tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post2446805274448490199..comments2024-03-28T00:33:57.308-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: Learning to be sociopathic (part 2)Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger92125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-49070776954771190212012-07-12T01:10:22.593-07:002012-07-12T01:10:22.593-07:00Awww, the memorees :)Awww, the memorees :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-59263134729362375712012-06-02T00:52:27.677-07:002012-06-02T00:52:27.677-07:00Dear Anon (12:08),
One thing about sociopaths is ...Dear Anon (12:08),<br /><br />One thing about sociopaths is that they have seen a lot of people 'tagging' them. They just want to know who they are left with who does not tag them as dangerous. The moment a person tags, they leave and they leave cold because they don't want to get hurt. It's an innate human desire to protect one's self, even at the cost of others. <br /><br />Beneath all this, there is a child who is violently looking at the world. It's the perception, waiting to get hurt and then leaving cold. It happened in the past with others and the trigger inside me is waiting for the next one. It happens subconsciously. Others do hurt them and then they are tagged as dangerous. That's kinda unfair!<br /><br />Do you see the logic? It's the perception and it can knock you off any day if you scared and fail to understand. But if you want to help, make sure you have guts to discuss like this on the face of your ex. Reach the child within. If you cannot handle or do not want to handle, just walk off. Don't tag him for others. You are spoiling his World. He will know it someday. Secrets are hard to keep. He will know it is you. The girl whom you wanted to help, will do it for you.<br /><br />I can talk about all this because I am a sociopath, I do have feelings but those of getting hurt and leaving cold. And to you I might sound just so scary and probably reminding you of your ex. You don't have to sympathize with me, but just don't spoil my World! I see it in a different way. I am a sociopath.<br /><br />- Sociopathic and nice guy, want to stop the slide!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-75366704678098119912012-05-31T06:05:08.969-07:002012-05-31T06:05:08.969-07:00Someone once told me that they found it easy to re...Someone once told me that they found it easy to read others, but when it came to me, he had absolutely nothing. I told him I like to keep it that way, and then I thought, was it better to be an unreadable book, or one where you only let them read the parts you want?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-30530434345859780702012-05-25T15:37:55.297-07:002012-05-25T15:37:55.297-07:00If I wanted to chat with you, I'd just do it.If I wanted to chat with you, I'd just do it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-34226029035459526032012-05-25T15:36:36.299-07:002012-05-25T15:36:36.299-07:00Tell me why
I don’t like Mondays
Tell me why
I don...Tell me why<br />I don’t like Mondays<br />Tell me why<br />I don’t like Mondays<br />Tell me why <br />I don’t like Mondays<br />I wanna shoo-oo-woo-woo-woo-oot the whole day down<br /><br />HAHAHA ITS TIME GUYS!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-17993068720782271192012-05-25T13:37:28.173-07:002012-05-25T13:37:28.173-07:00Or maybe YOU want to chat, Raven, so you try to ma...Or maybe YOU want to chat, Raven, so you try to make me ask for it, lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-73066241802707134272012-05-25T13:19:31.310-07:002012-05-25T13:19:31.310-07:00Thanks for your time, doc :) , I'll think abou...Thanks for your time, doc :) , I'll think about what you wrote and maybe write something about it later (probably not today).<br />Raven, so you are suggesting me to ask some SW regular to chat with me? Well I think this would fail, unless the other party would want to chat/help too :)<br />Everyone, feel free to comment or ask something.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-82116829391246488672012-05-25T13:16:36.111-07:002012-05-25T13:16:36.111-07:00Shut the fuck up, Raven.Shut the fuck up, Raven.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-6372541912370443152012-05-25T13:10:21.516-07:002012-05-25T13:10:21.516-07:00Great job, Doc. You sound like a straight up gu...Great job, Doc. You sound like a straight up guy.Snakenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-84429492236901400532012-05-25T11:32:48.277-07:002012-05-25T11:32:48.277-07:00haha yeah I agree 10:27 "maybe socios are jus...haha yeah I agree 10:27 "maybe socios are just more honest" there's a big hole right there.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-12228914664033843422012-05-25T11:20:27.254-07:002012-05-25T11:20:27.254-07:00If I was close to you and then I discovered you we...If I was close to you and then I discovered you were a sociopath, it would definitely affect my feelings for you. To suddenly realise that, having assumed you had some kind of feelings for me <br />(as lovers or only friends), everything had all been an act and you wouldn't care if something bad happened to me, you would manipulate me if you saw fit and could represent an emotional or physical danger to me would completely freak me out. So at best I'd keep you at arm's length and at worst I'd get you right out of my lifeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-76893300169413953322012-05-25T08:50:17.546-07:002012-05-25T08:50:17.546-07:00Yes yes yes yes ad infinitumYes yes yes yes ad infinitumAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-30877681709430523512012-05-25T08:44:40.380-07:002012-05-25T08:44:40.380-07:00I think you are mistaking a psychiatry degree with...I think you are mistaking a psychiatry degree with a proof of intelligence . You realize how rare "competent " doctors are? One even told me "your son isn't autistic , I saw him talk to a little boy in the waiting room" lol...aspie wifenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-87117457914100062242012-05-25T08:31:00.209-07:002012-05-25T08:31:00.209-07:00Mee, find yourself someone to talk to who doesn...Mee, find yourself someone to talk to who doesn't use your query to satisfy another agenda.<br />Medusa will tell you the truth about what she sees you doing here. She has more insight, and intelligence, and she won't idealize or demonize you.<br /><br />Detached people are a wonderful source for truth. They aren't looking at you through their emotional baggage.<br /><br />Keep in mind that the way you comment on a blog is not enough to read a persons whole character, or life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-72827385927596964582012-05-25T05:26:59.316-07:002012-05-25T05:26:59.316-07:00I will give my last entry, now, for purposes of ti...I will give my last entry, now, for purposes of time but I can be called on by you, Mee.<br /><br />Another factor which bodes well for you is that you seem to be able to relate to others in a way that shows respect for those around you. You may think this is common. However, it is not especially in emotionally disordered people. Take a look around SW and see the people who use people for their own "fun".<br /><br />You may say that this is just a blog and it doesn't matter. It DOES. It shows the character of that person. Character matters in mental and emotional health, Mee. Character can take you a long way to emotional health if you have had a disadvantaged background. Character can shape your life for the better. Hang on to that character, Mee. Build it up to the highest degree possible. Read biographies of people who rose above like Frederick Douglass. He is one of my personal favorites. Your character will stand by you if and when your world falls down around you. I hope you are understanding what I mean. I suspect you are.<br /><br />I will be back when I can, Mee. I hope my words offered something of value to you.Dr Franklin Fomentile Phdnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-57132926221722678492012-05-25T05:19:05.263-07:002012-05-25T05:19:05.263-07:00I will be around, Mee. This does not have to be t...I will be around, Mee. This does not have to be the last time we talk. You can leave questions for me, and I will check back, from time to time.<br /><br />For now, I will continue. You must be very,very careful to whom you trust your mind and your mental and emotional health. This is the most important thing of anything I say. Mental health professionals can make you worse. If you do have sociopath leanings, the wrong therapist can scar you for life, by a diagnosis which can stick with you like glue. Your job potential as well as other life potentials may be diminished. I am not telling you what to do, as I cannot advice on such a grave matter as your seeking professional help, from the vantage point of a blog. That would be folly. Just be careful to whom you entrust your precious mental health. <br /><br />As far as my observations of you, I will continue.Dr Franklin Fomentile Phdnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-23189092600161121162012-05-25T05:11:41.305-07:002012-05-25T05:11:41.305-07:00Mee, your asking for help in the way you have show...Mee, your asking for help in the way you have shows me several things about your character and basic personality. You have a modicum of humility. That is rare. You may not think so, as I take it you are young. However, it is very rare. Humility will be one of the traits that will keep you in good stead. Humility is one of the cornerstones of a healthy person. Every emotionally healthy person is humble. Every emotionally sick person lacks humility, in my experience.<br /><br />I watched you ask for help and be scorned by Medusa. That was LACK of humility on her part. Raven has lack of humility, as well. People with this kind of arrogance scorn people who need help. We all need help, Mee. It is the healthier person who asks for it. It is the more emotionally handicapped person who must appear to need no or little help from others. In fact, a mark of a emotional illness is this false arrogance, this mask of not needing anyone. It is not true humility. True humility is seeing oneself as one is, not too big, not too small, right sized.<br /><br />I noticed this one factor about you, as well as some other healthy markers. This one factor plays a part in why I think you can design your life in a positive way. I will continue.Dr Franklin Fomentile Phdnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-17577116552406217262012-05-25T04:58:47.028-07:002012-05-25T04:58:47.028-07:00Thank you Mee. I will respond to your request, a...Thank you Mee. I will respond to your request, as that is the only time I offer my thoughts beyond general comments on the blog. This is the internet and I don't know you as a long term patient. Please, keep my analysis in that context, Mee. I have not seen as much of you as I have Raven, so my ideas need to be taken with that caveat, too. If you agree to take what I said with these guidelines, I will offer a thought or two.<br /><br />Mee, I think you can have a life which is full of everything you want and desire. I think you can make your life be what you want. I don't say this to everyone because I don't believe this to be the case, for everyone. I will explain why. Also, I don't say this to everyone, as I don't talk in a superficial or light handed fashion. People are important to me. People's feelings are important but TRUTH is more important.<br />Truth is health. Always remember that and you will stay on the healthiest road, emotionally.<br /><br />I will continue.Dr Franklin Fomentile Phdnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-87268468287210207782012-05-24T22:27:02.089-07:002012-05-24T22:27:02.089-07:00There are many holes in that argument. Especially ...There are many holes in that argument. Especially in the last paragraph.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-26065449494663754872012-05-24T21:59:35.979-07:002012-05-24T21:59:35.979-07:00Well her second failure would be entertaining. And...Well her second failure would be entertaining. And maybe I should give it a try (why not?)? <br />I don't want to visit a doctor, lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-74889314232175923062012-05-24T20:27:37.590-07:002012-05-24T20:27:37.590-07:00question - are you a sociopath if you are right th...question - are you a sociopath if you are right that most people are not fundamentally good? Maybe you are the normal one, if the people surround you are petty, nasty, envious, sniveling, little idiots..who think they have the upper hand but pretend to be "good" lol?<br /><br />If you are fundamentally happy, but hate 99% of the population, maybe it's the population that is socio but disguising as empath and you're the real empath who sees people for what they are.<br /><br />Maybe socios are just more honest, they see reality versus the rose tinted glasses illusion about everyone including themselves..most people like to think they are "good" but to admit that you are not perfect that you are looking out for yourself more than others isn't that more honest than deluding yourself as an empath does?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-42032975850267199582012-05-24T20:07:37.985-07:002012-05-24T20:07:37.985-07:00ManiAzer stopped coming here long before Monica sh...ManiAzer stopped coming here long before Monica showed up.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-35058718110143755442012-05-24T19:49:29.395-07:002012-05-24T19:49:29.395-07:00Yes, she was.Yes, she was.Mɵᴅʊsahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13217438537249025614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-92048985159276049912012-05-24T19:33:25.945-07:002012-05-24T19:33:25.945-07:00@Medusa Sometimes. Again, it depends. For example,...@Medusa Sometimes. Again, it depends. For example, at uni in speech class. If someone messes up their talk there's a few things most people do; laugh or get angry. People are mostly the same. You, or at least I, can tell when I see someone what they'd do. When someone walks up to talk and they mess up and I have them pegged in my mind as someone who'd totally ignore the error and just keep going on and they freak out and storm off the stage, I've obviously made a big error. And I've got some re-evaluating to do. Maybe I've just been lazy or didn't notice something. Unlikely. The main goal of most sociopaths is to find out as much about the 'normal' people's personalities. To use it against them maybe, to find the weakness; or maybe just to use it as part of their own 'fake' personality. It's always fun to switch things up and become a new person. <br />But the same thing goes for manipulation. If I've got someone pegged to respond in a certain way and they respond differently, I've made an error. Or maybe they just have an emotion I don't understand. Or maybe they're a bit less boring. Maybe their not as easy to crack as I thought or actually realize they're being manipulated. Maybe they're, at least in some capacity, up to play back. When I'm in the mood, those are the best kinds of people. A challenge is good every once in a while, as is a change. Helps to fine tune the skills. And it's not as boring.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-46203927118770428392012-05-24T19:00:18.250-07:002012-05-24T19:00:18.250-07:00She can't. She only knows how to attempt at di...She can't. She only knows how to attempt at diagnosing me. That was a total fail, though. Go see a real doctor.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com