tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post2777373292551282172..comments2024-03-28T00:33:57.308-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: Female sociopaths and the "no hard feelings" approachUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger85125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-25927962591682120252013-02-02T12:03:00.152-08:002013-02-02T12:03:00.152-08:00yoloyoloAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-7980652772855135752013-02-02T12:02:31.492-08:002013-02-02T12:02:31.492-08:00penispenisAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-73699236830645373862012-10-07T16:39:01.795-07:002012-10-07T16:39:01.795-07:00Uh... no. If I felt there were no longer beneficia...Uh... no. If I felt there were no longer beneficial factors to the relationship(which I hardly even get involved with long terms anyway)I just let them know that they're boring as shit (or terrible in bed or something like that) and that they just don't do it for me. No need for manipulation or crying skits, why waste energy for something so useless? This girl is either chickenshit or extremely lazy. I see nothing sociopathic about it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-30124857238018523832010-10-02T10:07:56.989-07:002010-10-02T10:07:56.989-07:00oops, what i meant was his attack on you was in a ...oops, what i meant was his attack on you was in a way logical. do you see why?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-80719175880032119452010-10-02T08:34:28.696-07:002010-10-02T08:34:28.696-07:00well, back peddling may not be correct. but why co...well, back peddling may not be correct. but why confused? just because someone posts it, that doesn't mean it makes any sense. and why apologize? or were you being polite? don't be so apologetic. <br /><br />are you really a guy? your writing style seems female to me (no offence meant). writing as you think is great for creative writing, brainstorming etc, but when you're contributing comments to a forum it's better to figure out what you want to say, and even better to first figure out what you want from the responses. <br /><br />UKan's position is that the reader is a timid empath afraid of confrontation (more or less). my position is that there is not enough information (and that the reader is exhibiting behaviour that is characteristically female). <br /><br />what is your position? you speak from all points of view but build a case for none. this leaves the impression that you have nothing to say. i like your description of the reader as a "weaker sociopath". interesting concept. but you don't make a strong case for it, and then dilute the point further by the hedging and mental meandering in the next paragraph whose purpose only seems to be to deflect attacks.<br /><br />Ukan's response was, in a way, a logical one.Zoenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-86614170200935569842010-10-01T20:03:35.470-07:002010-10-01T20:03:35.470-07:00Stick to my guns? Now I am confused. I never thoug...Stick to my guns? Now I am confused. I never thought she was in the category I was talking about. I was simply speaking from all points of view. I never thought she was the female being nice to use them later. I was just throwing out that possibility for conversation. I guess if I used the term SOCIOPATH instead of WOMAN it would have been more clear. Sorry for that. I never thought she was the stronger type of character.<br /><br />Maybe I shouldn't think type, it confuses people....<br /><br />I need a beer, something...lol<br /><br />I guess that's what happens when people think too hard in a situation that isn't theirs, atleast for me this is true.Jessenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-66697416429089453462010-10-01T19:41:37.380-07:002010-10-01T19:41:37.380-07:00the behaviour she describes does not prove she is ...the behaviour she describes does not prove she is a sociopath. but non-confrontational behaviour does not mean she is an insecure empath (any more i think than confrontational behaviour means one is secure). could go any which way: sociopath, empath, secure, insecure. more information needed.<br /><br />that she's on a sociopathic site and relates her behaviour to sociopathy rather than empathy suggests something. i'm just not sure what. <br /><br />i need a cup of coffee.... :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-57539451947477869422010-10-01T19:23:55.566-07:002010-10-01T19:23:55.566-07:00If she is just a confused insecure fails to face c...<b><i>If she is just a confused insecure fails to face confrontation woman, like most suspect here, as do I really, then she doesn't apply to the category of smarter more complicated to figure out sociopaths.</i></b><br /><br />jesse why the back peddling? stick to your guns.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-46511021998455731632010-10-01T19:10:58.340-07:002010-10-01T19:10:58.340-07:00Lol, thank you medusa, I am a newbie XD.
UKan'...Lol, thank you medusa, I am a newbie XD.<br /><br />UKan't figure out what name you want to use:<br /><br />Ofcourse I'm going to have contradictions. I am writing as I am thinking. In regards to women sociopaths being smarter, I meant in general, not this one in particular. If she is infact doing this game to make it seem like she cares in order to use them later, then she falls into the category of hard to figure out sociopathic women. If she is just a confused insecure fails to face confrontation woman, like most suspect here, as do I really, then she doesn't apply to the category of smarter more complicated to figure out sociopaths.<br /><br />Do you get it now? I'm not some doctor with true proven facts and experimentations with quotes that are stated from a thesis I made into a novel. This is a simple comment from a guy who doesn't understand, and is putting out his opinion, OPINION! Please repeat that word in your head over and over again until you get it.<br /><br />I'll admit I am clueless to the world of sociopathy, alot of the people who aren't sociopaths that come here are, hence why we come here, to figure it out, put out opinions, gets some insight, and good, or degrading, conversations. Get it? You are the one that seems clueless here...Jessenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-17528162419196149442010-10-01T16:39:30.399-07:002010-10-01T16:39:30.399-07:00UKan said...
Another statement was that they would...<b><i>UKan said...<br />Another statement was that they would call her and ask her out, and she would lie to them. Why lie? Why pickup the phone at all? She felt compelled to explain why she wouldnt hang out with them. Being unconfrontational she lied to spare his feelings not to make some plot. Its obvious. What else would you gain.</i></b><br /><br />why lie? you lie because it's easier, less work, and most importantly, when dealing with men and/or emotional situations, it's second nature. you pick up the phone because otherwise it will keep ringing, and you tell them what they want to hear. it's not about sparing the feelings, but managing them. <br /><br />managing feelings is an art, and it's own form of conquest. doing a disappearing act or avoiding the person is cowardly and you may be only delaying the confrontation. confronting the person and ending it can mean burning bridges. while no doubt sociopathic charm could restore the bridge if required, that will be more work. plus, you've given up control and containment of the situation by dumping them. if you get them to leave you, they can still be "yours".<br /><br />i've always thought of this behaviour not only as sociopathic, but also characteristically female. there is some overlap there. we have honed our ability to manipulate to get what we can't get directly because over the centuries men have had all the power. while that's no longer always true, instinct prevails. we come with the equipment to soften the blow in emotional situations, and have to learn other approaches from experience. <br /><br />i imagine a sociopathic female would excel at this. what advantage would she gain from emulating more direct male behaviour? coldly dumping the guys would only earn her the reputation of being a bitch, or worse.<br /><br />but i agree with you that this particular reader may not be a sociopath. i wonder how she handles other life situations? what if the guy just refuses to leave?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-34615480793988649212010-10-01T15:06:00.633-07:002010-10-01T15:06:00.633-07:00Hit a nerve somehow? Jesse if you could ever hit a...Hit a nerve somehow? Jesse if you could ever hit a nerve on even a suicidal depressed teenage gothic girl holding a razor blade to her wrists, it would be by complete accident.<br />You're stupid, because you are contradicting facts with your 'maybe' guessing games. It's retarded. You must get duped a lot in life. You're mind seems to bend towards 'Benefit of the doubt'. I, however, won't give you the benefit of the doubt at all. You are entirely clueless.UKan B Cluelessnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-64847252945768061342010-10-01T13:10:03.484-07:002010-10-01T13:10:03.484-07:00I don't think Jesse is stupid. He's just a...I don't think Jesse is stupid. He's just a newbie, is all.Medusanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-15556228077770755552010-10-01T11:23:01.194-07:002010-10-01T11:23:01.194-07:00WHAT!? How am I stupid? Because I said women are s...WHAT!? How am I stupid? Because I said women are smarter in the sociopath world? Did I hit a nervesomehow?<br /><br />I was born ignorant, but every person is, and no, I am not broken. What kind of question is that?Jessenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-70579682762997070022010-10-01T10:07:39.664-07:002010-10-01T10:07:39.664-07:00Jesse how did you become so stupid? Is it somethin...Jesse how did you become so stupid? Is it something you were born with or are you just broken?UKant B Seriousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-62032253600459206092010-10-01T07:40:34.777-07:002010-10-01T07:40:34.777-07:00Although I agree with the fact that she wants to a...Although I agree with the fact that she wants to aviod confrontation, maybe she doesn't care, and plans on using them in the future for something else. She wouldn't be able to if she just up and left them shattered. So if this is the case, that brings up another point. Maybe she is a weker sociopath. Her game in getting isn't too great, and she has to hold onto to the people she suckers because she is not good at the capture. She may move on, try with someone else, end up not succeeding, and then go back to the men she already played that game with. Just a thought. I am still learning about socoipaths as we speak, lol.<br /><br />Whatever the case may be, I doubt she is a full fledged sociopath. It can be hard to tell with women because they are more complex. I think women sociopaths have emotions, and they use those emotions to further the damage on their victims. Not to completely insult the male socios here, but I think the female sociopaths are smarter in their game. This woman may be an example, but I guess we'll never really know.Jessenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-36052397349972385092010-10-01T06:55:12.102-07:002010-10-01T06:55:12.102-07:00lol
Gracelol<br /><br />GraceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-43018886557644254472010-10-01T06:52:46.780-07:002010-10-01T06:52:46.780-07:00Faking crying has never occurred to me as being so...Faking crying has never occurred to me as being something I needed to do; of course, neither has faking orgasm.Aeriannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12695552218636965775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-36931715255543641412010-10-01T05:10:54.311-07:002010-10-01T05:10:54.311-07:00I'd be inclined to believe they were system gl...I'd be inclined to believe they were system glitches. A few times I've submitted short comments that it claimed to accept, but they never posted, and they certainly weren't anything that anyone would find insulting or inflammatory. At first, it accepted my HTML tags, but now it always claims they are unclosed, which is a patent lie right out of Hell. Just little annoying things that irritate the shit out of me.<br /><br />I had chalked them up to the universal -- and possibly Divine -- conspiracy to commit random, senseless acts designed simply to frustrate me. But now that I see that others are involved, I may have to rethink. Is it possible that I'm not the sole intended target of these petty irritations, or are these peripheral acts merely diversions intended to attempt to convince me that I'm indeed not the center of the universe?Gabrielhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13502410478372253294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-83446143986417631032010-10-01T03:39:59.220-07:002010-10-01T03:39:59.220-07:00My disappearing comments were brief.
But, okay. I...My disappearing comments were brief.<br /><br />But, okay. I'll take your word for it.<br /><br />I also thought it would have been out of character for you to do such shady juvenile stuff here.Medusanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-56435460222931987332010-10-01T03:24:52.042-07:002010-10-01T03:24:52.042-07:00I take back my insults M.E.. Thought it strange of...I take back my insults M.E.. Thought it strange of you to switch it up.UKannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-2470620149446209902010-10-01T03:23:16.265-07:002010-10-01T03:23:16.265-07:00My apolgies it is a system glitch. For some reason...My apolgies it is a system glitch. For some reason if you copy and paste something that used to be too big and make it smaller it will delete it. No matter how many times you paste it. You have to retype it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-77835600389621631362010-10-01T03:17:30.089-07:002010-10-01T03:17:30.089-07:00I found it wierd that it would be the above post a...I found it wierd that it would be the above post as it has nothing to do withem.UKannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-51283853546289719122010-10-01T03:15:25.678-07:002010-10-01T03:15:25.678-07:00For the most part sociopaths relationships are a o...For the most part sociopaths relationships are a one night stand or long term. The long term partner is based on someone whos useful and valuable. They thrive on confrontation. They have purpose in everything they are doing. They use people. They are not afraid to abandon you coldly and to her face reguardless of how it makes you hurt. Ask anyone in here who's broke up with a sociopath.<br />People who have low self esteem and abandonment issues tend to have short burst relationships that last until the infactuation wears off. They have commitment issues with men who are not dominant. They have lack of initiative so that is need they want filled. Instead, they seek men who are safe because they are afraid that Mr. Right will abandon them and leave them hurt. They are right in a sense, because they are extremely vulenrable when with a dominant man, but they treat nice guys like shit. This is why they say nice guys finish last. They are afraid of confrontation, and engage in passive aggressive behaviour compulsivly. <br />She said that men cried to her during their break up. This shows the type of men she seeks. Everyone has a type and Im sure she did break her pattern. She tends towareds weak men and finds them undesirable in a matter of months. Fits right in.<br />Another statement was that they would call her and ask her out, and she would lie to them. Why lie? Why pickup the phone at all? She felt compelled to explain why she wouldnt hang out with them. Being unconfrontational she lied to spare his feelings not to make some plot. Its obvious. What else would you gain.<br />She claimed she would fake cry when they broke up with her. To what end?<br />The reality was she was crying because her heart was broken, and she rewrote history to delude herself that shes in control.<br />Another statement says she would comfort her crying ex. Why? What sociopath can stand the pathetic sound of crying? Maybe if there was something at the end of the trail of tears, but no. No instead we are led to believe it was a diabolical plot to get men to break up with her. Why not say you're now a lesbian? How bout fucking someone as they walk through your door? Why make him break up with you at all. Why not break up him? She wants to spare his feelings, because shes afraid of confrontation.UKannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-42759497444794693562010-10-01T03:03:54.833-07:002010-10-01T03:03:54.833-07:00I'm thinking that the Anon from the 9.29 is ME...I'm thinking that the Anon from the 9.29 is ME.<br /><br />And/or maybe he's trying to prove some kind of point, since I stated the other day that I knew that ME didn't like intervening in the comments when Grace posted that email address. It was just an assumption on my part.<br /><br />Or perhaps this is just me being narcissistic. But the timing is odd.Medusanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-50323354631152863312010-10-01T02:53:36.682-07:002010-10-01T02:53:36.682-07:00For the most part sociopaths relationships are a o...For the most part sociopaths relationships are a one night stand or long term. The long term partner is based on someone who's useful and valuable. They thrive on confrontation. They have purpose in everything they are doing. They use people. They are not afraid to abandon you coldly and to her face reguardless of how it makes you hurt. Ask anyone in here who's broken up with a sociopath.<br />People who have low self esteem and abandonment issues tend to have short burst relationships that last till the infactuation wears off. They have commitment issues with men who are not dominant. They have lack of initiative so that is a need they want filled, but they seek men who don't because they are afraid that they will abandon them and leave them hurt. They are right in a sense because they are extremely vulenrable when with a dominant man. This is why they say nice guys finish last. They are afraid of confrontation, and engage in passive aggressive behaviour compulsively. When they are alone they go on a downward deppressing spiral so they need attention.<br />She said that men cried to her in the break up. This shows the type of men she seeks. Everyone has a type and I'm sure she didn't break her pattern. She tends towards weak men and finds them undesirable in a matter of months. Fits right in.<br />Another statement was that they would call her and ask her out, and she would lie to them. Why lie? Why pick up the phone at all? She felt compelled to explain why she wouldn't hang out with them. Being unconfrontational she lied to spare his feelings not to make some plot. Its obvious. What else would you gain. <br />Another statement said she would fake crying if they broke up with her. To what end? The reality was she was crying for real and has rewritten history to delude herself that she's in control.<br />Another statement says she would comfort her crying ex. Why? What sociopath can stand the pathetic sound of crying anyway? Maybe if something was at the end of this trail of tears, but no. No, instead we are led to believe it was a diabolical plot to get men to break up with her. Why not say you're now a lesbian? How bout fucking a man while he's walking in? Why make him break up at all? She wants to spare their feelings, and that's the only logical explanation.UKannoreply@blogger.com