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But we all feel like we do, and it leads to suffering. Eg husband acts boorish and we think, "why me? He shouldn't do that. I have to get even. blah blah blah" - and that's a lot more than just living life as it comes.<br /><br />If you've done mindfulness practice, you've got the ability to concentrate and pay attention, which is 99% of what you need to do the LU thing. The process: get an account, post on the board asking for a guide. Answer the questions.<br /><br />The questions are about your sensory experience - nothing personal. I suspect sociopaths have an easier time with that stuff. Scatterbrained people have a harder time.<br /><br />When you really see all along that you don't have the self you've thought, it is a ridiculously liberating experience.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-20614913328282458542014-10-20T08:48:22.189-07:002014-10-20T08:48:22.189-07:00Anonymous, I practice mindfulness meditation a few...Anonymous, I practice mindfulness meditation a few times a week. I believe it does change a person at its core. Like you stated, you want others to be happy and enjoy it. I enjoyed your thoughts and experiences on this thread. And yes, I believe Paul was a sociopath. It's never based if one is good or bad -- that's the one thing I really enjoy about the creator we believe in. :) Superchicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-46813732550000186812014-10-20T08:24:45.687-07:002014-10-20T08:24:45.687-07:00I meant non- monogamous. Lol my husband got to ex...I meant non- monogamous. Lol my husband got to experience what you talked about in your past. I kinda envy him that he got his release. But he always says nothing compares, nothing compares with my wife/mistress. By the way I'm his mistress too. :) I just have to be good and bad. It's in my nature. Lol.Superchicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-43882360481407538032014-10-20T08:16:59.195-07:002014-10-20T08:16:59.195-07:00HL, right on. One to one is very special and shou...HL, right on. One to one is very special and should be encouraged more. Sex is like that... intense and feeling each other's soul from within. I like to call it spiritual sex between partners. I have never had any other partner within my marriage bed. I admit thoughts come withim my mind, but it remains as fantasy. My husband knows, he calls me a little freak sometimes. Lol. We all have them if we were honest with ourselves. but it will always be tucked away within my head, I will never act on them. . Other people play outside of marriage, and that's totally fine with me, we are created differently and non-monogous marriages are very miss understood as well. My husband will look at the animal kingdom and say "these animals mate for life." I look at the other animals in the kingdom and say, we'll "these animals don't." Lolol. but I just think of the consequences afterwards. I just can't risk it. Never. :-)<br /><br />Say hello to Ma Haller. She seems like a very nice gal. I'm glad you two have each other. Superchicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-576337119561020792014-10-20T00:55:16.831-07:002014-10-20T00:55:16.831-07:00At a certain point I realized I needed to figure o...At a certain point I realized I needed to figure out what was going on with me, because I had some very antisocial habits; the sort of things which, if they make the papers, wreck your life. <br /><br />Initially I meditated for practical reasons. Later I meditated because I wanted to be able to see things clearly. I didn't do it to have certain feelings.<br /><br />I was quite surprised to notice myself enjoying others being happy or wanting to alleviate their suffering. <br /><br />My own experience suggests that psychopaths that do what it takes to transform their brains can be more loving (selfless love) and compassionate (seeing and acting on others' suffering) than normal people that just do the normal thing.<br /><br />Given my selfish, amoral and unkind outlook, trying to convince me to be a better person would have been a non-starter. Once I saw that I wasn't seeing reality and was making errors, I wanted to fix things.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-25943865060804558182014-10-19T19:53:17.988-07:002014-10-19T19:53:17.988-07:00I have a busy day tomorrow. So M.E. might just as ...I have a busy day tomorrow. So M.E. might just as well publish some new stupid comment. I won't have time to read it and try again to murder this web site. It's a web site that has more lives than Jesus. Or the Terminator. Radical Agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08630112321918941568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-53671034457531262622014-10-19T19:51:43.832-07:002014-10-19T19:51:43.832-07:00When my wife (Tina is close enough because she hat...When my wife (Tina is close enough because she hates that variation on her name) and I were early in our relationship, she complained early and often when things did not go her way. Our daughter and i bought her the famous Boynton picture of a cranky cat (on a tea mug) that says, "Everyone is entitled to my opinion." [I now drink from it as often as she does, but I drink coffee half the time.) I also told her that she was the victim of the "Interstellar Anti-Tina Comspiracy" (which some deluded people might confuse with God). She has decided instead of demanding that the universe do what she wants, she will tell me to do what she wants. Sometimes I do, and sometimes I don't. It's a close call, but that is why we are still married after 48 years. No guarantees. For our 50th anniversary (which comes around Thanksgiving), we might get divorced. Then we might get married again. For all I know, Jesus might celebrate our anniversary by returning. Don't bet on it.Radical Agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08630112321918941568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-43346569482775775082014-10-19T19:34:49.260-07:002014-10-19T19:34:49.260-07:00...yanno...when you want autocorrect to be helpful......yanno...when you want autocorrect to be helpful...<br /><br />You get the idea - HLHallernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-57674140322402321272014-10-19T19:32:57.527-07:002014-10-19T19:32:57.527-07:00@ Superchick: Between Ma Haller and "Pa Super...@ Superchick: Between Ma Haller and "Pa Superchick" Immathinkin I'd have my hands full...but what I ride it would be, I am sure! 8D~<br /><br />Being watched and group "activities" are more or less in my past. These days I'm more interested in the "one on one, I want to own your soul" angle and Ma Haller's holding that dance card. However, she doesn't own my mind so my imagination if free to go where it night... *smirk*HLHallernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-79888189812083326322014-10-19T14:16:15.162-07:002014-10-19T14:16:15.162-07:00"Dumb from my pov." I do look at my ugly..."Dumb from my pov." I do look at my ugly mug in a mirror from time to time. Do you? Perhaps it might improve your pov.<br /><br />I am feeling anxious, bitter, contemptuous, confused AND unfulfilled. All at the same time. Unlike physics, in the human mind, many states of mind can occupy the same space. I am sure the largest number ever recorded is 10 to the whatever power. <br /><br />Yesterday, I learned that my daughter, her wife, and their 10 year-old, a very bright child who goes to a private school for 10 year old geniuses (for bright children of guilty billionaires and their diverse also brilliant but not so rich peers) are about to go on a trip to England and Finland.<br /><br />Her mommies suggested, "AE, in the meantime, just as a project to keep you busy and out of mischief, come up with a cure or vaccine for ebola."<br /><br />In my usual constructive way, I added, "AE, please do it in the next few months, so you can be the youngest person ever to win the Nobel prize for medicine. As you will be in Finland in a few months, it will be convenient for you to stop over in Sweden to pick up your prize. Remember, plan ahead."<br /><br />My daughter, somehow, manages to continue speaking with me. Once in a while.Radical Agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08630112321918941568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-16655743999490212252014-10-19T13:55:47.333-07:002014-10-19T13:55:47.333-07:00RA, are you able to identify when you are feeling ...RA, are you able to identify when you are feeling anxious or bitter or contemptuous or confused or unfulfilled ...? Forget about units.<br /><br />Whatever my respective background in detail is does not matter and is not something I share on public anonymous forums at all. However, I arrive at this doesn't matter and why would anyone believe what I wrote?<br /><br />You may not have gotten what I meant by humour and seriousness. I meant that to be truly serious one must have humour about oneself. I wouldn't say that a humour impairment in this context is serious, it is just dumb from my pov.DoctorSciFihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13423928917489228542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-59060774197971344442014-10-19T13:02:07.635-07:002014-10-19T13:02:07.635-07:00RA, if you really were a sociopath, you already wo...RA, if you really were a sociopath, you already wouldn't care what anyone on this site thinks of your posts. The fact that you need guidance in this matter tells me that your therapist is right. We are all complete strangers to you - if you really were a sociopath, our opinions would mean nothing. You're not a sociopath, you just wish you were. If you can't even convince your therapist of your delusions - what makes you think you'll be able to convince any real sociopaths? We can recognize our own. Mnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-63568548911929865782014-10-19T13:01:42.143-07:002014-10-19T13:01:42.143-07:00I was trying to ask what units "anxiety"...I was trying to ask what units "anxiety" is measured in, and whether those units are metric or whatchmacallit.Radical Agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08630112321918941568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-30156644102773123032014-10-19T13:00:12.996-07:002014-10-19T13:00:12.996-07:00Trying to get my slipping mind to calibrate the di...Trying to get my slipping mind to calibrate the difference between "analysis" and "observation" inspires me to be a wee bit (is that in metric system or "English" system that we "exceptional" Americans feel compelled to cling to as who knows what god wanted us to measure with besides inches or toes or erect or flaccid penis)?<br /><br />There is nothing more humorous than seriousness. And nothing more serious than humor impairment. A day when nobody at SW makes me laugh with their stupidity is a day when I am compelled to look in the mirror. I think a point only exists in a two-dimensional universe. When I was taking geometry and algebra in high school, non-Euclidian geometry sounded rather intriguing to me. I thought it would be a religious experience to understand it. I was surprised to learn that God created a three-dimensional planet but a non-Euclidean universe that only he and Einstein and a few other genii understood. I presume you fall among that number and I admire you extravagantly. Where did you graduate, and in what branch of scientific pursuit? My daughter graduated in biology, studied horticulture, and now is rather distinguished in medical mathematics, having an uncontested paper on ethics of juvenile liver transplants published (or will be one of these years) published in a prestigious (for those who follow these obscure genres) publication. In my case, the fruit falls far from the tree.Radical Agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08630112321918941568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-16107672227800634962014-10-19T12:25:53.244-07:002014-10-19T12:25:53.244-07:00RA, I do try to distinguish between an analysis an...RA, I do try to distinguish between an analysis and an observation. SciFi means not what most seem to think it does. I have a bit, a small fragment of a sense of humour about myself. I am a scientist by training and career (not related to any topic here), I don't take this too seriously. I try to think, you know, rationally, but that lack of seriousness is there. Which means it is very serious. Do you see my point?<br /><br />Are you anxious these days?DoctorSciFihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13423928917489228542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-3496931262887864642014-10-19T12:02:42.545-07:002014-10-19T12:02:42.545-07:00DSF, although no one can fully diagnose themself, ...DSF, although no one can fully diagnose themself, for the current second, your analysis rings true. Even though you are a fake doctor of science fiction with a degree from a Caribbean diploma mill, and hardly know who H. G. Wells is, much less John W. Campbell, Robert Heinlein, Isaac Asimov, much less Philip K. Dick (far more psychotic and brilliant than I am, though he cheated with pharmaceuticals), I think you are spot on. Oh, yes, I lied about not coming back. If a liar tells the truth, is that schizophrenic word salad. I think I am paying attention to you. But once again I am lying.Radical Agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08630112321918941568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-23527784516846100552014-10-19T11:32:03.306-07:002014-10-19T11:32:03.306-07:00RA, your writing resembles at times word salad in ...RA, your writing resembles at times word salad in schizophrenia. It's interesting that you can simulate that so convincingly sometimes. I don't see you as an asshole. You want to bring lots of attention to yourself that's all.DoctorSciFihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13423928917489228542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-26173738674860941692014-10-19T09:55:13.000-07:002014-10-19T09:55:13.000-07:00My main addiction, besides breathing oxygen, hydra...My main addiction, besides breathing oxygen, hydrating my body with fluid, and consuming (too much, but under reasonable control) food, is being an asshole. I have never belonged to “AA” (a religious delusion group for struggling with addiction. It started as “Alcoholic Anonymous,” and like a mutating amoeba or paramecium evolved into a variety of “Twelve-Step” Groups. At least 34 listed at Wikipedia, with some close variations as well.<br /><br />I am about to propose two new “12-Step Groups.” Each appropriate to call themselves “A.A.”; though I imagine we would get sued. (I imagine that the acronym has been copyright, registered, or otherwise laid claim to by some amorphous group that thinks it has been created by the imaginary being known as “Something greater than myself.” (Any self-respecting sociopath – perhaps an oxymoron – certainly does not believe in “something greater than myself.” I have very little so it would be nor worth to trouble to sue me unless you really want four aging hens who can barely lay one egg a day. So here goes.<br /><br />A.A. : ASHOLES ANONYMOUS. If you decide not to be an asshole, you will be in deep trouble. I leave the shitty exploding details to your imagination. Wipe your imagination carefully after you let it out.<br /><br />A.A. ANONYMOUS ANONYMOUS. Here, I will demonstrate how it's done. I am not an agnostic. I am an atheist. I am not radical. Nutritionists insist that “free radicals” are bad for our health, and that apples counteract free radicals. I ate some apple pie and yoghurt for breakfast. With one fell swoop I fought the free radicals in my body and engaged my sugar addiction. <br /><br />But I will de-anonymize myself more. My name is Steve Kahn. That's almost my birth certificate name. I have no middle initial or name. I am 70 years old. I forget my blood type. I don't know my DNA profile but I presume I have one. <br /><br />How many anonymice are there on Sociopath World? Come on out of your mousehole. You have nothing to lose but your meaningless mouse life. Here's the neighbor's cat. Here's my four hens, who like to peck mice to death, but are too old and feeble to pull it off anymore. (I bought them some live mice and the hens gave a feeble peck and let the mice escape into our woods, where they soon fell prey to the snakes, eagles, owls, raccoons, and other predators who live in unnatural harmony with my wife and I. <br /><br />I don't have time for futilely trying to destroy this web site today. Please answer this comment. I won't read your comment until Tuesday at the earliest, if I am still alive by then. I am lying. Radical Agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08630112321918941568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-33356665063323763802014-10-19T09:06:24.465-07:002014-10-19T09:06:24.465-07:00I've started reading Surprising Purpose of Ang...I've started reading Surprising Purpose of Anger. I find it valuable. <br /><br />Can I ask about your motivations for getting involved with NVC, meditation and other, for lack of a better word, 'healing' practises? Was it just something you stumbled upon and got more interested in as time went by? Were you looking for opportunities to be able to experience love and compassion, in particular, or make those emotions more enduring, or is it just something that happened as a by-product of pursuing other goals?DoctorSciFihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13423928917489228542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-8164267733274772882014-10-19T07:45:06.448-07:002014-10-19T07:45:06.448-07:00"You are, however, a mean motherfucker, and t..."You are, however, a mean motherfucker, and that in itself is respectable." lolol luv this site :P<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-26881306000959174052014-10-19T05:47:11.160-07:002014-10-19T05:47:11.160-07:00"You used the label yourself so you have a de..."You used the label yourself so you have a definition of it in your own mind, I guess."<br /><br />I wouldn't use that label to talk about me now. I have used the label "psychopathic" to describe various behaviors.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-5363088466112173412014-10-19T05:26:46.965-07:002014-10-19T05:26:46.965-07:00"I asked the wife (also a psychopath)" -..."I asked the wife (also a psychopath)" -- I was asking according to your own definition, implied here, whether or not you think you are a psychopath now?<br /><br />You used the label yourself so you have a definition of it in your own mind, I guess.DoctorSciFihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13423928917489228542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-86411179350277191252014-10-19T04:08:02.036-07:002014-10-19T04:08:02.036-07:00Dear Radical Agnostic:
The reason I addressed you ...Dear Radical Agnostic:<br />The reason I addressed you personally in my prior posting is because I HAD<br />read some of your postings where you indicated you wanted to destroy this blog.<br />When someone says they want to destroy something, and the person seems as<br />intelligent as you, I take them at their word. I glad to hear you have no desire to<br />do it, or is it that you just don't believe you CAN do it?<br />As far as informing me that my "love" for M.E. is "hopeless," you are not telling<br />me anything that I don't ALREADY know. My "love" for ANYONE would be<br />hopeless, and that is the way it's been for MANY years.<br />There is the REAL world, and my IMAGINARY world, and the two NEVER meet.<br />Only fantasies can be controlled. Unless you are a sociopath of course, and you<br />try to live out your fantasies. That's what serial killers do. And I don't have the<br />agressiveness, and the risk taking courage to do that.<br />Because the real world is too dull and harsh for me, I do antisipate that I WILL<br />take my own life at some future date. It ultimately comes down to whether I<br />would like to leave on my OWN terms, or on a sociopaths terms.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-3340169737583317822014-10-19T03:12:50.453-07:002014-10-19T03:12:50.453-07:00"I am asking if you believe yourself to now b..."I am asking if you believe yourself to now be a psychopath."<br /><br />It depends on what you mean by psychopath. How would you define it? "Psychopath" has such negative connotations. I can see where someone could be psychopathic but not be so antisocial to get called a psychopath.<br /><br />It might help if you asked about particular traits. E.g. I'm utilitarian. But so are <a href="http://www.sentientdecisionscience.com/emotion-and-reasoning-the-competing-forces-in-moral-judgment/" rel="nofollow">meditation practitioners (eg Buddhist monks)</a>, so that alone doesn't say much.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com