tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post1764612452373045818..comments2024-03-28T00:33:57.308-07:00Comments on Sociopath World: Dating other sociopathsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger195125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-30674389753273198142014-08-18T01:42:47.330-07:002014-08-18T01:42:47.330-07:00I recently found this blog and I cannot stop readi...I recently found this blog and I cannot stop reading. It feels good to feel understood! And this post, is everything. <br /><br />I have left behind a long string of failed relationships, all with the same pattern: make them fall in love with me, date them for a short while, get bored, cheat and/or break up with them and move onto the next victim. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-41862153446436558972014-02-12T14:04:52.753-08:002014-02-12T14:04:52.753-08:00I can see the logic, and I've often thought th...I can see the logic, and I've often thought the same.<br /><br />I want many of the same things, but I've realised a couple flaws.<br /><br />1. Though I don't 'love' in that deep romantic agape sort of way, I get a nice warm fuzzy feeling by knowing someone is mine. They're my shiny new toy. They're my entertainment. My pet. The 'game' of making them love me is my main motivation. A sociopath would be a challenging mark, for sure, but I want a challenge, not someone truly incapable of love. Them loving me is my preferred method of control. Unfortunately, once it gets there, I lose interest. Its quite the paradox.<br /><br />To the OP-<br />Socios are good at what they do. Its quite possible that you've met a sociopath. The guy that's charming and seems to expect love right away may just be the 'path of your dreams. Sociopaths often want to get married, to mimic love, to have power. Don't you see?RomanticDouchenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-59056511199346208992013-03-23T11:58:48.648-07:002013-03-23T11:58:48.648-07:00I often think the only person i will be able to en...I often think the only person i will be able to end up with will a another sociopath. i have had many boyfriends and although i may like being around them and enjoy sex, a deeper emotional loving connection is not gonna happen and they figure it out and leave which is fine, i would think another socio would be easier you would be able to understand that we may be together for years but love isnt happening, more of a life friend with sex, someone to hang out with, go see a movie and 1 person to safely have sex with and maybe it would better, the less emotion involved the better, but i have never actually met another sociopath, that i know of, and i would like to think i could pick one out no problem, although i would have to go out and try to meet people and that seems like too much work for the end results to be they love me now so i have to get out before they want to get married or something equally as no good. i dont want love, i want someone to watch movies with, cuddle with (because i feel close to ppl when cuddling and it is the only time), have sex, and generally understanding the stuff in my head, and not make me have to fake it and have someone that understands sometimes it is annoying knowing i cant fall in love sometimes i get mad at myself because i am sick of getting use to someone then they leave cause i dont care enough or whatever their reason, which to be fair usual is my fault, you can only act like you feel close and emotional for so long before they seee through it, so another soc would be great i think, i look forward to meeting one someday. although on the flip side of that i think a lot of the reason i do not do some things i want to is because i can not do it alone, and if i was with another person with the things i would like to do, the 2 of us would talk ourselves right into it easily. we could talk about it, roll play and eventually we would want to go out and do it, that scares me a little because i know i could do awful things to people given the right situation. Blossomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17734565481709487159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-31866819197186264242013-02-13T16:04:01.713-08:002013-02-13T16:04:01.713-08:00I still don't see the incentive for an actual ...I still don't see the incentive for an actual sociopath to be in a relationship with another sociopath. Why would a sociopath bring in a worthy competitor in something as controllable as who they are dating? That's the easiest and one of the most satisfying parts of life to conquer, and I just don't see a sociopath relinquishing the upper hand in that aspect of their life. <br /><br />Personally I'm not a sociopath, I just have some traits like lack of guilt, empathy, and sympathy but I don't have the drive to be constantly charming and manipulation, I'm only like that when I have targets in mind. This girl I'm currently sleeping with took a ton of interest in me even when I'm in my detached callous autopilot mode, this is less effort I've had to put in to impress almost every girl I've been with, I never have to put on a mask for her. I have a hunch she is a sociopath I really can't confirm yet though, she's either the nicest girl in the world or a completely glib sociopath. She has a beautiful smile that has no warmth to it at all. The first time I saw her, she had that icy smile and eyes straight on me literally the entire few minutes I was talking to someone next to her even though I wasn't really paying any attention to her. The smile wouldn't move. She hasn't dropped the persona yet, even when there's no reason to keep it up, it continues in sex where she is so submissive. She's probably not a sociopath and this is completely irrelevant to anything. I still wouldn't be surprised if I woke up with my head cut off.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-68390235820923468242013-02-10T17:19:12.710-08:002013-02-10T17:19:12.710-08:00Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.Bhttp://earthinheaven.tumblr.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-51040653333358038722013-02-09T20:27:21.620-08:002013-02-09T20:27:21.620-08:00no it wasthe one abt the time period being just di...no it wasthe one abt the time period being just different and with a purpose or something. I thouht you felt that and that was why you chse it,or something.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-14727060536038328332013-02-08T13:58:33.265-08:002013-02-08T13:58:33.265-08:00the longest living person recorded was a French wo...the longest living person recorded was a French woman, who lived to 122 or so. i have some French blood!<br /><br />many years of posting ahead maybe :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-57248402560168959112013-02-08T13:54:25.037-08:002013-02-08T13:54:25.037-08:00more like 89 and not a day youngermore like 89 and not a day youngerda Couchnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-2672460517272626572013-02-08T12:15:54.416-08:002013-02-08T12:15:54.416-08:00oooh it says it was recorded in 68!
okay i can&...oooh it says it was recorded in 68! <br /> <br />okay i can't tell a lie i am really almost 70 <br /><br />but i still have all my teeth. :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-43239021555744626002013-02-08T12:13:03.974-08:002013-02-08T12:13:03.974-08:00the 70's right? i couldn't get into this w...the 70's right? i couldn't get into this when i was a little kid. it seemed like music for old people. i ran across it on youtube recently and found i liked it. but i'm kind of old-ish now ha so maybe that's why?<br /><br />is that what you were getting at?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-41066589976620953312013-02-07T13:11:55.816-08:002013-02-07T13:11:55.816-08:00Hahahaha I actually laughed out loud at this. Kudo...Hahahaha I actually laughed out loud at this. KudosAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-44184597044177927252013-02-07T13:04:52.009-08:002013-02-07T13:04:52.009-08:00Worrrrrddddd. Beautiful game indeed.Worrrrrddddd. Beautiful game indeed.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-83809306673140534702013-02-07T09:02:48.090-08:002013-02-07T09:02:48.090-08:00lol
SOmeone has to laugh. So than you!lol <br /><br />SOmeone has to laugh. So than you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-88489045536824805222013-02-07T09:00:07.508-08:002013-02-07T09:00:07.508-08:00Monica, yes, because then you are always looking f...Monica, yes, because then you are always looking for the other to be barometer for your worth. It is way to o much responsibility. I do not like to see this from mates, and i do not like to be manipulated into thinking i am "safe" if simply if they are approving of me.<br /><br />Approval is NOT LOVE! JUST SAY NO TO DRUGS AND YOU WILL BE OK, *slams door*Recovering Histrionic Anonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-4732714351903876882013-02-07T08:43:20.356-08:002013-02-07T08:43:20.356-08:00Haven do you also do the valuing and devaluing thi...Haven do you also do the valuing and devaluing thing? This i will do and it feels like the splitting. Then i have to go to ambiguity, then I am fucking ready to not give a fuck, and need a nap until I will be valuing. <br /><br />It really is boring and too scary to be in value mode, and nobody nobody should be in that slot for me. It just makes no sense. I don't trust any of it. It reminds me when you say you have your mood "in love". When I am "in love" is the period of newness. I always need to find way to kick that up. Noone can keep me in that place along time. If they do , I want to assume they are a sociopath lol.<br /><br />Is that normal borderline stuff? THe narcissists will do the same kind of splitting with valuing and devaluing? WHat is a difference, if any?Intimacy Anonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-8834003892049322172013-02-07T08:23:05.117-08:002013-02-07T08:23:05.117-08:00Hi Zoe.
Zoe there is a comment on the yt pg the...Hi Zoe. <br /><br />Zoe there is a comment on the yt pg there at the bottom abt the time when this music was made. Had you seen it?<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-79589575371290318772013-02-07T04:43:12.457-08:002013-02-07T04:43:12.457-08:00WTF
I'm female.WTF<br /><br />I'm female.MyMindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13411114622362794794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-62094703762169410032013-02-07T02:52:19.278-08:002013-02-07T02:52:19.278-08:00I'm mixing up retraumatizing with mourning for...I'm mixing up retraumatizing with mourning for me as a child. Thank you.:)<br /><br />I'm just tired of it.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-92213823577484969322013-02-07T02:41:08.521-08:002013-02-07T02:41:08.521-08:00Thanks to everyone who responded.
I am not in d...Thanks to everyone who responded. <br /><br />I am not in danger. I meant real or imagined paranoia about getting abandoned/being cheated on (it's the same thing to me) Intimacy Anonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-18816082415409468732013-02-06T22:40:33.700-08:002013-02-06T22:40:33.700-08:00or a pokemontraineror a pokemontrainerAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-1288053754822799232013-02-06T22:39:42.730-08:002013-02-06T22:39:42.730-08:00or bonoor bonoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-81503227118842228042013-02-06T22:39:23.515-08:002013-02-06T22:39:23.515-08:00or bob geldofor bob geldofAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-33685709154372928642013-02-06T22:38:33.481-08:002013-02-06T22:38:33.481-08:00and if you use needs you are not a manipulator you...and if you use needs you are not a manipulator you are a humanitarianAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-7660565622576613292013-02-06T22:32:20.330-08:002013-02-06T22:32:20.330-08:00"needs wants and emotions are all tools for m..."needs wants and emotions are all tools for manipulation"<br />and empathy is not???Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-628748600098131100.post-24801565319652675742013-02-06T22:04:01.166-08:002013-02-06T22:04:01.166-08:00i'll bring the popcorni'll bring the popcornAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com