tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post4175370809458338306..comments2024-03-19T02:19:20.177-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: Asexual sociopathUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger120125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-58559665090161740842017-12-11T09:52:20.791-08:002017-12-11T09:52:20.791-08:00Oh, you, fool. Asexual means ''no desire f...Oh, you, fool. Asexual means ''no desire for sex'' (never lack of sexual drive, as mine is high but I'm not interested in having sex with others), to make it simpler to understand for you: ''desire does not correlate to sexual drive.''Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-75759661467208395752017-12-08T13:36:34.694-08:002017-12-08T13:36:34.694-08:00Certain environments can't be controlled....ma...Certain environments can't be controlled....making it very hard and difficult for any sociopath. I guess the answer to your question is experience and environment. Once you figure out how to manipulate and scheme situations then socially fitting in is easier then cake...<br />However, may be a rough home, siblings or maybe parents. Trigger points. So the sociopath develops certain social disorders.<br />But being a sociopath, he'll change any disorder into good. (Well in his mind, may not be so collective at times)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01817449623827283706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-35283995997151916612017-12-08T12:48:38.783-08:002017-12-08T12:48:38.783-08:00Certain environments can't be controlled....ma...Certain environments can't be controlled....making it very hard and difficult for any sociopath. I guess the answer to your question is experience and environment. Once you figure out how to manipulate and scheme situations then socially fitting in is easier then cake...<br />However, may be a rough home, siblings or maybe parents. Trigger points. So the sociopath develops certain social disorders.<br />But being a sociopath, he'll change any disorder into good. (Well in his mind, may not be so collective at times)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01817449623827283706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-15201027036557272222013-10-11T14:50:49.576-07:002013-10-11T14:50:49.576-07:00The Somatic narcissist and the psychopath use thei...The Somatic narcissist and the psychopath use their partners' bodies to masturbate with and their sexual conquests serve merely to prop up their wavering self-confidence (somatic narcissist) or to satisfy a physiological need (psychopath). The somatic narcissist and psychopath have no sexual playmates - only sexual playthings. Having conquered the target, they discard it, withdraw and move on heartlesslyAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04061193302886384537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-43870449049409772112013-10-11T14:40:26.087-07:002013-10-11T14:40:26.087-07:00I enjoy it-- because I have sexual drive that need...I enjoy it-- because I have sexual drive that needs to be met-- I personally can do it myself or use human masturbation--- as I have approachd my 40's my drive is controlled differently and my reasons for sex have gotton toned down severely as I confront myself and the perils of this disorder but before I knew, I was a punisher and enjoyed watching punishment & humiliation during sex-- it was a requirement nearly.(late teens-early 20s) uncontrolled-- otherwise it would be strictly for some type of gain like money, possession of the individual, etc... never for normative reasoning like companionship or to express love. I ddnt get love expressed through emotion so there's no way I could reciprocate it ever. I can only model what I think is going on in a situation and that gets very tiring after a while-- because especially you are faking. Further, the other person has u and they are satisfied and you aren't-- so you resent them and then ultimately hurt them without recourse, emotionally and ultimately physically. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04061193302886384537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-30554240822231102292013-10-11T14:26:39.150-07:002013-10-11T14:26:39.150-07:00we all as humans have primitive biological needs ...we all as humans have primitive biological needs that needs to be fulfilled---sex is one of them along side hunger, etc--- the context of 'no feelings' means just sexually - excluding the other needs of what most would call "normative" individuals... sex drive can b fulfilled and we walk away-- I use people as a masturbation tool versus anything else.. like emotional balancing or mental nurturing or companionship etc---- which usually that's an easier way to describe what I is occurring-- at least for me. hope this helps...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04061193302886384537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-54925610357090023702013-10-11T14:20:20.539-07:002013-10-11T14:20:20.539-07:00asexual doesn't mean no sexual drive at all-- ...asexual doesn't mean no sexual drive at all-- it states little to no sex drive-- Im both asexual. and anti soci.... I identify w this post in many areas-- sex as used as a tool rather than anything else--- I haven't pref nor is there any drive that needs to be fulfilled for myself. prefer non of the extras with a relationship-- down right hate it.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04061193302886384537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-36617707956508494252012-12-27T22:06:44.769-08:002012-12-27T22:06:44.769-08:00Your sociopathy won't survive the Singularity....Your sociopathy won't survive the Singularity.<br />You'll be reprogrammed. Sociopaths cause social instability. That won't be tolerated. You'll be reprogrammed for the good of society. It won't be a choice.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-21724282046553367602010-10-08T08:47:02.798-07:002010-10-08T08:47:02.798-07:00Note - When I discuss those forums, I also refer t...Note - When I discuss those forums, I also refer to other 'love' support groups - not just socio-victim groups.<br /><br />In any of those places you'll find people going on and on about things long after they should have moved on. Dysfunctional people bond with other dysfunctionals and choose to cast blame for their own poor decision making onto their ex-partners. I'm sure some pop in, vent and leave, but others seem to get off on the associated drama of joining a group of the 'wronged'. What a totally f**ked up concept.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-46163042195374896582010-10-08T08:43:47.712-07:002010-10-08T08:43:47.712-07:00GABRIEL SAID - "I want to ask the empaths out...GABRIEL SAID - "I want to ask the empaths out there a question. If you've answered it elsewhere, post a link and I'll go there. But what's the benefit of group sharing like lovefraud or any other support group like that? I've been told that it helps by letting you know you aren't alone, not the only one something happened to. How does that do one thing to make it any better for you? How does it diminish your pain to know that others are also in pain? Sounds more like the proverbial "Misery loves company." <br /><br />Also, it would seem counterproductive, in that you get retraumatized in the telling of it, plus you empathetically (I assume) experience the pain of the others in the group as they tell their own tales of woe. Sounds like insult to injury to me."<br /><br />Gabriel - I've checked out some of those forums and find this a far more comfortable place. It's grounded in reality, albeit harsh at times.<br /><br />Jilted lovers fuel each other into hanging onto the past for far too long and validating each other's feelings. But it rarely comes to any good, although the posters seem to think it helps. It's all one-sided. They're all 'victims'. None of them ever discuss their own ugly traits. Are they clingy? Alcoholics? Obese? Etc. Etc. Etc.<br /><br />Those forums give people a reason to carry on with their own bad behaviour (and there are ALWAYS two sides to the coin) and never facing their own reality.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-23562817053655194682010-10-05T11:27:28.376-07:002010-10-05T11:27:28.376-07:00As for stalking, to me the fun kind is like being ...<b><i>As for stalking, to me the fun kind is like being on the hunt. The point is for the prey to NOT know I'm there. It's not to create pressure, but just to feel the predatory juices flow on a more primal level than I typically allow myself. But that's an event, not a lifestyle to suck up all my time and energy. Whenever I did it, it was for the excitement, the challenge, and to throw a bone to my suppressed predatory impulses, if for no other reason than to keep them from getting too hungry.</i></b> <br /><br />hunting I can understand. he’s not hunting but living out some fantasy in his head that to maintain requires complete dismissal of all input data. i’m just perplexed by this guy’s persistence. i’m sure i’m old enough to be his cougar and am anyway interested in someone else, so there were no signals on my end. <br /><br />he’s a colleague and our meeting was purely work related. he did not register at all on my radar. it was several weeks after the meeting that the emails started. operating on the theory that if i didn’t remember what he looked like then he maybe didn’t remember what i looked like, i invited him out for a coffee during break, you know, co-worker to co-worker, thinking he would notice the age difference and that would be that.<br /><br /> he was quiet, it was awkward, and that seemed that. then two days later the emails started up again, bolder this time. he asked me out, and so i told him i was seeing someone. other than another two days of down time (is there an incubation period??), it made no difference. the persistent little emails keep coming. it's as if i never mentioned i was seeing someone.<br /><br />because of the kind of work i do, i maintain a lot of business contacts and it’s customary to keep in touch by email and do coffee and lunch etc.. but he seems to interpret any response as a sign of interest, so it’s time to just drop him before he completely loses touch with reality. i’ve never before met anyone so deluded over so little. is this the kind of empath stalking that sociopaths experience? no wonder they just disappear! what alternative is there?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-51318195026489725332010-10-05T11:21:04.388-07:002010-10-05T11:21:04.388-07:00Gabriel said...
Thank you for putting it in concre...<b><i>Gabriel said...<br />Thank you for putting it in concrete terms. I suppose my corollary thought process would be: "Not telling anyone makes it unreal. Then I can disown it." As our eloquent anonymous poster put it: same shit, different smell. </i></b><br /><br />i like your corollary, Gabriel. it makes me think of the sociopath’s ability to compartmentalize. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-72584634235420775192010-10-05T11:12:31.775-07:002010-10-05T11:12:31.775-07:00Postmodern Sociopath said.. ...
Well, if you'r...<b><i>Postmodern Sociopath said.. ...<br />Well, if you're just going to ignore my emails, I'll just have to start calling. </i></b><br /><br />lol, funny.<br /><br />you can try, Post, but now that i know you’d rather be reading, the magic just wouldn’t be there. ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-59038062553026152182010-10-05T05:12:15.928-07:002010-10-05T05:12:15.928-07:00"telling someone makes it real. then you can ..."telling someone makes it real. then you can disarm it."<br /><br />@Zoe,<br /><br />Thank you for putting it in concrete terms. I suppose my corollary thought process would be: "Not telling anyone makes it unreal. Then I can disown it." As our eloquent anonymous poster put it: same shit, different smell. <br /><br />As for stalking, to me the fun kind is like being on the hunt. The point is for the prey to NOT know I'm there. It's not to create pressure, but just to feel the predatory juices flow on a more primal level than I typically allow myself. But that's an event, not a lifestyle to suck up all my time and energy. Whenever I did it, it was for the excitement, the challenge, and to throw a bone to my suppressed predatory impulses, if for no other reason than to keep them from getting too hungry.<br /><br />But I fear that if I were ever faced with the ever-escalating, in-your-face sort of stalker, it might be harder to suppress my impulses.Gabrielhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13502410478372253294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-10715931755820823302010-10-05T03:03:55.328-07:002010-10-05T03:03:55.328-07:00Exposure beckons ;-)Exposure beckons ;-)UKuntnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-11683383615544378222010-10-05T00:54:01.597-07:002010-10-05T00:54:01.597-07:00Jilted lovers?Jilted lovers?Rust Machinenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-20509970059945215702010-10-05T00:47:07.303-07:002010-10-05T00:47:07.303-07:00I've had a few stalkers. They are the only thi...I've had a few stalkers. They are the only thing I fearUKannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-89852433810423926182010-10-05T00:43:35.835-07:002010-10-05T00:43:35.835-07:00Any stalking is easy.Any stalking is easy.Rust Machinenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-31485979829785162912010-10-04T23:10:29.502-07:002010-10-04T23:10:29.502-07:00Internet stalking is so easy, though.Internet stalking is so easy, though.Medusanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-17102426164542512732010-10-04T23:08:26.922-07:002010-10-04T23:08:26.922-07:00Stalking is just filled with so much effort. A fri...Stalking is just filled with so much effort. A friend used to always ask me to "drive by" the house of someone she was interested in after a night out at the bar. I would only agree if it was on the way to the diner.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12408087943581976418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-25039717240210795482010-10-04T23:00:00.859-07:002010-10-04T23:00:00.859-07:00I have neither enough energy nor enough desperatio...I have neither enough energy nor enough desperation in my entire body to go through the laborious process of stalking. Thanks for the vote of confidence, though.Postmodern Sociopathhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16942390583930125807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-5340329635620066632010-10-04T22:58:34.456-07:002010-10-04T22:58:34.456-07:00PassiveMangressiveStalkerPassiveMangressiveStalkerMedusanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-22360993079649153752010-10-04T22:57:01.378-07:002010-10-04T22:57:01.378-07:00Well lookee here, PMS is a passive-aggressive stal...Well lookee here, PMS is a passive-aggressive stalker!Medusanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-56297428653090162072010-10-04T22:38:33.575-07:002010-10-04T22:38:33.575-07:00Well, if you're just going to ignore my emails...Well, if you're just going to ignore my emails, I'll just have to start calling. O.oPostmodern Sociopathhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16942390583930125807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-82824319590311902372010-10-04T22:37:19.765-07:002010-10-04T22:37:19.765-07:00i'm being stalked by email by a guy who won...i'm being stalked by email by a guy who won't take no for an answer.. my bad for the coffee date. persistent little bugger.Zoenoreply@blogger.com