tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post4870016757956340810..comments2024-03-18T07:07:07.291-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: Sociopath's perspective on being in loveUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger141125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-24365269554390808672018-01-14T09:26:11.937-08:002018-01-14T09:26:11.937-08:00"you are glad she got out before you hurt her..."you are glad she got out before you hurt her. Would you have done so? Can you be sure?" because it is inevitable when you have someone there who loves you and is at some pt expressing weakness and vulnerability to you and when you realize you have power over them thru that, at times it is too irresistible a draw (subjugate, destroy, etc). Also because no matter how much you love someone something in you will constantly impel you towards fulfilling your own secret (and some would say 'dark' agenda) as well as the too-real ways you can never quite get over a certain sense of separateness and contempt for the other person, all which will hurt them indirectly<br /><br />also if you have for whatever reason decided to surrender to the agenda of another and curtail most of your impulses there will be an inevitable buildup of resentment there which can blow up in unexpected ways <br /><br />it is interesting that here is a person who managed to be 'socialised' enough to overcome most of the vices of his kind (IE criminality) to the extent that he doesn't really resemble a socio per so, and here is a person who claims to have 'been in love' and whose narrative suggests it is true. <br /><br />the act of controlling impulses enough and caring enough re consequences of behaviour to curtail his natural inclinations (fundamental to staying out of trouble) created in him an opening for letting another person in. I guess wiling yourself to subjugate yourself to the larger social framework creates enough of a state of anxiety and lack of balance to require surrendering to another individual. Or maybe it's just the game you play with yourself to allow yourself to submit to society<br /><br />i imagine this person would have no trouble falling in love with another if he made the decision. He doesn't understand it was about that girl per se but about having an empty vessel in which to pour all his attention and impulses. I hope he manages it because it seems he needs it so that he can keep all the other covenants he's made with himself and external reality. Of course part of the game is convincing himself that 'she really WAS special, she really WAS the one' because that lends the whole enterprise a certain sort of heroic dimension. It is indeed a sad day when a child discovers that there are, in fact, other hamsters in the pet store to replace the loss of Fluffyprimrose and Spainnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-24022843132650301082017-11-22T06:32:25.280-08:002017-11-22T06:32:25.280-08:00I'm also not a native english speaker, but I c...I'm also not a native english speaker, but I can tell when something is well written because I speak your barbaric language fluently. Thomashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13324015957067600279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-76950926768264800042017-08-07T08:47:59.460-07:002017-08-07T08:47:59.460-07:00https://sociopath-community.comhttps://sociopath-community.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-34532013480498447522017-08-02T01:15:09.446-07:002017-08-02T01:15:09.446-07:00Well, isn't that irritating.
I write this supe...Well, isn't that irritating.<br />I write this super comprehensive run down of my astounding theory, and ME in all her wisdom, done choose not to post it.<br />Guess I need to flaunt my tits a bit more.<br />Or, ME is actually George Martin and I've struck a bit close to the bone hmm? Pfft, more transparent than your bigging up of Alciabides for that piss book and some late 20s tosser in love.<br />Disappointing.Swopnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-59248989882374996362017-08-01T01:28:07.342-07:002017-08-01T01:28:07.342-07:00No one said about either to you Damaged.
You want ...No one said about either to you Damaged.<br />You want to join in with the grown ups, raise your hand and wait patiently, there's a good little Ukan craver.<br /><br />Yep yep and yep, though I do think Daenerys is a bit too much for herself, regardless of her 'for the people' stance, she's got her eyes set on burning shit.<br /><br />Regarding Arya, I kinda concocted a theory early on (like, first episode, honest like, I'm that fucking cool), but, as tenuous as it may be, it's also a bit awesome...<br />Ahem [clears throat]...<br />At the start, Ned and the fam find the dead wolf, wolf being the Stark sigil of course...killed by a stag (do I need to run through the houses for you? No? Good, thanks), consequently, Ned died at the hands of Joffrey, Ned being the head Stark, or, parent Direwolf if you will.<br />Pass out the Cubs, three boys and two girls coincidentally and a runt...or, bastard...and you've the basis of a theory relating the Starks actions to the wolves.<br />Now...Arya attacks Joffrey, with Nymeria...Nymeria legs it at Aryas Rock throwing skills, but Lady takes the fall.<br />So...chances are, Arya will attack Cersei, being a faceless mofo, Cersei will exact revenge on Sansa in her place (see wolf theory).<br />Jon Snow is practically a Ghost.<br />Rob and Grey Wind both lost their heads interchangeably at the hands of the Freys.<br />Brans wolf got white walkered, so he'll be back as a zombie wolf, so keep tabs on Bran. Not that a crawling zombie with fuck all personality would be very scary, but still.<br />Rickons doesn't quite fit, but let's face it, who gives a flying cunt about Rickon anyways?<br />Nymeria disappeared to take over her faceless pack, which leads to my Arya take.<br /><br />Or maybe I just talk a lot of shit.<br /><br />I have read the books yes, several times, your good self?<br /><br />Euron is really coming into his own for me.<br />Even if in the books, his resemblance to Eddie Izzard wasn't as pronounced <br /><br />Hey Vegas...we're over.<br />Who art thou now?Swopnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-50193291817822798872017-07-29T13:40:32.540-07:002017-07-29T13:40:32.540-07:00"All the descriptions of sociopaths make the ..."All the descriptions of sociopaths make the guy sound so cool.<br /><br />That tells you that it's an advantageous trait. Dont believe the hype."<br /><br />@EdLatimore<br /><br /><br /><br />https://twitter.com/EdLatimore/status/870809016619945984Damagednoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-43804487909385985482017-07-29T13:29:21.390-07:002017-07-29T13:29:21.390-07:00Coming from a true sociopath, you don't seem l...<i>Coming from a true sociopath, you don't seem like a sociopath</i><br /><br />Where's UKan when you need him...Damagednoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-50593730131439810882017-07-28T11:40:39.440-07:002017-07-28T11:40:39.440-07:00People stare at me in disbelief when they find out...People stare at me in disbelief when they find out I've never watched The Wire. [actually I watched the first 2 episodes]<br /><br />And now I'm getting shit from them because I haven't watched Game Of Thrones.<br /><br />I'm tired of the whining. Which one should I start binge watching first?Damagednoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-28653375087532280002017-07-28T07:42:16.963-07:002017-07-28T07:42:16.963-07:00It wasn't so much a pseudo-intellectual, super...It wasn't so much a pseudo-intellectual, superficial synopsis as me griping about all the things I don't like. But good job calling me on my bullshit. :P<br /><br />In truth, Danaerys is much more suited to being a ruler. She is more decisive and a lot stronger than Jon. She has better leadership qualities too. I can grudgingly admit that. I just dislike that actress. That is the real reason I don't want her to win. She drives me batshit. However, her character is epic. Maybe she'll grow on me this season.<br /><br />Interesting take on Arya. <br /><br />Did you read the books?Anoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-46784935363936079622017-07-28T07:29:32.995-07:002017-07-28T07:29:32.995-07:00I am sure true sociopaths can recognise one when t...<i>I am sure true sociopaths can recognise one when they saw my posts above but they are probably too lazy to make a comment."</i><br /><br />Quite unlike the walls of text you just wrote trying to prove yourself to me, right? <br /><br /><i>You know whats scary about us sociopaths?....<br /><br />i would rather manipulate situations and in this case i diddnt value you before devaluing so please make some sense before posting.</i><br /><br />Apparently that went right above your head, so I will spell it out in terms that even you can understand.<br /><br />I didn't say you valued *me*. I said that identifying as a sociopath is the *mechanism* through which you seek to elevate yourself above others. It makes you feel special and powerful in the face of your incompetence and weakness.<br /><br />I can see through the fear and weakness in you. You don't fail to make "social bonds" because you're a psychopath; that's just a defense mechanism you use to mask the truth, and preserve your ego. Because it is much cooler to identify as a psychopath than admit the truth: that you're a socially awkward, inept twat. And there is absolutely nothing scary or powerful about that. XD<br />Anoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-32896556743406221022017-07-27T20:48:56.066-07:002017-07-27T20:48:56.066-07:00oldandwise,
I'm just gonna be frank. I'v...oldandwise, <br /><br />I'm just gonna be frank. I've given many reasons as to the "why" from my side so why the same old questions from you? <br /><br />It feels you are not writing out of any good intent towards me but to provoke and make me question myself. It hasn't worked in the past and won't this time. <br /><br />It feels to me you are jealous.Northhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09244806273774124428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-43545228863952556662017-07-27T19:52:19.906-07:002017-07-27T19:52:19.906-07:00Hi North. The previous comment was from oldandwise...Hi North. The previous comment was from oldandwise. I-do-understand the attraction. But now that you have a larger view, isn't it time to move on? You are young and energetic. Take advantage of it. <br /><br />Are you afraid you need him to go on? Do you think he needs you? Why is it that you keep coming back to him? Intellectually, what does he bring to you?<br /><br />From my sociofriend this week: love is a disease. Think about it from **-* 's perspective. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-57590637107471240542017-07-26T12:38:36.399-07:002017-07-26T12:38:36.399-07:00@Alci I'm here ;)@Alci I'm here ;)Bellanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-79907037685623831242017-07-26T12:21:49.849-07:002017-07-26T12:21:49.849-07:00Typical male take [rolls eyes].
In fairness, I can...Typical male take [rolls eyes].<br />In fairness, I can't pick a lot of fault just for the sakes of it, so I won't.<br />But, if I may, your take on Anya as the gavel is, in my humble opinion at very least, off the mark. Arya is tied in to Nymeria, as Nyneria has become the leader of a roving pack of killers, Arya is taking her place as the leader of the faceless dudes. I don't like her herself, she just rubs me wrong, but her character I monumental. End scene of the lot will probably be her and Nymeria stood atop a cliff, looking over the devastation of Westeros (fire and shit, and ice! Lots of ice!), rub her fur a bit and skip off.<br />Unless, obviously, Catelyn Stark walks in on Ned in the shower.<br />But, this is a kinda possible really...if lil Bran can talk to Ned in the past, what's to say he doesn't tell him what'll happen and Ned averts and the whole thing never happens? Serious shit I know.<br /><br />*Cersei is gonna snuff it at Jamie's hands, I agree she's a multi faceted motherfcuker (shout out to trendy swearing BellEnd), she's shut off emotionally now, but her stumpy brother obsession will be the end of her.<br />More than likely at Jamie's hands (hand).<br /><br />Jon Snow like, literally rules.<br />He'd have very hairy kids.<br />I can see the attraction for you.<br />Fag.<br /><br />Goes without saying, keep an eye on Varys.<br />Red Lord?<br /><br />It's all a bit too extensive and layered to be nutshelled as a revenge epic, but I get the pseudo Intellectual superficial synopsis.Swopnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-23833628208434444162017-07-26T10:06:46.384-07:002017-07-26T10:06:46.384-07:00wait!!!! Wait!!!...let me get some popcorn...
Ok...wait!!!! Wait!!!...let me get some popcorn...<br /><br /><br />Ok, Go!<br /><br />Fuck you Vegas, Splitter!!!!!Swopnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-42166759366020589582017-07-26T06:54:12.995-07:002017-07-26T06:54:12.995-07:00Anon at july 24 4:38am here
To A:
Lol you see a...Anon at july 24 4:38am here<br /><br />To A:<br /><br /><br />Lol you see a sociopath wouldnt bother much unless they have something to gain. As much as i like winning, theres isnt a point for me to convince you of anything for anything. I am sure true sociopaths can recognise one when they saw my posts above but they are probably too lazy to make a comment. This would be my last post towards you and i hope you will be enlightened. Its a dark world outside, looking at the way you are reacting if this is genuinely you in real life i hope you will change, we can see through the fear and weakness in you. You know whats scary about us sociopaths? friends you may have for over a decade might just be using you and you probably wouldnt know until you are discarded, all that feeling and bonding you thought was true was actually fake well you wouldnt understand until it happens to you so i am hoping you have a sociopathic friend that would do some damage to you and then you can come back and read my post again this time with more maturity. Tip to you; take life seriously and dont trust easily i can see you have feelings and empathy and believe in love and all that crap but it doesnt take a sociopath to do damage to people like you, greater malignant narcissist, BPD, etc can inflict more pain than a sociopath who is seeking to gain. Thanks for your compliment of me being a narc but i honestly hate using emotional manipulation(what a narc does) and i would rather manipulate situations and in this case i diddnt value you before devaluing so please make some sense before posting.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-70428790472014258592017-07-26T01:02:28.173-07:002017-07-26T01:02:28.173-07:00You think I have to be "super pissed off"...You think I have to be "super pissed off" to call someone a 'tard on the web? <br /><br />Lol.<br /><br />Either you've been hiding out in your supersociopathic bat cave over the past decade, or you're totally fucking clueless. Welcome to the internet, dumbass.<br /><br /><i>As a true sociopaths we can live without love</i><br /><br />Who hurt you to the point that you even feel the need to exclude love from within the realm of possibility within your life? <br /><br />Defensive much?<br /><br />Are you honestly so obtuse and dense as to confine a concept as sophisticated and multifacted as "love" to an emotional experience?<br /><br /><i>I dont know how could you comprehend it as "ego gratifying"</i><br /><br />No, of course you don't "comprehend it." You are too busy trying too hard to be something you wish you were.<br /><br />Allow me to enlighten your stunted brain: it is ego gratifying because identifying as a socioapth is what you think makes you a special fucking snowflake. It provides a mechanism through which to elevate and value yourself, through the debasing and devaluing of others. <br /><br />You're a fucking textbook narc, moron. <br /><br />Allow me to be the first to inform you that this ain't your safespace.<br /><br /><i>you should learn to get over yourself</i><br /><br />Apparently, you are not even astute enough to formulate your own deductions, without parroting the words of someone who verbally abuses you. You big bad psychopath, you. XD<br /><br /><i> Or sociopaths you meet in your real life would eat you for breakfast ;)</i><br /><br />My father gouged someone's eye out with a broken beer bottle and spent almost a decade in prison for aggravated assault. Tell me again how a "real sociopath" would eat me for breakfast, you fucking wanker.Anoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-7233160911626267752017-07-26T00:22:03.389-07:002017-07-26T00:22:03.389-07:00Anon at july 24 4:38am here
My initial response &...Anon at july 24 4:38am here<br /><br />My initial response "Coming from a true sociopath, you don't seem like a sociopath" was towards the poster of the article because as a true sociopath we get into relationship to gain even if we do pair bond there would definitely be financial or sexual incentives to be gained. We love ourselves more than others and definitely wouldnt be heartbroken over a minute for "love". I dont know about other sociopaths but the sociopath of this article is either young or a low functioning one. As a true sociopaths we can live without love, even if there is its lowest on our priority besides other practical things like money or sex. <br /><br />And to anonymous at 25th july 11:46 pm, my initial post was just my thoughts after reading the article. I dont know how could you comprehend it as "ego gratifying" and be so pissed off to call someone a tard over the net lol. You are too emotional for your own good so you should learn to get over yourself or sociopaths you meet in your real life would eat you for breakfast ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-46470085963233108152017-07-25T23:51:40.008-07:002017-07-25T23:51:40.008-07:00Fuck Vegas.
She's ancient history.
Be on the...Fuck Vegas.<br /><br />She's ancient history.<br /><br />Be on the lookout for her reincarnation. ;)Anoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-49783639798857755212017-07-25T23:46:48.402-07:002017-07-25T23:46:48.402-07:00Coming from a true sociopath, you don't seem l...<i>Coming from a true sociopath, you don't seem like a sociopath.</i><br /><br />Yes, yes. You are the One True Sociopath. Let us all bow down before your superior sociopathic awesomeness. <br /><br />Because who better to deign who is a REAL "sociopath" than some anonymous fucktard on a blog? <br /><br />Do you have any fucking clue how many people have passed through here ober the years, spewing the same ego-gratifying shit?<br /><br />Psychopathy is a mental disorder, ya 'tard. <br /><br />Get over yourself.<br /><br />Anoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-319695540069594172017-07-25T23:05:33.305-07:002017-07-25T23:05:33.305-07:00I didn't read OP's whole spiel, but I agre...I didn't read OP's whole spiel, but I agree with this:<br /><br /><i>OP you are capable of a self-sacrificial love that is called Agape. It isn't a feeling---it is an action you combined with what little you felt.</i><br /><br />Feelings are fleeting and inconstant. Actions are what matter.Anoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-76760990757699933662017-07-25T22:58:09.328-07:002017-07-25T22:58:09.328-07:00I am willing grant an exception to the opening sce...I am willing grant an exception to the opening scene of season 7 re: revenge plots, though. That was masterfully executed. Anoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-10811093434393472062017-07-25T22:55:45.880-07:002017-07-25T22:55:45.880-07:00"Greater love than this no man hath, that a m..."Greater love than this no man hath, that a man lay down his life for his friends."<br />John 15:13<br /><br />OP you are capable of a self-sacrificial love that is called Agape. It isn't a feeling---it is an action you combined with what little you felt. Thanks. One does not need to be an empath to be capable of this love. To give oneself selflessly for people they care for(important) is noble, honourable and true---and good. You proved to be a good person, OP, in your own way. This, though I am not like you in many ways, we can find common ground together. Having noble and good characteristics does not make you a less desirable human being, but one worth of honour, to be looked up to, and imitated as a role model. Thank you for being a role model for others, OP. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-9070770512022796902017-07-25T22:48:59.651-07:002017-07-25T22:48:59.651-07:00I really like GoT. I think the character developme...I really like GoT. I think the character development is fairly strong, in spite of the fact that the writers often resort to overplayed cliches, especially wherein the main players are concerned. <br /><br />That said, that they are even capable of provoking dislike or admiration in me is an accomplishment, because I am generally a very hard critic. I don't watch any other series, apart from Archer from time to time. Television bores me. <br /><br />I dislike Queen Danerys. I find her character to be insufferable. The overwrought acting accounts for part of my disdain; the rest comes from her overdramatic, sweeping entrances, and her self-righteous, cringey depiction of feminine strength. I don't want to see her ass on the throne.<br /><br />Her entourage is equally cringey and annoying, with the exception of the dwarf. I like him. Who wouldn't? He is the quintessential likeable character. Here we have another cliche.<br /><br />I like Circe. She is ever the requisite evil bitch. But her character has more depth and dimension than some of the others.<br /><br />Jon Snow is my favourite contender.<br />Granted, he also is a cliche, and like a good little groupie, I admire his inherent nobility, and willingness to lead sacrifically.<br /><br />The show relies upon the development of strong archtypes. This accounts for much of its popular appeal. <br /> <br />Arya was my favourite character, but I also was put off by the fact that it looks like they are going to reduce her to a judge's gavel. <br /><br />A close runner up for me is that old queen bitch, Oleanna Tyrell. She has a sharp, clever and devastating tongue, which I can certainly appreciate. But there are signs that she also appears to be getting honed as a tool with which to exact vengeance.<br /><br />I find revenge plots uninspiring, because they are predictable, and seek to capitalize on the emotional connection most people seem to form with these fictional characters. I can't relate to that at all. I have enough trouble bonding with real people. :P<br /><br />All that said, the battle porn is delish. :)<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Anoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-41454032784391194662017-07-25T21:27:35.233-07:002017-07-25T21:27:35.233-07:00I take a week off and everyone it's gone from ...I take a week off and everyone it's gone from the house.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07061773768901553530noreply@blogger.com