tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post3489058598826406866..comments2024-03-28T00:33:57.308-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: The Unburdened MindUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger62125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-50942900938701805262016-06-12T10:20:55.747-07:002016-06-12T10:20:55.747-07:00I know exactly what it is like to envy people who ...I know exactly what it is like to envy people who have real feelings.I've always had to manufacture emotions and reactions for the purpose of seeming to understand the gravity or importance of what was being said or done.I've always wanted to learn how to feel anything.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-49502373360593233292016-06-12T10:19:58.710-07:002016-06-12T10:19:58.710-07:00I know exactly what it is like to envy people who ...I know exactly what it is like to envy people who have real feelings.I've always had to manufacture emotions and reactions for the purpose of seeming to understand the gravity or importance of what was being said or done.I've always wanted to learn how to feel anything.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-19303817129572634762015-06-19T14:43:48.717-07:002015-06-19T14:43:48.717-07:00agree that people who fall for sociopaths probably...agree that people who fall for sociopaths probably had a parent or some conditioning of inappropriate boundaries (narcissist) that makes them a target. sociopaths do not have appropriate boundaries, so taking from you, stepping on you, etc., is no problem. <br /><br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-6804640882440935432015-06-18T11:24:34.560-07:002015-06-18T11:24:34.560-07:00agree with last paragraph. the damage they cause ...agree with last paragraph. the damage they cause has yet to be added up. a person who always gets rewarded for no values because they can, destroys the goodness and righteousness of those who value love and truth. Imagine what these people do to their children and spouses. Actually, it's very shocking. because they get away with it and are supported by a huge percentage of the population who are naive in understanding this type of creature.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-8817665689850385702015-01-14T07:02:32.974-08:002015-01-14T07:02:32.974-08:00I am sorry to say that through my work in higher e...I am sorry to say that through my work in higher education I have known three Asian women sociopaths. Two are Korean. One was very hard to spot until I became her target. One was a student who went after a well-loved and respected female adjunct professor...and eventually another student. She was very easy for me to spot. There seems to be an internal blueprint for their behavior. Once you've seen it and you know the traits (read Martha Stout's excellent book) you can easily spot them too. Look for the person constantly grabbing for pity and you most likely have an S on your hands.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-59999119311103157362014-12-23T03:41:37.050-08:002014-12-23T03:41:37.050-08:00This is very interesting news website running 24 h...This is very interesting news website running 24 hours a day to keep their viewer updated all the time. <br /><a href="http://www.dehollisterco.com" rel="nofollow">www.dehollisterco.com</a> | <br><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13182352025230582376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-59663140169645183702014-11-24T23:06:39.446-08:002014-11-24T23:06:39.446-08:00Excellent share, this is a really quality post. In...Excellent share, this is a really quality post. In underlying objects theory I’d like to write like this too. Taking time and real effort to make a good article.<br /><a href="http://www.phillywedding.org" rel="nofollow">www.phillywedding.org</a> | <br><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-920521726751961392013-03-26T01:16:55.221-07:002013-03-26T01:16:55.221-07:00What an idiot.What an idiot.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-35978827777135320702013-03-25T22:27:47.334-07:002013-03-25T22:27:47.334-07:00I certainly did gain. She is not a less-than-desir...I certainly did gain. She is not a less-than-desirable. <br /><br /><br />"There is a good chance they had some hidden agenda, and are probably thrown off that you did not fall for it. " Maybe. She is a harmless pest. I do not want to treat her like one, though. I do not enjoy treating anyone like a pest. <br /><br />I am pretty sure i put up good boundaries. One of my friends said i should start giving her a finders fee. I kinda sorta offered and she said no. She is testing me to see if i want to be friends. She is sooooooo nice. <br /><br />Does this scenario happen to a lot of borderlines??Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-61631021775809444132013-03-25T22:05:50.820-07:002013-03-25T22:05:50.820-07:00ther's only 2 problems in the world: how to ma...ther's only 2 problems in the world: how to make money and how to spend itAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-28434596838171762042013-03-25T17:24:01.200-07:002013-03-25T17:24:01.200-07:00It is either a control thing or like how they woul...It is either a control thing or like how they would react to loss of any asset when they are not ready to depart or dump. So, the best way to let a psychopath let you go is to reduce your value over time or make your services cost too much or play boring and depressed all the time. These strategies would work on some empaths, too, who wants to be around a high cost low return asset?Scelinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-44559204397565123712013-03-25T16:40:32.899-07:002013-03-25T16:40:32.899-07:00Given that psychopaths are supposed to be incapabl...Given that psychopaths are supposed to be incapable of love, why do they find it so difficult to let relationships go - i.e, when it's the other person's decision - is it a control thing? What do they achieve by trying to force continued contact? Appreciate any insights.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-56422613451821281872013-03-25T13:13:31.084-07:002013-03-25T13:13:31.084-07:00"Most likely it has something to do with the ..."Most likely it has something to do with the confidence they exude, the ease they seem to feel in any situation—a trait that comes easily in someone essentially incapable of fear or anxiety."<br /><br />The psychopath I know suffers from terrible anxiety from time to time. Not that it shows, but if you're close to him you get to see it. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-27974318577458419292013-03-25T13:06:18.539-07:002013-03-25T13:06:18.539-07:00How could I have come to be this age and not touch...How could I have come to be this age and not touched hate ? I mean hate in it's maggot infested, blood pustule, kill you until you die and then some hate. It was was supposed to be nice or I thought I would explode like food that is not to be heated beyond a certain temperature or it triggers nuclear war, or some unforeseen shit.<br /><br />I believed some manner of lies to see myself so vanilla. If it could have worked, it would have been nice, but when it doesn't work, YOU are the carnage you are trying to walk over or walk around like those tip toeing through through mine fields.Up From The Sofanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-19276261208156042362013-03-25T11:16:42.864-07:002013-03-25T11:16:42.864-07:00It depends. But, in general, if they were working...It depends. But, in general, if they were working so hard to be with you they were getting enough from the time you spared for them. There is a good chance they had some hidden agenda, and are probably thrown off that you did not fall for it. <br /><br />True friendships happen when there is no effort required in giving from both sides. I'd think given that you are ready to get away, you shouldn't have even spent a moment of your time with these less-than-desirable friends. I hope whatever you thought you gained was worth your time.no time for thosenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-11750919006552126872013-03-25T09:55:04.177-07:002013-03-25T09:55:04.177-07:00Hello sw :
I would like to hear a good example of...Hello sw :<br /><br />I would like to hear a good example of this: <br /><br />"I know the words, AND the music, AND I'm pretty good at conducting the piece, too. However, I think the tune is awful and I refuse to sing along to it. "<br /><br />you are at a meeting and you see someone inch up to you to get something, some reciprocal thing from you , and you say to yourself you see what they are after. They, indeed, say we "people should stick together ." They also want a friendship . This is quite obvious. But they are enthusiastic abt helping you. <br /><br />and you say to yourself you do not want to be in this kind of arrangement because it will require you to do work and ALSO socialize with this person who is not your cup of tea. Because it is a requirement now.<br /><br />You feign interest. Then they come up with lots of goods and free services and you think to yourself wow that is my gain and you see you SHOULd reciprocate because you will get more free stuff from them..<br /><br />so you do. ANd you help them because it is not a big deal. THese things you are good at and they require very little effort, ie: no skin off your back.<br />.<br /><br />There is a luna path in the forum and someone said that people will see that you are a in exchange-for-stuff kind of person. Personally, i used to think this was too much of a idk, burden on me because ...well, idk....probably because of the friendship thing. <br /><br />SO I Decide to go along with it, because i see it is not so bad to give out my friendship, even though they are annoying. ANd I keep enough distance (lie) so i can be free.<br /><br />Eventually, I feel in the end that this is more trouble than it was worth, because they are slightly pushy abt being your friend.<br /><br />SO you walk away in a very, very nice way, just sayig how BUSY you are , or something reasonable like: I have been going through a rough time, and depressed<br /><br />THey do not know that you have ..idk ANd you do not feel guilty because they are the ones who initiated so much and expected more. <br /><br />You saw it the whole time and "took advantage" of their good will, all the time knowing they were after a friendship.<br /><br />Ok. Question: <br /><br />Have i just wiped my oily hands on them and used them like a paper napkin?????<br /><br /><br />Me, i do not identify as a sociopath. <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-90254474515384259352013-03-25T09:34:50.136-07:002013-03-25T09:34:50.136-07:00The narcissist falls in love? They are not capabl...The narcissist falls in love? They are not capable of this emotion.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-77457057457694965282013-03-25T09:15:53.240-07:002013-03-25T09:15:53.240-07:00If that really is the case... then I truly pity th...If that really is the case... then I truly pity the Sociopath...<br /><br />The Sociopath becomes a mere spectator, in the little theatrical where the Narcissist who is attracted, falls in love and eventually becomes obsessed with their own mirrored reflection.<br /><br />Because who else, but a Narcissist, could become so obsessed with their own reflection, in this performance where their own behaviour is being mirrored?<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-50791906603211609792013-03-25T08:44:43.588-07:002013-03-25T08:44:43.588-07:00Dunno, but most asian interactions, mimics and ges...Dunno, but most asian interactions, mimics and gestures seem to be full of guilt all the time, at least to me.MyMindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13411114622362794794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-8394104248824781522013-03-25T07:15:00.075-07:002013-03-25T07:15:00.075-07:00Forgive my simplistic and superficial opinions in ...Forgive my simplistic and superficial opinions in this post:<br /><br />Here is a female Asian sociopath for you: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wendi_Deng_Murdoch<br /><br />Females have traditionally been shamed by their parents (if not aborted) in Asia that the chances are a larger percentage of Asian females are sociopaths compared to the West. And, given that the boys are looked up to so much they will either be high performers (tall guys) or NPDs (short guys). What a world.Socio bitches of Asianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-15921047866463036382013-03-25T06:29:04.613-07:002013-03-25T06:29:04.613-07:00Monica 5:14
"I think that is why the obsessi...Monica 5:14 <br />"I think that is why the obsession for the sociopath gets so bad and is so painful."<br /><br />I think the push and pull routine that the s/p uses is very successful in creating the pain. imoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-55745350268570441582013-03-25T06:22:34.302-07:002013-03-25T06:22:34.302-07:00Could be.........but I bet these victims had at le...Could be.........but I bet these victims had at least one parent that was narcissistic/sociopathic - or a caregiver. We like the familiar and of course to work thru the damage.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-8727413200707289502013-03-25T05:14:04.232-07:002013-03-25T05:14:04.232-07:00@Anna
I noticed she has an earlier date but I ha...@Anna<br /> I noticed she has an earlier date but I have an opinion about why certain women( or ir could be men) attract sociopaths, over and over. I think these people were never mirrored and cannot see their own selves. This leaves them in a continual state of wanting and needing. What they need is their own self reflection like Echo in the myth. However, they really have little way to find it. The sociopath shows up and mirrors them. It is glorious beyond glorious because they have themselves, for the first time, maybe. I think that is why the obsession for the sociopath gets so bad and is so painful. It is the loss of the self, again. That is my opinion. What do you think?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-27682040621469617272012-03-03T16:15:59.559-08:002012-03-03T16:15:59.559-08:00I seem to attract sociopaths and aspies... what is...I seem to attract sociopaths and aspies... what is with that? Anyone have any advice?<br /><br />The best way to describe myself is highly rational and empathic mixed together... I have empathy for others, but there is a lot of emotional stuff I am too rational to understand or be bothered with... <br /><br />Think I want to get tested by a psychiatrist... sometimes I think Im a sociopath, but the empathy thing is strong though too - but not in the same way other normal empaths have it (???)Annanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-9752854231084164872012-03-03T16:09:27.953-08:002012-03-03T16:09:27.953-08:00I am an empath which i love sometimes, but I defin...I am an empath which i love sometimes, but I definitely envy the sociopaths ability to move through the world unaffected by the restrictions empathy can impose. <br /><br />I wish I could turn it on and off. Itd be so useful - is that a sociopathic thing to think? I am actually trying to teach myself to turn it off, but not to the extent that it disappears forever.. I love the rush of feeling love too much to let it go completely.Annanoreply@blogger.com