tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post4890774658730805300..comments2024-03-28T00:33:57.308-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: Top 10 secrets of effective liarsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-223198890470935652014-11-06T07:03:55.127-08:002014-11-06T07:03:55.127-08:00Lies always taste better when you season them with...Lies always taste better when you season them with a bit of truth ;)Phreakynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-5559690844518100062014-11-06T06:55:21.878-08:002014-11-06T06:55:21.878-08:00Saying you love someone is really, really broad. I...Saying you love someone is really, really broad. I love tea, I love guitar, I love my computer. He loved you. I'm not IN love with tea, or guitar, guitar. That's basically you're difference, especially if you're dealing with a real sociopath.Phreakynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-51196563279092415592010-05-31T00:05:56.318-07:002010-05-31T00:05:56.318-07:00When you lie, you want to believe your lie. Thus, ...<b>When you lie, you want to believe your lie. Thus, I don't lie entirely. I throw in shreds of truth that I actually mean to the person, all the well knowing that they're going to perceive it in the way I want them to.<br /><br />This is why I am good at lying; my act is believable.</b><br /><br />Ya, it helps to believe the lie so i like to throw in a little truth here and there that match the situation or my personality. Everybody pretty much thinks i'm harmless and so its pretty easy to shift the blame onto anyone who might challenge my motives. Their usually more aggresive than i am so naturally everybody will think their the crazy or overreactive one. i just sit back and watch them get more frustrated with me every day.astroboyqunoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-17439702976182965102010-05-30T11:30:09.434-07:002010-05-30T11:30:09.434-07:00got a pic? :)got a pic? :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-92081390981872813762010-05-29T09:37:27.833-07:002010-05-29T09:37:27.833-07:00Zoe:"it depends on the reason for the lie. us...Zoe:"it depends on the reason for the lie. usually there is no need. redirection and diversion tactics work as well on adults as they do on little kids. honest flattery and plays to ego are effective in the workplace."<br /><br />My lying only comes into play when I'm having to pretend I feel emotion x, y, z... etc. Most of the time, I'm having discussions with family members and I just hold my tongue on some of the questions such as: "How do you feel about [insert person/thing]?" Either 2 things occur when this comes up: 1) the person answers for me and shades it to their liking or 2) I lie about it and say what they want to hear.<br /><br />Zoe:"<i>i will outright lie only when i'm cornered and the truth is not a realistic option</i>, but it always feels like cheating. i suppose it's a refuge for those who fail in the art of manipulation. "<br /><br />I've been in that sort of situation. I usually end crafting a truth that doesn't correlate with my true self; but it does correlate well with my facade.<br /><br />Peter: "Oh Zoe, what is love but a construct to facilitate the mating process? Let's quit beating around your bush, take off the proverbial gloves, keep the latex gloves out of the picture entirely, and satisfy ourselves with a night of glorious fantasy. You can be the banker, and I'll be the rich businessman. I have a very large deposit I need to make. How do you feel about ATM transactions?"<br /><br />Next thing we know, this place will be a sociopath dating service.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-52118098141831252292010-05-29T07:44:24.941-07:002010-05-29T07:44:24.941-07:00Darn, I missed a good one! I was stuck on the emp...Darn, I missed a good one! I was stuck on the empathy post. There's some good reading there if anyone wants to join that thread. Would love to get your input on some of the discussion going on.<br />ZanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-68540170945972913282010-05-29T07:19:13.151-07:002010-05-29T07:19:13.151-07:00lollolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-40818781353154690022010-05-28T16:25:45.254-07:002010-05-28T16:25:45.254-07:00Sickening.Sickening.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-45859798242735765902010-05-28T07:46:30.785-07:002010-05-28T07:46:30.785-07:00Oh Zoe, what is love but a construct to facilitate...Oh Zoe, what is love but a construct to facilitate the mating process? Let's quit beating around your bush, take off the proverbial gloves, keep the latex gloves out of the picture entirely, and satisfy ourselves with a night of glorious fantasy. You can be the banker, and I'll be the rich businessman. I have a very large deposit I need to make. How do you feel about ATM transactions?Peter Panhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01541806171758034219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-70416084246008890912010-05-28T07:11:13.834-07:002010-05-28T07:11:13.834-07:00I am sure I am not the only one with this idea. So...<b><i>I am sure I am not the only one with this idea. So I ask, what is your lying technique?</i></b><br /><br />it depends on the reason for the lie. usually there is no need. redirection and diversion tactics work as well on adults as they do on little kids. honest flattery and plays to ego are effective in the workplace. <br /><br />i will outright lie only when i'm cornered and the truth is not a realistic option, but it always feels like cheating. i suppose it's a refuge for those who fail in the art of manipulation. <br /><br /><b><i>Anonymous said...<br />Nothing is more deceptive than the truth.</i></b><br /><br />agreed.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-74972706369791620222010-05-28T06:44:03.624-07:002010-05-28T06:44:03.624-07:00Anonymous said...
Lol @Peter Pan, that was hilario...<b><i>Anonymous said...<br />Lol @Peter Pan, that was hilarious.</i></b><br /><br />peter is hilarious and i love him. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-50718423744520846472010-05-26T15:46:22.043-07:002010-05-26T15:46:22.043-07:00Nothing is more deceptive than the truth.Nothing is more deceptive than the truth.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-47654630302455492452010-05-26T14:52:07.321-07:002010-05-26T14:52:07.321-07:00I am great at lying.
The thing about lying is thi...I am great at lying.<br /><br />The thing about lying is this:<br /><br />Do not lie entirely.<br /><br />Lying is a bit like your perception of the day. Everyday, everyone experiences good things and bad things. Some people focus on the good things and perceive their day as good, others focus on the negative and perceive their day as bad.<br /><br />Now, if you lie entirely, you have nothing to focus on. You have no shred of truth to sincerely mean. Absolutely nothing is true and <b>you know it.</b><br /><br />When you lie, you want to believe your lie. Thus, I don't lie entirely. I throw in shreds of truth that I actually mean to the person, all the well knowing that they're going to perceive it in the way I want them to. <br /><br />This is why I am good at lying; my act is believable.<br /><br />I am sure I am not the only one with this idea. So I ask, what is your lying technique?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-27220937620346290642010-05-26T01:02:52.801-07:002010-05-26T01:02:52.801-07:00Lol @Peter Pan, that was hilarious.Lol @Peter Pan, that was hilarious.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-33807626515318629362010-05-25T20:35:52.823-07:002010-05-25T20:35:52.823-07:00Dude..Or chick CAKE..
I love your ideas.
Im not i...Dude..Or chick CAKE..<br /><br />I love your ideas.<br />Im not in love with them, but I love them.<br /><br />Good food for thought.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-52415300096677568602010-05-25T20:30:22.883-07:002010-05-25T20:30:22.883-07:00Top 10 secrets of thriving creatures
#1 - Make ...Top 10 secrets of thriving creatures<br /><br />#1 - Make sure you breathe. Many people are ignorant of this fact, but the most dominant creatures on Earth all have one thing in common. They breathe. If you don't breathe, you won't be able to live, which means you definitely can't thrive.<br /><br />#2 - Don't jump off of cliffs. Don't give in to your instinct to dominate gravity by jumping headlong into a dark chasm. Creatures who thrive all know that sometimes, 1000ft is just too much. Our bodies aren't as resilient as we sometimes like to think they are, and testing that theory in a 120 MPH free fall is an easy way to lose your place as king of the jungle.<br /><br />#3 - Don't light your hair on fire. Though it may seem counter intuitive, a head of blazing orange fury usually doesn't lead to the top of the pile. Sometimes, it can actually land you 6ft under the paws of even the most pathetic creatures on Earth. Don't let your lust for power fool you. Fire can be just as dangerous as it is awesome.<br /><br />#4 -- ... ... fill in the blanks.Peter Panhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01541806171758034219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-23346441212069502532010-05-25T19:36:39.286-07:002010-05-25T19:36:39.286-07:00Does anyone else think these lovefraud-esque type ...Does anyone else think these lovefraud-esque type stories resemble emotional ponzi schemes?Cakenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-12966244498200937062010-05-25T18:53:12.502-07:002010-05-25T18:53:12.502-07:00If you take what I said earlier (wanting someone t...If you take what I said earlier (wanting someone to be happy = love) at face value, it could be argued he loved you. But that wouldn't make sense given the way he treated you. <br /><br />You have to factor in his motivation as well. If he wanted you to be happy just so he wouldn't have to deal with you being upset, he didn't love you, he was just being selfish.<br /><br /><br /><br />I like how anonymity means I don't get the *how'd a caustic fucker like you think that up* look I usually get when I explain that to people.Cakenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-64542759590942624702010-05-25T18:32:49.609-07:002010-05-25T18:32:49.609-07:00I didn't see your second post Cake before I ad...I didn't see your second post Cake before I added mine. Yes he was lying period. Grace<br /><br />I keep thinking of his age too..hes middle aged and that makes it more bizarre..i mean teens do that shit..but whatever.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-61735644700644491212010-05-25T18:24:10.488-07:002010-05-25T18:24:10.488-07:00Ok. Thank you for clearing that up for me. The poi...Ok. Thank you for clearing that up for me. The point is that he lied about loving me...he never loved me at all. Then lied some more when he was worried by my backing off. I'm just relating it to the post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-56968864025981286882010-05-25T18:23:31.362-07:002010-05-25T18:23:31.362-07:00Contextually, he was probably lying to her either ...Contextually, he was probably lying to her either way. I was merely explaining the difference, which Grace seems to think is irrelevant, but the difference is important when the person who says it isn't lying.Cakenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-71347625626044935052010-05-25T18:08:57.975-07:002010-05-25T18:08:57.975-07:00what about the context?what about the context?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-80190561944082262052010-05-25T17:41:05.677-07:002010-05-25T17:41:05.677-07:00There is a massive difference between loving someo...There is a massive difference between loving someone and being in love with someone.<br /><br />You heard "I love you" and due to your ignorance, willful blindness, neediness/clinginess, social conditioning, or some combination of the above, you heard "I'm in love with you" instead of "I love you".<br /><br />Love at its core is wanting someone to be happy. You love your close friends, your family, people who mean a lot to you ect. Chances are you'd be willing to take a bullet for them. Maybe not to the face, but you get the idea. The phrase "I love you" has no romantic sentiment. <br /><br />"I'm in love with you" has implications of commitment, monogamy, white fences, two kids, a slow death in a Florida retirement community and all that fun stuff Hallmark shoves down your throat every February.<br /><br />I love my friends and my family. I am in love with none of them.<br /><br />You were in love with the idea of being in love. Ideas aren't capable of either. And that's what your relationship was, an shade of an idea created by your mind's desire for it and his interest in showing you what you wanted to see. You stopped being interesting to him so he stopped trying to maintain your delusion of being in love.<br /><br />to recap:<br />(when spoken honestly and used correctly)<br />"I love you" --> Unconditional<br />"I'm in love with you" --> ConditionalCakenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-4520138957365651132010-05-25T13:58:30.110-07:002010-05-25T13:58:30.110-07:00number 3-"You told me you loved me."..I ...number 3-"You told me you loved me."..I never told you I was IN love with you." <br />I really don't know what the difference is and I didn't know that I needed to ask for what type of love he was in with me. <br /><br />number 8- "I need to take time from this relationship because I don't want to feel this way and my feelings are mine to take care of."..."There is no reason to feel insecure because I'm in this for the long haul how can I prove that to you." <br />That worked for a few days indeed but he never proved anything to me except that he was not to be trusted. A week later..gone.<br /><br />Grace.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-17743040828617871782010-05-25T11:12:58.573-07:002010-05-25T11:12:58.573-07:00i’ve known a number of bad liars who could have be...i’ve known a number of bad liars who could have benefited from secret #1. when I asked them why they lied, after catching them in the act, their responses were “it didn’t hurt anyone and made them look good”, “the truth was boring and they felt entitled to make it more interesting”, and “they just couldn’t help themselves”. they seemed unaware that people actually were on to them. or was it denial? do bad liars also lie to themselves? <br /><br /><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7SsFK3JJ_-E" rel="nofollow">liar, liar!</a>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com