I understand how you view this part of yourself, I would like to assert that the expression in itself, as well as the high impact you have expounded upon, would not be negative. In order for you to better comprehend my point, I was not referring to music when I said so, because I don’t view musical compositions as harmful in people. There are some pieces in the beautifully musical world that are truly unique in their expression (both dark and light), seeming as though they’ve been craftily embedded into the sheer fibers and revealing surface of a splendid canvas. In my mind, strange beauty can be found in the most unexpected places. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-85879106503784186542015-03-06T03:39:35.613-08:002015-03-06T03:39:35.613-08:00I think you can gather enough from this website th...I think you can gather enough from this website that he is not capable of feeling what you feel. He's just not wired that way. What he can read on your face and mirror back in a split second is a power you couldn't imagine ever using because of your empathy and conscience. That's why it's so unexpected and so powerful. He's sending the exact version of your love that you are looking for.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-72969749441080963482015-03-03T01:17:44.460-08:002015-03-03T01:17:44.460-08:00Discovering your rhythm, and actually feeling the ...Discovering your rhythm, and actually feeling the beat of music is the most original, "untaught" experience. Composing your own rhythm, notes and beat, and bringing it out there, is the direct opposite of the most negative projection of oneself. Fitly."<br /><br />^I just re-read that and really absorbed it. What a very thought-provoking comment.<br /><br />I have an excellent, intuitive sense of rhythm, but I am not a musician. I cannot sing, nor am I proficient at playing an instrument. Yet listening to good music is one of my favorite things to do.<br /><br />I'd like to call your attention to the following statement: <br /><br />"Composing your own rhythm, notes and beat, and bringing it out there, is the direct opposite of the most negative projection of oneself"<br /><br />What do *you* think constitutes the most negative projection of oneself? <br /><br />I might posit negative emotions and actions, such as malice and rage, directed towards others.<br /><br />Could not even these emotions be sublimated through the composition of music, resulting in something dark, hard or even wrathful, in a manner that assuages their potency and divests them of their capacity to harm others? The vicarious indulgence of these themes might provide a common outlet for their harmless expression, transforming them into a musical canvas of sorts, to be created by the inspired few, and appreciated by those with a taste for their strange beauty. (My unhealthy fascination for dark things is revealed here, for those interested in learning to read people.)<br /><br />Or does that energy rather feed itself in a self-destructive loop, in which the fires of rage and malice are perpetually kindled and spread?<br /><br />What do you say, musicians? How cathartic is the act of composing and performing music? Would you say that the expression of "negativity" through this medium, as I defined it, and according to whatever other ways you conceive of the term, always has a harmful impact, or do you lean towards it being a uniquely amoral channel for the harmless expression of a palette of human emotion? <br /><br />Personally? I wouldn't know. I love music of every genre, and appreciate the various forms of energy it conveys, but I rarely respond to it emotionally, except in a very superficial manner, in that some songs or groups remind me of certain people. I also like the "vibe" of certain bands that I listen to frequently. (If Green Day is my husband's band, the Chili Peppers are mine. :)<br /><br />There used to be a poster here who liked to associate regular posters with theme songs. <br /><br />You still here, Themes?Anoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-49072316074013587772015-03-03T00:10:15.431-08:002015-03-03T00:10:15.431-08:00I would like to contribute and say that I am a per...I would like to contribute and say that I am a performance artist. All of my dance instructors have been sociopaths. They would not have had a professional career if they couldn't move or carry a beat. <br />I think this is a separate issue all together, just like anyone can be tone-def, have two left feet or just be uncoordinated. I don't think it's a sociopath thing.<br />The sociopaths I know are exceptionally gifted with flawless attention to detail in both dancing and musc/drumming. <br />In fact, it is shown on many sites that psychopaths are attracted to drumbeats. So I don't think this argument is valid. sorry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-46078945584161298202015-03-03T00:03:54.810-08:002015-03-03T00:03:54.810-08:00*Too*TooAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-26854878957041758042015-03-03T00:03:21.631-08:002015-03-03T00:03:21.631-08:002.14pm I think you are right. It's strong atta...2.14pm I think you are right. It's strong attachment to the familiar and my previous identity. I don't even think about narcissism or not. Just home and family. I get along with them easily, we have fun. The problem is I have sought psychological help for this only to find two therapists were psychopaths two. you realise the case when you're describing a dangerous situation to them and they totally dismiss it. There's just that alarm missing.<br /><br />8.23 And of course I don't know their intentions. I have no idea what it must be like to have no emotion. I am looking at a mask for god's sake. I can't be expected to become a psychopath.<br /><br />I just wanted to know if this guy is capable of genuinely feeling that love for me or if it was just an act.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-50068360400757954962015-03-02T20:23:00.913-08:002015-03-02T20:23:00.913-08:00You're "super empathetic" but can...You're "super empathetic" but can't figure out what they want? What their intentions are? Go figure!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-57938895358402835432015-03-02T14:14:34.331-08:002015-03-02T14:14:34.331-08:00Sam Vaknin would probably describe you as a covert...Sam Vaknin would probably describe you as a covert or inverted narcissist in that you crave relationships with narcissists. Although I don't think that anyone who is capable of empathy can ever be described as a narcissist, covert or otherwise. Maybe you were brought up in a narcissistic family with narcissistic values and you are simply craving the familiar. Some deprogramming, reprogramming required!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-39715862310781364632015-03-02T12:24:51.235-08:002015-03-02T12:24:51.235-08:00Imperator,
Pithy (with an "h"). I have...Imperator, <br /><br />Pithy (with an "h"). I have an uncommon sense of humor. As it were, I find that not everyone understands it.<br /><br />Aside from that, the tableau you’ve painted is, once again and at best, part of a far-flung branch of Abstract Expressionism, or a distant form of Surrealism. If I were you, I would work on grasping the meaning of words, nuances and ideas, along with on-point characteristics/traits of a person. While on this journey, which would give you more insight about me, I would explore other areas, and would consider developing some accuracy and skill for Art Deco, Mannerism or Modular Constructivism. What’s your Pointillism and modify your Synchromism to avert Stuckism would also be a part of a more befitting endeavor on your part. A considerable brain-charge of Precisionism would not hurt either. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-13988084244057151752015-03-02T11:25:25.275-08:002015-03-02T11:25:25.275-08:00Anon 11:04,
Yep, you're a Narcissist. You...Anon 11:04,<br /><br />Yep, you're a Narcissist. You're using all of the classic Narcissistic tacks in argument, including gaslighting and blame-shifting. Note how when I say something you don't like, I'm being "inappropriate," but when you say something I don't like, you shift the blame back onto me, telling me that it's something I should discuss during therapy. You really couldn't have penned a more Narcissistic reply if you had been trying to caricature someone with NPD, which I think you might find interesting to read about, if you haven't already done so.<br /><br />You might also be an ACON with Narcissistic traits --- an Adult Child of a Narcissist. I've interacted with several and they communicate much as you do. Sort of like someone with NPD without the sense of humor.Imperatornoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-17692469361142800332015-03-02T11:04:10.841-08:002015-03-02T11:04:10.841-08:00Imperator,
Having grasped the "purpose"...Imperator, <br /><br />Having grasped the "purpose" of your comment, I certainly did not think that you would care about the inappropriateness of your own statement, as well as about the inappropriateness of your entire comment to me. However, I found it appropriate to respond earlier, having given you a summary of my real views on the “tableau” you had “painted,” so to speak. Whether or not you value my opinion, and this is the crux of the matter, along with the primary reason for this particular reply, I deemed it rightful to paint a more accurate picture of my own beliefs on everything that you chose to discuss. You mentioned Narcissistic traits, but, having analyzed and understood the main scope of your comment, you truly didn’t sound as though you had the right information, or that you comprehended enough to state so about me. By the time (sometime in the future, after knowing more about me) you apply the same thinking to your codependent traits conclusions, since I am quite sure that it is not happening at the moment, you will have finally understood something about me. <br /><br />“I also thought it was interesting that you felt the need to one-up me on our respective professional accomplishments. In general, you seemed like you were somehow needing to justify your own choices despite viewing mine very poorly. That doesn't quite make sense. If you view yourself as so much more functional than me, you ought to come across as much more secure when describing your own choices.”<br /><br />Honestly, most of your thoughts on the above had not crossed my mind as I replied to your comment earlier, but since you’ve mentioned them now, this would be an important area for you to consider discussing during therapy, if you choose to embark on this path. Being amoral and needing to charm others in a work/professional environment are poor choices. <br /><br />You wrote that individuals with BPD don’t change, but then you also wrote that they learn. If you really think about your words, you would realize that learning something useful brings about change in a person, which can be a good thing. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-79144728871883689212015-03-02T09:35:37.161-08:002015-03-02T09:35:37.161-08:00Anon 2:49 and 2:50,
I found a couple of things ab...Anon 2:49 and 2:50,<br /><br />I found a couple of things about your replies to me interesting. One was the assumption that I would (or perhaps ought to) care whether or not you found something "inappropriate." That signals to me that either you assume that I value societal codes of conduct (which I follow only to the extent that it benefits me), or that I would for whatever reason value your opinion, despite never having met you, which indicates that you may have some Narcissistic traits yourself. You may also have some codependent traits, which is also consistent with the attempt to "help" someone else in a very pushy, hectoring way (because the codependent believes they have to save others).<br /><br />I also thought it was interesting that you felt the need to one-up me on our respective professional accomplishments. In general, you seemed like you were somehow needing to justify your own choices despite viewing mine very poorly. That doesn't quite make sense. If you view yourself as so much more functional than me, you ought to come across as much more secure when describing your own choices.<br /><br />On the subject of therapy, persons with NPD, BPD, and AsPD generally don't change very much, especially in terms of what's going on inside. Borderlines learn DBT, which helps them function outwardly, given that Borderlines tend to be outwardly destructive in a way that harms both others and themselves. Narcissists and the various strains of psychopaths/sociopaths don't really change much from everything I've read and heard anecdotally. This may be because the hardware is damaged, sort of like soda being spilled on a laptop; who knows for sure.Imperatornoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-62864585206199054092015-03-02T04:37:07.860-08:002015-03-02T04:37:07.860-08:00I am the author of this post and I thank you for p...I am the author of this post and I thank you for putting it there and for all the wisdom it attracted. It gave me a bit of faith back.<br /><br />Yes, it's 100% true. I didn't even go into the fact my friendship group of girls are also sociopaths. There are so many around. The funny thing is that sociopaths don't even realise the others are too. I guess the world perspective is just so different as to what they are focused on.<br /><br />I get exhausted by the power struggles even though the people say "I didn't mean it like that". After a while you just want to be understood and respected.<br /><br />I was trying to understand how this guy sees me. If it's purely selfish and wanting a fan, we would struggle. I feel like he wants me near him because I know him and will protect him without judging. But he uses the player energy to put me down, boasting about other girls in this tug of war game. I just feel like I have something over him and it's an endless game I can't step out of.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-65621957792238767082015-03-02T03:00:04.831-08:002015-03-02T03:00:04.831-08:00Continued from 4:07 PM
One can have a husband or ...Continued from 4:07 PM<br /><br />One can have a husband or a wife and be a successful writer or attorney at the same time. The same applies to other professions or personal endeavors. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-43103019721045987022015-03-02T02:50:37.235-08:002015-03-02T02:50:37.235-08:00To Imperator - continued...
I believe that being ...To Imperator - continued...<br /><br />I believe that being in a loving and long-lasting relationship is a personal choice, and being in love takes trust, genuineness and understanding. I, for one, do want to get married and to have a family. Being a husband or a wife is not just having a “role to fill,” as you have phrased it. It means wanting to be there, and it encompasses love, authenticity and commitment. <br /><br />“I don't really need sex and I prefer auto-stimulation with pornography as a stimulant. I find that sex with another person is more trouble than it's worth, and I guess for most people it's really about being close to someone else, which I don't need. When I'm close to someone physically I either feel nothing or I feel trapped. I don't want kids or pets or anything I have to take care of.”<br /><br />Being close to someone, as well as being physically intimate, is essential in life, and I find that the desire and drive come to me naturally. The fact that you feel nothing or trapped means that you have some psychologically issues that you really need to work on, along with the need for going through some useful therapy. I love kids and pets, and would like to have both in my life. All of that comes with great care. <br /><br />“I do get lonely and bored and I want attention or companionship on occasion. I think I would get bored with any one person if they were around for too long though. I get occasional desires to be close to someone but it goes away quickly.”<br /><br />It is part of human nature, or just being human, to want companionship. You would not get bored with a person that you love and trust, or with a person that means a great deal to you. However, as I mentioned above, you sound like you need therapy in all of these areas. Afterward, you would be a much happier and loving person. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-41741856710739227052015-03-02T02:49:09.858-08:002015-03-02T02:49:09.858-08:00Imperator,
I am the same Anon who wrote the comm...Imperator, <br /><br />I am the same Anon who wrote the comments at 8:23 AM and 1:05 PM. As you can see, our views on love, being in an intimate relationship, and professional life/goals are quite different. <br /><br />“I have a career that gives me a title that sounds really cool, where I don't have to do a whole lot, where people have to obey me within my professional world, and where the people that I don't have control over in my professional life can be won over with charm. I get higher marks from my superiors than I deserve because I am charming, amoral, and very intelligent.”<br /><br />I would never have a professional life/career as you have described, because I truly like using my brain to achieve a lot without being amoral, or without having to act in a charming way to achieve success. People don’t “obey” in a professional environment. It is their choice to be there, and I find your statement rather inappropriate. My career has changed, and I am presently working on a project which will make me more than “fairly” successful. <br /><br />“I live in a very sterile urban apartment and have no "loved ones," per se. I deliberately moved as far away as possible from my family when I was younger without really understanding why I was running away from them, essentially. I don't really want to be close to anyone and I keep a fan club of fair weather friends to hang out with for entertainment and to seem "normal." Now that I am in my late 30s and established, people are starting to ask questions about why I won't settle down, why I don't have a girlfriend or wife, why I don't want a family, or spend the holidays with anyone. People think it's odd, and a part of me wants to find a wife to essentially "fill the role" that people expect me to fill.”<br /><br />If you could understand your reasons for moving away from your family, you would be able to understand yourself better and then work on those relationships. I value family, and I am close to all of my family members. Not being close to anyone, including your friends, sounds like a lonely life to me, and calling them “a fan club of fair weather friends” that you only “hang out with for entertainment and to seem ‘normal’,” is a part of that experience/thinking which is unhealthy for you. Having said that, you can change it by looking inwardly, and by gaining insight about yourself and others. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-54420724013706598622015-03-01T22:20:03.130-08:002015-03-01T22:20:03.130-08:00I'm either a Narcissist or a high-functioning ...I'm either a Narcissist or a high-functioning sociopath, depending on how the lines are drawn, and I don't really want to be in a romantic or sexual or otherwise intimate relationship.<br /><br />I am in my late 30s and am fairly professionally successful. I have a career that gives me a title that sounds really cool, where I don't have to do a whole lot, where people have to obey me within my professional world, and where the people that I don't have control over in my professional life can be won over with charm. I get higher marks from my superiors than I deserve because I am charming, amoral, and very intelligent. I have figured out a way to ensure that I will have a steady stream of financial resources coming to me on a regular basis for the rest of my life.<br /><br />I live in a very sterile urban apartment and have no "loved ones," per se. I deliberately moved as far away as possible from my family when I was younger without really understanding why I was running away from them, essentially. I don't really want to be close to anyone and I keep a fan club of fair weather friends to hang out with for entertainment and to seem "normal." Now that I am in my late 30s and established, people are starting to ask questions about why I won't settle down, why I don't have a girlfriend or wife, why I don't want a family, or spend the holidays with anyone. People think it's odd, and a part of me wants to find a wife to essentially "fill the role" that people expect me to fill.<br /><br />I don't really need sex and I prefer auto-stimulation with pornography as a stimulant. I find that sex with another person is more trouble than it's worth, and I guess for most people it's really about being close to someone else, which I don't need. When I'm close to someone physically I either feel nothing or I feel trapped. I don't want kids or pets or anything I have to take care of.<br /><br />I do get lonely and bored and I want attention or companionship on occasion. I think I would get bored with any one person if they were around for too long though. I get occasional desires to be close to someone but it goes away quickly. Imperatornoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-2571866512102918772015-03-01T21:23:07.710-08:002015-03-01T21:23:07.710-08:00Lol at least ur clever enough to make me laugh. LB...Lol at least ur clever enough to make me laugh. LBC its like BBC hahadrwnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-85670688267338138042015-03-01T20:28:57.311-08:002015-03-01T20:28:57.311-08:00[squint] ...oh yeah - I thought they looked famil...[squint] ...oh yeah - I thought they looked familiar...HLHallerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18050618063787907688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-56158806574801567142015-03-01T19:56:01.156-08:002015-03-01T19:56:01.156-08:00"Intellectually superior" folks are gene..."Intellectually superior" folks are generally able to produce coherent thoughts. You can't even punctuate a sentence correctly- thereby confirming for everyone that *both* your heads are rather small. :)Anoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-24170565167514907942015-03-01T19:43:04.809-08:002015-03-01T19:43:04.809-08:00Are you copying again from web sites?Are you copying again from web sites?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-40043987867965211622015-03-01T17:49:33.447-08:002015-03-01T17:49:33.447-08:00@A
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