tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post4000404719522422640..comments2024-03-28T00:33:57.308-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: Sociopathic diversityUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger55125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-14847670330653734192015-10-05T19:52:27.641-07:002015-10-05T19:52:27.641-07:00Thanks, Chiquita. :)
Haven't heard from you i...Thanks, Chiquita. :)<br /><br />Haven't heard from you in awhile... Hope all is well with you and your family.Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06775944033599644634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-56025141894717985352015-10-04T04:05:33.671-07:002015-10-04T04:05:33.671-07:00Connection doesnt require an empathetic response i...Connection doesnt require an empathetic response in 100% of cases.Kelseynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-36827652008490681572015-10-04T03:43:50.288-07:002015-10-04T03:43:50.288-07:00@A
You facinate me, as everything you have been s...@A<br /><br />You facinate me, as everything you have been saying is highly relatable in regairds to myself. I identify as a full blown sociopath, although I dont believe I am this way by nature. Maybe it has little to do with that but I fully believe there have been many important, real-life events that ultimately contributed to my mental status. <br /><br />I remember being a highly sensitive child up to the age of about 6. My dad used to constantly yell at me (not my younger sibling) for pretty much anything and everything he could justify to himself, and I'm fully convinced he used to be, and maybe still is a narc. Not only that, but I picked up rather early that he saw freaking out as some kind of sadistic game, in which he won every time I broke down, cried, and ran off into my room. <br /><br />At a point, I got sick of being so weak in comparison and I started to grow this unwavering desire to make him lose at his own game. I pretty much never cried after that, ever, for any reason except on a few occasions which I can remember, but I know for a fact that I purposely manifested my own, rather successful, internal defence mechanisms, to a point where I even felt rather emotionally detached from everyone before I hit puberty.<br /><br />I still feel a wide range of very intense emotions but they are always short lived and I find the concept of empathy to be non-existent in my version of reality, and my emotional responses in regards to other individuals are always shallow, either that or I'm faking it. I believe that I am fully able to recognize and understand the emotions and plights of others, I just simply don't care about them on an emotional level, and I am utterly impoverished of the capacity to comfort someone unless I'm feeling like playing that game - and usually I am not in the mood. In fact, the majority of the time other people's emotionality is somewhat irritating to me.Kelseynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-89029629776596507942015-10-03T18:23:26.320-07:002015-10-03T18:23:26.320-07:00A , love listening to you - like a breath of fresh...A , love listening to you - like a breath of fresh air .....you remind me of my husband. Beautiful people. I wouldn't want to live without your personality types. I feel protected and loved. Your virtues are expressed by actions. 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He'd kick or shove me, tell me to go choke myself, or to play outside in heavy traffic whenever I did something to piss him off. Which for a period in my life was pretty much all the time. I was an insufferable smartass. XDAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06775944033599644634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-77822005637824729132015-09-29T09:55:50.562-07:002015-09-29T09:55:50.562-07:00I use the two terms interchangeably, although I un...I use the two terms interchangeably, although I understand that the term "psychopath" often refers to one born with the condition, and "sociopath" to describe the person who develops it as a result of abuse and trauma. Frankly, I think that is an artificial distinction, and that nature and nuture are always involved in their development.<br /><br />I am not someone with the full-blown, clinical manifestation of the disorder, but if anyone meets the diagnostic criteria in full, it was my father as a younger man. He was incarcerated for years for extremely violent crimes, for which he showed no remorse. And...Gasp! The man has feelings.<br /><br />Psychopaths and sociopaths have emotions. This conception of the sociopath as a robot, as popularized in the media, is false. As someone with a lot of sociopathic traits, I admit that my emotions responses are shallow. My feelings don't last long, and their manifestation is blunted. Wherein negative emotions such as sadness is concerned, this us both a reaction and a choice. I suppress the feeling quickly with thoughts of brushing myself off and getting it together, and then it's gone. The thing is, I am so used to protecting my core this way that I couldn't hold on to an intense emotion even if I tried. <br /><br />Sociopaths have "blunted affect", which refers to short-lived, shallow emotions experiences. We are not emotionless cyborgs. Even my father, who certainly would have qualified as a full-blown clinical specimen as a young man, has feelings. They simply manifest differently.<br /><br />Other emotions are also blunted (or practically non-existent) in us, such as fear. I think this is neurological, and related to a propensity for risk-taking. We fail to experience transformative remorse because our capacity to feel shame, guilt and remorse have been hijacked by the sociopathic defense mechanism.<br /><br />There is a lot of misunderstanding surrounding the emotional landscape of sociopaths and psychopaths. I'd like to see this explored a bit more in depth. Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06775944033599644634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-78128124541994729712015-09-29T09:14:20.970-07:002015-09-29T09:14:20.970-07:00I am another individual that Akpe Osilama awesome ...I am another individual that Akpe Osilama awesome has reached. 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I guess that even a c...Yes, what you write is true.<br />I guess that even a cold hearted psychopath has some sort of ability to connect and thereby have empathy. But it is ironic. Maybe it displays the multitude of human nature. Psychiatric labels are never really correct, even if that psychopath is really despicable.SomeOnehttp://www.google.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-49369297468880934462015-09-26T20:57:16.279-07:002015-09-26T20:57:16.279-07:00"If there existed a way to give you empathy a..."If there existed a way to give you empathy and eliminate your sociopathy, would you choose it?"<br /><br />Hahahaha, no. No way.<br /><br />"These mechanisms are quite different - like sensitivity to blame / blame-shifting. M.E. has talked about adopting codes (Mormonism) and creating processing shortcuts."<br /><br />Exactly, it took me a while to come to my own personal code and shortcuts. I never got ME's whole Mormonism thing, too cultish and honestly she seems to break the rules so often. I find just developing one's own personal code is easier.<br /><br />Shortcuts are easier, especially with the industry I'm in (pharmacy) and that's to simply be as lawful as possible. Follow every rule that way when people get mad you look like a paragon, plus you get the joy of hurting people using the rules.<br /><br />"Help her develop safely in accordance with her own nature."<br /><br />Exactly this, you need to guide her, but don't try to force anything foreign to her nature. Help her understand she gets more as part of society and that that means taking on certain burdens. <br />Scarletnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-39498831290421884432015-09-26T20:01:36.616-07:002015-09-26T20:01:36.616-07:00@ A
"There is even some evidence that many o...@ A<br /><br />"There is even some evidence that many of us were hypersensitive as children."<br /><br />I think there's something to this. My dad used to tell me "Don't be so sensitive." Of course he might have just been saying that to get me to stop complaining or point out that what he was saying was wrong.Southside Sociopathnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-23650721527398289342015-09-26T16:45:55.903-07:002015-09-26T16:45:55.903-07:00The person would be trying to connect and to be un...The person would be trying to connect and to be understood, and in that sense, yes, it would be asking for empathy. I asked why you would think that she is asking for empathy, because "empathising" is not something that a sociopath does with ease in some instances or life situations (take the "hysterics" of others, for instance). However, technically speaking, you are correct in thinking that a sociopath would be able to empathize with another sociopath regarding sociopathic thinking, understanding and way of life. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-61271371652957844072015-09-26T15:30:29.482-07:002015-09-26T15:30:29.482-07:00Would you respond to the email? If not, why not? A...Would you respond to the email? If not, why not? Also, why would you think that she is asking for empathy?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-5254372176330426092015-09-26T13:48:25.044-07:002015-09-26T13:48:25.044-07:00these are crude descriptors for "parenting&qu...these are crude descriptors for "parenting" as parenting includes assumed emotional states like love, forgiveness, patience, etc. I parent with all of those and I deeply love my daughter.<br /><br />Not necessarily. They are descriptors of *narcissistic* parenting. "Love, forgiveness and patience" are by no means traits universally exhibited by all parents, and there is no reason for me to assume that you manifest these just because you're a father.Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06775944033599644634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-2117072521593042552015-09-26T13:40:56.869-07:002015-09-26T13:40:56.869-07:00Don't worry about it. You didn't "tri...<br />Don't worry about it. You didn't "trigger" me. This is what I do here. I enjoy ripping people's posts to shreds I'd I think it is warranted, or the mood strikes. :)<br /><br />I simply took your words at face value and responded to them accordingly. Using sociopathic language to explain your relationship to your daughter misrepresents the veritable nature of said relationship, *if* what you say is true.<br /><br />Just because we are relatively unemotional does not mean we are unable to recognize the importance of safeguarding the emotional stability of our children. After all, sociopathy emerges as a complex defense mechanism to safeguard against the "dangers" of vulnerability, which opens us to being hurt. Most of us *were* abused. There is even some evidence that many of us were hypersensitive as children. At any rate, it is clear that there are genetic as well as environmental influences at play in the development of psychopathy.<br /><br />Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06775944033599644634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-66225861868384166332015-09-26T13:38:28.269-07:002015-09-26T13:38:28.269-07:00To the reader in the OP:
"I think having flex...To the reader in the OP:<br />"I think having flexible character and morals is so much more valuable then having identities and morals that you would go to war over. "<br />Any sort of rigidity around morals is forced, I think. <br /><br />"I have fit into many places and situations with wild success by mixing beautiful concoctions of lies and the truth. These partial narratives have created my outward identity. But in these narratives i do give glimpses of truth and with this i have been working on piecing together my true personal identity. What i have found about myself, is that I am complicated and have a rich story to tell. "<br />I wonder about the self, whether it is any more than the current state of integrating inputs (internal and external) and wired pathways. Is it more than knowing what you want right now, and having some sort of narrative about your past? History is always convenient narrative!!<br /><br />A friend recently sent me this link - you might be interested: http://www.sbs.com.au/news/article/2015/09/21/comment-neuroscience-backs-buddhist-belief-self-isnt-constant-ever-changing<br /><br />“Buddhists argue that nothing is constant, everything changes through time, you have a constantly changing stream of consciousness,” Evan Thompson, a philosophy of mind professor at the University of British Columbia, tells Quartz. “And from a neuroscience perspective, the brain and body is constantly in flux. There’s nothing that corresponds to the sense that there’s an unchanging self.”<br /><br />The unchanging self is the construction. <br /><br />"I will never identify as a sociopath because it feels like a betrayal."<br /><br />Could you please expand on this? Why is it a betrayal? Because your story is richer than a label (as I read from your following sentence, but I'm not clear.)<br /><br />Thanks.<br />Northnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-31175068558253268602015-09-26T13:28:32.834-07:002015-09-26T13:28:32.834-07:00It is fascinating, I enjoyed your post. I read pai...It is fascinating, I enjoyed your post. I read pain in "intolerable insult", and desperation in the gap between losing life, taking others and redeeming oneself. He can see his life is nothing, yet the survival drive remains, and the drive to belong. As you say, it's quintessentially irrational, it's deeper than logic. The logic is applied post facto.Northnoreply@blogger.com