tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post1984583091531462157..comments2024-03-18T07:07:07.291-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: More on crueltyUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-35095789433746729682013-07-22T01:09:13.338-07:002013-07-22T01:09:13.338-07:00Thank you fred and mach empath. Thank you fred and mach empath. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-76333786713272268112013-07-21T16:59:52.781-07:002013-07-21T16:59:52.781-07:00She lost me when she included Israeli's as sed...She lost me when she included Israeli's as seductive people. I spent 6 months there, and can't imagine how anyone could find Israeli's to be particularly versed in the seductive arts. They might be the least seductive people I have ever lived with.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-73173952978830820602013-07-21T16:50:58.070-07:002013-07-21T16:50:58.070-07:00@ 10:10
re: judging.
I judge. Just differently ...@ 10:10<br /> re: judging.<br /> <br />I judge. Just differently than I used to. Life has smacked me around enough to teach me that I am not the nicest, smartest, prettiest girl who DESERVES only good things. I have disappointed friends and I divorced the father of my four children. I am no angel and for that reason, understand that it is hypocritical of me to judge other people as "good" or "evil". We're all a mix and if we are still alive we are still in process. <br /><br />So how do I judge? I pay attention to people who are desperate to ascertain who is "in" and who is "out" and then contort themselves to align themselves with the current "it" person. Those people tend to make great small talk partners, but can be problematic if you reveal more than your feelings about the weather. <br /><br />Also- those who don't understand that everything changes, and that the person you are today has everything the choices you make NOW. It doesn't matter if you made the honor roll last semester and saved a box of drowning kittens last semester if you are coasting on that reputation to disguise the fact you are really insecure and manifest that insecurity by scapegoating someone who is not positioned socially in a manner to defend themselves against your attacks... those people? I judge. They suck. onewomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11320973006497715467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-69306679295030735242013-07-21T07:27:02.972-07:002013-07-21T07:27:02.972-07:00I understand this dull feeling inside when u feeln...I understand this dull feeling inside when u feelnan apology is in order but u think it isvfor them not u. I thin the same thing goes for when a person says "apology accepted" but they know you are just being polite about apologizing. That is also feeling dull to me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-9503974913035838852013-07-20T21:26:06.410-07:002013-07-20T21:26:06.410-07:00Fred what makes u angry besides rudeness?Fred what makes u angry besides rudeness?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-23577806535157540742013-07-20T13:37:01.439-07:002013-07-20T13:37:01.439-07:00There's the rub: I cannot put any "feelin...There's the rub: I cannot put any "feeling" into my apology, because I don't feel much (if anything) at any given time. I can do a nice apology, I think, but I've a very hard time conveying deep remorse in a sufficiently convincing manner.<br /><br />Shame, really, because, from a purely mental standpoint, I AM sorry. I recognise that I was needlessly unkind. <br /><br />Oh well. She was never the most pleasant person anyhow.<br /><br />Anon 10:10, I try very hard to make a cultured and polite impression. I DO judge people, but not according to most conventional norms, I don't think. I like excellent manners, a pleasant appearance, and civility. If a person has these qualities, I'm generally happy to converse with them. Sexuality, race, social standing, political opinions, background, etc., take a very distant back seat.Frednoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-85378682009675066302013-07-20T10:10:49.066-07:002013-07-20T10:10:49.066-07:00shall we talk about guilt?
according to some theo...shall we talk about guilt?<br /><br />according to some theories on narcissism there is a passing feeling of guilt, however it is not remorseful. It's a selfish kind guilt, I think. <br /><br />I know it because my parents and sibling say I'm sorry all the time. They have no recollection of having made you feel bad in the past, they don't remember. And when you point it out, they say or think you are sensitive and then explain themselves as if there is a valid reason like "I just tell you the truth. Am I supposed to edit myself, be your "yes man" . I just trying to help / have my opinion" They discount your FEELINGS. <br /><br />May I ask the sociopaths a question? ALso Machiavellian Empath? I under the impression that empaths (and idk maybe sociopaths) make a nice impression. They really do not obviously judge. They won't let on they criticize you in their head. They may explain to you your feelings but in a validating sort of way. It may be a selfish nonjudgment based on the fact they always would like you to feel good and accepted so they may use you or something else "selfish" but one walks away feeling good. <br /><br />Am I accurate or delusional Mach Empath? You have studied here a long time. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-29116468668345385242013-07-20T09:38:56.218-07:002013-07-20T09:38:56.218-07:00How do you know "there was no guilt" @ ...How do you know "there was no guilt" @ 10:39? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-8534183356498532452013-07-19T23:08:54.901-07:002013-07-19T23:08:54.901-07:00Being polite is a very good trait.
It is hard t...Being polite is a very good trait. <br /><br /> It is hard to do when you have vitriol. i like that word vitriol. i have VVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVitriolEAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-36667671004937048252013-07-19T22:42:29.211-07:002013-07-19T22:42:29.211-07:00How are you feeling, Fred?How are you feeling, Fred?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-50065378070158714392013-07-19T22:39:07.141-07:002013-07-19T22:39:07.141-07:00oh i just reread.
it was appropriate. ok. No ...oh i just reread. <br /><br />it was appropriate. ok. No of course you aren't expected to change the past. <br />there was no guilt, so why the apology? do people addicted to being mean go around making amends like the alcoholics do? <br /><br />I have vitriol for people who go around trying to act like they feel guilty. It's very see-through for me, very phony, very annoying. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-3220082611853192012013-07-19T22:08:42.688-07:002013-07-19T22:08:42.688-07:00I am confused as to why you wanted to apologize to...I am confused as to why you wanted to apologize to her.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-6834373913973274082013-07-19T14:39:45.231-07:002013-07-19T14:39:45.231-07:00Yeah, she clearly wants your meat.
She wants to t...Yeah, she clearly wants your meat.<br /><br />She wants to tenderize your flesh and feast on your intestines.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-19040710886333272292013-07-19T14:28:43.280-07:002013-07-19T14:28:43.280-07:00The vitriol (in her response and that of Anon) is ...The vitriol (in her response and that of Anon) is mysterious to me. I was not brought up well (to say the least) so I'm essentially flying blind when it comes to doing the 'right thing,' in almost any human interaction. But I've followed the anti-bully campaigns that are so pervasive today, and I genuinely thought an apology was appropriate. <br /><br />I can't be expected to change the past, now can I? <br /><br />Frednoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-7058584796043408242013-07-19T14:16:51.311-07:002013-07-19T14:16:51.311-07:00Please prove you're not a robot.Please prove you're not a robot.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-58535241511060918152013-07-19T14:15:37.966-07:002013-07-19T14:15:37.966-07:00Shit happens.
Niggers happen.
It's life.Shit happens.<br /><br />Niggers happen. <br /><br />It's life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-83843444638729917052013-07-19T13:15:17.985-07:002013-07-19T13:15:17.985-07:00Well, that's silly. It didn't work because...Well, that's silly. It didn't work because I was merely being polite (alcohol makes me magnanimous that way sometimes). She was very unattractive still (and I prefer the company of men). I suppose I should have mentioned that. <br /><br />Yet another occasion when I was supposed to feel badly, I take it? :DFrednoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-75745744052969025642013-07-19T11:34:19.100-07:002013-07-19T11:34:19.100-07:00And what makes you say that?
Bad experience or wer...And what makes you say that?<br />Bad experience or were you just bucking to be a twitter star?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-81142766435320045402013-07-19T11:26:11.026-07:002013-07-19T11:26:11.026-07:00BUT ITS OK WHEN BLACKS DID IT and the black parthe...BUT ITS OK WHEN BLACKS DID IT and the black parthers to openly adovocate murdering whitw babiesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-31526714104811496812013-07-19T09:08:50.825-07:002013-07-19T09:08:50.825-07:00Sceli, it is always nice to see you. How are you?Sceli, it is always nice to see you. How are you?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-16174159256201469832013-07-19T09:06:44.719-07:002013-07-19T09:06:44.719-07:00Fred: Ha. she'd wanted to give you no purpose...Fred: Ha. she'd wanted to give you no purpose. She was devaluing both the events in school as well as your apology to nothingness. It didn't work. I would have done the same, however I'd have pretended well that I hadn't remembered you at all. I would have asked you for your name and introduced myself. I might have even gone so far as to ask you for your number and never called, My antisocial x may have done the same. <br /><br />It would have been a delicious. It would have been a (futile?, not sure, but worth the possibility of) gamblers effort to give you the gift of no meaning, no value, no satisfaction, no narcissistic supply whatsoever. I would have made you seem utterly invisible and neutered in the most naive and simple way. You'd have entertained me and perhaps made my day. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-28801488161026042562013-07-19T08:29:36.344-07:002013-07-19T08:29:36.344-07:00I don't know how to address the points brought...I don't know how to address the points brought up in this post, as human nature is simply an incomprehensible mystery to me at best. It's terribly confusing, because while I perceive the cruelty for what it is, I'm always shocked to be judged as worse somehow, quite by accident! <br /><br />In short, I don't think I'll ever be 'bad' in the right sort of way, at the right time. Bullying of this sort bores me, I suppose because it seems petty and I'm not one to go along with the crowd out of fear. If I mean to bully someone, I'll be right out front doing it (and I'm likely to eschew backup from any comrades) and I'll be committed to it. If it's not my show, why bother?<br /><br />I have stuck up for people who were being bullied as well, I assure you. If things get too unseemly, or detract from what the purpose of the gathering is, I'll speak up. I used to help those being bullied because I thought they might appreciate me, even see a good side to me, I suppose. Unfortunately, in nearly every case, the 'rescued' one eventually comes to crave the approval of the group who was originally persecuting them, and any gratitude is quickly forgotten. No good deed goes unpunished, as they say.<br /><br />This reminds me of seeing a woman I used to pick on rather ruthlessly at school, years after we'd graduated. I'd been drinking, and felt a sudden impulse to apologize to her. She looked at me with utter loathing and coldly stated she didn't remember any of it. I went back to my drink and tried to puzzle it out, to no avail. It's not possible that what she said is true, so why not accept my apology? Or just tell me to piss off? You see what happens when I try to be good? Frednoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-13887761053984146352013-07-19T06:35:35.591-07:002013-07-19T06:35:35.591-07:00the most frightening thing is that there's not...the most frightening thing is that there's nothing behind the sociopath's maskAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-75589405809324546802013-07-19T04:45:34.543-07:002013-07-19T04:45:34.543-07:00There was a popular song from the decade of the 19...There was a popular song from the decade of the 1960's called "The In<br />Crowd." It was sung by a man named Dobie Gray. <br />In the song he boasts about how he belongs to the "La creme de la crem"<br />social set. Appearently, the "in crowd" can have everything. They are<br />exclusive and can only look down on the commoners.<br />There was a saying from the last century: "Everybody wants to get into<br />the act!" Everybody wants to see themselves as unique and exclusive.<br />Every claim is opposed by a counter claim. This is why there is so much<br />voilence in the world. What was World War II except a conflict between<br />"The Master Race" and the "Chosen People?" The Islamic religion-which sees itself as the FINAL revelation of God-will grudging permit the <br />existance of Jews and Christians (As long as they know thier place) but<br />by no means allow the existence of post Mohaddian faiths. The Bahi religion is as gentle and accepting a religion as can be-racial tolerance<br />complete equality towards women etc... they are completely opressed by<br />Moslems.<br />The one solution to this whole prediciment is to believe in the following<br />two quotes: 1)"I am a citizen of the planet Earth." and 2) "The real<br />chosen people can only can only encompass the entire world." Listen to<br />"Imagine" by John Lennon.<br />I would like to finish this posting by clearifying my viewpoints on<br />Asperigers. Please correct my viewpoints if I'm wrong. I was under the<br />impression that people suffering from Asperigers syndrome had difficulity<br />interpeting social signals, i.e. the emotions coming from others. I never<br />ment to say that Asperger people are bullies, killers, or overly<br />agressive. I know they are extremely frustrated and angry people. They<br />rarely act out but when the do-watch out! With all the suppressed fury<br />they feel they can erupt with the force of a vulcano. The great <br />intelligence of such people (Ennagram # 5's) ensures that they plan their<br />vengence well. That's why the two mass murder events of recent years with<br />this highest number of casuties, Virgina Tech and Sandy Point elementry<br />school, were committed by people with aspergrs.<br />To cut down on the frustration that Asperigers people feel, it would be<br />necessasary to provide them with a consistant sexual outlet. I was kind<br />of hoping the robotization would be advanced enough so we could have<br />andriods almost like "the real thing" (As depected on T.V. shows like<br />"The Twilight Zone") but didn't work out that way. Even regular white<br />guys are finding it difficult to get girls so I can imagine what it must<br />be like for Asper type men. Oh, well as the ancient Greeks used to say,<br />"The door is open."<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-18637650354155727522013-07-19T02:17:56.207-07:002013-07-19T02:17:56.207-07:00First?First?Scelinoreply@blogger.com