tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post5118218727475869875..comments2024-03-28T00:33:57.308-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: Relationship with a sociopath: breaking up is hard to doUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger94125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-85677266214597525242017-06-18T21:01:04.831-07:002017-06-18T21:01:04.831-07:00Jane, after going out of a similar situation with ...Jane, after going out of a similar situation with my ex, I should just say I am sorry for them having to deal with someone in your situation. However, the good thing, which you might not like is that, after freeing from those ugly relationships we start understanding even much more about ourselves, why we were chosen by people like you and in the end, we will keep on being successful, happy, and even more lovely than befor, to other empaths. A cozy and warm feeling that, for our own pleasure, you may never sadly experience.<br /><br />Thanks a lot for sharing these views, it deeply enlightens our understanding. I just wonder how much of this should be handled through medicine and how much should we just blame it on nature. Mostly when it is related to childhood trauma for example.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-44358306881364735742016-03-15T04:04:12.480-07:002016-03-15T04:04:12.480-07:00I'm from Manchester uk. I want to share my tes...I'm from Manchester uk. 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To hell with the government and their insane policy, he have a medication that is hundred percent assured to cure genital herpes and some other deadly diseases ,you don't need to spend so much money anymoreDEBBIEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06663241994425285402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-2759027604043763642016-02-13T11:50:39.298-08:002016-02-13T11:50:39.298-08:00Cast a Love spells, marriage spells, breakup spell...Cast a Love spells, marriage spells, breakup spells & bring back lost love spells. Witchcraft love spells, voodoo love spells, black magic love spells, binding love spells, marriage love spells, white magic love spells, divorce spells, spells for lost love, love spells that work fast, love spells for men, love spells for women, love potions, love muti, love rings, witchcraft spells, wiccan love spells, wicca love spells, traditional healing, divination & voodoo magic for love, email Dr Olorun Agbalazzy now: Olorunoduduwaspiritualtemple@gmail.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00249101632700341888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-31842864772230974462015-11-29T21:56:48.172-08:002015-11-29T21:56:48.172-08:00Yeah, dish it but can't take it is the name of...Yeah, dish it but can't take it is the name of the game. I've actually rejected my husband 3 times, and caused a lot of narcissistic injury. It can be comical at times as the longer it goes on the more idiot savant his schemes. Psychopaths can be duped as easily as anyone else. Giving him false emotional information results in framing him and his accomplices without a victim.<br /><br />Don't know about helping long-term anger, but setting him up to look ridiculous has alleviated 26 years of betrayal and its attendant pain.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-88203069855195494542015-11-29T21:40:54.796-08:002015-11-29T21:40:54.796-08:00My husband worked very hard to convince me that he...My husband worked very hard to convince me that he loved me when his actions said otherwise. When I didn't buy it he had a heart attack. I don't believe the stress lasted long. He's worked hard at punishing me since. I have pushed the narco buttons, but that injury doesn't last long. No contact is the only way to regain yourself.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-79875613726993754032015-10-15T11:15:09.851-07:002015-10-15T11:15:09.851-07:00I lived with a sociopath for 6 months before I got...I lived with a sociopath for 6 months before I got out. He is a master manipulator and liar. He copies everything anyone does. He changes his political and religious views to fit the people he is around. He has multiple lovers male, female, relatives, strangers. <br /><br />His mother and several siblings have it. I thought they were just mean...now I know better. <br /><br />If you haven't lived with one or been in an intimate relationship with one, you cannot know all the ways they operate. It will seriously play on your mind.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-70175587311202287502015-10-15T11:10:05.723-07:002015-10-15T11:10:05.723-07:00I disagree. They do not like to be alone because a...I disagree. They do not like to be alone because alone represents powerlessness. My sociopathic ex was motivated by the fear of being alone, abandoned and rejected just as he was as a child. His object was children, men, women it did not matter as long as he had someone to subjegateAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-42991474991191377902015-08-22T17:54:28.365-07:002015-08-22T17:54:28.365-07:00Yes, I can identify with some of this. Recently, a...Yes, I can identify with some of this. Recently, after "kicking her out" over and over again, lmfao, she left me! This resulted in a sort of extreme emptiness, maybe the only thing we can classify as pain for us? Then it's like, my brain is trying to process the emotional response, but it can't. Headaches.. Crazy headaches.. Directly in the front part of my head, slightly above the eyes. I know what I felt for wasn't real love, more extreme obsession and admiration.. I do know that I hate that she's gone, right now at least.. The beautiful thing about being a sociopath is, in a week or two, in my world, she'll never existed. And she'll have to live with my memories for the rest of my life.. Ha.. Ha.. Ha.. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-53189940741545798582015-07-16T10:31:21.641-07:002015-07-16T10:31:21.641-07:00What do i stand for in this world without my lover...What do i stand for in this world without my lover by my side?, This was the taught that was running through my mind when my lover departed from me. You know one thing i believe in is that once you are having problems that are bringing you down God always use people to raise you up. In my case it was Dr.Zadson that was used in helping me get my lover back, Since the help of Dr.Zadson i must say that my relationship has been filled with more love and as a matter of fact my lover never does a thing without me. So you see this is the more reason why i must thank Dr.Zadson and the more reason why i must put his details on this site to enable other people contact him via email<br />eduduzadsontemple@yahoo.com Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12081660732180520288noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-35395427509193102692015-06-26T06:34:44.984-07:002015-06-26T06:34:44.984-07:00My sociopath's initials were SR and he was ori...My sociopath's initials were SR and he was originally from PA. He has three cats that he abuses and his "type" is artist women. He is tall and fit with long hair in a unique style. Stay away from him no matter how sexy, nice, and charming he seems. He killed a pet in front of me and called me "crazy" when I accused him of it. His exes are all "crazy bitches", naturally, and you will be next.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-90771080808526121822015-05-29T21:35:24.150-07:002015-05-29T21:35:24.150-07:00I am Shannon by name. Greetings to every one that ...I am Shannon by name. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my husband after three(3) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kid to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster on this address aisabulovespell@gmail.com , have help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 3 days that i will have my husband back. i believed him and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my husband. Thanks for Dr.Aisabu. His email: aisabulovespell@gmail.com ,,Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09703598877552418835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-32763122463397051632015-05-07T13:02:26.269-07:002015-05-07T13:02:26.269-07:00Unbelevable..you sound just like Liz my EXs..you s...Unbelevable..you sound just like Liz my EXs..you sicken me.Hankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07619113091481575298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-18255465489579205872015-04-16T23:47:12.509-07:002015-04-16T23:47:12.509-07:00I was married to one for 10 yrs. I divorced and he...I was married to one for 10 yrs. I divorced and he launched a child custody battle 3 yrs still going. I worked for fortune 500 cos. He had told everyone court community my daughter's friends parents I am crazy and mentally ill. Now trying to have me put in prison for contempt of court. 8x in 12 months hauled me into court after I attempted to expose him on Dr phil.<br />I almost died bcuz he refused to take me to the ER knowing I could have bled to death. And he works for LV hospital as an exec. He remarried a desperate woman w 2 twins to use her as a front to obtain custody. He goes to my hairdresser tried to purchase the home across the street from me got a court order that I have to respond to his emails within 24 hrs and other ridiculous things. Court evaluator psychologist was too unintelligent to pick up on on the traits I told her he had related to sociopathy. He demands pics of the inside of my home etc. Yet I can't get a restraining order and he threatened me. Sick...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-49278527934601457622015-04-16T23:35:15.210-07:002015-04-16T23:35:15.210-07:00U sound like my ex husband and he too is one and w...U sound like my ex husband and he too is one and we were married for 10 years. Marriage counseling dId not work. When I divorced he acted depressed and tried to buy me things and do things for me like put together my elliptical but never said he was ever sorry or loved me. He said he cannot say he loves me he can only try to show me. I do not understand how either of you can be upset since u feel no emotion.<br />Staying in the marriage only breeds more anger when u are not empathetic to us. It appears as if you do not care about us...which u don't. Why would we want this?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-32188524602684835272015-03-03T07:43:43.516-08:002015-03-03T07:43:43.516-08:00I live in united state, Two years ago i married a ...I live in united state, Two years ago i married a lady called saline, we had two children together, we were very happy to be husband and wife, so when i travel on a business trip to Brazil, i spent a year in Brazil due to my kind of business, i and my wife talked on phone all the time, we chatted on the Internet, i never knew that my wife had started cheating on me by going out with her old school friend called Mark, i never knew something was going wrong till i came back from my trip, then i and My wife started having problems, she goes out and come back late at night, she changed in a strange way that i could not endure, i tried to do everything to please her but it got worst, so one day she left the house and never came back, i tried reaching her but no way i could reach her, i never knew she had travelled with her new lover which was Mark, i wanted her so much because of the children she left for me and because i loved her so much too, because of the heart break she has put me into, i went into search of a real magic spell caster though I was scammed twice by a spell caster, but I never relented in my search because I wanted a happy life with my wife, So one morning i saw a testimony about a spell caster Esango Priest, so i contacted him and to my greatest surprise this esangopriest@gmail.com made life manful for me again, my wife came back to me after 3 days of a love spell from this Esango Priest, i took her back and I am now settled with my wife by the magic power of Esango Priest .<br />Malcolm franks'Malcolmnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-65501660106649110732015-02-21T11:59:18.336-08:002015-02-21T11:59:18.336-08:00It is a selfish pain. I think sociopaths can feel ...It is a selfish pain. I think sociopaths can feel emotions, just related to themselves--I have a hard time empathizing with her.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-13771931222712033632015-02-17T07:45:43.229-08:002015-02-17T07:45:43.229-08:00I don't think you are a sociopath. You would ...I don't think you are a sociopath. You would not be in pain. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10142604531290537628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-6258299408599544142015-01-21T21:36:27.361-08:002015-01-21T21:36:27.361-08:00Yes they can cry. I hope you (original writer) got...Yes they can cry. I hope you (original writer) got out of this relationship okay. I understand. I'm 10 months into the breakup, and it took me 9 months to accept the love of my life truly didn't love or care about me. He said the words; he cried the tears, he didn't care or feel compassion. He's evil. I've seen it; I've lived it, and I've finally moved on but ONLY after letting him believe I had become weak, boring, burden. Me walking away didn't work; he'd never leave me alone. Even in the end, he had to feel in charge. I wouldn't believe that I found letting him have that power was my key to escape, but it was. Good luck to all. Get Heard Nowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06343669254439834020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-74943117932240274802015-01-17T14:07:08.312-08:002015-01-17T14:07:08.312-08:00I am new to this list, but I am a officially diagn...I am new to this list, but I am a officially diagnosed sociopath and I have been married for almost 11 years. Though I have not cheated on my wife in that time, I have emotionally abused her without relenting during this time. As I write this she is in the process of ending our "relationship" because she can no longer stand the agony that I cause her. I love her, to the degree that I feel love, and I am in horrible pain over this. I am trying to save our marriage by going to counseling and couples counseling, but I find it difficult to be honest in these settings. In general, therapist's advice has been to break up. So, the reason I am writing now is to ask if anyone has any thoughts or advice on the matter. I realize that for a victim of a sociopath, it might be galling to hear me ask for help in continuing a hitherto unhealthy relationship, but I really love, or I think I love, my wife. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-38020237107318846082014-10-26T19:53:06.535-07:002014-10-26T19:53:06.535-07:00Well if sociopaths didn't have a heart how wou...Well if sociopaths didn't have a heart how would any be alive? The heart has nothing to do with emotions.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-34038647559479850412014-09-09T20:49:28.950-07:002014-09-09T20:49:28.950-07:00In the early days of human evolution we faced plen...In the early days of human evolution we faced plenty of dangers. Many plants were poisonous. We had very little in the ways of knowledge of how to prevent much less treat infection and injury. We competed with lions, leopards, wolves, and bears, etc. for food (and often became their food). Gradually we evolved resistance to some diseases and learned what mushrooms not to nibble.<br /><br />No doubt there were sociopaths in the tribe seducing and preying on other people, but presumably their scope for nastiness was rather limited. Most of us are not likely to be set upon by a lion walking down a city street, but the food shelves are filled with food and beverages not good for us, and every bar and work site has flourishing human predators. Reading this thread of horrific (mostly romantic) experiences shows us how ill-equipped evolution has made us for surviving much less thriving in modern civilization. I hope somebody reading this has picked up on the need to be careful in relationships BEFORE it is too late!Radical Agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08630112321918941568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-53006815518983418012014-06-11T05:17:20.652-07:002014-06-11T05:17:20.652-07:00I've been in an on again-off again 6 year rela...I've been in an on again-off again 6 year relationship with my sociopath. The first 6 months were amazing beyond believe. The last 5.5 years have been a mixture of good, great and horrible hell. When he was focused on being the good perfect boyfriend giving this relationship a fighting shot- we were great. The rest to the time was spent dealing with his mind games, emotional neglect, and silent treatment punishments and being 'removed' from having access to any part of his life, whether it was friends, family, or social media. We would go through 6 week- 3 month periods of togetherness and then his conduct would change and well everything about him, we would argue than fight than break-up for a few days to sometimes 2 weeks. 3 times we broke up for like 2 months, at which time he would be with this 'back up' girl getting his emotional fix of attention and adoration. Than he would end it with her saying she was crazy or not what he wanted and come back to me claiming how much he realizes I'm the one for him, etc.- I always took him back because he made it seem like I was the victorious choice- and we would be great for another 2 months as he proved just how much I mattered- sometimes he even got me to end possible relationships of moving on. Just last month I started catching onto or better questioned a lot of his lies and came across a sickening amount of porn obsession (like over 400+ sites he belonged to on just ONE social media group) After that he began to pull away (I actually haven't physically seen him since) and he punished me for 2 weeks of using his famous 'silent treatment' and then never showing up for plans or promises. Than he finally told me that we are just 'too broken' to continue and that he found a nice girl that might be willing to date him. He kept in contact with me pouring his heart out about how he realizes that he doesn't think he's meant to truly be happy with anyone and that his calling is to help 'lost souls' into becoming stronger woman and guiding them to their next path (Yes seriously- he said this!) Like he is some new holy usher or something. He would put this pour girl down while talking to me- saying that he is attempting to learn how to communicate with someone in hopes to fix us and that she listens to him and try’s to understand without judgment. That they have shared this deep connecting bond and that he has realized that he is afraid to be alone in life and just wants a companion to get thru this time of trying to get over me! He would go on about how he just wants to take 4 months to learn new lessons from someone else and so should I and that we will get back together. for the first time in months he was love-bombing me, texting me hundreds of times a day, we were on the phone till 3 in the morning day after day- connecting again, than he slept with her one night and told me he doesn't want to be a cheater like he always has been in the past- that he wants to change his ways and start doing things right and that this girl (who is 16 years younger than him) is worth giving a real shot but that he doesn't want to lose me completely because I still make him happy. I told him 'yeah-good-bye.' He started going on about how i can have a life without him and when i didn't respond he sent this text: 'So I’ll say this as my final words to you...Thank you for all you showed me it was an honor to have loved you! I truly hope you find happiness in all you do!! Good bye" I responded with- 'I wish I could say the same" and blocked him as I’m sure he has blocked me like always. I have a feeling he is going to contact me in the next coming months when this love-bombing faze goes away with her- but maybe not because this girl he really seemed drawn to and intent on prosueing like none other I've seen him with. I just wonder if a healthy relationship will ever have as deep of a bond and connection or if the sex with normal men is still mind-blowingly amazing!6 years waistedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17214272100478770262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-52301079110031292852014-06-11T04:46:24.480-07:002014-06-11T04:46:24.480-07:00I've been in an on again-off again 6 year rela...I've been in an on again-off again 6 year relationship with my sociopath. The first 6 months were amazing beyond believe. The last 5.5 years have been a mixture of good, great and horrible hell. When he was focused on being the good perfect boyfriend giving this relationship a fighting shot- we were great. The rest to the time was spent dealing with his mind games, emotional neglect, and silent treatment punishments and being 'removed' from having access to any part of his life, whether it was friends, family, or social media. We would go through 6 week- 3 month periods of togetherness and than his conduct would change and well everything about him, we would argue than fight than break-up for a few days to sometimes 2 weeks. 3 times we broke up for like 2 months, at which time he would be with this 'back up' girl getting his emotional fix of attention and adoration. Than he would end it with her saying she was crazy or not what he wanted and come back to me claiming how much he realizes I'm the one for him, etc- I always took him back because he made it seem like I was the victorious choice- and we would be great for another 2 months as he proved just how much I mattered- sometimes he even got me to end possible relationships of moving on. Just last month I started catching onto alot of his lies and came across a sickening amount of porn obsession (like over 400+ sites he belonged to on just ONE social media group) After that he began to pull away (I actually haven't physically seen him since) and he punished me for 2 weeks of using his famous 'silent treatment' and than never showing up for plans or promises. Than he finally told me that we are just 'too broken' to continue and that he found a nice girl that might be willing to date him. He kept in contact with me pouring his heart out about how he realizes that he doesn't think he's meant to truly be happy with anyone and that his calling is to help 'lost souls' into becoming stronger woman and guiding them to their next path (Yes seriously- he said this!) Like he is some new holy usher or something. He would put this pour girl down while talking to me- saying that he is attempting to learn how to communicate with someone in hopes to fix us and that she listens to him and trys to understand without judgement. That they have shared this deep connecting bond and that he has realized that he is afraid to be alone in life and just wants a compainion to get thru this time of trying to get over me! He would go on about how he just wants to take 4 months to learn new lessons from someone else and so should I and that we will get back together. And for the first time in months he was love-bombing me, texting me hundreds of times a day, we were on the phone till 3 in the morning day after day- connecting again, than he slept with her one night and told me he doesn't want to be a cheater like he always has been in the past- that he wants to change his ways and start doing things right and that this girl (who is 16 years younger than him) is worth giving a real shot but that he doesn't want to lose me completely because I still make him happy. I told him 'yeah-good-bye.' He started going on about how i can have a life without him and when i didn't respond he sent this text: 'So i'll say this as my final words to you...Thank you for all you showed me it was an honor to have loved you! I truly hope you find happiness in all you do!! Good bye" I responded with- 'I wish I could say the same" and blocked him as im sure he has blocked me like always. I have a feeling he is going to contact me in the next coming months when this love-bombing faze goes away with her- but maybe not because this girl he really seemed drawn to and intent on prosueing like none other I've seen him with. 6 years waistedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17214272100478770262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-59646531207649197742014-06-04T13:35:07.831-07:002014-06-04T13:35:07.831-07:00same here, break ups make me extremely nervous and...same here, break ups make me extremely nervous and i am always in fear ... Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-36379682925637376172014-05-29T02:29:52.710-07:002014-05-29T02:29:52.710-07:00Stephen is my name, i am just so happy and don'...Stephen is my name, i am just so happy and don't know What more i can say in this life? how will i thank Lord Zilialia enough for the good job which he just did for me.i have been searching for long a real spell caster, for me to get who will help me get back my wife back but i have been scammed so many times by a lot of people who claim they are spell casters and are not, so i was tired of searching then one morning i visited a neighbor and she introduced me to this man Lord Zilialia and i contacted him and he make a spell for me in the night and after the spell he tells me what to do and i did it and immediately the thing was done he gave me assurance that my wife will start looking for me and pleading for me to accept her back and i was kind of not sure and what make me amaze he said just 2 days after that is when she will come and as i am talking to you people now my wife came back to me exactly the 2nd day as he said and now i am very happy. LORD ZILIALIA IS REAL!!!! you can contact Lord Zilialia through this email, spellcaster1202@gmail.com.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16893450956980839955noreply@blogger.com